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A Community of Compassion | Ryan Alcorn | TEDxHerndonHighSchool


Thank You Sunil and let’s let’s give

Sunil a round of applause because it’s

pretty incredible alright as he said my

name is Ryan Alcorn and I go to hernán

high school Hernan has a lot of stories

and I’m gonna tell you a story that you

might not know about so for the sake of

the story I’m well it’s about this guy

we’re gonna call him primo and it’s

about how the community came together to

support him at a time of need I’m at

primo last year in a personal fitness

class he was a pretty short guy

pretty quiet I didn’t know a lot about

him but he seemed nice he’s Hispanic

just just seemed like a regular guy and

we got to know each other because we

were in the same weight group he was a

pretty strong a pretty strong guy so I

had to work to keep up with him but we

started to get to know each other

through Spanglish I spoke a little bit

of Spanish he spoke a little bit of

English but we we became close friends

and he actually turned out he had the

same lunch as I did and so his friends

became my friends and vice versa so it’s

pretty nice and he we started to hang

out outside of school he he would come

over to my house and I remember one day

he came over and I didn’t have my

license yet

so my mom drove him home and she’s

fluent in Spanish so she and him could

connect a little better than I could and

I remember she drove back she was home

and she had tears in her eyes and I said

mom what’s going on what happened and

Premo had opened up to her about his

story in his past and it turns out the

primo grew up in a very poor part of el

salvador and when he was 5 years old his

parents actually left for the United

States to to make more money they could

send back so he was living in El

Salvador with his grandmother and his

younger sister and if you know anything

about El Salvador the there’s a lot of

gang violence and it’s an incident

poverty and as he got older he was

turning into a teenager things got worse

and gang violence increase and he told

me a story about there was a there’s a

festival and there’s an old man in the

community and it turned out

at the end of the festival the old man

had been killed by a gang member and

things were getting a lot worse and at

one point he was actually invited to

join a gang and he didn’t join he for

moral reasons and he also knew that if

he joined then he would become a target

for other games so his parents his

grandmother and him decided it’s time to

come to America and they came long story

short it’s quite a story but they got to

the United States he and his sister and

they met up they were United and they

ended up in Herndon now once he was in

the United States things things were

better but they weren’t perfect and I

remember in personal fitness class

sometimes he wasn’t always giving it

100% sometimes he was he seemed tired

and sometimes he wouldn’t show up at all

and originally I thought that he was

just lazy as you know this guy doesn’t

seem to work too hard whatever okay

sometimes I would kind of get on him for

it but then I found out prima was

working three jobs and I know a lot of

us here actually do have jobs but he was

doing manual labor he was doing

landscaping roofing and he was working

his butt off and I said prima why are

you doing this and he told me you know I

have to support my family my dad and I

we have to feed we could feed my mother

and my sisters and I was that that

really shook me I was like wow okay this

guy this guy actually he’s doing

something for his family that’s

impressive and he also told me that his

grandmother back in El Salvador was sick

and he was most of his money that he

made was actually going to her so the

money that he had was going to food his

family and his grandmother so I was

pretty impressed by that and so we’re

gonna let’s flash forward about six

months so he and I become good friends

my friends are his friends a lot of

people here tonight actually know him

pretty well and let’s see so it was

December it’s December of this last year

so this winter and I hadn’t seen him in

a few weeks and I just I was a little

bit worried because I usually see him

every day at lunch and I say I texted

him I said prema what’s going on man

are you okay he’s like oh you know I’ve

been a little sick

I’ve come down with pneumonia when I was

working and because he works outside and

I said oh man sorry’s there anything we

can do

brought him a few Gatorades he seemed

okay he was getting better but I didn’t

see him for another week and then we had

plans he was going to come to my house

for dinner one night and I pull up to

his house and he walks outside but he’s

got his head down he’s looking really

sad he’s looking sick and I say prema

are you okay

are you sick he’s like no I just got

some terrible news and he hands me this

people so he hands me this piece of

paper and it’s a bill he’d gone to the

hospital and this going to the hospital

for someone without insurance

prema didn’t have insurance is a

nightmare because he had been sick for

two weeks he came out with pneumonia and

he wasn’t getting any kind of treatment

and he even tried to come to school and

when he was at school he started

throwing up blood so he went to the

nurse the nurse said you know what

calling the I’m calling an ambulance you

got to go to the ER you got to get

antibiotics and kind of almost against

his will he went and he was there for

four hours and when I see the bill I had

no idea what was going on I see the bill

is four thousand dollars and four

thousand dollars for four hours at the

hospital

so he comes over he says you know I

might have to drop out of school because

I can’t afford to pay this and I tell

him you know I say I think it’s going to

be okay we’re going to figure something

out at the time he didn’t believe it and

honestly I didn’t believe it either

but okay he came over and we’re like

we’re gonna figure something out

shopping to my mom I Drive him home we

still haven’t figured any we have no

idea we’re gonna do we don’t have that

kind of money obviously he doesn’t have

that kind of money and I get home and I

say hey mom what about this idea I’ve

heard of GoFundMe GoFundMe is this

website it’s also an app where you can

donate to different campaigns and I was

like she told me she said that’s a great

idea but you have to make sure you get

Primo’s approval and so I said you know

I him right away say Premo how about

this what if we got

people together we set up this campaign

and people could donate and as I was

expecting him to be super excited yes

yes yes of course and he says no who’s

going to donate to me a guy like me no

one knows me who cares and I said primo

that’s just that’s just not true

and I listed a whole bunch of names

people in this room right now of people

who I knew cared about this guy and

we’re going to help out and he’s like

all right let’s do it let’s try it out

and so I put it together at 7:00 p.m.

that night and by 7:00 a.m. the next

morning thirty people had donated and we

had $2,000 in 12 hours overnight that

was pretty incredible

and I saw him at lunch I said hey did

you see this do you see it and he was

just beaming I’d never seen him so happy

he’s like wow I can’t believe this and

most of the people who donated in those

first twelve hours were students at this

high school and I’m really proud to be a

part of those the students I’m really

happy to know those people so thank you

to those people who donated and then

another 24 hours after that not only and

we hit our four thousand dollar goal we

could have made an additional $1,000 so

we ended up with $5,000 in 36 hours and

that was incredible I remember I

remember seeing him and just how happy

was but the coolest thing was a lot of

the people who donated they never met

primo they were just people in this

Herndon and rest and community who saw a

guy in need they read the story they

said hey this kids in trouble he needs

help he sounds like a good guy

we’re gonna help him out and they did

and people donated from $5 to $500 and

this blew me away just the outpouring of

love and support and not only did it

show Premo what an amazing community we

have but it showed me and if I can leave

you with one thing it’s that if you can

create an opportunity for people to do

good people are always looking to do

good and it just shows what an amazing

community we have here in Herndon so

thank you to everyone and thank you

heard in high school you

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