[Music]
[Applause]
when I was 6 years old
I was small yet I realized that the
My family talked her talking to
his mouth and looked and found it
strange because to me it was very
conventional talking with hands
I said ours I think mine
family has some problem for us
it’s so normal
I started to be suspicious of this but I
believed they had some
problem
the time passed and I learned
some things and I discovered the
What is the problem?
the deficiency was mine with me
family had no problem whatsapp
I had the problem I was deaf
so my great-grandparents
they were first cousins and
married and then of the children who were
those generations that were summing up 39
deaf in the family
Were they able to communicate with
tranquility
we did not have any barriers that
communication in the end.
accounts were already 39 deaf, right.
and they were communication was made
through gestures home signs
combined was not officially
not when I was about 11
years I knew for example that my
family
she could not explain a detail
so do not
we have, for example, sexuality
they explained basic things through
of the gestures I mentioned to you
of course I had some difficulties
precisely they do not explain in ne
this is the way things are related to
drugs for example or other subjects
according to age it is at this time
I lived inside my house two
women one of my mother and one that I
I believe being my aunt does not have much
sure of this
My mother was always with me.
we had a very close relationship
close to union and this aunt was
very strange so it seemed that he
despised did not have a relationship does not
had a love relationship involved
only one contact with her needed
some favor like taking a water to take the
Let your cigarette carry a coffee.
something to her just this
My mother did not take me to everyone.
places in the hospital if needed in the
School was doing chores with me.
we were always together
after that when I was about
11 years I went to school and the teacher
asked us to make a card
because mother’s day was
approaching ok let’s make a drawing
and that makes a cute drawing for
deliver to mother
Ok let’s do and then I painted did a
pretty drawing
I went to the teacher and asked her.
teacher could you write some
phrase in Portuguese because I do not know
write the perfect Portuguese yet you
Could you help me write to me?
and I copy it to the card and then
Teacher accepted wrote I copied in
and I asked when we should
hand in the card is the teacher
answered on Sunday and I asked more
How many days are left to
Sunday and the teacher answered me.
There are three days left and it’s Friday.
tomorrow is saturday and then on sunday you go
deliver today you will get home and
go sleep there, go to Saturday Saturday
you sleep when you wake up it’s already
Sunday
Okay, so I went home.
I was super anxious happy and excited
to deliver the card to the mother in
Friday I slept through Friday
I woke up yesterday and asked Mom.
Mom what today?
today through Sunday not today is Saturday
plastered from sleep again and I woke up
It was Sunday and I was super.
excited
I took the card and went to meet her.
This mother’s xaml looks that she took and I
said what went
You look sad and I did not expect
this expression expected expression of
joy and she said it ‘s not that you do not
He was born to me and I said as well
She said you’re my granddaughter.
I’m your grandmother and said that as already
I started to cry and I told my mother
and she pointed and told her mother that
there and that woman was lying on the
couch smoking and when I looked at her
looked at me and did so it was me
I was shocked
crying a lot and I said I do not want
that she is my mother I do not want to
I accept that and I want you to continue.
my mother being my voice
I could answer nothing and I cried.
I very desperately put that
card itself
the table and run crying
desperately suffered a lot
this was a story that I got
overcome
but that marked my life a lot
my family I did not have any
barrier right?
I could talk and communicate
naturally
I realized that outside the environment
familiar with communication with listeners
I could not communicate outside of
my family in the family
Ok it was good, I had that comfort.
that security and outside I felt it
I realized this difficulty
so I started dating too early
with 14 years and grandmother is the name explicable
For example, how are you taking care of me?
do not get pregnant, how can you avoid
pregnancy
So I stayed with me, I was going to
cinema with my boyfriend she is with
people in the restaurant she went along with us
we were basically dating then
we would sit and befriend the
side and the other’s grandmother and if I wanted to give
a kiss for example my grandmother give
a nudge and made it not that ugly
We used to sound like kisses just like that.
There’s my boyfriend’s mother.
She called me one day and explained to me.
some things are not related to
sexuality and asked if I knew and I
I said no I do not know anything about this
as such and she explained to me neither
respect for condoms
but themes related to sexuality, right?
no
had this information i was innocent
even in this sense
and then my grandmother, for example, she only
Tell me if you get pregnant, I’ll blow you.
on the street you’ll sleep on the street will pass
famine is going to be your problem and I was
Shock with that, huh?
I understand my grandmother she does not
explained things
Of course she was ashamed was an issue.
traditional very strong poe poe né
by the time she lived
I do not blame him
I think she thought that if she did not
say nothing i was not going to do anything
Great grandma, right?
so the time went by and I went
developing was of course learning
new things having new experiences
I was developing. I graduated. I started.
my professional life
At that time I was a teacher.
I started to realize that a student
looked different
he was a listener and then we started
if you look
We started dating him strove
I quite studied a lot and liked
much help me anywhere that
I went there and he helped me.
We married and then we both got married.
We agreed that we wanted to get pregnant.
because I wanted to show it to my
Grandma that I was able to have
I was able to develop that I had
understood everything she taught me, right?
I developed myself, I graduated casey everything
right as she had walked and
Now I would like to have a child.
show her and I started to try
get pregnant and I could not
and then the grandmother died
What are you doing, what ?
and then I decided to forget about it
two years later I discovered that I was
pregnant
it was the right time
God was the one who sent you at the right time.
when my daughter was born my husband
He helped me a lot in that regard.
fights and all because the sintep many
professionals were busy
and here in blumenau there are also few
professionals so my husband always made me
accompanied me very much in this
sense
and then at the birth of my daughter
cute cute
I started to worry
Will my deaf daughter
I was very worried about
This is not a matter of prejudice.
It was a lot of suffering. I went through a lot.
suffering much difficulty with my
life experience had no school
100% bilingual special for deaf people
had
and we went to the doctor and found that
she was a listener
I thanked God so much, I was very
happy
it’s not a matter of prejudice it ‘s a
life experience issue
I knew my life experience and
I did not want this for my daughter and for
Thank you so much , my God.
daughter was growing up and when I wanted to
say something she did wrong
for example to fight with her, that she
He closed his eyes and did not
I used to look like I used to go
to make a fight on her will be that
was not hugging and filling
kiss with that cuteness
then she opened her eyes and laughed at me and
strategies have been developed
over time and there I explain to the daughter
You need to look to me for me to
talk to you and she was growing up
When she was three years old she ran and
fell and she cried a lot screamed screamed
and of course I did not hear I was washing the
Dishwasher safe
and she came crying
my direction I did not look right I
I was doing the dishes
Then she called me and when I turned the
said what it was and she looks at me
hurt bei you do not look at me
with three years
Imagine you cry, the son, I’m sorry.
said the daughter
my ear broke and he can not
to hear you and to hear that she looked at you
so that’s when I thought, look, just go back
Turn around, she turned, I screamed and she
scared
When she turned I said I saw you.
listening
picks now then I’ll look back and
You copy and do the same thing and she
shouted shouted I did not hear
Then she nudged me and I turned to her and we
two looked at us and she with the expression
strange
Guess what my daughter did left
I was careful and I noticed that
she will do in a moment she came back
When I saw it, it was very funny.
she had a screw and then she said
Let’s get your ear right!
to play to play she used to say I was there
I got on my feet and she said let’s go
fix here
Let’s pack it but I can not get it.
screw
I threw the bolt away there she saw and I
I said ‘no daughter you can not pack up and
I remember she kept looking at me like that.
It’s with that expression I said oh my
ear is broken but not from the
pomegranate
when you need to call me you have
that lean on the mother
and then when she had 5
years she really understood that she
had a deaf mother
we could already communicate a
little and there for example when she
I spoke a word, I did not understand what
It was that word and that’s where we were.
in that distressing situation and I said
for you to call your father
So I called her father on the webcam there.
I showed her she talked to him and I saw him
explained that he wanted the word and
my daughter saw that dynamic did not see the
It is
so if I talk to my father, the father
interpret for her he translates it
started she understood that she could do
This, too, I never forced her to do anything.
so she started to help me
so my desire is the same desire as
of other mothers, you are also
mothers have my mothers there my desire is not
different from your desire is equal is
especially what I want the
my daughter develops I want
she learns that she has knowledge
world that understands that we have
different features independent
of color says and listeners and deaf are
many characteristics that it does not have
prejudice that has opportunities
equal for all the people it
live in a world so special is that
I want her
That’s why I say it ‘s the same as
I believe you want
thanks
[Applause]
I saw so many moms thinking our
City
[Applause]
when I was 6 years old
I was small yet I realized that the
My family talked her talking to
his mouth and looked and found it
strange because to me it was very
conventional talking with hands
I said ours I think mine
family has some problem for us
it’s so normal
I started to be suspicious of this but I
believed they had some
problem
the time passed and I learned
some things and I discovered the
What is the problem?
the deficiency was mine with me
family had no problem whatsapp
I had the problem I was deaf
so my great-grandparents
they were first cousins and
married and then of the children who were
those generations that were summing up 39
deaf in the family
Were they able to communicate with
tranquility
we did not have any barriers that
communication in the end.
accounts were already 39 deaf, right.
and they were communication was made
through gestures home signs
combined was not officially
not when I was about 11
years I knew for example that my
family
she could not explain a detail
so do not
we have, for example, sexuality
they explained basic things through
of the gestures I mentioned to you
of course I had some difficulties
precisely they do not explain in ne
this is the way things are related to
drugs for example or other subjects
according to age it is at this time
I lived inside my house two
women one of my mother and one that I
I believe being my aunt does not have much
sure of this
My mother was always with me.
we had a very close relationship
close to union and this aunt was
very strange so it seemed that he
despised did not have a relationship does not
had a love relationship involved
only one contact with her needed
some favor like taking a water to take the
Let your cigarette carry a coffee.
something to her just this
My mother did not take me to everyone.
places in the hospital if needed in the
School was doing chores with me.
we were always together
after that when I was about
11 years I went to school and the teacher
asked us to make a card
because mother’s day was
approaching ok let’s make a drawing
and that makes a cute drawing for
deliver to mother
Ok let’s do and then I painted did a
pretty drawing
I went to the teacher and asked her.
teacher could you write some
phrase in Portuguese because I do not know
write the perfect Portuguese yet you
Could you help me write to me?
and I copy it to the card and then
Teacher accepted wrote I copied in
and I asked when we should
hand in the card is the teacher
answered on Sunday and I asked more
How many days are left to
Sunday and the teacher answered me.
There are three days left and it’s Friday.
tomorrow is saturday and then on sunday you go
deliver today you will get home and
go sleep there, go to Saturday Saturday
you sleep when you wake up it’s already
Sunday
Okay, so I went home.
I was super anxious happy and excited
to deliver the card to the mother in
Friday I slept through Friday
I woke up yesterday and asked Mom.
Mom what today?
today through Sunday not today is Saturday
plastered from sleep again and I woke up
It was Sunday and I was super.
excited
I took the card and went to meet her.
This mother’s xaml looks that she took and I
said what went
You look sad and I did not expect
this expression expected expression of
joy and she said it ‘s not that you do not
He was born to me and I said as well
She said you’re my granddaughter.
I’m your grandmother and said that as already
I started to cry and I told my mother
and she pointed and told her mother that
there and that woman was lying on the
couch smoking and when I looked at her
looked at me and did so it was me
I was shocked
crying a lot and I said I do not want
that she is my mother I do not want to
I accept that and I want you to continue.
my mother being my voice
I could answer nothing and I cried.
I very desperately put that
card itself
the table and run crying
desperately suffered a lot
this was a story that I got
overcome
but that marked my life a lot
my family I did not have any
barrier right?
I could talk and communicate
naturally
I realized that outside the environment
familiar with communication with listeners
I could not communicate outside of
my family in the family
Ok it was good, I had that comfort.
that security and outside I felt it
I realized this difficulty
so I started dating too early
with 14 years and grandmother is the name explicable
For example, how are you taking care of me?
do not get pregnant, how can you avoid
pregnancy
So I stayed with me, I was going to
cinema with my boyfriend she is with
people in the restaurant she went along with us
we were basically dating then
we would sit and befriend the
side and the other’s grandmother and if I wanted to give
a kiss for example my grandmother give
a nudge and made it not that ugly
We used to sound like kisses just like that.
There’s my boyfriend’s mother.
She called me one day and explained to me.
some things are not related to
sexuality and asked if I knew and I
I said no I do not know anything about this
as such and she explained to me neither
respect for condoms
but themes related to sexuality, right?
no
had this information i was innocent
even in this sense
and then my grandmother, for example, she only
Tell me if you get pregnant, I’ll blow you.
on the street you’ll sleep on the street will pass
famine is going to be your problem and I was
Shock with that, huh?
I understand my grandmother she does not
explained things
Of course she was ashamed was an issue.
traditional very strong poe poe né
by the time she lived
I do not blame him
I think she thought that if she did not
say nothing i was not going to do anything
Great grandma, right?
so the time went by and I went
developing was of course learning
new things having new experiences
I was developing. I graduated. I started.
my professional life
At that time I was a teacher.
I started to realize that a student
looked different
he was a listener and then we started
if you look
We started dating him strove
I quite studied a lot and liked
much help me anywhere that
I went there and he helped me.
We married and then we both got married.
We agreed that we wanted to get pregnant.
because I wanted to show it to my
Grandma that I was able to have
I was able to develop that I had
understood everything she taught me, right?
I developed myself, I graduated casey everything
right as she had walked and
Now I would like to have a child.
show her and I started to try
get pregnant and I could not
and then the grandmother died
What are you doing, what ?
and then I decided to forget about it
two years later I discovered that I was
pregnant
it was the right time
God was the one who sent you at the right time.
when my daughter was born my husband
He helped me a lot in that regard.
fights and all because the sintep many
professionals were busy
and here in blumenau there are also few
professionals so my husband always made me
accompanied me very much in this
sense
and then at the birth of my daughter
cute cute
I started to worry
Will my deaf daughter
I was very worried about
This is not a matter of prejudice.
It was a lot of suffering. I went through a lot.
suffering much difficulty with my
life experience had no school
100% bilingual special for deaf people
had
and we went to the doctor and found that
she was a listener
I thanked God so much, I was very
happy
it’s not a matter of prejudice it ‘s a
life experience issue
I knew my life experience and
I did not want this for my daughter and for
Thank you so much , my God.
daughter was growing up and when I wanted to
say something she did wrong
for example to fight with her, that she
He closed his eyes and did not
I used to look like I used to go
to make a fight on her will be that
was not hugging and filling
kiss with that cuteness
then she opened her eyes and laughed at me and
strategies have been developed
over time and there I explain to the daughter
You need to look to me for me to
talk to you and she was growing up
When she was three years old she ran and
fell and she cried a lot screamed screamed
and of course I did not hear I was washing the
Dishwasher safe
and she came crying
my direction I did not look right I
I was doing the dishes
Then she called me and when I turned the
said what it was and she looks at me
hurt bei you do not look at me
with three years
Imagine you cry, the son, I’m sorry.
said the daughter
my ear broke and he can not
to hear you and to hear that she looked at you
so that’s when I thought, look, just go back
Turn around, she turned, I screamed and she
scared
When she turned I said I saw you.
listening
picks now then I’ll look back and
You copy and do the same thing and she
shouted shouted I did not hear
Then she nudged me and I turned to her and we
two looked at us and she with the expression
strange
Guess what my daughter did left
I was careful and I noticed that
she will do in a moment she came back
When I saw it, it was very funny.
she had a screw and then she said
Let’s get your ear right!
to play to play she used to say I was there
I got on my feet and she said let’s go
fix here
Let’s pack it but I can not get it.
screw
I threw the bolt away there she saw and I
I said ‘no daughter you can not pack up and
I remember she kept looking at me like that.
It’s with that expression I said oh my
ear is broken but not from the
pomegranate
when you need to call me you have
that lean on the mother
and then when she had 5
years she really understood that she
had a deaf mother
we could already communicate a
little and there for example when she
I spoke a word, I did not understand what
It was that word and that’s where we were.
in that distressing situation and I said
for you to call your father
So I called her father on the webcam there.
I showed her she talked to him and I saw him
explained that he wanted the word and
my daughter saw that dynamic did not see the
It is
so if I talk to my father, the father
interpret for her he translates it
started she understood that she could do
This, too, I never forced her to do anything.
so she started to help me
so my desire is the same desire as
of other mothers, you are also
mothers have my mothers there my desire is not
different from your desire is equal is
especially what I want the
my daughter develops I want
she learns that she has knowledge
world that understands that we have
different features independent
of color says and listeners and deaf are
many characteristics that it does not have
prejudice that has opportunities
equal for all the people it
live in a world so special is that
I want her
That’s why I say it ‘s the same as
I believe you want
thanks
[Applause]
I saw so many moms thinking our
City
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