Sometimes we may discover the most important details
On the nature of humans by observing the simplest things
It is often observed that children between 1 and 12 years old
These children tend to have a strong and clear association with their stuffed toys
Which usually are shaped like a bear or a rabbit
Rarely in the shape of a penguin
This relationship is exceptionally strong
The child puts her side when he sleeps and talks to her
And cry in front of her and share his secrets that no one knows about him
And it’s really amazing that this stuffed doll takes care of the child he owns
She speaks to him in a mature and gentle tone
Which may induce the child to remain calm during crises
And look forward to better times in the future
But of course we know that the character of the doll is absolutely unrealistic
But is something that has been invented or made real by
One part of the child to take care of the other part
Was the English psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott
The first to deal with puppet trade as an important and highly influential subject
In a scientific paper in the early 1960s
Winnicott describes the case of a boy at the age of six
He was severely abused by his parents
Making him very attached to his small life, which was a gift from his grandmother
The boy would speak his blood every night and put it to his chest and shed tears on its fine gray fur
So this doll was the most expensive of his possessions and he might give up everything in return for not losing it
As the boy summed up his case to Winnicott, “No one will understand me in the same way that my little rabbit does
Which surprised Winnicott in the case of this boy
That by inventing the character of the rabbit and address it was actually addressing himself through this rabbit
A very sweet voice
Although it may seem a bit strange, talking to oneself is normal
Usually, this is done in a harsh and punishable manner
Because we are losing or wasting our time or perverted
But Winnicott pointed out that a good mental state depends on the existence
Internal voices come back when needed to talk to us gently and tolerance and fill us with positive
Because we may be going through times when one aspect of the mind needs a specific aspect to tell
That he does not strongly criticize himself and understand that these things happen to everyone and from where they do not know
These good sounds are the first things the child begins to practice and practice with the help of dolls that he owns
When we become adults, we begin to abandon these dolls and become an embarrassment to us
And become a sign of weakness that we tend to escape from it
But according to Winnicott, when we develop and grow up properly
If you mimic the presence of stuffed dolls, it is normal to accompany us for life
We will inevitably be subject to disappointment and disappointment from the people around us
Either because they are unable to understand or provide the necessary support and sympathy and treat us in a way that helps us to overcome difficulties
Therefore, as adults, we must have self-capacity that strengthens our strengths
By providing a safe and secluded place where we can turn to and speak to ourselves in a gentle, tolerant tone filled with words of encouragement
We should not forget that this effective way of strengthening our strength is mainly owed to the dolls that shared our childhood
In order to live well, we have to understand the extent to which our strengths and weaknesses are linked in childhood
In order to become properly mature we have to accept with all the will of the hand of shame or make us seem weak
We should be proud of the toys we had in the past and appreciate all that we have done to us as it was the first tool we used to take care of ourselves.
On the nature of humans by observing the simplest things
It is often observed that children between 1 and 12 years old
These children tend to have a strong and clear association with their stuffed toys
Which usually are shaped like a bear or a rabbit
Rarely in the shape of a penguin
This relationship is exceptionally strong
The child puts her side when he sleeps and talks to her
And cry in front of her and share his secrets that no one knows about him
And it’s really amazing that this stuffed doll takes care of the child he owns
She speaks to him in a mature and gentle tone
Which may induce the child to remain calm during crises
And look forward to better times in the future
But of course we know that the character of the doll is absolutely unrealistic
But is something that has been invented or made real by
One part of the child to take care of the other part
Was the English psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott
The first to deal with puppet trade as an important and highly influential subject
In a scientific paper in the early 1960s
Winnicott describes the case of a boy at the age of six
He was severely abused by his parents
Making him very attached to his small life, which was a gift from his grandmother
The boy would speak his blood every night and put it to his chest and shed tears on its fine gray fur
So this doll was the most expensive of his possessions and he might give up everything in return for not losing it
As the boy summed up his case to Winnicott, “No one will understand me in the same way that my little rabbit does
Which surprised Winnicott in the case of this boy
That by inventing the character of the rabbit and address it was actually addressing himself through this rabbit
A very sweet voice
Although it may seem a bit strange, talking to oneself is normal
Usually, this is done in a harsh and punishable manner
Because we are losing or wasting our time or perverted
But Winnicott pointed out that a good mental state depends on the existence
Internal voices come back when needed to talk to us gently and tolerance and fill us with positive
Because we may be going through times when one aspect of the mind needs a specific aspect to tell
That he does not strongly criticize himself and understand that these things happen to everyone and from where they do not know
These good sounds are the first things the child begins to practice and practice with the help of dolls that he owns
When we become adults, we begin to abandon these dolls and become an embarrassment to us
And become a sign of weakness that we tend to escape from it
But according to Winnicott, when we develop and grow up properly
If you mimic the presence of stuffed dolls, it is normal to accompany us for life
We will inevitably be subject to disappointment and disappointment from the people around us
Either because they are unable to understand or provide the necessary support and sympathy and treat us in a way that helps us to overcome difficulties
Therefore, as adults, we must have self-capacity that strengthens our strengths
By providing a safe and secluded place where we can turn to and speak to ourselves in a gentle, tolerant tone filled with words of encouragement
We should not forget that this effective way of strengthening our strength is mainly owed to the dolls that shared our childhood
In order to live well, we have to understand the extent to which our strengths and weaknesses are linked in childhood
In order to become properly mature we have to accept with all the will of the hand of shame or make us seem weak
We should be proud of the toys we had in the past and appreciate all that we have done to us as it was the first tool we used to take care of ourselves.
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