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What Do Cynical People Really Want?


In some ways, cynicism has a unique charm.
Having too many hopes is hard to hear and claims to be able to see through other people’s dreams.
Cynics will tell you that everyone is selfish and weak,
The system is manipulated and driven by greed.
You will never succeed, so trying is meaningless and abominable.
All ideals are ridiculous,
Charity is just to show off what is called virtue.
There is no hope of trying to refute cynicism.
There will always be many vivid examples to support the interpretation of the tragic ending of humanity.
Do people who claim to be cynics, as they claim, why they want to do this.
This pessimistic evaluation is not based on a fair analysis of our humanity.
It is based on inner emotional impulses.
Their credo is that the first and most important thing is to resist suffering.
Under the rude surface, cynics are plagued by the fragility of emotional excitement.
Looking forward to anything, but not as he wished
So they distort their mental devices to protect themselves from any setbacks.
They choose to give up directly, before the external defeat, the first hand self-knot.
Cynics may seem like trying to see the truth,
But in fact, they are working hard to isolate themselves from suffering.
The starting point of their position is not the experience and observation of the world.
It is more based on intense psychological trauma.
At some point in the past, they may have hoped to burst
That extreme disappointment is unbearable.
Unfortunately, cynics do not reveal a clue about their fragile and sympathetic experience.
Instead, they talk hard about corruption and manipulation.
Examples of greed and profit-making are packaged under complex economic theories.
But they will not voluntarily or easily reveal how their drunk father humiliated them.
Or reveal how his mother went to another city when he was five years old.
Cynics have never been truly and completely cynical.
They are still willing to regain hope, but they are ashamed to publicly declare the pain of recovery.
A natural temptation, when encountering a cynicist, is an attempt to refute their attitude by listing counterexamples,
However, it is too cruel in its way because it misunderstands what cynicism is.
This is an emotional protection. In essence, a coping style is learned under compelling conditions.
What the cynics really need, but they are afraid that they may never get it, and what they never ask for is kindness.
Kindness may eventually help them to regain their sorrow, desire, hope and sense of accomplishment.
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