everybody wants to be successful but
virtually nobody understands that
success is a path it’s a process it’s
not a finish line it’s not something
that you do once and then you finish it
is literally the systematic acquisition
of skills and a Scott Adam says every
skill you acquire doubles your odds of
success and that’s it that’s the secret
if you really want to do something in
your life if you really want to be great
if you want to smash it if you want to
be remembered the key is to acquire as
many skills as you can because
everything you bring into your world
gives you an exponentially greater
chance of winning of doing the thing
that you want to do but you have to be
totally focused and committed on gaining
those skills and is the rock pointed out
success at anything will always come
down to this focus and effort and we
control both once you understand that
that’s what you have to do you have to
get control of yourself you have to stay
focused on something you have to learn
the discipline and apply it on your path
to success to acquire the skills that
you want to acquire that it is going to
demand of you that you work harder you
work smarter and you work longer than
anybody else and that’s the fucking
secret there really is no grand mystery
if you want to be successful do you want
to do something other people can’t do
then you have to become capable of the
extraordinary you have to become capable
of doing something that other people
that is the best possible news I could
give you
because it doesn’t matter what you’re
born with it doesn’t even matter who you
are what matters is who you want to
become and the price that you’re willing
to pay to get there and let me tell you
this the price is known and that price
is the acquisition of skills that price
is getting so good that people can
ignore you that price is being able to
beat anyone at the game that you’ve
chosen to play once you get to that
point once people stand back in awe when
they watch what you’re doing then you
will have won then success will be yours
but it was in no uncertain terms the
result of the past that you walked and
is Angela Duckworth notes enthusiasm is
common but endurance is rare so when you
sneak out that first lead when you get
ahead of people and you think hey I’ve
acquired the skill I’ve done something
people are looking at me like I can’t be
stopped remember that right now at this
moment someone is practicing well you’re
not doing the thing that you need to be
doing while you’re sitting back in your
law very happy with what you’ve
accomplished somebody else is going to
eat your lunch because they have a
passion and enthusiasm that endures and
at the end of the day if you can want
something so badly if you fucking burn
from the inside to do something to
become something to become capable of
more then you will endure it then you’ll
be able to push past other people then
when other people break and they lie in
your weight you will push forward
because that fucking thing in you that
you have cultivated is the ability to
endure it is not the ability to be a
badass it is not the ability to think
that you’re cool it is the ability to
kick your own ass to deal with what is
boring to live in the pain to step
towards anguish to know that suffering
is a choice and you choose to turn it
off because you know on the other side
on the other side of endurance on the
other side of outlasting everybody else
got to be able to take on some
disappointment in life to not always is
everything going to go I’m going to go
well so you just have to roll with the
[Music]
it was hard ladies and gentlemen and I
was facing financial difficulties in my
own life I was behind on my bills and my
dreams and I’m saying to them you can
live your dream it was hard ladies and
gentlemen it was very difficult to pick
myself up each day believing when I can
do it there were times that I doubted
myself I say God why why is this
happening to me
it was very hard and here’s what I want
to say to you for those of you that have
experienced some hardships don’t give up
on your dream if you’re always winning
and you don’t really understand what it
is the wind you got to take those losses
you got to take those hits there’s got
to be the values the peaks to UPS the
Downs in order for you to when it does
happen you go WOW and people know this
is what it’s all about and not only that
it’s never about making it guys it’s
always about maintaining that’s the
toughest part you know and a lot of
people have that they’re scared they’re
scared of failure I can’t be more scared
I think people lack self-esteem but
failure is one of the most important
things you could ever have as far as
like the motivation to do things
differently one of the reasons why I’m
good at work is because I’ve been a
worker in the past and I know the the
feeling of failure even when we lose
it’s okay to lose you can have a gate
home so I really had two failures before
I succeeded with GoPro how those
failures drive you today well the time
they scared me and failure isn’t easy it
wasn’t like I thought oh cool I failed
and success has taught me that one of
the most important things an
entrepreneur can have is perseverance
the dedication a willingness to fail
pick yourself up again and give another
shot because if you don’t have that if
you don’t have that grit you’re gonna
get run over
it’s the reinforcement of those goals
like understanding that you can achieve
those goals it’s going to be difficult
you’re going to push through the
difficulty and then you can understand
what difficulty truly is and how much of
it is just mental how much of it is just
in your mind this adversity to to
difficult tasks or to struggle fail so
[Music]
[Applause]
I’ve been selfish parents with my family
keep birth I’m still standing I got
rejected a couple times and then I just
kept asking and asking and asking I
remember my dad saying just stick with
it someday you’ll have your day and and
then I came back I think two years later
and finally got an agent differential of
somebody winning and losing has nothing
to do with their genetics has nothing to
do with the potential it’s our
perseverance always showing up person
who’s willing to gamble to show up in
your chance don’t show up the outcome
syndrome never there in audition if you
choked me all this room there’s a chance
you might get the part if you do scare
to show up and you sit back at home
wondering what ethanol am no one that
hell’s going to call you an opportunity
because you weren’t present the winners
always show up they’re willing to lose
in order to gain big mental thing
they’re guys everyone could take action
literally if it’s that simple if all it
takes to succeed is the ability to know
what you want take action NORs what’s
working and keep changing until you get
what you want how come everybody doesn’t
do it you collect and you give it all
you had if you lose at least you try I
fail is 10 times more of a man and so on
said what is because what it never went
to the original the reason it’s fear and
the fear is usually fear of failure or
success or rejection but the real word I
would use for this thing we’re afraid of
is pain when you guys find a fear that
gear or either creates you or destroy
you I
here’s why behind every spear is a
person you want to be fear is
self-imposed meaning it doesn’t exist
you create it you can destroy it – it’s
an intangible if you face your fears
guys you’ll realize it’s not that big
you stay safe years you become the
person you want to be you run from your
fears do not live your life but you’re
not beginning for freedom today they’ve
running you you always be the problem
servant not the master guys you find a
fear the quickest easiest way you can be
initially I when it comes with your
mounts it will grow roots start breaking
you down destroy the potential a person
you can be again a champions guys it’s
not the potential and not their genetics
if their perseverance are always show up
always willing to fail them failure as
part of success success is not you know
a marathon of life with just ups success
is formulated through failures through
facing your fears through falling down
and getting back up that’s what creates
the champion success does not define us
we define a success shame failure
embarrassment and I just remember
feeling this tremendous shame and at
some point I think we all hit that
moment in life where things just are not
going how you thought they would go and
and what’s amazing about those moments
is we all respond very differently first
our beer
nothing worthwhile is easy no one of
achievement has avoided failure
sometimes catastrophic failures take you
paddock we learn from the safe niche
the second restaurant failed and they
held on to it for too long so by the
time that they closed the second
restaurant was an $800,000 loss and so I
found myself at the age of 41 right
feeling like a complete failure I’m not
done yet and I got more in me when you
come up with excuses for why other
people are successful you’re not that’s
it’s dangerous we all go through hard
times we all go through depression you
all do go through doubt and moments in
your life where it’s really difficult
when you’re trying to figure out what
your path is going to be the tarnished
but pay is what makes you a person those
difficult moments are would build your
character every transformation always
gets worse before it gets better
it’s supposed to be later journey you’re
embarking on not even path now the L
part is admit me to the strong people
or your father’s journey mentally you
have to prepare yourself for it no one
is going to get worse before it gets
better
when you buck this journey you must know
that it’s going to go down before it
comes up when it comes up it’s going
goes so much higher than you’ve ever
been sacrificing today for tomorrow’s
betterment you have to be equip mentally
to endure this process knowing what
you’re about to go into a step one no
one it’s an uphill battle but a winnable
one and one that achievable at the end
of this race guys you’re going to be
more capable the first step guys is
knowing it’s a tough road but through
that effort Gill’s the care for the
person you want to be at the end consept
that if you believe it your body
physically will find a way to make it
happen at some point we all bought into
this lie that you’ve got to feel ready
in order to change we bought into this
this complete falsehood that at some
point you’re going to have courage at
some point you’re going to have a
confidence and it’s total bullshit right
it’s complete garbage and so there are
so many people in the world and you know
you may be watching this right now and
you have these incredible ideas and what
you think is missing is motivation and
it’s not true because the way that our
minds are wired and the fact about human
being
is that we are not designed to do things
that are uncomfortable or scary or
difficult what was the baseline between
it’s not that simple mine
now that’s the biggest liars in time
it’s not that simple
and so why they tell you over and over
again what’s not simple anyway all right
Saturday you give up and say it’s like
that single day so what’s the truth that
list and if you just do the thing that
they tell you you can’t then it’s done
and you realize it is that simple
and always was dr. Khanna had a TA I can
tell you fell for me then you should son
I’m sorry to say you’re not going to box
again and I looked up I said no dr.
Carter you’re wrong I am going to box
again so you don’t understand what kind
of man I am
you’re here right now at this moment
because tomorrow you want to be somebody
greater than the person you are today
you see yourself succeeding
you have a vision you have a dream
congratulations you’re already ten steps
imagine if Michael Jordan was scared of
missing he would have never taken a shot
imagine if Steve Jobs was afraid of
people not liking its product there
would be no iPhone so ask yourself this
do you want to be a person who fears
failure or do you want to be a person
who loves success which one is your
gonna have to pick today and I’ll tell
you one thing one is a failure and one
is a success and if you love success
there is nothing that can stop you all
those negative things people say will
mean nothing they’re going to talk about
how only 1% make it to the top big deal
want to know something else only 1%
stick with that fitness program long
enough to see results only 1% of nerds
stick with that video game long enough
to get good at it only 1% of
relationships stick it out to the end
that doesn’t mean you have a 1% chance
it just means you can’t behave like the
99% you’ll have to do something better
than giving up a month from now those
are just numbers you want to talk about
numbers take a look around you and take
a good look around you are you like 99%
of the people around you if you are then
you’re in the wrong video my friend you
have to love success just as much
because that’s going to allow you to get
up and go furry being scared to fail
won’t do anything in fact when you love
success and you start going for it guess
what happens you’re gonna fail you’re
going to fail 10 times a hundred times
maybe even a thousand times but that’s
okay failure isn’t permanent falling
isn’t permanent
you get right back up and keep going and
this time you’re going to be stronger
wiser and you’ll be more driven than
ever and for every ten failures you’ll
land one success you have to love
success so much that you’re willing to
fail ten times before you can succeed
once that’s how a winner does it I want
to explain the biggest myth that most
people think leads them to success and
here’s the myth you might believe if
you’re scared to fail you won’t fail
[Music]
lies biggest myth ever and I believed it
you see I always thought that being
scared to fail in life would literally
keep me from failing I would look at the
losers around me and I would say sheesh
I never want to turn out like him I
really believe this train of thought
would help me succeed until one day I
was walking down the street and I saw an
old man had a hat suspenders and a cane
was about 80 years old this old man was
barely walking he could walk but the
cane helped a lot he was struggling so
anyway he was walking across the street
and he ended up falling so I went over
to go help him and he gets up says thank
you and we introduced ourselves had a
little conversation told me his name and
I told of mine his name was Robert by
the way and right as he walked away I
told him this is what I said Robert you
should stay inside where it’s safe my
friend and Robert turns around and says
to me I love walking and I love walking
way more than I’m afraid of falling so I
asked him well what about your safety
don’t you want to live
and he told me this these are the exact
words he said he said this solo living
means doing what you love to do and if I
had to fall here and there to do what I
want to do in life and so be it and he
just walked away never saw him again
that was it but that statement really
had me thinking and it had me thinking
hard because I learned something that
day
that’s when I realized the true key to
success see I always thought if I could
just fear the act of failing and if I
fear it like crazy I will succeed
because I thought the fear would
magically motivate me to get out there
and start taking action but after that
day I realized something I realize it’s
the love for success that will lead me
to succeeding so just imagine if Robert
feared falling would he even start
walking of course not
he wouldn’t even do what he loved to do
he would sit at home and take no type of
action but he loved walking wasn’t even
scared to fall he gave him life that’s
what allowed him to get up and do it
he loved walking so much he was willing
to fall 10 times a day
just to do it
and you have to be the same so the next
time someone tells you you’re gonna fail
you know what you tell them tell them
they’re right but you’re not afraid of
fail you’re not afraid to take action
you’re not afraid to jump you’re gonna
fail ten times but you know what it’s
cool because on the 11th time you’ll
succeed
oh you’ll succeed alright and it’ll feel
good and while you’re over here living
the life of your dreams and complete
happiness guess where they’re going to
be that’s right
they’ll be failures the real failures
over there where it’s safe
scared to fail ironic isn’t it
the one commodity that is most valuable
on this earth is time time to love time
to live from the moment the human body
is born it began dying come pick you
your clay content let me see it again
from the moment the human body is born
it begins dying some happens faster some
happens slower
some of us help them have to go faster
some of them prevent it from happening
sorter then later how many seconds how
many minutes do we waste every day doing
things that are nowhere near the goals
and aspirations and passions that we
have inside
how many times you go through the course
of a day and realize did I do anything I
set out to do today write down those
goals each and every day no matter
there’s two goals a day if you can
accomplish those then you’re doing more
than just making it through the day you
are living and achieving your dream find
time to better yourself read explore
research live life do things you’ve
never thought of doing but more that’s
what it’s all about
when you’re born that’s that date that
they put on the left side of the
tombstone when you die they put another
date on the right side of the tombstone
but that – in the middle is the most
important thing on that tombstone that
is a line that you out that entire time
frame you were able to impact and touch
others long you were able to leave your
mark on this earth you were able to feel
the legacy that nobody could change you
were able to have it to where people
remember who you are no matter what when
you’re living for that – in the middle
you’re going to remember your why your
why while you’re here
not not – why why why did you do
something you’re why you’re your reason
for getting up in the morning your
reason for pushing yourself past the
brink of exertion and giving up your
reason for moving on and getting things
done in life that – in the middle that’s
how do you rate yourself on a scale of
one to ten in terms of your physical
appearance in terms of your health do
you take care of yourself are you
allowing yourself to get overweight and
out of shape are you conscious of your
health are you watching the food that
you take into your body do you make a
deliberate effort to exercise you know
it was George Burns is that we cannot
help getting older but we don’t have to
get old and many of us get old before
our time because we don’t take time to
take care of ourselves your environment
is a very good indicator on a scale of
one to ten is it what you want it to be
do you find it desirable are you
satisfied the job a career that you’re
involved in someone said that 85% of the
American public unhappy with their job
are you spending eight hours a day just
doing time doing something that you
don’t find challenging but does not make
you sketch mentally but does not
stimulate you that does not inspire you
something that you don’t find a sense of
fulfillment in it if you’re doing that
day in and day out it has to affect how
you feel about yourself your level of
motivation
what kind of impact is that having on
your life is it nourishing more than a
toxic relationship does it drain you or
does it build you up ask yourself that
how motivated are you to do something
about it
your contribution your actions what are
you giving many people will leave the
universe without a train no one will
know they were here and in fact under
their name we could put under they’re
not used up will anybody know that you
came this way what contribution are you
giving what will you leave what will be
different because you came this way just
just stop for a second write down your
why
what are you doing this for in life if
your why doesn’t make you cry that’s not
your wife again if your why doesn’t make
you cry then that’s not your why your
why should be something so big that it
moves your family tree your why should
be something so big that it changes the
whole outlook on how things are with you
and your home your family your religion
think about your passion
think about your opportunity and that’s
how you find your purpose OPP when that
why meets up with your passion your
opportunity your purpose then you’ll
find out the most important day in your
life is the day you remember why you were born
virtually nobody understands that
success is a path it’s a process it’s
not a finish line it’s not something
that you do once and then you finish it
is literally the systematic acquisition
of skills and a Scott Adam says every
skill you acquire doubles your odds of
success and that’s it that’s the secret
if you really want to do something in
your life if you really want to be great
if you want to smash it if you want to
be remembered the key is to acquire as
many skills as you can because
everything you bring into your world
gives you an exponentially greater
chance of winning of doing the thing
that you want to do but you have to be
totally focused and committed on gaining
those skills and is the rock pointed out
success at anything will always come
down to this focus and effort and we
control both once you understand that
that’s what you have to do you have to
get control of yourself you have to stay
focused on something you have to learn
the discipline and apply it on your path
to success to acquire the skills that
you want to acquire that it is going to
demand of you that you work harder you
work smarter and you work longer than
anybody else and that’s the fucking
secret there really is no grand mystery
if you want to be successful do you want
to do something other people can’t do
then you have to become capable of the
extraordinary you have to become capable
of doing something that other people
that is the best possible news I could
give you
because it doesn’t matter what you’re
born with it doesn’t even matter who you
are what matters is who you want to
become and the price that you’re willing
to pay to get there and let me tell you
this the price is known and that price
is the acquisition of skills that price
is getting so good that people can
ignore you that price is being able to
beat anyone at the game that you’ve
chosen to play once you get to that
point once people stand back in awe when
they watch what you’re doing then you
will have won then success will be yours
but it was in no uncertain terms the
result of the past that you walked and
is Angela Duckworth notes enthusiasm is
common but endurance is rare so when you
sneak out that first lead when you get
ahead of people and you think hey I’ve
acquired the skill I’ve done something
people are looking at me like I can’t be
stopped remember that right now at this
moment someone is practicing well you’re
not doing the thing that you need to be
doing while you’re sitting back in your
law very happy with what you’ve
accomplished somebody else is going to
eat your lunch because they have a
passion and enthusiasm that endures and
at the end of the day if you can want
something so badly if you fucking burn
from the inside to do something to
become something to become capable of
more then you will endure it then you’ll
be able to push past other people then
when other people break and they lie in
your weight you will push forward
because that fucking thing in you that
you have cultivated is the ability to
endure it is not the ability to be a
badass it is not the ability to think
that you’re cool it is the ability to
kick your own ass to deal with what is
boring to live in the pain to step
towards anguish to know that suffering
is a choice and you choose to turn it
off because you know on the other side
on the other side of endurance on the
other side of outlasting everybody else
got to be able to take on some
disappointment in life to not always is
everything going to go I’m going to go
well so you just have to roll with the
[Music]
it was hard ladies and gentlemen and I
was facing financial difficulties in my
own life I was behind on my bills and my
dreams and I’m saying to them you can
live your dream it was hard ladies and
gentlemen it was very difficult to pick
myself up each day believing when I can
do it there were times that I doubted
myself I say God why why is this
happening to me
it was very hard and here’s what I want
to say to you for those of you that have
experienced some hardships don’t give up
on your dream if you’re always winning
and you don’t really understand what it
is the wind you got to take those losses
you got to take those hits there’s got
to be the values the peaks to UPS the
Downs in order for you to when it does
happen you go WOW and people know this
is what it’s all about and not only that
it’s never about making it guys it’s
always about maintaining that’s the
toughest part you know and a lot of
people have that they’re scared they’re
scared of failure I can’t be more scared
I think people lack self-esteem but
failure is one of the most important
things you could ever have as far as
like the motivation to do things
differently one of the reasons why I’m
good at work is because I’ve been a
worker in the past and I know the the
feeling of failure even when we lose
it’s okay to lose you can have a gate
home so I really had two failures before
I succeeded with GoPro how those
failures drive you today well the time
they scared me and failure isn’t easy it
wasn’t like I thought oh cool I failed
and success has taught me that one of
the most important things an
entrepreneur can have is perseverance
the dedication a willingness to fail
pick yourself up again and give another
shot because if you don’t have that if
you don’t have that grit you’re gonna
get run over
it’s the reinforcement of those goals
like understanding that you can achieve
those goals it’s going to be difficult
you’re going to push through the
difficulty and then you can understand
what difficulty truly is and how much of
it is just mental how much of it is just
in your mind this adversity to to
difficult tasks or to struggle fail so
[Music]
[Applause]
I’ve been selfish parents with my family
keep birth I’m still standing I got
rejected a couple times and then I just
kept asking and asking and asking I
remember my dad saying just stick with
it someday you’ll have your day and and
then I came back I think two years later
and finally got an agent differential of
somebody winning and losing has nothing
to do with their genetics has nothing to
do with the potential it’s our
perseverance always showing up person
who’s willing to gamble to show up in
your chance don’t show up the outcome
syndrome never there in audition if you
choked me all this room there’s a chance
you might get the part if you do scare
to show up and you sit back at home
wondering what ethanol am no one that
hell’s going to call you an opportunity
because you weren’t present the winners
always show up they’re willing to lose
in order to gain big mental thing
they’re guys everyone could take action
literally if it’s that simple if all it
takes to succeed is the ability to know
what you want take action NORs what’s
working and keep changing until you get
what you want how come everybody doesn’t
do it you collect and you give it all
you had if you lose at least you try I
fail is 10 times more of a man and so on
said what is because what it never went
to the original the reason it’s fear and
the fear is usually fear of failure or
success or rejection but the real word I
would use for this thing we’re afraid of
is pain when you guys find a fear that
gear or either creates you or destroy
you I
here’s why behind every spear is a
person you want to be fear is
self-imposed meaning it doesn’t exist
you create it you can destroy it – it’s
an intangible if you face your fears
guys you’ll realize it’s not that big
you stay safe years you become the
person you want to be you run from your
fears do not live your life but you’re
not beginning for freedom today they’ve
running you you always be the problem
servant not the master guys you find a
fear the quickest easiest way you can be
initially I when it comes with your
mounts it will grow roots start breaking
you down destroy the potential a person
you can be again a champions guys it’s
not the potential and not their genetics
if their perseverance are always show up
always willing to fail them failure as
part of success success is not you know
a marathon of life with just ups success
is formulated through failures through
facing your fears through falling down
and getting back up that’s what creates
the champion success does not define us
we define a success shame failure
embarrassment and I just remember
feeling this tremendous shame and at
some point I think we all hit that
moment in life where things just are not
going how you thought they would go and
and what’s amazing about those moments
is we all respond very differently first
our beer
nothing worthwhile is easy no one of
achievement has avoided failure
sometimes catastrophic failures take you
paddock we learn from the safe niche
the second restaurant failed and they
held on to it for too long so by the
time that they closed the second
restaurant was an $800,000 loss and so I
found myself at the age of 41 right
feeling like a complete failure I’m not
done yet and I got more in me when you
come up with excuses for why other
people are successful you’re not that’s
it’s dangerous we all go through hard
times we all go through depression you
all do go through doubt and moments in
your life where it’s really difficult
when you’re trying to figure out what
your path is going to be the tarnished
but pay is what makes you a person those
difficult moments are would build your
character every transformation always
gets worse before it gets better
it’s supposed to be later journey you’re
embarking on not even path now the L
part is admit me to the strong people
or your father’s journey mentally you
have to prepare yourself for it no one
is going to get worse before it gets
better
when you buck this journey you must know
that it’s going to go down before it
comes up when it comes up it’s going
goes so much higher than you’ve ever
been sacrificing today for tomorrow’s
betterment you have to be equip mentally
to endure this process knowing what
you’re about to go into a step one no
one it’s an uphill battle but a winnable
one and one that achievable at the end
of this race guys you’re going to be
more capable the first step guys is
knowing it’s a tough road but through
that effort Gill’s the care for the
person you want to be at the end consept
that if you believe it your body
physically will find a way to make it
happen at some point we all bought into
this lie that you’ve got to feel ready
in order to change we bought into this
this complete falsehood that at some
point you’re going to have courage at
some point you’re going to have a
confidence and it’s total bullshit right
it’s complete garbage and so there are
so many people in the world and you know
you may be watching this right now and
you have these incredible ideas and what
you think is missing is motivation and
it’s not true because the way that our
minds are wired and the fact about human
being
is that we are not designed to do things
that are uncomfortable or scary or
difficult what was the baseline between
it’s not that simple mine
now that’s the biggest liars in time
it’s not that simple
and so why they tell you over and over
again what’s not simple anyway all right
Saturday you give up and say it’s like
that single day so what’s the truth that
list and if you just do the thing that
they tell you you can’t then it’s done
and you realize it is that simple
and always was dr. Khanna had a TA I can
tell you fell for me then you should son
I’m sorry to say you’re not going to box
again and I looked up I said no dr.
Carter you’re wrong I am going to box
again so you don’t understand what kind
of man I am
you’re here right now at this moment
because tomorrow you want to be somebody
greater than the person you are today
you see yourself succeeding
you have a vision you have a dream
congratulations you’re already ten steps
imagine if Michael Jordan was scared of
missing he would have never taken a shot
imagine if Steve Jobs was afraid of
people not liking its product there
would be no iPhone so ask yourself this
do you want to be a person who fears
failure or do you want to be a person
who loves success which one is your
gonna have to pick today and I’ll tell
you one thing one is a failure and one
is a success and if you love success
there is nothing that can stop you all
those negative things people say will
mean nothing they’re going to talk about
how only 1% make it to the top big deal
want to know something else only 1%
stick with that fitness program long
enough to see results only 1% of nerds
stick with that video game long enough
to get good at it only 1% of
relationships stick it out to the end
that doesn’t mean you have a 1% chance
it just means you can’t behave like the
99% you’ll have to do something better
than giving up a month from now those
are just numbers you want to talk about
numbers take a look around you and take
a good look around you are you like 99%
of the people around you if you are then
you’re in the wrong video my friend you
have to love success just as much
because that’s going to allow you to get
up and go furry being scared to fail
won’t do anything in fact when you love
success and you start going for it guess
what happens you’re gonna fail you’re
going to fail 10 times a hundred times
maybe even a thousand times but that’s
okay failure isn’t permanent falling
isn’t permanent
you get right back up and keep going and
this time you’re going to be stronger
wiser and you’ll be more driven than
ever and for every ten failures you’ll
land one success you have to love
success so much that you’re willing to
fail ten times before you can succeed
once that’s how a winner does it I want
to explain the biggest myth that most
people think leads them to success and
here’s the myth you might believe if
you’re scared to fail you won’t fail
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lies biggest myth ever and I believed it
you see I always thought that being
scared to fail in life would literally
keep me from failing I would look at the
losers around me and I would say sheesh
I never want to turn out like him I
really believe this train of thought
would help me succeed until one day I
was walking down the street and I saw an
old man had a hat suspenders and a cane
was about 80 years old this old man was
barely walking he could walk but the
cane helped a lot he was struggling so
anyway he was walking across the street
and he ended up falling so I went over
to go help him and he gets up says thank
you and we introduced ourselves had a
little conversation told me his name and
I told of mine his name was Robert by
the way and right as he walked away I
told him this is what I said Robert you
should stay inside where it’s safe my
friend and Robert turns around and says
to me I love walking and I love walking
way more than I’m afraid of falling so I
asked him well what about your safety
don’t you want to live
and he told me this these are the exact
words he said he said this solo living
means doing what you love to do and if I
had to fall here and there to do what I
want to do in life and so be it and he
just walked away never saw him again
that was it but that statement really
had me thinking and it had me thinking
hard because I learned something that
day
that’s when I realized the true key to
success see I always thought if I could
just fear the act of failing and if I
fear it like crazy I will succeed
because I thought the fear would
magically motivate me to get out there
and start taking action but after that
day I realized something I realize it’s
the love for success that will lead me
to succeeding so just imagine if Robert
feared falling would he even start
walking of course not
he wouldn’t even do what he loved to do
he would sit at home and take no type of
action but he loved walking wasn’t even
scared to fall he gave him life that’s
what allowed him to get up and do it
he loved walking so much he was willing
to fall 10 times a day
just to do it
and you have to be the same so the next
time someone tells you you’re gonna fail
you know what you tell them tell them
they’re right but you’re not afraid of
fail you’re not afraid to take action
you’re not afraid to jump you’re gonna
fail ten times but you know what it’s
cool because on the 11th time you’ll
succeed
oh you’ll succeed alright and it’ll feel
good and while you’re over here living
the life of your dreams and complete
happiness guess where they’re going to
be that’s right
they’ll be failures the real failures
over there where it’s safe
scared to fail ironic isn’t it
the one commodity that is most valuable
on this earth is time time to love time
to live from the moment the human body
is born it began dying come pick you
your clay content let me see it again
from the moment the human body is born
it begins dying some happens faster some
happens slower
some of us help them have to go faster
some of them prevent it from happening
sorter then later how many seconds how
many minutes do we waste every day doing
things that are nowhere near the goals
and aspirations and passions that we
have inside
how many times you go through the course
of a day and realize did I do anything I
set out to do today write down those
goals each and every day no matter
there’s two goals a day if you can
accomplish those then you’re doing more
than just making it through the day you
are living and achieving your dream find
time to better yourself read explore
research live life do things you’ve
never thought of doing but more that’s
what it’s all about
when you’re born that’s that date that
they put on the left side of the
tombstone when you die they put another
date on the right side of the tombstone
but that – in the middle is the most
important thing on that tombstone that
is a line that you out that entire time
frame you were able to impact and touch
others long you were able to leave your
mark on this earth you were able to feel
the legacy that nobody could change you
were able to have it to where people
remember who you are no matter what when
you’re living for that – in the middle
you’re going to remember your why your
why while you’re here
not not – why why why did you do
something you’re why you’re your reason
for getting up in the morning your
reason for pushing yourself past the
brink of exertion and giving up your
reason for moving on and getting things
done in life that – in the middle that’s
how do you rate yourself on a scale of
one to ten in terms of your physical
appearance in terms of your health do
you take care of yourself are you
allowing yourself to get overweight and
out of shape are you conscious of your
health are you watching the food that
you take into your body do you make a
deliberate effort to exercise you know
it was George Burns is that we cannot
help getting older but we don’t have to
get old and many of us get old before
our time because we don’t take time to
take care of ourselves your environment
is a very good indicator on a scale of
one to ten is it what you want it to be
do you find it desirable are you
satisfied the job a career that you’re
involved in someone said that 85% of the
American public unhappy with their job
are you spending eight hours a day just
doing time doing something that you
don’t find challenging but does not make
you sketch mentally but does not
stimulate you that does not inspire you
something that you don’t find a sense of
fulfillment in it if you’re doing that
day in and day out it has to affect how
you feel about yourself your level of
motivation
what kind of impact is that having on
your life is it nourishing more than a
toxic relationship does it drain you or
does it build you up ask yourself that
how motivated are you to do something
about it
your contribution your actions what are
you giving many people will leave the
universe without a train no one will
know they were here and in fact under
their name we could put under they’re
not used up will anybody know that you
came this way what contribution are you
giving what will you leave what will be
different because you came this way just
just stop for a second write down your
why
what are you doing this for in life if
your why doesn’t make you cry that’s not
your wife again if your why doesn’t make
you cry then that’s not your why your
why should be something so big that it
moves your family tree your why should
be something so big that it changes the
whole outlook on how things are with you
and your home your family your religion
think about your passion
think about your opportunity and that’s
how you find your purpose OPP when that
why meets up with your passion your
opportunity your purpose then you’ll
find out the most important day in your
life is the day you remember why you were born
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