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Appreciation vs. Appropriation | Megan Malone | TEDxVenetaWomen


oh hi everyone I’m Megan Milan I’m a

learning specialist at the University of

Maryland for the Terrapins um sorry

cannot be there today I just recently

moved across the country in when the

middle of midterms that’s really crazy

I’m sad to miss this event and there’s

some great people getting some talk to

him with some very insight and hopefully

there’s transcripts available of my talk

it’s about appropriation and if you want

one it’s not available please feel free

to email me my email is on the website

or if you have any questions or comments

would love to talk about this stuff more

um anyway I hope you enjoy thanks a few

months ago i was perusing facebook and

came across my friends status was stated

appropriation is the thing move on to

which an acquaintance of hers commented

say it louder for the people in the back

i SAT there looking at the status for

about five minutes deciding whether or

not to inside Facebook more it really

wanted to since I a face before I didn’t

with slight reluctant Smith’s with

relief I left her facebook page and

tried to move on however the comment

haunted me and has stayed with me I was

frustrated because I couldn’t come up

with one sentence rebuttal and I was

frustrated because I wanted people to

get a question how can I sell a new

believes in social justice isn’t a lie

and advocate not easily defend such a

statement hey I’m an educator inciting a

Facebook war isn’t always healthy and my

goals always thoughtful dialogue be

sometimes you get it and sometimes you

don’t see I don’t always have the

patience to work with people on these

ideas d this transformation comes from

within an individual journey of

understanding and finally II as a person

whose translationally adopted my

indigenous pneus and brown this is

something I feel and constantly

appropriate so today I come to you with

one perspective and one answer to the

multi-faceted question what is

appropriation it isn’t simple it is

complex and I believe appropriation is

just one aspect of power privilege

racism in history I don’t expect to

answer all your questions in this time

but just to plant seeds and the share an

idea so how do we move past the non

black community with locs the African

statues the decorative prayer flags the

dream catcher tattoos the headdresses at

Burning Man

the drug droid music that alienates a

history there is a sense in our

patriarchal dominant Americanist that we

don’t question ownership and if we do

question we’re overreacting and need to

get over it today I’m questioning

ownership I’m questioning how to find

the balance food ownership and

celebration back to my friend the need

to be able to get the sugar skull tattoo

and to justify wearing a t-shirt that

has a lion wearing a headdress on what

is appropriation the formal definition

according to merriam-webster online is

an action or instance of taking

especially illegally or unfairly in

colloquial terms stealing one’s ideas

and using them as their own how does

this play out in our culture we have

American food the cheeseburger in the

good old twice baked potato and on a

larger scale or Society struggles with

the idea of land ownership identity

Native American African American history

and trauma to name a few we take the

cool pieces the pretty things but we

don’t recognize the pain and the grief

that the minorities are can you loosen

dirt think about these examples of how

we appropriate other cultures think

about how generic our descriptions on

the terms like tribal geometric or

ethnic once speaking of clothing or

jewelry instead we should be thinking

I’ll take sue and dinnae think about

symbolism and living the thoughts and

connections behind the objects in lieu

of exotic and unique people

unceremoniously where the bindi and

twerk without recognizing what cultures

they come from and why the communities

developed them it may be the larger

issue here is the role art place in our

society and the idea that we can share

everything but by sharing everything we

don’t take the time to honor and give

respect to where language and religions

objects and designs are created we tend

to think once we visited the community

or they’ve shared a piece of their

culture with us it then is our own we

tend to think that once we’ve read it or

it is being sold in the store that we

can use it companies like forever 21

Pottery Barn take these names and

designs and ideas and make commodities

to look different or exotic it goes from

having meaning and symbolism to mass

production and nothingness now that you

have the images of prayer flags some

brands the rapper Eminem rolling around

your head as you move over the idea of

appropriation let me go back to e as a

person who’s trans

actually adopted my indigenous and brown

this is something I feel I’m constantly

appropriating my family is very Italian

and very white and I grew up in a very

white community I’m not those things my

mom was always good at normalizing my

adoption by saying things like I love my

doggy baby girl she never wanted my

adoption to be a surprise or something

people could make fun of but she also

knew that raising a brown baby in a

white family was nothing that could be

hidden nor should it be how do you

celebrate your child’s heritage and

identity without marriage rising in I

knew very early on that I was different

it was really hard to hide dark skin and

a white family my grandma would say I

tried to stay 10 when you were younger

so that you could feel like you fit into

the family while the sentiment was love

there was a lot of awareness in what she

was saying my mom would take me two

different malls to walk around and see

the diversity around me when I was a

toddler I once dated mom everyone around

here looks like me and not like you it

was obvious to me and being so young I

never saw a problem at one point she

also took me to a Native American Museum

I stated I finally feel like I fit in

growing up in a white family I know what

it means to be of power and privilege to

be able to do anything but while my

family’s said I could do what I want I

have the constant reminder of my

community telling me hey Megan you’re

one of us Brown isn’t a thing in my

society around me saying hey Megan

remember you are brown how do you

balance the concert reminded of your

skin color with the concert reminder

that you should forget it and somehow it

doesn’t matter what my looks alone

people told me to learn Spanish I

learned Arabic instead with my looks

alone they assumed I was raised by a

single parent with my looks alone they

told me I spoke English well my adoption

history is typical I have a birth mother

who found she couldn’t take care of me

so she decided to give me up for

adoption instead of raising me in her

third world but by doing so I don’t get

the honor of the privilege of moving in

my indigenous pneus I don’t get to

breathe the music or traditions of my

heritage I have been searching for a

place to belong I sit in between two

worlds the world of the privilege in the

world of the oppressed

I want the sugar skull tattoo I want to

wear the poncho I want to embrace my

indigenous I want to sit with my native

ancestors to breed what they teach but

my education I am upbringing says no

Megan you aren’t one of them because you

weren’t raised in your culture of

heritage I constantly battle wanting to

embrace my heritage but I feel like an

imposter but I don’t look like an

imposter but I talk like an imposter my

education throws the under a bus because

remember I speak English too well I

respect to the space and now I can’t be

part of it I know that sometimes I need

to just be an observer not a toner

American this is a melting pot of

cultures and ideas and in that those

with the power and privilege live in

their culture and community without

rubber band what stands out are those

who are other those other become the hot

commodity those others are the newest

trend my answer to the question what is

appropriation is appreciation back to my

definitions appreciation is defined as

an ability to understand the worth

quality and importance of something a

full awareness or understanding of

something when I look at those prayer

flags you hang on your porch when I look

at that geisha halloween costume you

wear a halloween party when I hear you

wrapping a jay-z song I question did you

understand me I question if you

understand the importance I question if

you have the years of reflection that

those cookies live every day I question

if you understand the pain they feel

when their culture and customs are being

distorted in this represented I think

how can they when I can’t respect the

space and no you can’t be a part of it

be an observer not an old owner

celebrate through appreciation thank you [Music]

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