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Adam wasn’t the first | AK Salling | TEDxYeongheungForest


geordie of overseas adoptees from korea

beginning from the 1950s went to the US

the rest went to different european

countries especially scandinavia some

went to your some went to Canada and

Australia Adam is one of two hundred

thousand Korean overseas adoptees two

hundred thousand in November 2016 just

before Thanksgiving Adam arrived in

Korea for the first time since he was

adopted he had been deported from the

very country he was adopted into as a

young child all his life he lived as an

American citizen on paper he never was

he was met at the airport by officials

and a representative from global

overseas this link and ngoen career

working for adoptees he had a pet to

sleep in a place to call home even if it

were against his will

unlike Adam the other deported adoptees

who were right before him were dropped

at the airport and left alone by the

immigration officers who escorted them

from the u.s. they were left without any

money without any knowledge of Korean

language without any friends not knowing

where they were where to go or how to

get anywhere most have experienced

homelessness some eventually ending up

committing a crime in desperation to

survive as of 2018 Adam and all the

other deported adoptees among the 18,000

Korean overseas adoptees without

citizenship or unverified citizenship of

adopter country many adoptees have since

the late 1980s returned to Korea showed

a long-term the longest term comes more

than two decades solid statistics are

very difficult to identify but empiric

experiences in the community of adoptees

in Korea show that the trend of adoptees

resettling shorter long term continues

and that the strong continues and ever

changeable community of adoptees in

korea is permanent so what does this

mean I like other adoptees felt on to

come here for reasons I can’t articulate

I did not come here because I find my

birth family or wish to find them I have

a mass of law and I worked for the

Danish public authorities for 12 years I

had a nice apartment in the heart of

hipster Copenhagen and I had a salary

high enough to travel overseas twice a

year and trips within Europe in between

I grew up in the happiest country in the

world and yet I said goodbye to the

comfort of my old lifestyle and

exchanged it for an insecure income

unstable job situation and without any

prospects of making a career what I

gained instead it’s the opportunity to

try to make a difference for fellow

adoptees like Adam through my work at an

NGO providing assistance for adoptees

creating awareness and enabling adoptees

to live in korea organizations for

Korean adoptees in Denmark France

Belgium Italy the Netherlands the US and

many more countries akf adopted Korean

Association celebrated its 30th

anniversary in Sweden in 2016 I grew up

in the happiest country in the world yet

I

chose to say goodbye to the comfort of

my old lifestyle and exchanged it for an

unstable job situation insecure income

and without any prospects of making a

career what again instead of the

standard of my Danish high standard of

life was the opportunity to try and make

a difference for fellow adoptees like

Adam through my work at an NGO working

for adoptees creating awareness and

enabling adoptees to live in Korea in

Korean society community and belonging

acorus Confucianism still influences

society strongly meaning that every

Korean person knows his suburb blood

type and can trace the family family

roots many generations back on the

family registry and adoptees registry

there’s us only us in Korea with

foreigners but we’re not.we Korean but

we’re not deported here or here by our

own free choice Adam I and all the other

Korean overseas adoptees are the are

outsiders and with that commonality we

created our own society and with that

commonality we created our own community

the NGO I work for was founded 20 years

ago by American and European adoptees

seeking a space to belong in Korea their

organizations for Korean adoptees in

Denmark France Belgium Italy the

Netherlands Switzerland Australia the US

and many more countries in the

late-1990s and international gathering

for international for international

Korean overseas adoptees was held for

the first time in Washington then in

Oslo then in Seoul over the years these

gatherings have taken place every 30 and

Seoul and Europe and US and between the

biggest gather more than 500 adoptees

and the families before the internet

existed these groups were the only way

to

connect with other overseas Korean

adoptees to exchange experiences about

adoptee identity searching for and being

reunited with birth family the

organization’s host cultural events

create a compile experiences and create

social networks as the community grows

older the organization’s expand the

focus to families children and

grandchildren of adoptees who want to

learn Korean and eat kimchi but these

groups created 30 years ago has become

something very powerful in Korea we’re

working with the government and creating

a system that enables Adam and the other

deported adoptees have a somewhat decent

life here we’re working on changing

policies and legislation we support each

other and other groups in society

disconnected from the mainstream younger

overseas adoptees come to us

Korean overseas adoptees now asking how

we created the community we have wanting

to research it explore it and become a

part of it because they have the same

need to belong National Assembly finally

realized that the petition of adoptees

is an issue when another deported

adoptee who came years before Adam

finally had enough and jumped from a

building in May 2017 I and other

representatives from the adopted

community Harry Phillips coffin despite

protests from the funeral house employee

because women do not usually do this in

Korea an adoptee from NGO transported

Phillips ashes to the US and returned

them to his adoptive parents so he

should not have to rest in a country he

did not wish to be in sadly we failed in

preventing

Stud but the community heard when adam

desperately called out for help on

social media when american immigration

officers knocked on the door to his home

three years ago adoptive groups in the

u.s. tried to help him by rallying for

changes in the citizenship legislation

in korea we were able to notify

officials under the government who had

no clue that his removal case have been

initiated the removal process took

almost two years we made sure other

adoptees visited Adam while he was in

detention detention centers are prison

like facilities are managed by American

immigration you have no right to see a

judge you have no right to legal

representation and you can be held

indefinitely at worst as I heard it from

Adam the tension is pretty horrible and

Adam was picked up at Incheon Airport by

faces that by then had become familiar

to him from visits in detention he has

been taken care of by an organization

under the government and NGOs including

mine the other deported adoptees who

came before him did not know about the

community of Korean overseas adoptees so

for the first time ever in the history

of adoptees being deported back to Korea

Adam was the first who had a community

when he came here he’s still mourning

the loss of his American life watching

his daughter’s grow up to Skype he gets

frustrated by the hoops he must jump

through in order to keep a roof over his

head he’s still trying to figure out

what it means I’ve been reunited with

birth family and how to manage when

well-meaning people tell him how lucky

he is by going public with his story he

everything at stake but he also became

part of our community and he has paved

the way for other adoptees and similar

situations creating awareness that there

is a community of us who are willing to

do what we can to help you

just because we’re overseas Korean

adoptees Adam wasn’t the first who

needed our community

unfortunately I’m sure he will not be

the last thank you [Applause]

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