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Caring Parents | Hooi Seong Lee | TEDxKangar


I want to share program which call

Karen’s parents program and this program

actually is like how parents share the

love share a concern by using a little

bit of that time influencing each other

make a big difference and a better place

for a primary school student for those

who have no idea on this program please

stay with me for the next few minutes

you will feel how amazing and how

interesting on this program well take a

look on this picture this was taken from

oming newspapers September 2016 it’s a

sad story

just one minute before that the poise to

happily go down from the car hold the

mom hand kissed the mum hand and say

goodbye cross the road by himself just

feel step from the school min and just

boom hit by the car lost his breath on

the spot the mother explained the whole

scene she’s crying she’s stolen she sees

don’t know what to do but everything was

just too late for her actually this

accident can be prevented if the mother

packed the car properly hold the boy’s

hand cross the road with him and lick

him until the main entrance so in this

case as we always say childrens is still

children’s no matter how many times we

ask them hey look on left and right

before you cross the road it’s dangerous

it’s dangerous but we think don’t know

what you’re just thinking about when

they want to cross the road right so in

this case again

rest in peace boy so I want to ask the

questions to make a comparison in this

more town conga how many of us realized

that how parents sent a

to screw back to those days I mean those

days back to 50 60 or 70s for the young

audience here let me share with you back

to those days usually if parents who

stay near to the school they were asked

the children to walk to school or you

have done if they have bicycle do ask

them to ride a bicycle right but for

those who stay far a little bit from the

school usually they will write the model

by and send them or else take the school

bus but that is rarely and hardly you

can see a private car on the road back

to those days but today today as we know

a lot of private vehicles on the road

now and there’s no way that parents

don’t matter state near or far they were

there was at the children’s primary

school student someone walk to school by

themself Oh take the bicycle test don’t

wait that’s too risky so of course be

too so I send my children to school

every day so I have a habit test I like

to put a little bit far from the school

main entrance so I can walk with them

and spend some time with them

so along the way while walking my

children I saw many times that accident

happens which is unexpected one and

usually what is this is like the parents

Isis on a handful more and on the wheel

so accidents happened and quarreling

happen and sometimes fighting so I think

inside it is amazing that and well let

me show you some of the accident that

actually can be prevent let’s start with

this this is a zebra crossing which is

the school painted into a rainbow color

just to motivate just to encourage the

children’s to walk from the car park

lead until the school main entrance but

as we always say zebra crossing is safe

right but what about when you look on

this some parent just to avoid the

traffic and they want to make a shortcut

on it they just drive on that zebra

crossing

so for parents who always drive like

this please aware you have putting the

children’s life into a dangerous

situations so talk about avoiding

traffic so sometimes when during raining

days usually parents with drive into the

school area and drop down the children’s

drop-off and definitely there’s heavy

traffic inside the school area so a lot

of parents will just avoid this traffic

they’d rather to park outside and ask

the children run as possible as they can

so can you imagine with that small size

this big of school back on them and

umbrella running sometimes they run they

cross directly through for a small

matter but with whole body right and

sometimes they are successfully run

inside the school campus so happily but

I tell you also wet because with the

umbrella so not to mention on how

dangerous is it first

we know it’s dangerous but can you think

on how they can paid a full

concentrations on their study well from

7:30 to 1:45 with the body or wet wet

uniform on them so I think parents

should be aware on these two and after

few of this incident accidents we get a

few parents and we try to reflect these

things to the school authority master p

ib g and very kindly the teachers Parent

Association they set up a meeting for us

to solve this problem and certainly to

say that we only have few parents attend

on that meeting so with a simple

solution and permission from the school

we decide to do it by our own by taking

over and take care for the traffic every

day and this is some of our daily basis

duty which is usually we take around 10

to 15 minutes during the

it’s our early morning and during the

afternoon and this is the sometimes we

stop the car and let the children pass

by and this is what the caring parent do

when in the carrying the umbrella for

the children when during the raining

times so the school colors a caring

parent and what is caring parents about

caring parent basically is sharing the

love of our children’s to all children’s

in the school treat them fairly like

what we love our children’s at home let

them learn and growth under the roof

with full of caring and loving

environment so when we do this new for

the school something that new a lot of

parents do don’t know what we are doing

what is this program about and they

cause a crazy parent instead of caring

parents but that’s okay that’s fine

because as we know in this more town

what usually parents to after putting

down their children they go to work or

else they go to have the sweet breakfast

and all of sudden your friends stand

there and stop you with this one with a

body with the suit and taking care of

the traffic so it’s fine it’s okay if

you want to join one of this program

please it’s okay

as long as we don’t what we do is right

what is our major concern for children

is their safety and slowly people start

to understand and people start to know

what we do and people start to

appreciate on what we do to the children

slowly people start to join us from few

of us and grow keep on more people and

more until today is route 30 of us it’s

quite encouraging

and there’s two also us us too to pay

the visa for the best Karen’s parents

school in a la style which is in catwalk

high school this is the picture where we

take together with them

so stay with me because the rest of my

speech will reflect on what we learned

from our high school

caring parent team so after coming back

from the karate school we started this

we start to divide our team into a few

groups so that we can help in various of

expect as we know today every primary

school students school back is not less

than ten alone so we have this idea by

helping the children’s to carry their

back up to the higher floors ground

floor first floor second floor and this

is what the Karen’s parents on duty we

passed one by one helping the children’s

but we know that is not a long-term

remedy if keep on how big the children’s

to carry the web as we know also because

caring parents only come to help when

they are free when there’s not free they

are not they are not under duty the

students will still have to carry the

heavy bags right so to solve this

problem we come up with the better

solutions which is providing every class

right this is in white color we place it

behind every classroom and you can see

the students is placing their belongings

belongings and they are disciplinary

arrange their stuff only bring what

necessary back home so this problem can

be soft easily and as I say children is

still a children’s right because some of

them is always forget to bring back the

homework when they have rec on it so

some is doing on purposely not to bring

back the homework just to avoid doing

the homework so we after we we found out

of this then we have a good

communication among the teachers

students and parents so after this the

leftover homework become lesser

and lesser so now some of you may ask

who paid for the wreck is it a

sponsorship yes well it is a sponsorship

we managed to get 27 lockers in 12 hours

after we pushed it put this idea into a

school parents WeChat group that’s

amazing and the most amazing on this

program is someone with the idea sharing

their idea someone with the time to

sharing their time and someone with the

financial support they can support us in

the way of financial so we mixed up all

this together the children get the rest

and the children get the pass in 2000 or

5 D booty

Education Minister office launched the

caring school program and we have used

some of it as our vision so basically we

take 3 as our main practice educate true

environment is the first one take a look

on this beautiful place this is not a

tourism area somewhere in Malacca Penang

or a Porno this is the campus of connect

primary school in police amazing yeah

and not to forget we also have snow

white so and this is where we gather up

the teachers and parents who good who

talented so that they can build good

campus and good environment for the

children and this is what before and

after and this is what before and after

2 takes take a look on this the water

tank yeah actually this is safe up the

rainwater to use back to the fish pond

and the garden so that you can save up

some of the water bills and we believe

that a clean quiet and good environment

really can be a major influence in child

growth and secondly true

culture culture is where we realize who

we are what should we do and what we

should not forget so not to forget that

we also organize Chinese New Year events

moon cake festivals celebrations and not

to forget that mention that’s two years

ago we set up a fire camp for every

graduate primary six student to gather

up them together before they leave for

school to train them to be more

independent and gather up with their

friends before they leave for higher

education and totally educate true

service we believe that as a parents we

should set a good model for the children

so that they can be a better person

also not to forget that what we gain and

what we learn today we should give back

to the community so we also participate

in the school quarter know your

activities we set up a fire train

practice so that the children know what

should do when they caught in the fire

situations and thanks to one of our

caring parents we invite this great

artist come back to do one of the mural

in theme for the school with a title of

a half a dreams this is quite inspiring

and this also become a famous photo spot

for the graduate student so as we always

say children are our future so let’s

take a step together to make a better

place for a children’s so if one thing

that I want you to bring back home today

is I want to urge all the parents here

of future parents to be to join this

program or if not try to create one even

though you only starting with few of us

just like what we did back to a few

years ago so I want to end this with one

coat which is carrying a responsibility

is a burden but role playing is fun when

you have fun on what you’re doing you

don’t feel the responsibility you won’t

feel that it’s about

when you have fun on what you’re doing

your creativity is limitless when you

have fun or what you’re doing please and

join it with the children’s thank you

very much for your time [Applause]

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