[Applause]
please close your eyes with your eyes
closed I will like you to picture your
past Brandon could you see a best
girlfriend or your best boyfriend or
your mother or your father or your dog
or your cat how does it make you feel
now please open your eyes how many of
you saw me it’s okay if you didn’t see
me when I picture my best friend I don’t
see myself either or at least I don’t
see only me there he is he’s warm and
protective and he same person that cares
about the quality not the quantity
I feel comfort happiness and gratitude
when I picture my best friend I have not
always felt this about my best friend
but the story I’m about to tell you will
hopefully explain why I feel this thing
I was born in South Korea but because of
my father’s job I ended up living in
Nicaragua when we arrived I was very
excited yet sad at the same time my
sadness came from the loneliness I felt
because my pattern it is a dead kid
himself to his new job and my mother
hadn’t come to get to Nicaragua and I
spent a lot of time by myself I did not
have someone to talk or share what was
happening to me
maybe my sadness would have been less if
I had had someone in my community I
needed someone equality many people who
have experienced a similar situation
would know that it is hard to confront a
new world with different perspectives
and new challenges life is not easy and
it becomes worse when you don’t have a
good friend you might be wondering what
is she talking about I’m talking about
be the friend that you want to see in
the world not just the definition
according
Oxford Dictionary a friend means a
person with whom one has a bond of
mutual affection for many friends will
be decided according to your similar
characteristics or beliefs such as
personality and one’s way of thinking
sometimes friendship can be mean
something completely different I see
many people betray their own friends to
be popular many people want to be
popular because even if it doesn’t make
them feel any better this is because
humans are social animals therefore we
belong we want to belongs to groups
instinctively according to the research
about the human need for acceptance by
law and civil we escape being ostracized
by talking to people this research shows
up socializing allows us to identify
most valuable characteristics and
talking a lot of to choose what kind of
people you want to be friends with now
here are two traits that I look pretty
much your friends number one loyalty a
true friend will not abandon you if
somebody tries to pull them away they
will almost always choose you over
someone else
number two reliability a true friend
will be there if you really need them
they see you in your worst and your best
a protective any protector these traits
are both measured by quality many people
believe that the number of person that
the number of friends a person has it is
very important because it is assumed
that all will be good friends however
if you have 20 friends is it possible to
be reliable and loyal to all of them at
the same time we all have different
types of personality such as active
confident creative emotional and
determined only you can decide which is
the best type of friend for you it is
very important to express that if we
have many friends this can be good
however I also believe that it is very
important to have at least one friend
who guide you and is a person who could
quality with this person you should be
able to communicate comparably easily
and counting them so what happens if we
don’t have children what if the people
we think are reliable and loyal aren’t
one example that I have is the
relationships in in the cult classic
movie The Empire Strikes Back
in this film we see an old friendship
broken because self-preservation is
chosen over loyalty and reliability in
this example
Hansel is betrayed by Lando when the
Lando turns him over his two worst
enemies however everyone makes mistakes
so do not criticize your true friends
the first time when they disappoint you
after all in the sequel The Return of
the Jedi Lando comes to rescue Han Solo
my life was not easy because I
able to find friends that I could count
on it was challenging but my life
changed when I met my friend named Roman
because I learned that I had to be the
first person to be reliable and loyal in
order to have friends so what is a
person of good quality a person of good
quality is a person that is there for
you that will back you up there will
support you no matter what they will
stand right next to you in good and bad
moments they’re not afraid to take the
blame for you know that your life will
be affected depending on who your
friends are and not by how many friends
you have instead of collecting
superficial friends I challenge you
today to be the first person to be
reliable and loyal in order to attract
and keep friends with a good quality
that you can count on them thank you
[Applause]
please close your eyes with your eyes
closed I will like you to picture your
past Brandon could you see a best
girlfriend or your best boyfriend or
your mother or your father or your dog
or your cat how does it make you feel
now please open your eyes how many of
you saw me it’s okay if you didn’t see
me when I picture my best friend I don’t
see myself either or at least I don’t
see only me there he is he’s warm and
protective and he same person that cares
about the quality not the quantity
I feel comfort happiness and gratitude
when I picture my best friend I have not
always felt this about my best friend
but the story I’m about to tell you will
hopefully explain why I feel this thing
I was born in South Korea but because of
my father’s job I ended up living in
Nicaragua when we arrived I was very
excited yet sad at the same time my
sadness came from the loneliness I felt
because my pattern it is a dead kid
himself to his new job and my mother
hadn’t come to get to Nicaragua and I
spent a lot of time by myself I did not
have someone to talk or share what was
happening to me
maybe my sadness would have been less if
I had had someone in my community I
needed someone equality many people who
have experienced a similar situation
would know that it is hard to confront a
new world with different perspectives
and new challenges life is not easy and
it becomes worse when you don’t have a
good friend you might be wondering what
is she talking about I’m talking about
be the friend that you want to see in
the world not just the definition
according
Oxford Dictionary a friend means a
person with whom one has a bond of
mutual affection for many friends will
be decided according to your similar
characteristics or beliefs such as
personality and one’s way of thinking
sometimes friendship can be mean
something completely different I see
many people betray their own friends to
be popular many people want to be
popular because even if it doesn’t make
them feel any better this is because
humans are social animals therefore we
belong we want to belongs to groups
instinctively according to the research
about the human need for acceptance by
law and civil we escape being ostracized
by talking to people this research shows
up socializing allows us to identify
most valuable characteristics and
talking a lot of to choose what kind of
people you want to be friends with now
here are two traits that I look pretty
much your friends number one loyalty a
true friend will not abandon you if
somebody tries to pull them away they
will almost always choose you over
someone else
number two reliability a true friend
will be there if you really need them
they see you in your worst and your best
a protective any protector these traits
are both measured by quality many people
believe that the number of person that
the number of friends a person has it is
very important because it is assumed
that all will be good friends however
if you have 20 friends is it possible to
be reliable and loyal to all of them at
the same time we all have different
types of personality such as active
confident creative emotional and
determined only you can decide which is
the best type of friend for you it is
very important to express that if we
have many friends this can be good
however I also believe that it is very
important to have at least one friend
who guide you and is a person who could
quality with this person you should be
able to communicate comparably easily
and counting them so what happens if we
don’t have children what if the people
we think are reliable and loyal aren’t
one example that I have is the
relationships in in the cult classic
movie The Empire Strikes Back
in this film we see an old friendship
broken because self-preservation is
chosen over loyalty and reliability in
this example
Hansel is betrayed by Lando when the
Lando turns him over his two worst
enemies however everyone makes mistakes
so do not criticize your true friends
the first time when they disappoint you
after all in the sequel The Return of
the Jedi Lando comes to rescue Han Solo
my life was not easy because I
able to find friends that I could count
on it was challenging but my life
changed when I met my friend named Roman
because I learned that I had to be the
first person to be reliable and loyal in
order to have friends so what is a
person of good quality a person of good
quality is a person that is there for
you that will back you up there will
support you no matter what they will
stand right next to you in good and bad
moments they’re not afraid to take the
blame for you know that your life will
be affected depending on who your
friends are and not by how many friends
you have instead of collecting
superficial friends I challenge you
today to be the first person to be
reliable and loyal in order to attract
and keep friends with a good quality
that you can count on them thank you
[Applause]
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