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Behind the Suit | Jose Thomas | TEDxChoiceSchool


I have nothing to show here but I’ll

come with a full heart to talk to you

from my heart if that inspires anyone

here you don’t have to get influenced

with what I’m going to share with you

you can also get influenced if you would

like to what I’m going to do today is

share a little bit of my experiences you

saw my earlier speakers they had some

achievements to show I have no

achievements to show but I’ve achieved

achievements to talk about achievements

means and for a businessman sometimes

someone can misunderstand or stink the

achievement of a businessman or the

success of a businessman is all about

how much money you have for that matter

I have the least there could be some

people in this room whom I know a much

more well there but I’ve never believed

in that right from the age of 17 as the

young man introduced here I walked into

this world with a dream I am born to

11-member family and I’m number 10 eight

sisters three brothers I’m not getting

the long story they’ll throw me out for

me I got 16 more minutes ago I got out

of my business which my father had

started unfortunately passed away when I

was pretty young or 17 years old I

inherited a few employees and I had a

bunch of people around me

most of them older and wiser than me I

guess one amongst them was a general

manager that was assigned to me he is a

lawyer by profession highly experienced

guy he left his practice and decided to

work for me he was probably 25 years

senior to me and unfortunately as I

speak is no more in this world

he started work I started to do all

sorts of things like a kid all I had was

a dream a belief and the sure thing that

I will achieve these three theories I

had and I think that is what is written

here right dream believe and that’s you

yes in about three to four months I

think the cat was out of the cage this

gentleman is a realize he is not getting

paid his salary was not coming so he had

to make a choice but he was a dear

friend and a family friend he couldn’t

just leave me alone and go away so when

he comes to me and says and then I begin

the jaws mornin our dose one and a

quarter centimeter venom yummy and

honest up in satin Nara period now what

is Sameera Velma through so I go with

them to a place in through Porter I’ve

never been to the border in my life at

that time

and he took me the very old man he’s a

person he’s a palm reader I said why you

really bring me here no no just sit down

and listen to this person so this old

man looked at my hand you read my hand

and after thinking quite a bit said or

you gonna do big in life I started like

laughing side you’re gonna cross oceans

go across the world take your

organization to flourish and loop

businesses in different parts of the

universe I started to laugh again by

that I knew this gentleman that had

brought me there to make sure that

there’s a future for him to get paid

that that that was a short story and I

began there pretty funny stories I

didn’t lot of stupid things when I was

young but as I started to walk my

journey

I had a clear goal in my mind the last

thing achieve now achieve could be

misunderstood I never put money in front

of me and I will tell all of you two

youngsters and to who order listen to me

if an entrepreneur or a businessman it’s

going to put money in front you’re gonna

fail if you can put your goal in front

and chase your goal probabilities of

succeeding is larger than failing I can

tell you that and that has been my goal

but there again fortunately or

unfortunately I got into a character

formation formation at a very young age

at the age of 17 I visited Japan today

your mom’s won’t let you cross the

street at the age of 17 but my mom was a

widow at the age of 50 let me go and I

went

the Japanese unknown for high level of

integrity and ethical practices I worked

with these Japanese and I got that

embedded into me of becoming highly

ethical in a country like India even

though demonisation

has happened that I think corruption may

be on increase now unfortunately let’s

think positive because of the larger

denomination of the money that can go

into someone’s pocket instead of the 500

and the thousand that would have been a

larger bundle I decided to walk the

journey of being a businessman keeping

integrity and ethics in front of my life

then it hurt me badly but pride I must

say I would say and I’m sure that other

people also can share the same thing

I’ve never been questioned so far by no

one in this country no one even p1 today

I teach my children when we come from

abroad you’re allowed to bring few

duty-free things it could be two bottle

of wine could be literature of alcohol

could be a carton of cigarettes I don’t

know what it is but I’ll tell them even

though some of the custom officers who

work in Cochin customs may be friends of

mine or maybe even a parent of the

school we’re not gonna break that law so

I walked that journey and it was a hard

walk keeping this integrity in mind and

that drove me today when I say I’m an

educationalist more than an entrepreneur

and I think if I didn’t have that early

sense of putting integrity and ethical

practices into my life I don’t think

this children a choice school would have

selected me to be a speaker today they

would have found someone else but Lord

more money and fame and I don’t have

that I’m glad I’m here because the youth

must understand that tomorrow is going

to be not easy we are a cakewalk

we are an easy walk 20 years back banks

lend money even if you didn’t pay on

time it is okay

there is no proceeding norms like you

have today today is a tight walk you

take it alone you don’t pay in 90 days

you’re done look at unfortunate scene of

our great businessman Vijay Mallya

a man who united old broad the name of

the country to a brand called Kingfisher

you go to Japan you go to London you go

to Paris you go to New York

who wouldn’t attached India to the Brian

Kingfisher but look at him today I did

understand this very early and I must

say if I were tell you some stories have

more of sad stories

than happy stories because my failures

in life was more than success but the

question is the good news is I survived

in 94 when I attempted to start an

airline and I did go forward and texted

that my company was going for an IPO in

93 but unfortunately I could not succeed

because I believed in ethics I believed

in having the high degree of integrity I

lived in New Delhi for a year and a half

the practices I saw there to get a

license I couldn’t walk that journey and

finally I did withdraw by then my

company was almost done my orders came

to me and said mr. Jose Thomas you leave

one solution file bankruptcy at that

time there was a clear provision of law

called be IFR where if you declare

bankruptcy and room all your critters

there again I said how can I do that

hard work alone is not going to get you

over there but something like the

earliest speakers spoke about mountain

that’s physically intelligence and hard

work combined together that puts you on

to that situation for a businessman what

is it that you need your commitment and

the perseverance that is what drove me I

have another trick also to share you

don’t have to use it

the trick of whatever I did is when

someone tells me not to do it I did it

for example in 1989 I had a dream of

starting a school I was 34 years then I

don’t know who’ll think of starting at

school at the age of 34 and I still

remember

there was a meeting and called for an

expression of interest invited about

four to five hundred people like this

into a hall in Cochin I had the

principal on board already and I had my

director on board already

they spoke Queen’s English I couldn’t

speak Queen’s English but I improvised

over a period of time the function

started I don’t know most of you know

you can put numbers together and when I

said when I came with a business age of

seventeen you can imagine I haven’t seen

the four walls of a college I haven’t

you can put that number together so I

was sitting on the stage wondering what

do I speak how do I speak I was nervous

and as I was sitting there getting

prepared for my speech one other person

who’s standing on the side brings a

small note and gives it to me

as I was sitting there the note said

what is your qualification to start

school that is what makes your school

today that drove me to chase that dream

that gave me the wigger go for it

when I was trying to build the tallest

structure in Kerala the apartment which

you see right here I called my architect

and said hey I’m not a builder by the

way I’m really consecrated it’s like an

artist I like something I do it I’m not

a builder today I don’t even have one

bag of cement of steel flying around

Cochin nor a piece of land that is

idling but when it came to this one I

said hey let’s put something together

here so I’ll usually brought me a

building with three buildings together a

swimming pool in the middle a little

children’s park I looked at the set

people have done this before so you want

me really same thing I’m not there I

said can we put this together on on top

of each other he said not really

everything was negative I started

getting negative rides no architect had

the experience of drawing 41 story

building no contract have the experience

no labor had the experience and the

people said can you imagine when here on

the 35th floor how would the labor come

down for luncheon and and for their

break how long will it take for them to

go up and down eight-hour shift they’ll

be walking two hours I was enjoying all

this because I said to myself I’m going

to do something which others will not

attempt if I could do the same thing

which others could attempt then I won

I’ve been to the United States I

practically live in New York now no one

knows really what I do there even some

of my friends here I’ve never I never

planned to tell anything because it’s

not custom keeping it confidential it’s

a question of there’s no point I walked

into a category of producing frozen

meals to be sold through mainstream

supermarkets Walmarts of the world

Costco’s of the world sharp writes of

the world Delhaize of the world when I

was going in I had an Argentinian CEO

here some Argentine he told me amigo

this business is not meant for you I

said what do you mean by that this is a

big boys

Nestle Unilever ConAgra pinnacle foods

these are the place in that category and

he won the sky from mattandjenni to come

here and compete these guys forget it

again I got the negative wife so I said

others can do it let me do it

did it walked in even some of the large

competition try to sue me for

infringement

for copying their fried rice for copying

their chicken parmigiana for copying

their cheese applications but let me

tell you the story today if you see the

Nielsen Dara tasty choice is a brand at

Kochi company so number five list in

treat this earth as an achievement from

where to where the kids is you’re 17

with no basic or college education tries

and tries and tries and fails and still

don’t give up and still keep going and

I’m still keep going I’m going to be in

business without 40 years and I’ll still

do better than what I’m doing now this

is my belief and this is the courage I

think you all need when the time of need

you never give up you only go attack

your problems and that’s what I did yeah

at the same time I’m human I love my

3,000 children and the day I leave this

world they all will come but if I was

only a businessman who will come none of

my customers in the US will come none of

my consumers who aid my pasta will come

from the United States a few people who

supplied me some carton and some shrimp

locally may come and show up and say oh

whatever said and done he was a nice guy

that is another if phrase I’m very

afraid of in the comparing alum yeah

lamella mention I don’t know I’m gonna I

had a dream I was dead I was laying down

and someone comes and says oh my god he

is gone whatever said and done he was a

nice guy I wake up I said eh tell me

what wrong did I do for you to have that

little qualification whatever said and

done friends

I’ve been genuine I will continue to be

genuine I’ve loved my family and my

biggest strength today is my family my

wife my five children and my

we form a big group and I try to find

space in between my work and my life

which is extremely important money is

not everything in life I have seen

enough probably lost more than I’ve made

but the key to it is how do you still

enjoy your life how do you make it more

worthwhile by still balancing these two

acts I go home every day on time I’ve

never been to a vacation on my own I’ve

never walked a movie theater without my

family never walk into a restaurant

without my children and today the most

upsetting thing with me would be if you

want to irritate me but so my children

negotiation on that every night

including last night so sometimes when

I’ve traveled from here to the u.s. 22

hours of flight I get home at 8:00 p.m.

kitchen is clean so I asked my wife

what’s up for dinner

she says nothing why the children won’t

eat what I cook I said that’s not a

competition she says you know what they

love what you do I come and cook I serve

but this last Christmas I was in the US

and I had a good friend mahalo with me

spending the Christmas with me so we

bought this esource another crazy cook

so you’re cooking in this home morning

till evening and I all had my children

there and my family we were so excited

to serve we served and all of them are

not there they were doing their own

thing I was very angry that her anger

that is the feel of a father so I have a

strong man in me call this JT

the

this monger the same time I’m a father

I’m a husband and I’ve been able to do

this positioning of myself making this

clear divide of a wonderful family life

few friends very few a good team of

employees who work for me close to 2,500

people I think work for me I’m a happy

man

thank you check the next choice for this

opportunity thank you for listening to

me you can draw your own inference from

what I spoke well I hope you can carry

something with you when you go back I

have no data to show you I have no

photograph to show you my achievements

yeah I’ve got spear Awards theorem there

yeah once I got some export award and I

don’t want to show that but what I have

is a truthfulness in me and what I’ve

shared with you today is all from

they’ll say thank you so much [Applause]

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