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Building bridges of understanding | Sheryl Winarick | TEDxDanubia


here in Hungary you are well aware that

migration is one of the greatest

challenges we face today more people are

displaced than ever before over 65

million people that’s approximately the

population of Hungary Austria and Poland

combined when I was preparing for this

talk I found something that might

surprise you but I think this little guy

has a relevant lesson because every

penny I penalize Vonnegut technically in

ecology 7 in cricket Casey at the fire

Kristina / delta T bashed miss VJ attack

hog linked the egg mash tank going Laura

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your mother finish here Monica shrewish

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yeah don’t you eat that hey hey I

mean horrible yeah man move on your

because I believe Okeechobee meknes

vamos Hauraki mas today ahora yeah we

all know how that story ends and luckily

VOC makes the right decision so how is

this relevant to the migration issue

since biblical times and beyond humans

have always migrated and it’s always

been challenging up to now we have no

easy answer so maybe we need to look for

solutions in places that aren’t so

obvious this is the lesson that Vogue

teaches us when he decides to drive

directly towards the noisy machines

it feels counterintuitive but he had a

hunch that the situation was more

complex so he got closer to investigate

and he realized that the farmers main

goal was to harvest grain not to kill

foxes then he took a leap of faith

he shows us that expecting clear answers

might not be the solution it might not

even be possible instead maybe we need

to redesign the process of seeking

solutions a shift in strategy that calls

us to realize the innate qualities that

we all possess like strength courage

hope faith resilience and even humility

if we’re brave enough to face our fears

head-on then we can challenge the

assumptions that limit us from

innovating forward stereotypes may or

may not have elements of truth but for

sure they’re incomplete how many of you

are European what other labels can you

use to identify yourself man-woman

Christian Jewish Muslim black white

brown gay does anyone feel comfortable

defining their entire identity with just

one label by labeling people we not only

confined them to an incomplete identity

but we limit ourselves we basically

choose to make critical life decisions

with limited information

so maybe this is actually less about

them and more about me and you and the

choices that we make here we are today

at a TEDx event instead of looking for

differences between us you and I

intentionally come together seeking new

perspectives then we can innovate

forward together you receive me with

curiosity expecting that I have

something valuable to contribute can you

imagine a world where we apply that same

sense of curiosity to everyone around us

no matter what they look like or where

they come from actually I come from the

United States but my grandparents and my

great-grandparents came from here

Eastern Europe Russia Poland and Hungary

they were Jewish refugees seeking to

belong somewhere this is my

great-grandfather Here I am a hundred

years later living into the dream of

freedom and opportunity given to me by a

culture that welcomes my ancestors today

in my role is an immigration lawyer I

have the opportunity to welcome migrants

and refugees from all over the world and

I’ve learned over time that people

generally migrate for three reasons

refuge opportunity or love people like

Esther and her family who fled political

persecution in Haiti

about ten years ago Esther had to learn

English she worked her way through

school and now she’s an award-winning

nurse in Washington DC Alka had came

from Iraq on a fellowship to do research

at Johns Hopkins University and now he’s

a globally recognized cancer research

doctor and Marysol came from Mexico to

join her husband she started a business

she pays taxes they’ve earned enough

money to buy a home and I don’t have her

picture here because she doesn’t have

legal status in the United States even

though her kids are US citizens in 18

years I have never encountered anyone

whose goal was to change their new home

or to do anyone harm people are people

we all just want to find someplace to

belong and to realize our full human

potential it’s far more likely that well

thrive and contribute and even create

opportunity for others in an environment

where we feel a sense of belonging the

United States has its own challenges

with immigration as everybody knows but

historically we have been a nation that

welcomes migrants and refugees and today

25% of all US businesses are started by

immigrants which is significant when you

consider that only 13% of the u.s.

population are migrants still migration

is hard for everyone involved it’s hard

for migrants and it’s hard for receiving

communities especially when we’re

talking about refugees people who are

forcibly displaced from their homes

neither refugees nor the receiving

countries necessarily want to be in this

position but here we are migration is a

reality that we can’t ignore and it

won’t go away 65 million people are not

going to disappear when migration flows

are so massive facts don’t really matter

especially when the media and elected

officials describe this humanitarian

crisis as an invasion great they create

more jobs than the average citizen but

will they change our culture what are

their values

how will they challenge our identity

these are all valid questions the

migration issue cuts to the core of who

we are it forces us to wrestle with

uncertainty and the possibility of

change this is an emotional issue and

you can’t reason with emotions so what

do we do well one option is to build

walls or contain people and until we can

figure out what to do with them but does

that really work facts aside

how do walls and containers make us feel

it reminds me when I was a kid afraid of

the dark

hoping desperately that if I just pulled

the sheets over my head I would be safe

but that never worked because I still

didn’t understand what was out there in

the dark night I only felt safe trapped

in my bed with the sheets pulled over my

head walls and containers keep us

trapped in a state of uncertainty

uncertainty lingers in the unknown and

that’s where fear breeds if we choose

not to face our fears we basically

choose to stay trapped in a state of

uncertainty to make critical life

decisions with limited information I

deeply believe that the only way forward

is to take that leap of faith like Vogue

did we have to engage with each other

until we pull the sheets off of our head

and get to know what’s really out there

we can’t even start to feel safe and

secure so I was recently exploring this

issue in the state of Kansas which is

right in the middle of the United States

we call this region the heartland Kansas

is predominantly white Christian rural

and politically conservative tight-knit

friendly communities where most people

know each other feel safe and have job

security so navigating change in the

form of new residents from countries and

cultures that appear different is

challenging we were talking through this

at the local library and we

intentionally included immigrants in the

conversation at the end of the evening a

white woman admitted that this is

difficult and she wished she could meet

someone Muslim to get to know them in

person and better understand the culture

dark-skinned women from India and the

Philippines offered to host a dinner

party both bragging to the great cooks

by the end of the night people are

laughing together and the conversation

was so good that everybody went to the

local bar when the library closed as I

travel around the United States in the

world I find the same thing everywhere

when we shift from approaching people as

a threat or a liability to the

possibility that everybody has something

valuable to contribute when we seek the

best in people instead of expecting the

worst something magic happens that’s the

moment they cease to be other and that’s

where hope is born everyone has a light

inside

just waiting to be discovered more than

charity or sympathy people want the

opportunity to shine their light and it

only takes a spark to light the darkness

that spark could be you or you might be

surprised you might be the one sparked

you know when I went to law school I

thought of this as humanitarian work

those people need help and I’ll feel

good about myself if I can give them

hope but over the years I’ve learned

that migrants and refugees are neither

helpless nor hopeless hope is the spark

that drives people forward and hope is

the gift that my clients give to me on a

daily basis can you imagine being

constantly surrounded by

solutions-oriented people working hard

to create a better life that’s the kind

of environment that we cultivate when we

invite people to shine their light and

that kind of energy is contagious

inspired people inspired people so the

critical questions are how do you want

to feel and what kind of environment do

you want to cultivate that’s the big

picture the city of Clarkston Georgia is

an example of possibility the community

has consciously decided to welcome

migrants and refugees and now this

historically white town is the most

multicultural square mile in the whole

United States they’ve struggled with

changing demographics change is never

easy but the local residents say that

they feel more safe and secure and

happier when they embrace their new

neighbors sharing food and exploring the

world through their own communities

these pictures are from their annual

culture festival and fun run which I had

the opportunity to experience a few

weeks ago white and black church

ministries volunteering together with

veiled Somali and Syrian refugees is not

what you expect to find in the

politically conservative American South

but the people of Clarkston are happy to

shatter the stereotypes

they choose to cultivate an environment

where everyone can win so with so much

change and uncertainty in the world

today we can’t afford to lose sight of

the big picture we all want to feel safe

and secure to be happy and to live in

communities where everyone can thrive I

invite you to shine your light and

please let’s all seek to build community

instead of building walls thank you

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