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And the Roof Held; Stories About Neighbors | Kelly Eplee | TEDxCharlottesville


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two weeks ago I met Yahweh he spoke to

me I looked at his face and if you know

your old testament you know Yahweh means

God the great I am you’re not supposed

to be able to look at him and live well

i did and i’m here to talk about it

because Yahweh lives in Haiti he has a

wonderful huge smile he’s the gardener

at the guest house where I building

goodness foundation volunteers today

when they go to the area of leg on I was

down there last week checking out

housing after Hurricane Matthew this is

a typical teek hai a small house that

building good foundation has built seven

hundred of them I’m very very pleased to

say that our ruse did well houses

survived not so much the neighbors these

are temporary shelters that still people

are living in six years after the

earthquake in 2010 some of my friends

who are not religious use the word about

an earthquake and a hurricane in a

hurricane as apocalyptic I’m not afraid

of theological language I come from a

large southern family we get together

twice a year sometimes more enjoy

perfect wonderful pork BBQ a side bowl

of theological discussion doctrinal

strips on the side our conversation is

all about stories memories and trying to

be 16 18 years old again and almost

always about grandma Madeline grandma

eppley our matriarch

the story goes like this an unlikely

couple Madeline on her way to the

mission field very driven smart in

seminary very unusual for a Baptist

young woman she had if she won’t end up

going to China then she met Kelly a

sailor just back from the North Atlantic

where he was on a very fast ship chasing

German submarines and he had a touch of

tuberculosis so they fell in love and

for love she did not go to China and for

the Great Depression it forced them back

to their homeland to his home in the

mountains of North Carolina close to

Asheville and the story the next story

is that as she sat on the steps of that

little shabby home and the wagon that

had brought their possessions slowly

made its way back up the road she sat

down and she went to ballin that’s

Appalachian for really big grief and

then she got up which was her character

and she went to work and she made that

area her mission field she got involved

in the school she was a backbone of the

church she was the heart of the

community she drove people to goodness

she raised a family and the nurses

teachers phd’s successful business

people she had a code and she had an

ethic I think they went something like

this because of her faith and her love

everyone knew she loved deeply number

one you treat your neighbor like

yourself love your neighbor like

yourself everybody’s the same number two

you go to school and you never stop

learning and then you never ever stop

learning and number three you work

really really hard especially at number

one and number two so

for us and for me specifically she

impacted me so directly that it

projected me through the 1980s the first

few years I lived in west africa i

worked with volunteers who are working

in water development next to the desert

I learned French middle of the decade

worked with Haitian refugees the crisis

when so many people were coming back to

Haiti from Haiti to to Virginia actually

and I learned Haitian Creole then my

wife and I worked in Latin America

Central America South America with

Habitat for Humanity we learned Spanish

so when we were looking for a place to

stay I did what we do in our family the

guys we marry intelligent women we

listen to them she chose Charlottesville

so we ended up here in 1991 and I

realized that I was in a town where I

could thrive number one love your

neighbor as yourself but your neighbors

weren’t just local they were global it

was everybody number two people around

here never stop learning and number

three I could work hard I found a place

in the nonprofit industry and I have

been a professional volunteer

coordinator in every job I’ve had

helping empower the community fast

forward a little bit 2010 January

thirteenth I was having breakfast at tip

top restaurant Jack stoner he was the

chairman of the board for building

goodness foundation I was the newly

hired executive director and the

conversation went like almost every

nonprofit conversation goes how do we

get more money get more volunteers how

do we raise awareness you know how do we

get in the media everyone who’s done it

knows this but for me because it was

Jack’s donor I was completely stoked I

wanted to work with this guy it’s a

personal hero he had been to Haiti

number of years before had a huge

transformational experience

found that he could use his construction

skills very well as a builder came back

and he created a visioning pulled people

to him as close as friends and they

decided they had a vision for an

organization that would give local

designers and builders a chance to use

them and change the world he was unhappy

with his life he was discontented with

the huge gap between the haves and

have-nots and he turned it on its ear

and brought and inspired so many people

to him and to a friends who got friends

and friends that are involved that it

became a movement and I watched it

happen throughout for those 20 years and

so that was January thirteenth and he

said as we stepped out a tip top he said

did you see the news last night and I

said well no I did and he said had

mentioned it before but Haiti had an

earthquake and I said that can’t be true

quick hadn’t happened 100 years so I

went back to the office and there on the

screen I was horrified to see

port-au-prince with a mile high cloud of

concrete dust from thousands of

buildings that had imploded on top of

each other and there were images of

people being dragged out of buildings

and stories about the whole gym not the

whole campus but the campus roofs

falling from the port-au-prince

University killing thousands of students

at one time and the palace was down and

government buildings were down and then

the news started calling our office

because we had been to Haiti and we

became ground central for things about

Haiti and so we ended up hearing from

getting on the TV and getting the radio

and talking about this horrible thing

but I was touched mostly by the calls

that I got from the volunteers someone

called and said how’s Renee someone else

called said house clay mom someone else

called and said house y’all Philippe

have you heard anything about him

someone else called said how is that

lady that lives under the church with

those six kids next to the clinics that

we built

then it struck me Haiti was not a place

where we go for one more tragic story

haiti was a place where our neighbors

lived we knew their children we played

with them on construction sites we

helped them build their homes we had

whimsical memories of what it was like

to be there in their villages we worked

with him we employed them we were side

by side partners with them in helping

their lives and dealing with a very

tragic history so we got busy it was

about neighbors in our community helping

our neighbors in Haiti plan went out

once the the Emergency Response cream

teams were cleared out about a month

later we got busy and we built a trade

school so that Haitians can help the

next generation of Education buildings

not implode in an earthquake schools and

communities that were far from

port-au-prince this one’s in Cap Haitien

in the north beautiful school in hench

cooperative centers where people can

process mangoes and coffee economic

development centers a women’s health

clinic the only of its kind in the

mountains within 50 miles and 700 homes

helping people have homes after the

earthquake and then after Hurricane

sandy so we learned some things Haiti is

a place where people automatically think

about 400 years of inhumane injustice

and slavery corruption bad US policies

rice subsidies that obliterated their

rice economy all these things are huge

and should be discussed but what we have

learned in our time I would like to say

this it’s about being good neighbors a

methodology of neighborliness number one

size does matter while the international

community is trying to and for good

reason fine

way to build the plumbing to get

resources to the ground small

organizations like ours can make a huge

difference by going into communities and

being involved on the grassroots level

to work with number two good neighbors

already in place organizations that have

been there a long time but don’t want us

to come in and fix them they already

know how to fix themselves we partner

with them it’s about a relationship it’s

not about a transaction and that can

happen on the community level and number

three I don’t want to be seen as

critical but then going to Haiti for a

long time seeing thousands of volunteers

get on the plains and go down to be a

part of it for good reason they want to

help people want to help they need to

learn about these things however how

many work sites when you go on or places

where you go where Americans are doing a

great job volunteering and the Haitians

are on this side and there’s a sixty

percent unemployment situation going on

the Americans often are doing the jobs

that people can do I’m not saying don’t

go I’m just saying let’s find more ways

to employ people because neighbors help

other neighbors have the dignity of jobs

what we do now we send small teams work

side-by-side with Asians we employ

dozens and dozens of impatience to give

them the dignity of jobs so they can

send their kids to school and so that

they can pay for medical bills so we’ve

learned a few things and now i’m talking

about yahweh I said Yahweh I went out to

your village destra we built that

community center out there I heard that

the storm hit and it was well used but

no one will talk to me they’re little

traumatized by the situation what

happened he said I’ll tell you what

happened he said when the hurricane hit

and the wind started blowing in the

water rose out of the ocean and the

river right next door flooded the whole

village water level picked up one or two

feet and when people who lived in those

temporary

shelters started getting flooded out

they headed for the community center and

so for two days the wind house so loud

we could not hear it I said come be a

Monday la how many people were there he

said oh I don’t know I’m peel I’m p lime

peel it’s like don’t tell me how many

families wheat decent puck only eight or

nine really so you’re talking about 80

or 90 100 people grandpa’s grandmas kids

cousins everything in that shelter he

said yeah yeah yeah yeah we couldn’t

hear ourselves talk we couldn’t hear

ourselves things and the kids were

crying and I said that must have been

horrible he said oh no no lieb only

buncombe plan said what as good as good

he said yeah guide Oh Lita Kambei the

roof it stayed on and then he went back

to his garden Thank You Yahweh [Applause]

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