There are many things we want to ask other people
We want to get to work with them,
We want to borrow some money, or an opportunity to cooperate with them, or a kiss
But usually do not ask any of this
Because of the panic of the word “no”.
Why did the word “no”, which sounds like a small innocent word, cause so much pain? Why is hearing them difficult?
Why do you represent something that we want to avoid and may prefer to die miserable and unhappy rather than hearing it?
Because we do not really try to avoid the word “no”
We try to avoid hearing another thing altogether
That is, we are disgusting
We all have the ability to make our image of ourselves revolting
Focus on our weaknesses and on the most embarrassing moments of our lives
This self-deprecating image is exactly what awakens and is raised when someone tells us: “No”
We do not hear the word “no” if that’s what we’re hearing
We really hear: you are arrogant, ridiculous, unimportant, and important, ugly, stupid, and clumsy.
No wonder we hesitate to ask if this is what we expect to hear
But the fact is that people never tell us this
They can not guess what we feel inside.
It is not written on our foreheads and, more importantly, it is not true at all.
Of course we have some deceptive aspects just like all human beings!
We are a mixture of good and evil
Like anyone else.
We are fine, we deserve to live.
When others say, “No,” they do not think about us
Here is the only reason why some may say “no”
We must focus on this cause as much as we can
So do not forget it
Is that people say “no” because those who reject it do not fit their plans
They do not think about your most stupid behavior or the humiliating titles that your friends have at school
Or wake up at night
All this in your mind and not in their minds
They are just interested in their plans.
We take too long to deal with rejection
Because we can not evoke our poetic experience
When we told others: “No”
We did not transfer “no” to anyone because we hated it
We did this for a clear and logical reason
That is not in line with our plans.
But that is why we ask for it
We do not know what each person’s plans are;
We can make sure of this in view of our previous experience
When you think about it you discover that there are so many things that we would – theoretically – give to others only if they asked!
We may say: “Yes” to many surprising points
We were willing to give certain people money, time, before, if they asked for it!
But they usually do not ask.
Because they do not know their place in our lives
Basically we all do not know the plans of other people
We can not know if they will say “yes” or “no”
Because we do not have access to their projects and visions
We are trying to overcome our lack of information by closing the road in a pessimistic way
But you should instead try to get more information simply by asking them.
We must meet curiosity, not despair.
You must remember that “no” will not kill us.
Remotely feel it would be a disaster if the response was “no”
Close-up we can believe we will go over it in three hours
We are adults now.
Of course when we were young children we were very weak
Perhaps the adults refused to us at certain moments, our ears and ears,
Now we are trying not to get this pain again,
But the mind has not yet realized that we have passed this stage
We grew up, maybe we are six feet tall now!
We have a bank account and maybe a car and maybe kids too.
So we can go beyond the word “no”.
In any event, avoiding the question is not a win as we think
We avoid rejection pain only
But we are convinced something that does not satisfy us, and may fatigue us as well:
Lack of opportunities.
The fact that we do not ask for something of life clearly means that we will ask for something else
The failure from the outset.
This is particularly sad because life is very short
What we should be really afraid of is not “no”
But reaching the bed of death is not satisfied.
So we should ask.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
We want to get to work with them,
We want to borrow some money, or an opportunity to cooperate with them, or a kiss
But usually do not ask any of this
Because of the panic of the word “no”.
Why did the word “no”, which sounds like a small innocent word, cause so much pain? Why is hearing them difficult?
Why do you represent something that we want to avoid and may prefer to die miserable and unhappy rather than hearing it?
Because we do not really try to avoid the word “no”
We try to avoid hearing another thing altogether
That is, we are disgusting
We all have the ability to make our image of ourselves revolting
Focus on our weaknesses and on the most embarrassing moments of our lives
This self-deprecating image is exactly what awakens and is raised when someone tells us: “No”
We do not hear the word “no” if that’s what we’re hearing
We really hear: you are arrogant, ridiculous, unimportant, and important, ugly, stupid, and clumsy.
No wonder we hesitate to ask if this is what we expect to hear
But the fact is that people never tell us this
They can not guess what we feel inside.
It is not written on our foreheads and, more importantly, it is not true at all.
Of course we have some deceptive aspects just like all human beings!
We are a mixture of good and evil
Like anyone else.
We are fine, we deserve to live.
When others say, “No,” they do not think about us
Here is the only reason why some may say “no”
We must focus on this cause as much as we can
So do not forget it
Is that people say “no” because those who reject it do not fit their plans
They do not think about your most stupid behavior or the humiliating titles that your friends have at school
Or wake up at night
All this in your mind and not in their minds
They are just interested in their plans.
We take too long to deal with rejection
Because we can not evoke our poetic experience
When we told others: “No”
We did not transfer “no” to anyone because we hated it
We did this for a clear and logical reason
That is not in line with our plans.
But that is why we ask for it
We do not know what each person’s plans are;
We can make sure of this in view of our previous experience
When you think about it you discover that there are so many things that we would – theoretically – give to others only if they asked!
We may say: “Yes” to many surprising points
We were willing to give certain people money, time, before, if they asked for it!
But they usually do not ask.
Because they do not know their place in our lives
Basically we all do not know the plans of other people
We can not know if they will say “yes” or “no”
Because we do not have access to their projects and visions
We are trying to overcome our lack of information by closing the road in a pessimistic way
But you should instead try to get more information simply by asking them.
We must meet curiosity, not despair.
You must remember that “no” will not kill us.
Remotely feel it would be a disaster if the response was “no”
Close-up we can believe we will go over it in three hours
We are adults now.
Of course when we were young children we were very weak
Perhaps the adults refused to us at certain moments, our ears and ears,
Now we are trying not to get this pain again,
But the mind has not yet realized that we have passed this stage
We grew up, maybe we are six feet tall now!
We have a bank account and maybe a car and maybe kids too.
So we can go beyond the word “no”.
In any event, avoiding the question is not a win as we think
We avoid rejection pain only
But we are convinced something that does not satisfy us, and may fatigue us as well:
Lack of opportunities.
The fact that we do not ask for something of life clearly means that we will ask for something else
The failure from the outset.
This is particularly sad because life is very short
What we should be really afraid of is not “no”
But reaching the bed of death is not satisfied.
So we should ask.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
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