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Why People Have Affairs


People often think that random sexual impulses induce an affair
Or, it’s just a dirty brain with bad water.
But these are not too common cases.
When an affair happens, we spend too much time tangling or keeping secret
Spend too little time trying to understand it
In fact, sophisticated and complex romantic psychology can induce an affair
In an emotional relationship, we carefully balance the two raw materials
We need intimacy
We also need a sense of distance
We need intimacy
Feel that we can hug, touch and feel comfortable and intimate at any time.
We hope that lovers will understand us and hope that they can swim in their minds.
But we also need enough distance
Will not feel caught, generalized, and enslaved
We want to maintain the feeling of freedom
We need a private room with our own key
Any excessive intimacy or alienation can cause imbalance
Reckless consequences
If it threatens an emotional relationship, it is too close
We will be driven to verify ourselves and to feel the presence
Prove that you are not living for each other to prove that you are not being labored by the other party
Prove that you are still needed by the world and are active participants in the world
And a new joy to go to bed is not pure because of the need to liberate sexual desire
More likely because of the need to escape an emotional shackle
A shackle that feels like you are going to be melted by an intrinsic couple and loses oneself
But the sense of distance will negatively affect loyalty.
The sense of distance will make the other party feel rejected
When we try to touch each other, the other person alienates or sighs
When we want to talk about personal feelings
They transfer topics
We may resort to an affair
Not because we no longer love the intrinsic lovers
And precisely because we love him (her)
However, the sense of distance is so tight that I can’t breathe.
Lack of communication and contact
Feel can no longer bear or even feel insulted
The irony is that when we were accused of being infidelity, we became the indifferent side.
The fact is that because we care about the other party too much, we will go astray and look for the affliction of the affair.
The disadvantage is that the two people are almost infrequent in intimacy and distance requirements.
So we often hear that one of the lovers accuses the other party of being too attached to themselves.
The other side complained that the partner was too cold.
“Dependence” and “indifferent” are derogatory terms
In essence, their central idea is simply to represent two different ways of expressing love pleasure.
So for any emotional relationship
Express your distance and intimacy relative to each other early
Openly disagree with each other
Will not anger each other
To understand each other, to apologize in good faith and apologize for the difference caused by one side
Only in this way will there be hope that the gap between the two will eventually induce the impulse to make new loves in online chats, bars and public meetings.
It feels like only an affair can solve the sense of distance and intimacy that is difficult to couple.

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