It’s normal to always expect that we are
– Often automatically –
We are looking for our continued happiness
Especially in two areas with potential to satisfy ourselves:
Our relationship and our work.
So it is very strange and uncomfortable
To find out how many times one of us seems like acting
As if he were missing his chance – Amda –
To get – apparently apparent – that he wants
When you go on a date with candidates who like us,
We may make unnecessary blunders in a stubborn and deliberate manner
Or to act hostile
“Hello.”
“Hello Elaine, what are you doing on Friday night?”
“Yeah?”
“Yeah?”
“From there?”
“Why, I Bill, Bill Jenkins.”
“Narrator: Bill did not do a good job.”
When we have no difficulty in being charming to people of sorts we do not like,
Or in our relationships, we may lead our partners to leave
Through repeated and unjustified charges
Or to anger them
As if we somehow wanted to bring back the sad days
Frustrated and tired, in which our loved ones had to leave us
Sympathetic but unable to deal with more drama
Similarly, we can destroy our chances of promotion
When – without introductions – we fight with our manager
After years of promising work
Or in several situations, we fail to deliver reports on time for a meeting
Actions such as those can not be interpreted as bad luck
It is worth a more powerful and targeted label
Self Destruction
What might explain self-destruction perhaps?
In a big way, we may feel a loss of confidence when we feel happy
Although happiness is basically what we want,
But for many of us, happiness is not what they know
We grew up and learned to tolerate
With our worst perceptions
The possibility of happiness appearing in the scene of the end
It can therefore seem somewhat opposite to expected
And frightening not so much
This is not what we expected
This is not our safe area
We may choose what seems comfortable and familiar, even if difficult
On what is good or what gives a feeling of satisfaction
Getting what we want may give an intolerable sense of risk
Putting us in the mercy of fate
Exposing ourselves to hope and subsequent loss
Self-destruction may leave us sad but at least safe and in control
It is useful to call the concept of self-destruction in our minds
When we interpret our actions or actions of strangers
We have to become suspicious
When we hold ourselves to behave unorganized or understandable
With people we love in our hearts or want to impress
Moreover, when we encounter malice or behavior that is not specifically dependent on others
We have to dare and imagine that things do not look the way they are
Perhaps we are not facing a malicious adversary,
But he is often someone who destroys himself
And deserve some patience
He must be persuaded by courtesy to refrain from hurting himself
We have to reach an agreement and help others to see
How difficult and sometimes distrustful can be
To get very close to the things we really want
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– Often automatically –
We are looking for our continued happiness
Especially in two areas with potential to satisfy ourselves:
Our relationship and our work.
So it is very strange and uncomfortable
To find out how many times one of us seems like acting
As if he were missing his chance – Amda –
To get – apparently apparent – that he wants
When you go on a date with candidates who like us,
We may make unnecessary blunders in a stubborn and deliberate manner
Or to act hostile
“Hello.”
“Hello Elaine, what are you doing on Friday night?”
“Yeah?”
“Yeah?”
“From there?”
“Why, I Bill, Bill Jenkins.”
“Narrator: Bill did not do a good job.”
When we have no difficulty in being charming to people of sorts we do not like,
Or in our relationships, we may lead our partners to leave
Through repeated and unjustified charges
Or to anger them
As if we somehow wanted to bring back the sad days
Frustrated and tired, in which our loved ones had to leave us
Sympathetic but unable to deal with more drama
Similarly, we can destroy our chances of promotion
When – without introductions – we fight with our manager
After years of promising work
Or in several situations, we fail to deliver reports on time for a meeting
Actions such as those can not be interpreted as bad luck
It is worth a more powerful and targeted label
Self Destruction
What might explain self-destruction perhaps?
In a big way, we may feel a loss of confidence when we feel happy
Although happiness is basically what we want,
But for many of us, happiness is not what they know
We grew up and learned to tolerate
With our worst perceptions
The possibility of happiness appearing in the scene of the end
It can therefore seem somewhat opposite to expected
And frightening not so much
This is not what we expected
This is not our safe area
We may choose what seems comfortable and familiar, even if difficult
On what is good or what gives a feeling of satisfaction
Getting what we want may give an intolerable sense of risk
Putting us in the mercy of fate
Exposing ourselves to hope and subsequent loss
Self-destruction may leave us sad but at least safe and in control
It is useful to call the concept of self-destruction in our minds
When we interpret our actions or actions of strangers
We have to become suspicious
When we hold ourselves to behave unorganized or understandable
With people we love in our hearts or want to impress
Moreover, when we encounter malice or behavior that is not specifically dependent on others
We have to dare and imagine that things do not look the way they are
Perhaps we are not facing a malicious adversary,
But he is often someone who destroys himself
And deserve some patience
He must be persuaded by courtesy to refrain from hurting himself
We have to reach an agreement and help others to see
How difficult and sometimes distrustful can be
To get very close to the things we really want
If you love our films take a look at our store (books with ideas, games, stationery and more …)
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