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Calma, não tá fácil pra ninguém! | Yasmin Gomes | TEDxSaoPauloSalon


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I wanted to know here is who already
imagined throwing everything ready
asking for resignation by creating a new routine
nor to live a new life here, delicious
I think every worker is already
imagined at some point in a
unpleasant reality or at least
less difficult right because after what
everybody wants in this life is to be happy
Who does not want to be happy and on the internet?
it seems that everyone is too happy
All time, right?
You stay there and see the couples that seem
is always traveling the careers
professionals who always seem to be
unleashing
families that seem to have come out of a
commercial margarine and of course many
many texts saying how the
happiness success depends on you just
and nothing else
it will be one year I wrote a text called
youth who can not drop everything to
traveling the world hear of brigadeiro is e
I wrote this for two main reasons
the first because as a journalist I
I was feeling like I had some things.
that needed to be said and were not
being and second because it is really me
I was sick of it every day.
You should stop everything you were doing in the
Europe, this bid is well I wrote
this running on linkedin liked was
although sleeping and the morning of the next day
I woke up like what’s up to rock the two
friends messages on people facebook
I’ve never seen in my life.
and then I realized that I was not the only one
late full bag
I also realized how in the networks
social else seems to
forget how we live in a
society that is extremely unfair and
extremely uneven
We’ll go and see those photos.
Wonderful everyone with your
success and of course we want everything
what for us but do what ‘s
there fits in our reality or the
Sometimes we do not even
little child trying to put the
in the hole of the cycle and there
it’ll happen
and as with all that people
tries to fit in and can not
we get frustrated and it’s a frustration
even a little spiteful you speak look there
Is everyone signing much bigger?
success I here will be that I am
incompetent
if you at some point have felt a
little bit for the male it looks like it’s
working out to everyone that you do not
I came here to tell you not to get angry
It’s not like that, not because we live.
in a country where the average salary is 2
thousand reais per month but the average salary
does not mean that most of the
Brazilians receives or can count on
two thousand reais every month for
by 2010 in accordance with the
latest ibge data release 60%
of Brazilians lived with up to a salary
least 60 per cent of the
Brazilians are 115 million people
now let the minimum wage’s there for
back of the 930 reais
a family that is in the case a parent a
The children’s mother will be the same as they will
have 930 reais per month the same
possibilities than I do than you
and within this family will the mother
woman will have the same opportunities
that the father and the younger children
same possibilities
but older then this business
equality of opportunity
You can not tell us that, right?
Everyone you can do with a friend.
raquel made raquel was great
She resigned went to Italy.
studied fashion was lived in germany
It was beautiful but Rachel does not have kids.
for example she is not a family member
they have no income from it she has
Postgraduate Higher Education
Rachel’s parents also have teaching
full or post-graduate
So I was talking to those days at the
facebook and she told me there goes more
change was not easy nor so it is clear
It was not easy, it was never easy.
nobody only has one person extremely
she knows that because she has the
possibility of making this change in the
her life is rather a privileged person
another example to jésica i love jésica
and Jessica just like all of us here
had a dream her dream was to undertake
open a pet shop she studied
planned and when it was possible was what
she did
only when we open a business
this business needs some time to
start making a profit
and in that period she had to keep
job to support the family
and there began to emerge some
difficulties between them a thing that only
to hear I shiver call crisis
and then Jessica had to make a
choose a hard way
but she did she kept her job to
keep the family
She had to give up the dream not to
always there in that moment
one was an attempt
how many attempts doctors make until
to find a cure for an illness
until you find a vaccine and you have
even today there is no cure that until today
has a vaccine
are generations and generations and generations
trying to speak in generations
my grandmother, she always told me
story that my great-grandfather father of
when he is working in big city
that in the case is são paulo it came there in the
far from the crosses and when
he came back this way I’m talking about 1940 and
few he carried an apple of remembrance
and that one apple was divided between him
and his wife and daughters between six
people
he used to be there everyone’s time is
carrying an apple on top of the apple
luxury article and is still an article by
luxury for many people
for a lot of people and I’m finding
these stories for you just to help
we remember that there are many
stories as it has been said here many
realities that we can not then
look at someone else if I could
anyone can only pass
I ‘m not saying that we have to
to conform to what we have not
never ever
What I’m saying is that it does not exist.
a formula for success where
everybody will fit
the tac and that if you did not find your
formula for success no problem
No problem then if you have a
idea or the ideal of success be yours
employment is undertaken chase do
everything within reach for
make it work but if it does not work
Life is there for us to try again.
try again try another way
because success is not so easy nor even
as fast as it may seem not
forget it
thanks
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