The Fear of Intimacy

In today’s society we are harsh on a person with a specific fear.
That is the person who is afraid of intimacy
a group of people who must sit alone every day
The group of people who are not easy to express their heart
a group of people who need their own space
We will say that this group of people is afraid of intimacy.
And this is not a good thing
May cause trouble for you
But criticizing this phenomenon is meaningless.
It’s better to look at it in an individual way.
First, if someone is afraid of something
Say, “This is stupid, there is nothing to be afraid of.” It is not a good way.
A more effective way is to say: we are also afraid of ourselves.
And fear is a very normal phenomenon
So understanding this fear is a good idea.
Where did this come from?
There is always a historical explanation why a person is afraid of intimacy
When a person has been intimate and hurt
So intimacy becomes a problem
We have to consider how many times in life should not be intimate
Since we were young, we have been taught to be strong, independent, and brave.
We must hide our emotions and not show them
Sealing the inner feelings
It’s no wonder that we often feel that it is very difficult to turn to intimate development.
So when we feel stagnant or don’t know how to express our inner feelings, it’s normal.
Because we are too far away from such a world.
We have not been used to this way of life after a hundred battles.
We may need some time
Let us be tolerant of fear and intimacy
They are not bad people
They are only aware of the difficulty of this matter.
And we should always help them with thoughtfulness and empathy.