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Addiction amongst Teenage | Bhupi Singh | TEDxGGSIPU


I was an addict and my addiction was not
real substance but emotional dependence
when a close family member became
addicted to substance my favorite
pastime became monitoring they’re also a
part of my emotional dependency when
their substance abuse and addictive
patterns growing by the day
my addiction of our thinking also green
whether addictions the entire family
became a dysfunctional I began living on
an emotional roller coaster with a flood
of embarrassment guilt anger low
self-esteem and zero self-worth I
protected my made excuses for their
behavior I protected my dick covered
their nests their mistakes my
preoccupation was similar to the ethics
obsession with substance I forgot who I
was and what my needs were I failed
miserably in all aspects of my life I’d
rather self-destruction patterns engaged
in blame game and took no account of
editing off my behavior of my actions my
head was always filled with negative
thoughts that kept away the guidance my
inner voice was offered it took a lot of
suffering for me to realize that I
needed help now and a hope of turning my
life around completely was born
I learned that addiction is a family
disease and I was no less often
addictive than the one living on of
substance I was feeding on negative
energy as much as as other using the
substance addiction is not necessarily
to a substance but it could come in
mainly other forms like depression over
thinking over eating society dances
emotional dependency who never you this
would be your story or some of you know
maybe you are still in between in
somewhere or maybe this has never
happened to you when I was told this
story I became more curious to
understand what addiction was and how it
becomes fairly disease as social worker
and theta mica I learned a lot about
addiction and addictive patterns while I
was working with the slum kids and
theatre professionals these long kids
would buy the solution for a negligible
amount and pour it onto their
handkerchief and sniff it one by month I
made successful attempts to create
awareness about addiction through
theatre and workshop with these kids
the three major traits of an addiction
and addictive personality our
justification manipulations and
rationalization seven other traits
include low boredom threshold
low emotional portions higher
intelligence
Oshin no self-esteem we become addicts
because we are not comfortable and happy
here
when our present gravity in state of
mind so we move from here to there the
place of addiction which is more
comfortable to deal with but a
delusional state of mind and falses this
is where the vicious triangle of the
victim dispute and persecutor starts
with there is a person forever pitting
on himself who feels like he is the
misunderstood one amongst all the first
step to doing this is to detach from any
kind of chaos and negativity it is
essential to identify the addictive
patterns in us and to create new and
positive opposite patterns in sounds
root of the negative and destructive
ones it is important to build bond and
connections with people you trust and
can until your top of any given time it
is important to talk and to communicate
but most of all it is important to
understand and empathize with the
addictive personality they have to be
treated with a lot of love and
acceptance to be absolutely
non-judgmental with
issues but also to the patient and
receptive to what such a person is
sharing with you is the key to being
able to help them but also remember that
only a person who wants to be held can
be held and they’re also saved you from
taking up the rescue error identity by
not forcing to save them the company is
a voluntary journey and decision it is
work in progress and watch it always aim
for progress not perfection at the level
of emotional maturity is important to be
able to understand what an addict is
feeling it is also important for you to
be healthy mentally emotionally
physically and spiritually to be able to
help this person and impart knowledge of
what above health means distancing
respecting reprimanding and addicted
will create more distance I’m all this
balance for him the law of attraction
says that your thought manifest into
your reality irrespective of them being
a negative or positive the law of
attraction is the law of the universe
and the universe simply aligns with your
thoughts and create what your thoughts
attract the decision of the fine or a
thoughts is ours
addiction is a burning issue and being
an educator I would rely to request my
fellow educators in every
to not neglect this issue and to work
collectively for the growth of our
society remember to just be the best
version of yourself
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