Lovers who have spent time together
They tend to be angry because of things that seem trivial and ridiculous.
Even if he is a restless person, he may succumb to very sensitive things about his partner’s simple habits
He loses his temper quickly because of it:
Such as loud and annoying splitting on the chopping board
Or do not wear the seatbelt until after the car is turned on
As for their line, it is not possible to distinguish between literal (h) and (b)
They squeeze the toothpaste in the wrong way (by pressing the top of the paste instead of the bottom)
And use the word (tragic) when they mean (sad), and leave the treasury open,
When they drink a glass of water, they do not drink it completely, but they always pour the last drops of the cup into the kitchen sink.
Our reactions to these things may seem rather violent.
It may provoke us so hard that we are mad,
In moments of calm, we may wonder how we have left such ridiculous things to be very angry.
Instead of pretending to ourselves that we were just fools at the time (although of course we all have good hearts)
We must devote our thinking and time to the logic of the small things that irritate us.
The small and annoying order is often a sign of a larger order
It is in fact an important and non-visible problem in the relationship.
Nevertheless, it is difficult for us to really discover the real problem
Let’s take a little rest and focus well on the cause of the actual problem.
Funny that we are in turn very geniuses regarding simple things outside of our personal lives,
Specifically in the arts
At university, when we write an accurate article on the meaning of the sun being sold at Van Gogh, the blue color was very important to Picasso.
We are very smart with respect to these artists.
We do not think they were fools to get angry because of the little things.
We are horrified to try to discover what the details mean.
We must take a lesson from this patient approach
We care about the small details of our emotional life
Some artists also took care of the details of their paintings.
With regard to the annoying cutting on the cutting board,
No potential damage to wood is important.
We can manage the cost of replacing the board with another within a year or so.
But our partner’s strenuous attempt (as we see it) is only a very small moment in which we see what is bigger and more problematic.
Such as rudeness, cruelty and lack of restraint.
But we are not afraid of this aspect of their lives in general, but as far as we are concerned,
The real fear is that we will not realize they are injuring us.
Fear is not on the chopping board, but on us.
As for the seat belt, the real problem may be related to influence.
We’ve always learned to tie the seatbelts before you turn on the car.
And we obeyed. We have learned to do the “right thing”.
So why do they think they can break the rules?
What is this vanity and feeling that they are different?
These tiny, petty details about the seatbelts are of greater concern:
Will my partner someday understand the fear of doing something wrong and sympathize generously with it?
“Will he stop feeling that he is above the law?”
As well as other important issues are evident everywhere.
The few drops that your partner empties spontaneously from the cup
It has nothing to do with extravagance
(These droplets may fill only one bath during your entire life)
But the fear is that they might treat us the same way
And without thinking after they have lost the most beautiful years of our lives get rid of us.
As for writing, we find their beautiful comments on the kitchen table every Saturday morning:
“Going to buy bread”
(Which means if we decipher the code miraculously: going to buy a head)
And this does not really bother us, * Bread and head may be confused the first letter of them (b / h) in English if written badly *
But we resent the fact that they are not worried that we do not understand them. Nestle (which means this little detail)
Because they do not bother to be clear with us.
We see in the observation a life full of misunderstanding and loneliness.
So, we are right about our concern.
The problem is how we deal with stress.
We will simply not be complacent.
But the proverb will shift our emotion and concern away from the small example – the symbol –
Towards the essence of our complaint, which we will pay attention to, sympathy and a sense of humor.
When the real problem arises in our relationship,
Facilitates coexistence with disturbing details,
Often because our partner will not be indifferent to our obvious concerns.
With the most dangerous of these symbols, which we explained their contents encrypted,
Love remains a greater opportunity to become reciprocal, flowing with peace and security.
Translation: team translate @autrjim
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They tend to be angry because of things that seem trivial and ridiculous.
Even if he is a restless person, he may succumb to very sensitive things about his partner’s simple habits
He loses his temper quickly because of it:
Such as loud and annoying splitting on the chopping board
Or do not wear the seatbelt until after the car is turned on
As for their line, it is not possible to distinguish between literal (h) and (b)
They squeeze the toothpaste in the wrong way (by pressing the top of the paste instead of the bottom)
And use the word (tragic) when they mean (sad), and leave the treasury open,
When they drink a glass of water, they do not drink it completely, but they always pour the last drops of the cup into the kitchen sink.
Our reactions to these things may seem rather violent.
It may provoke us so hard that we are mad,
In moments of calm, we may wonder how we have left such ridiculous things to be very angry.
Instead of pretending to ourselves that we were just fools at the time (although of course we all have good hearts)
We must devote our thinking and time to the logic of the small things that irritate us.
The small and annoying order is often a sign of a larger order
It is in fact an important and non-visible problem in the relationship.
Nevertheless, it is difficult for us to really discover the real problem
Let’s take a little rest and focus well on the cause of the actual problem.
Funny that we are in turn very geniuses regarding simple things outside of our personal lives,
Specifically in the arts
At university, when we write an accurate article on the meaning of the sun being sold at Van Gogh, the blue color was very important to Picasso.
We are very smart with respect to these artists.
We do not think they were fools to get angry because of the little things.
We are horrified to try to discover what the details mean.
We must take a lesson from this patient approach
We care about the small details of our emotional life
Some artists also took care of the details of their paintings.
With regard to the annoying cutting on the cutting board,
No potential damage to wood is important.
We can manage the cost of replacing the board with another within a year or so.
But our partner’s strenuous attempt (as we see it) is only a very small moment in which we see what is bigger and more problematic.
Such as rudeness, cruelty and lack of restraint.
But we are not afraid of this aspect of their lives in general, but as far as we are concerned,
The real fear is that we will not realize they are injuring us.
Fear is not on the chopping board, but on us.
As for the seat belt, the real problem may be related to influence.
We’ve always learned to tie the seatbelts before you turn on the car.
And we obeyed. We have learned to do the “right thing”.
So why do they think they can break the rules?
What is this vanity and feeling that they are different?
These tiny, petty details about the seatbelts are of greater concern:
Will my partner someday understand the fear of doing something wrong and sympathize generously with it?
“Will he stop feeling that he is above the law?”
As well as other important issues are evident everywhere.
The few drops that your partner empties spontaneously from the cup
It has nothing to do with extravagance
(These droplets may fill only one bath during your entire life)
But the fear is that they might treat us the same way
And without thinking after they have lost the most beautiful years of our lives get rid of us.
As for writing, we find their beautiful comments on the kitchen table every Saturday morning:
“Going to buy bread”
(Which means if we decipher the code miraculously: going to buy a head)
And this does not really bother us, * Bread and head may be confused the first letter of them (b / h) in English if written badly *
But we resent the fact that they are not worried that we do not understand them. Nestle (which means this little detail)
Because they do not bother to be clear with us.
We see in the observation a life full of misunderstanding and loneliness.
So, we are right about our concern.
The problem is how we deal with stress.
We will simply not be complacent.
But the proverb will shift our emotion and concern away from the small example – the symbol –
Towards the essence of our complaint, which we will pay attention to, sympathy and a sense of humor.
When the real problem arises in our relationship,
Facilitates coexistence with disturbing details,
Often because our partner will not be indifferent to our obvious concerns.
With the most dangerous of these symbols, which we explained their contents encrypted,
Love remains a greater opportunity to become reciprocal, flowing with peace and security.
Translation: team translate @autrjim
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