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College Football Coach Shares Leadership Secrets – MAFU | Ron McBride | TEDxRiverton


what I’m going to talk to you about

today is about a term called ma foo

which is the term I started some years

ago like like Mandy said I Jack came out

from Chicago and I’m glad Jack’s here

Billy’s up there to life Billy just

comes out of nowhere sometimes but I’m

glad easier Geno’s here

my son Danny’s here so got a good good

rip Scott played for me he’s here

Mandy’s husband

anyways so this term muffled what it

means is mental toughness attitude

fanatical effort unity Andy the M really

comes from ability to make changes you

know you only look for the cans not the

cannot da is all about attitude your

attitude your attitude is all about how

you get up in the morning what kind of

attitude you take when you go to work

for our football coach you need to make

sure your minds right before you meet

with your coaches in the morning and

before you meet with your players so you

better make sure when you get out of bed

you better make sure your minds right

fanatical effort is all about vision

what is your vision like when I took the

job here at Utah their vision was

different than my vision their vision

was we don’t want to be embarrassed by

BYU and if you can just finish in the

middle of the pack and not embarrass us

that would be that would be great and

you know you know what my my rebuttal to

them was fu you know what I mean and and

so that’s just an common everyday and

ladies if I swear a little bit you got

to forgive me all right so

so I was thinking and I had a I had a

vision for what the University of Utah

could be and I knew exactly what it

could be and I knew exactly how to get

there and so I had it I had a vision and

he had to go about it in a fanatical way

and the unity was you’ve got to be

invested everybody has to be invested

your administration has to be invested

your assistant coaches have to be

invested the players have to be invested

and everybody has to be on the same page

and the locker room is this important is

anything what the players say to each

other when you’re not around is more

important than anything let’s talk about

let’s go through these terms where did

it originate from is your originated

from University of Arizona when I was a

line code sir we have played a really

bad game and I watched the film and it

was a BS film it wasn’t good the guys I

put the play for me were terrible so we

said that in that in that meeting room

on Sunday morning watching film and I’ve

said okay what do you guys what are you

guys gonna do about this I said you guys

better come up with a way you’re gonna

play and you got to tell me how you’re

gonna play so what they did is they came

up with this term muffled you know

mental toughness attitude fanatical

effort unity in in tongue in it means

heart and someone it means junk and in

and in World War 2 admit admit you’re a

deserter okay but in our terms of

Imperia a period after a new period okay

that’s what the term is and that’s how

you that’s how I live my life today it’s

the same with the same principles let’s

talk about situations okay so we’re

going to take you to a game against BYU

down there I think it was around 2000

okay Steve Smith who a lot of you know

played 15 years in the NFL

was holds every receiving record in the

history of the Panthers he gets hurt in

the first quarter he comes out I said

all my neck hurts

I said what’s wrong with you like he

said I don’t know I said can you play he

said yeah I could play I’m gonna play I

said okay the trainer he’s ah he’s okay

so he played the next three quarters had

a great game so I didn’t he call it

called me on Sunday and he said coach my

neck really hurts I said okay we’ll go

to the doctor on Monday so come to find

out on on Monday he had a he played

three quarters that game with a broken

neck you know and and the only thing

Steve was worried about he said I said

Steven you got a broken neck he asked

the doctor well how soon can I get back

your play says I don’t know if y’all

ever play again Steve looked deficit I’m

I’m gonna play next week and I said why

it’s gonna take a little while longer

than that but you know 15 years later

he’s still playing but he was mentally

he could handle anything and he was a

street kid you know I came from Compton

he used to ride his bicycle back and

forth to the junior college work at

McDonald’s all that kind of stuff and

then when you talk about attitude it

goes to a guy named Joe Tom Meyer who

played for me at the University of

Arizona and Joe gave his life to the

game you know and I’ll go through that

as we is like but we were playing you

know Joe had a bad game against UCLA and

Joe was a three-time all-american he was

the he was the most valuable lineman in

the pac-12 and his senior year offensive

or defensive lineman and the Moores

Trophy winner and so he had a bad game

against UCLA you know I believe it

wasn’t in so to watch the film and I and

I dug custom a little bit you know or a

lot maybe however you want to put at it

whatever so anyways

I could tell from from Monday on what

kind of game he was gonna play on

Saturday he didn’t talk to me he just

said work to me all week long and all he

did and and this was towards the end of

the season and we had and he he was real

quiet guy but every practice was was a

fight you know every practice was

physical no matter if if coaches said

hey wait hey we’ll calm it down we got

to get you know we’re towards the end of

season stay healthy I could tell when we

went to Seattle that Washington was

going to be in trouble Joe never talked

to the team ever because it’s quiet we

got to Seattle he got up and talked to

the team for the first time this is how

you’re gonna play this is how you do

things in this way it’s gonna be

and on that day in a rain-soaked game up

and up in Seattle we kicked we kicked

them right into the lake that’s behind

the behind us behind the school up there

and Joe had 22d cleaners on that day

against an all-american nose guard I

mean he played a attitude game he kicked

that guy’s butt all day long it was a

non ending ass-kicking okay

okay ladies apologize again okay all

right now and some gentlemen if I said

you know if there’s a lot of that LDS

people I apologize too okay okay but

we’re not in church yet it’s not Sunday

so on the first day okay so let’s go

let’s go to fanatical effort this is

really a good one because I can still

see this game visually and I think this

was in 1984 I believe something like

that I’m coaching the offensive line at

that Wisconsin and I’ve got a good group

so what he Hayes and that group are

coming in to Camp Randall to play us and

our head coach had worked with woody in

that group and so before the game

right there and they’re telling my head

coach how they’re gonna kick us around

and this guy Byers is gonna win the

Heisman Trophy in that day and they’re

gonna be the number one ranked team in

the country and blah blah blah on

national TV game so I had the pregame

speech that day before the team so I get

up and I say I turned all the lights off

I got on top of all the lockers and I

said boys this is the way it’s going to

be today

I said Byers is not going to finish the

game and their defense is not going to

finish the game they’re going to quit in

the fourth quarter and you’re gonna make

them quit so we get into the first the

first drive and I can still see it’s

about 10 degrees right and so the first

series stops all the offensive lines

stayed on the field the head coaches

screaming I’d get you guys off the field

and you could see their breath yes

screaming at the defense of Ohio State

just boom boo-boom boo-boom boo-boom and

refused to leave the field so I finally

I got him off we took a delay a game I

said what the H is wrong with you guys

hey coach

I just let him know all day long and the

fourth quarter you guys will not be

around and they were not and it was one

of the one of the most fun games and I

could still see it I can still see that

all-american defensive end for Ohio

State just you know gets quitting

anything hey I’m through dude okay no

more No Mas as a boy Roberto durán would

say hey hey Roberto 9 no more bro but so

and then when you talk about unity it

goes back to the University you thought

1994 we’re in a team meeting in it and

just like I’d be talking to you guys in

the front row of tell you okay here’s

what we’re gonna do in the summertime

here’s how it’s gonna go

I want no problems I want this I want

this okay so all of a sudden Mike McCoy

who’s who’s the was a head coach of

Chargers and now he’s worth Arizona

he says up coach we got it I said what I

mean we got it he said you have no

problem with his football team Luther

Ellis who was probably the most

influential player in the history of

University you thought football he’s the

guy that created the locker room at Utah

he created the attitude at Utah he

created the way you’re supposed to play

the game at Utah he was the single most

important player to ever play at Utah he

stands up and he says I got it coach did

we have problems in the summer yeah we

had some problems but guess what they

walk in but he had this problem over

here it’s taken care of

we already got the discipline of the

player we already got this they took

over every event yeah I had a couple of

fights during summer I had a couple of

problems here guys not going to class I

do they took care all of it and that was

a really good football team because they

were really together and they it should

have been an undefeated football team

and they end up late to the country and

I tell you what what a great group of

kids and so when you look at it you know

all those things the middle toughness

the attitude the fanatical effort the

unity and another thing is honesty so

I’m recruiting a kid down in Mississippi

DB in Greenville Mississippi his

grandmother lived in a trailer she was

she she helped raise 18 kids and a

hundred and eight grandchildren so I’m

sitting on his trailer talking to her

and she says coach what are you going to

give me I said I will give you I’m gonna

give you a education what else he going

to give me I said well I’m gonna

guarantee is his degree well she said so

I was gonna put a new roof on my trailer

so I’m so here is gonna buy

is gonna buy my groceries all year long

so I’m so here’s gonna give me this I

said I’m sorry I can’t I said it I won’t

do that because that’s not what the

truth is the truth is I can’t guarantee

he’s gonna start I can’t guarantee

anything except his education any

scholarship she looked at me she says

coach he’s going with you she says I

don’t even know where you taught yes but

wherever it is that’s where he’s going

so so I said that’s great you know

another thing about mental toughness

you’ll like this story because I know

we’re running out of time but I got so

many stories so so anyways so I’m

looking for a place where I could take

my team when I first took the job at you

thought that they wouldn’t like that

they would hate the coaches would hate

and it was uncomfortable so I’m driving

around the state rather I said finally I

go down to camp carbon right oh there’s

nothing going on their helpers all

boarded up looks like in the coal mines

are all in bad shape

I said hey in the fields terrible and

the dorms are terrible and it’s not a

fun place to be

I said this is the place so I said hey

boys we’re going to camp Carvin they

said where’s that I says don’t worry

about it I said there’s only one way in

and only one way out and there’s no

buses that leave there so that was that

was and I said it looks just like

Laramie Wyoming so so we’re taking that

bus down there and they get out and they

should they looking at the field they’re

looking and the coaches look at this oh

man and I said and and I tell you what

every and there’s a couple guys that the

Scott was one of the first ones

and he goes camp carbon and and so it

wasn’t wasn’t fun was it no thank you

so but that’s where we develop toughness

in the Utah football program because you

thought was a soft fast program you know

I’m saying ladies what was SOF T soft

right so what we’re gonna do here come

out there as being a physical program

and we did and that was really the

beginning of how Utah football should be

played and you when you look at it like

I have a foundation now it’s called the

ROM McBride foundation really a

foundation that Lavelle and I started

three years ago and it’s for education

in the state of Utah

and as as recruiting all these years of

what I looked at I looked at what is the

problem how do you solve these problems

so I’m looking at the grammar school I’m

looking at the junior High’s you got to

get to these kids when they’re young we

have a lot of problems opioid addiction

you know just effective you know not

enough food for our kids you know help

what we call healthy learners the way to

help our kids be there’s a lot of

educators here today and they know what

I’m talking about

and so my big deal now is I’ve dedicated

my life to the young people of the state

of Utah Utah is is giving me opportunity

to to do my profession and so I give

back to what they gave me they gave me

an opportunity you got to realize that

not every day you know like for instance

the lady from Montana that spoke earlier

you know she was she she had some tough

times but she endured and she lived

through it and she got to a better place

you know which is really important you

look at every everybody has a story but

if you live this this this you know

muffle thing the middle toughness the

attitude the fanatical effort and unity

if you stay with it you’ll find a way to

get through the bad times

good times anyway I appreciate it a lot

and hope you all enjoy the day you had

great people here thanks Mandy

and Jack and Billy I’m glad you’re

rolling here today thank you

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