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Change your world with a changed perspective | Md. Moniruzzaman | TEDxKhulnaUniversity


I think the standing between your lunch
and the last is recovered in life
I do not have to slide to show I am the
so at the time that have one 15-year
multinational companies in combat at
some point in time to my tenure I took a
job the global company has hit one and
then like most of the global metrics of
information and it has to report back to
bosses one city in Bangladesh and one
custody in the global you can supplant
the reason why the qui tam actions event
with you it happened by this back and he
has profoundly change my life so I think
it’s what share
so
regarding my first boss he was the
country have a partial vacuum and it was
such a passionate person about poverty
all the marketing happens that I was
trying to plan he wanted all the other
engineers to be part about whether she
colors to in there but the boss was
sitting in will house the more heaven
templated version of the campaign
because they ran so every time a feature
proposal it gets rejected and then I
fight because countries the profit
Center will take my business then we say
our custom advantage and uneven
therefore that’s how it was going to
smash then it was time for the repeal up
to six tons of my job I think access
route well you came that is not before
the road and my boss has given an
extremely harsh feedback you got my
competency guarding all my equalist that
I have through other organizations and
the last word that is factly the most
say even say that to anybody but
there I doctor them and it was from the
vegetables again this law with lots of
good words with these places understand
one of the good words means then I went
back to my boss and say this is what I’m
going to say
I’m not asking for your approval so it
is fun come back to me see what this is
for
he said one thing to me nice innit
that’s it do one thing send it tomorrow
morning and go back to it and just think
how you have if they pointed are so much
that’s yet worth that friend how you
have done that reach after them to the
fight and then went back for one mine is
right to give a certain flexion that
what did they choose and then my
activities my life next morning when I
came back and condemning me I was
ashamed
my god what a leader in Steve have sent
an email to towards acknowledged thank
you for your feedback and let’s work
together for the procedure that’s it
then – couple of weeks a couple of calls
which I have to understand each other’s
priorities and I was really trying to I
was just listening to her I said that
what was your party what was located
then I understood that this company has
branches in 100 countries if if we
country does their own campaign did
their own brand put their own colors and
with 40 people and to such that
component it comes like a rainbow
dependence again because it for the
market even though again but sometimes
we have to have be to me because I was
doing it in the name of the customer
right then I understood literally then
everything that I have to do worse and a
little bit open you understand what type
of you us and share what was my love
and really see that your mom taught you
much different you just have to find out
what’s common between us from that event
then I thought further and we understood
every time we give a protector someone
even if it is asked or it is not the
share of opinion
what do you either indirect the facts
give our judgment we have her official
reprimand and last one fantastic thing
happens just a month back I was taking a
workshop for the senior students station
once wouldn’t give a presentation I
asked her you know to get back the first
one he started with he was real good but
he was his body and what was for time
and he was with them as soon as you said
that you will be styling right the rest
of the sentence what ever for sale
doesn’t pass through so what what is a
bit of mother
everybody’s have something good in it
right if you say something good about me
you will get that engine as soon as you
say it was fantastic
then I’m all ears right yeah tell me
more tell me more
that’s the poison that’s not a human
brain work right that’s everyone’s
attention we have put a picture in the
book and we should how many lights in
the morning sometimes it is ourselves
yeah let’s not say to the night the
that’s how the humans are in works often
so explicitly we say about their
performance but implicitly every time we
speak to the people we also tell about
who we are what we eat
we not only give the defect about that
person we also give that effect of
ourselves that why it becomes wrong this
is why you ask feedback from Peregrine
an unexpected person and person if you
different because they have the only
definition of things in them and it was
it’s a very easy model for some time and
the application of this is far-reaching
you speak with your kids is speak with
your wife with friends family teachers
students anywhere as soon as you judge
someone as soon as when you’re finished
you can say or your or did I’m good was
not right you would tell me other than
that that’s the one in there so next
time growing help some bigger feedbacks
in afterwards what those are speeches
from the work I say probably worth I
thought that was not good
as soon as you say you are not good then
you say only here and so if you really
want to care about someone say something
good about themselves and try to help it
sometime you say that there is a bit
widely known phrase that we must give
right
absolute speed back in the other empower
this most bitch protect is a gift with
the surprise box you open it and you get
punch we give someone to give me and
let’s not do that I’m gonna get in your
life right so team up to this
discussions parent ship so we often
think that what’s better ship comes from
we often think that the why did you
start two hours I’ve been talking with
these students is the way that the
native motivations we need motivation to
continue or something so I’m not
everything the division the only thing
if you are open about it and you can
change the world
from your perspective by changing
yourself that I am the school because
before from the story I was only
pointing out that happen
she was only asking me to that will that
do that and I was depending as soon as I
my takeaway points is to be nice if you
are being respectful to people and when
you give someone’s opinion please do
care about it because you are telling
about yourself first and the person is
again remember and if you can do it
rightly only then it will it give
however you don’t take it too much
literally like if a police is constantly
criminal it cannot say that yeah the
screwed you do that that’s healthy but
even better that you do know that so
will directly say that effect which is
apparent that they discovered Facebook
as a bit back at some time people see
the buddhahood building that particular
value I will give an example let’s say
if today it was a discussion we have in
the health diet
keeping in shape I would never in here I
cannot grow Morgan for better so if I
upset them
yeah you have to like we say that when
you have your dinner and you represent
us so there’s no way right because you
yourself are not the beholder of the
value how can you speak of it but again
when it’s a professional section you
went to the doctor the doctor give me
advice regarding the diet or something
and he feels fat it is ok you cannot say
the whole but of course right so I will
market on the market that nice so I’ll
not I have nothing much more to say the
key points that I would all like you to
take today is every time we have an
opportunity to talk about someone it is
also an opportunity to talk about
ourselves and every time to the choice
do not kill yourself on strength okay
let me put up how could I say inspire
them to do the job right
so we speak from perspective that you
are protecting yourself not judging
someone because that’s the exact way you
want to
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