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exactly thirty one a year ago my dad
first came to the village at the small round eat
Mother and I had a wedding
and they do not come up with nothing better than to
the second day of the wedding go to collect
mushrooms are not what you are about right now
thought they really collected them in
village small tours for the second time my
dad got to this village in 2005 when
bought a house for his parents and he
thought that this house would be for them
a haven and like a real fairytale he
bought a house of your own sharper
which she was once born and how in
a true fairy tale this home has become home to
him
at that time he had 40 bee colonies
making the lives of his father and at the same time all
the rest of life was yekaterinburg in
what moment did daddy happen
entrepreneurial career in
Ekaterinburg came to an end and here
it was at that moment five years ago I
came to the village for the summer and you know
once heard my dad who
wasn’t 50 years old
shuffles my legs well i mean i like normal
the girl who at this moment wanted
to understand the power of thought, and that’s okay
not yet I went to the village and understand
that this is 20 houses this is a village long there
kilometer and a half in which people live for
their fences are practically not
communicate if they communicate in Tatar and
when your dad doesn’t speak Tatar and
there is a stranger beyond that naturally in
no village clinic is not the club
the store was once we closed it now
the only day for party people
this is Wednesday on Wednesday the autobench is coming you
can you go chat with everyone
buy 6 loaves of bread for the whole week
forward freeze it and then there is also in
Generally at that moment I did not come up with
nothing better in fighting this one off
that is, it is hopelessness how to come up
the best
How to offer to make a new product
that the market is still no
copied so I suggested to grandmothers
pick berries
for our honey and then the first four
grandmothers collected for us strawberries for
comparisons this year it was 230
person
thanks to thousands of caring people we
built in the village of production on
which now employs 11 people
go to work every day and when you
would go there if you went there you
heard constant laughter you would hear
Tatar jokes
Naturally on Tatar and women these
they call me cook when i
I forget something in translation from
tatar it means egg about it
know and at some point thinking
what do you actually give people a job
the least i can do
the main thing is to take care of people who
live in the village and explain to them what they are
we need so in the village appeared
playground
gazebo model clean drinking water a
now i’m building a community center there
because diva soul actually
requires the club and must already solve the problem
with not fresh bread and me over the years
I realized that I began to live in Moscow and I
gradually would like to move and live in
village and know this is standard
picture you can find prog
Zelts Andropov and about the village small tours
and very often I read articles in the press more
something seems like oh well this
girls just very lucky but
you know it is very, very difficult I will give
literally two examples here’s the first example
here in the picture sticks out of concrete anchor
This is generally the beginning of the foundation
community center and the fact that under
the anchor is 54 two meters of its
fittings which had to be welded in
the end of July besides this is natural for us
it was necessary to cook houses for the market we
preparing a concert of the tea in the village
small round eat and at some point
welder as you understand the only one
the whole village said i’m tired i will go live
another village
I like it better there
and you stand so think okay with me
three days before the concert
I can’t screw it up because
people will come I need to build
community center which is actually
I have to solve the problems in the village
but you can’t do anything
that we are in Moscow we usually do
let’s go to the next office paid
money and find exactly the same person
so in the village money does not decide
nothing the village is all about relationships
which you build over the years and probably
decides the distance shortage of frames or
here’s another story
a month ago came to my village
six Germans are so stately beautiful from
45 to 85
we shot a documentary for
the first germany channel you would know
how like a woman at work done
makeup and how they waited for these dear
guests and here I stand at this well
talking about what’s the house in which
my grandmother lived when she was little
that’s eighty years ago she played u
this well it is a little bit different
I looked but in general there fell her younger
sister in general everything ended well and
and from there got me telling there
generally what connects me with this
village and at this moment in the frame flies
pulling a man with a stick in front of mine
face
he waves his stick like that and throws himself
at me and burn get out of here you
shame my village
you show old well well i
naturally shy and talk about quietly
I say you know now I was talking about
tom why i love it
who of us is dishonoring the village now
drunk in a flying frame or me which
talks about his family and you know
medication then in such situations she is one
and it’s not a jig on the head it’s not
call the police though honestly say
really want and in general this medication
attention is love
this is allowing itself to be weak and
to be vulnerable and that’s when I’m behind it
watching
Yes, I am aware of the situation Yes, I see where
there will be a conflict but I am clearly at this moment
I catch myself thinking what I think about
how can i make this man’s life
it is better that this does not happen again
because I know that this man
he will sober up at some point
pick berries and bring these berries
us and we take these berries the village itself
remind him what shame is
generally rush with a stick at a woman
know in our time of no faith
and ongoing aggression is very important
find someone you can believe
we usually we are vulnerable to those who are vulnerable and have
probably the same weaknesses as you
and this girl from the picture is so afraid
same as you and know it gives rise
understanding it gives rise to understanding not
just your fear
my position is the person who is standing
opposite to you when i’m scared i know
try to stop not say anything
and quickly look back
what happened in the last five years will give
people today have work and and for
People this work she rather as sense
it’s like an opportunity to be needed and then
already money when i go to the nursery
pad in the middle of the village I see that on
it’s not just my kids playing it
villages there are already children from other
villages that come on foot 3 5 7
kilometers to our playground and in
Generally older people in my village already
probably do not think that they will leave her
forgotten and they know exactly what they need
at least myself and they know for sure
that our customers need them
waiting for strawberry jam then they write here
such opuses that I must
Of course, I show my grandmothers
production and know they know what
a group of chayf dedicated songs to them
concert for them and you know i know what
the welder will still come back a
man sober up apologize
and what supports us if there is no such
5 years of experience how to kill me
based on what we have ever
got it from others again attention
love and care fleet is one simple example
when i was twelve i lived in
Ekaterinburg in the city center studied in
ordinary school Edik was fashionable to blow
firecrackers in the center of Yekaterinburg firecrackers
It was not to buy at all here that is, if
you need firecrackers you sit on
tram number 10 going to Tagansky row
it was such a market on bebel street
about hours on the tram and now I ask
by cook and dad please buy me
a pack of firecrackers dad buys this pack
firecrackers we naturally with classmates
have a lot of fun exploding in school
then I think that even a little in the hands of buy
me please one more pack of firecrackers she
burning no hand tear off what am i
plunged games grandma grandmother shirt
please come with me
buy firecrackers number then go to all my
mosquito pocket money we bought a hundred
packs of firecrackers
so I got 1 illegal business
school bought to 5 sold at 10 this
was the year 2000 and at that time I per month
earned more than my mom on
ambulance and you know this pvc
but it’s necessary for everyone
children 4 or 44 years old when you take
hand and say yes let’s try and here
grandmothers happiness seems to me
laid into consideration to the children afterwards
in attention grandson once she got me
I took my hand and rode with me, lady
today grandma 86 though she works
in production with everyone but I take her
the lock
when it burns i’m tired i can’t u
I am all sick Jagr grandmother brought to you
wig new glasses and let’s go with you and me
photo shoots and that at the moment it passes all
already flies and grabs the guitar and she already
posing she catches from this buzz in
everyday life I regularly
confronted with fail no
impossible and therefore understand how important
be the link that says yes and
be the link that doesn’t interrupt
chain and when you answered yes that’s it
gives rise to responsibility and you move
from just being attentive to
to act together if i
the child said
mom, let’s play store what am I
do i go go get the narva leaves
first available goods around the house and
I start playing I do not carry the children’s world for
free cashier
This is not a question of a resource. This is a question.
involvement attention coexistence
with your child in the process
there is no how there is no scale know how often
they say if you don’t have that much
funds and perhaps not worth starting no
certificates of maturity to play
shop with a child so if you
no start-up capital for business
the idea is your task comrades to go
assemble a prototype of candy wrappers like me
once collected it in the village and go
test no time to wait for the best
circumstances and big money baby
growing today like the village she lives
today now and often our muddy
internal checklist does not allow us with
you make these simple important ones
things because often people feel
losers
when some circumstances change
and often we unfortunately
underestimate how important one is
little private story
for some reason in society there is always a threshold
acceptance of social assessment recognition
contribution why are you building a playground
in the village where there are only 10 children
told me people built it with us in
neighboring villages there are more children
And the effect will be more and I know it is important
private story important to me the eyes of those
whose children I see every day is
focus attention know that moment
when you still see the personality
when these individuals have not yet become a mob
because at this very moment
stereotypes are born and mistrust is still
one story
absolutely beautiful I think
in general, we sit in the summer in all this
turmoil in the village of the welder no concert
the daughter asked to buy a circle in the city
Krasnoufimsk I found only two
small town here was a ramp and was
I bought a dinosaur she presented very
rejoices says thank you thank you and here
bedtime at bedtime and in
some moment we hear such a clap and
then I understand that my dad has just
came from the apiary probably went
swim in the pool well, just because
I need a hot dip and I was right
you know dad went swimming in the pool
he comes to blame and generally not at all
without delay says adele adele know here
such a thing is your cattle today
came to you
you know he was reborn he became a butterfly and
flew away and tomorrow he will return as a dinosaur
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I walk quietly to daddy playing daddy
you know 55 and the reality is a little bit
far from yours can tell you
tell the man the truth
dad hesitates for a long time already
probably the child will cry in that
fits and falls with other you know i
Now I tell you the truth, I’m sorry
please here I am the grid came to save not
was so hot i climbed the pool he saw
your circle but says I sat on it in the shopping center
forces here many of these wings says
I was so cool and at some point
says you know he has this eye
so pouting and ka-ak dolbanet
Well, in general, Adel, your circle hangs on
the fence
I ‘ll buy you a dinosaur tomorrow what
distance exhales creed well coupe
please new without crying without
nothing, that is, she was very important
feel the truth and in general it
the story describes everything
happens we have around you honest
true stories she is always more honest
funnier for her you can make a movie for
this does not need invented locks and
scenery and with the village behind the glossy
a picture of a girl who succeeded
there is a downside
answer the question why be honest
be able to recognize your weaknesses
mistakes we can with you as much as you like
to fantasize but not always able
accept reality as it is
there is a reality actually contains in
imagine a million chances of creative talent
cool story you just need to watch
here you are, how do you like this photo
ilon mask you know it is about fifty
sixty back and this snowmobile
it’s not because there was an engineering competition
thoughts accelerators money invested a
just because there is no school road 4
kilometer blizzard and wolves are after all about
work and about love and about life and love
what is it actually this is not a word
has a standard visual range y
all you heart mom dad me
beloved family yes we are all with you
We understand that for each picture that
we imagine another imagines
another reality so here for me
love this attention is when you hold
eyes and heart open sometime in
right moment you say yes if love
mutual, your actions and your ode
have a lot going on here today i’m
Adele play in a restaurant or in a shop
I know that tomorrow she will serve
guests in the restaurant in the ear tour and will
very proud of it understand it as
circles on the water here threw a stone and after
there remains a trace of you and yesterday on
wedding anniversary
my dad gave mom 31 he sucked them
planted on the very land of 20 hectares
where they once collected mushrooms and through
20-30 years under these pines
will go mushrooming their great-grandchildren
we often make plans about what
it would be necessary like that
change this world number starts
change from a small circle
if i pay attention if i love
if i care about my neighbor then i
I get up now and start acting
I take my hand and I already went and everything
equal if I have the resources for it if
I have money for it if I have connections
the end and therefore the environment starts
change is changing my house is changing my
family is changing my village and changing
my country look around at its
children of parents of neighbors just say
Yes thank you
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