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The Impostor Syndrome


When we face challenges in our lives – both personal and professional –
We are bound by frustrating thoughts that suggest that success has not been written for our likes
Based on our self-restraint
And how we believe we are just stupid, worried, impolite, rude, rude and bored
We leave the chance of success to others
Because we do not see any common denominators between us and those who see them excel around us
When faced with responsible and important positions
We are soon convinced that we are just crooks
As an actor as a pilot
He wears a formal suit and announces sunny weather from the cabin
While it is even powerless to run engines
We feel that failure to try is easier for us.
The main cause of the fraudster syndrome
Is a totally futile perception of the reality of what others seem to be
We feel that we are crooks, not because we are specific
But because of our inability to imagine the deficiency that must be perceived by others as well
No matter how they look at it from perfection
The roots of the crook’s syndrome come back to childhood
Especially in the sense that children have their parents completely different from them
The four-year-old can not comprehend the fact that his mother was like his old age
Unable to drive, or tell the plumber what to do,
Or schedule other people’s sleep, or go on flights with colleagues
The gap in this case seems certain and there is no room for it to penetrate
Love children’s passion, jumping on the couch, animation, and candy
It is not adult behavior in anything
They prefer to sit and talk for hours, despite their ability to play outside
They drink a beer that tastes like rusty metal
We start our lives with a strong impression that others
– especially those who are capable and respected – are not like us
This situation experienced by children corresponds to a fundamental characteristic of the human condition
We know the insides of ourselves, while we only know about others
That is why we remain constantly aware of all our fears, doubts and follies
While others know only what they do or say
Which is a modified and limited version of the truth
This leads us to the conclusion that we are isolated in the depths of strange and disgusting humanity
It is not
We are just unable to grasp the fact that others are as confused as we are
We may not know exactly what bothers or disturbs those who seem exciting to our admiration
But there is bound to be a lunatic
We may not know what remorse they are carrying, but there is something that inevitably hurts them
We will not guess any strange sexual obsession that fascinates them, but there must be one
We know that because weaknesses and violence are not curses on us in particular
They are comprehensive features in the formation of the human mind
Treating the crook’s syndrome lies in a strong faith
I believe that the minds of others work essentially the same way our minds do
Everyone has to be as hesitant and volatile as we are
It is a belief because we have to accept the fact that most of our feelings and what we are
– especially those shameful aspects – leave their effects on us all
One of the tasks that literary works must do in an appropriate way is to introduce us into the minds of the people who terrorize us
So that we see the usual and frightening experiences
This method will help us to understand that our weakness is not what prevents us from doing what they are capable of
This is what the French philosopher Moulten tried to do in the sixteenth century when his readers were told sarcastically
And in an explicit language that “kings and philosophers are in need, as do ladies”
What Moratin wants to deliver is obviously a necessity but we may not assume that these people are squatting on the toilet
We do not see those who do so
While of course we are fully aware of all our digestive activities
This makes us think that our suffering from intestinal intestine is sometimes heavy
We are not authorized to be kings, philosophers or ladies
If we happen to set ourselves up for those roles, we will be nothing but scammers
Example Moratin This is a sophisticated,
Because, despite our lack of evidence, we know that these high-level people are serving their needs just as we do
We are called upon by Moratin to take a more reasonable view
About the fact of those great and influential and beautiful
But lack of confidence due to some body functions is not meaningful
This example extends to the psychological aspect as well
Two historians meant that kings, philosophers and ladies were suspicious of themselves and also despairing
They sometimes slam the doors
They have strange erotic thoughts about some of their family members
Let us take this example and apply it to our reality instead of limiting it to prominent personalities of the sixteenth century
Such as CEOs, corporate lawyers, news anchors and successful entrepreneurs
They are also unable to cope sometimes, and feel that they may collapse under pressure
They feel remorse and shame at some of their decisions
Just as the need is not exclusive to us, so is the case with such feelings
What we feel is not a barrier between us and what they can do
If we were in their place, we would not be crooks
But only natural people!
Our faith in the reality of others helps us to make this world more human
When we meet a stranger, he is not really strange
But we meet someone like us a lot – regardless of the opposite of what the apparent –
Therefore, there is no fundamental reason separating us from the possibility of assuming responsibility, success and achievement
Translation: team translate autrjim @
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