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“Autenticidad” | María Angélica Corchuelo | TEDxMedellinMujeres


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at 25 years old I was lying down in
the bed resting relaxed with the
worries that you can have to sada
and suddenly my dad came in my room and
daughter told me
starting today take the reins of the
I did what I did, I felt that
weight of life fell on me but
I understood that at that moment it was my
responsibility because he had been
found a parkinson which did not
he left to continue leading the company
so I got the courage
thinking that 1,300 families in that
then they depended on the decisions that
I will take and in that moment I thought about
fit into an executive style that
everyone expected
then I put on heels that I never
I put on I put on elegant dresses and
I started to make up a lot so that
I could see my age and to see me more
young and feel to see me more with more
years and earn my trust follows the
clients but in that process I gave myself
mind that just as I was losing
my essence
the company was also losing its
essence and is trying to fit into a
stubborn company rilla that nothing had
what to do with my grandfather’s dream had
when I believe
so I decided this can not be like that
we have to go back to essence to the
essence with which he founded that beautiful
company to the essence of that closeness
with people to the essence that for him
the collaborators were not collaborators
but family and in that process of
discover the essence of the company
I found myself discovering my own
science and go back to that moment where
was a girl
then I had no worries where
I did not have limiting beliefs where I did not
had
to any kind of life paradigm and
where it was just me and I realized
that in order to recover that essence that
I had lost I needed to work on my
authenticity but that its authenticity
the dictionary then defines it as something
true and I realized that in that
then I was making true not
is being faithful to my principles at
my comfort what I liked to whom
I was myself so I started to walk
a way to discover that angie
authentic that was inside of me and
after looking back and all the
path that followed I realized that the
three steps that took me to his
authenticity was the coherence the car
knowledge and acceptance of my
defects and my qualities and above all
self-love and in that coherence
The first thing I did is good, I have to
be consistent between what I feel
between what I think between what I say and
in that way the theme did not fit
of how I was dressing for
reflect something that was not before others
so the first thing I did was take myself
the Saxons and I started to walk in baletas
in tennis to feel comfortable and in fact
together with my creative team the
company
we designed a day of tennis nothing more in
where we could all go tennis and
I got my dad that all life
cachaco bogotano so he dresses
impeccable all the time
that day will also use tennis even the
the administrative and financial director
also it was always super
you need that day you also put those
phoenix and I began to discover that this was
I relax engine in shirt and that
It was my essence and it was very beautiful because
from that experience in the company
people also began to transform
in the case of a friend of the company
that is always as much as they are always
heels because he felt really bad
until then she felt that all the
world I saw it very short and the day that
we put the cenis realized that
she also felt comfortable and that people
I accepted it as it was and today I still
she likes Saxons because she is
A very elegant girl putting on heels
but he is already able to put on tennis and
feel comfortable with your body and feel
comfortable with herself
the next step he said the
Self-knowledge was knowing me
internally
I started going there was aa how much therapy
before going to reik and the psychologist do
inner child workshops to return to
know me to discover myself and I realized
that like all are already many
defects but it’s not about looking at
defects but how he potentized
back then studying my
personality I realized that I am a
person that I do not like to confront the
others because for me everything is peace
tranquility and harmony and when
confronted someone I feel I’m
leaving that comfort zone but
to become a leader
unquestionably from time to time there
what to confront things
then I started learning how to do
that from my personality
from love as it fed back the
others and return it every day plus one
strength
I also discovered good if I did not
discovered and I knew that since
very much I am very lazy
then they and the people who
put a homework and I go super lake
judicious and then they say me ready but
check what I did as laziness
Olvera reading is or not and I also gave
mind that as well as I have effects there
than knowing how to surround yourself with a team that
have qualities that you do not have
Then I was filled and surrounded by people
that has all those things about the war
of which I lack because for that
are the teams and for that is those
people who are around you but
he the most serious all I think I was the
deserving conflict
I felt that I did not deserve things
I did not like to receive and I already danced
but when someone invited me if it was
a soda I said no no, well, like,
well and I invite you and I did not feel
comfortable receiving and one day I got a
message from a friend and she told me you do not
you’ve noticed that you get many
blessings because you spread those
blessings on your people in your fan in your
collaborators that for me are my family
and then there I realized that yes
It was true that everything that comes to me
somehow I take it to the company
and if from that day everything was going
to say yes I have been invited to
a soda ready let’s go let’s go and we
we drink a soda and you invite and
I started receiving because that way
he also delivered towards me guys towards me
people and that led me to acceptance
Accept all defects because they are
plus all the defects that I have already
turn them into a fortress and take them out
profit and in this acceptance I also
found because all those subjects
we also work in the company
he has also found that my boys have
started to be discovered then I have
also another one of my friends from the company
which is very very sensitive a person
supremely sensitive and she thought that
sensitivity was synonymous with
Weakness that was weak
that people were going to see how weak
like he can not the whole thing and
discovering himself he realized that that
sensitivity was his super power that
when you get sensitive I was able to
connect with the other in a way
empathic and help him because of his
profession she psychologist every time she
connect with others can help them
get ahead
then he realized that it will be his greatest
power and that’s what this idea of
accept what we have and is that many
times our biggest flaw in our
greater power and that is what leads us to
self love
I was a person that I think a
many pass us by and invited them to
analyze each time you look at the
feijóo that we say then that I
Look in the mirror and say how the
pp has commented of fat look at this mud
look at such a thing and I realized that not that
we are all perfect just as we are and
that this body succeed as well as I
They gave me to accomplish things
achieved today and that’s why I’m like that
something I have to learn from each decade
part of my body and accept it call it
for the perfection that is and for the
miracle that is because it is that the miracle
to stop breathing from using the
muscles is spectacular
then I understood that the most important
is to love ourselves sometimes
we say is that I love my children I love
my husband I love my friends but like
you can talk about love if you do not start with
the most important person that you are and
I invite you to look for that love
own and is what leads us to
transmit to the world when we are
authentic and we connect with our
true essence we are ready to
transmit to the world a message leaders
powerful as Joan of Arc that does not
it mattered to dress in an armor in a
era where women did not have will be
rejected almost of these charges does not
it mattered to put on an armor led
army lead everything a whole campaign
to be able to liberate france
we have a cold halo that from his
authenticity always showed us that
magic that transmitted to us through the
art
we have a lady di who decided to break
with the stereotype of princess de
all times and decided to be authentic
and began to serve others
to this day I am also in
the company we have built your model
of happiness because I am a convinced
that you can be happy in the
job
today my task is to transmit to the
leaders of all the companies that do
can achieve happiness at work
and that if it has turned out to have a team
happy and that invitation
for all that are authentic and are
yourselves
Thank you
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