A great deal of problems are happening in the world
Especially in work and in relationships
Resulting from a strange phenomenon in our minds:
Possibility – as we call it – to be
“Far from our feelings”
When we feel this idea for the first time
Looks strange and even a bit humiliating
How can we “be” unable to know our “feeling”?
Of course, we seem to be uniform beings
We hold one name, and we stay within a certain range, ie, a physical container is the body
And no vast distance between our different parts
How can we be so numerous that we have secrets to hide?
But in fact there are two different parts of our mental life “
Our self that we feel and others we observe
Sometimes these are perfectly compatible
One of them asks us what we want to eat and the communication between the two selves is clear and direct
We do not notice any gap or delay between them
We simply answer: “Salmon and avocado”
But the situation is sometimes blurred:
We sit on the sofa at home after a long working day
It gives us the impression that we are completely calm
Suddenly we are irritated by what seems to be a simple comment or comment from our partners
Suddenly we rise up and begin shouting about the injustice caused by several things that did not concern us
To this moment and even feel so strongly unaware of the truth of the matter
And soon there is a crisis between our hands
Did not the observation itself accurately reflect our feelings?
First: because we are influenced by many ideas from our backgrounds about the fact that some feelings are unacceptable.
During our childhood thoughts were planted in our interior so deeply and deeply that we did not notice it
Strong and strong ideas about what is permissible to feel and live and what is not permissible
Perhaps this has been the practice of preventing children from recognizing their need to cry
Or prevent girls from possessing certain types of ambition and adoption because of fear of “not being a girl”
We may not be so clear to these naive taboos these days
But the strongest of them took his place around us
We may have picked up hidden but powerful indicators where no one is supposed to be respected
His parents will at least like to be enthusiastic about collecting work or merging into work
Because he lured into a relationship or was still desperate because of his separation three years ago
Moreover, in spite of the liberal spirit of gender that is evident in our time
But the lion’s share of our gender motivation remains to be recognized.
There is still a great deal of emotion that we are not allowed to feel in order to be suitable for the required ratings in most:
“Good boy” or “good girl”
When the hard havoc threatens to appear in public
The watchful self shakes and shakes away
Rather than showing the true amount of emotion and feeling
This self-indulgence is trying to create a more acceptable situation than the real ones
“I feel very tired” instead of saying, “I feel you’ve let me down”
“I’m depressed” instead of “I’m angry”
“This is really disgusting!” Instead of “I am strangely aroused”
Our problems are caused by the way they can appear
We are overwhelmed by despair, hatred and anger
As acts that appear to be very trivial and illogical in the outside world.
For example: we may have thrown into a world of hatred when we have no space to recognize it
When a friend mentions that one of our common acquaintances may live up to his work
Or that our partner barked for about three and a half seconds before we began to explain
How difficult the meeting was
We feel resentful and proud as wounds because we have not received the full attention of our loved ones
But we never say anything
Because that means acknowledging many desperate emotions, including acknowledgment
Frigging humiliation of fragility.
However, our failure to speak out and recognize it has not and will not end
Where this feeling is rooted and spread its energy randomly to reach other neighboring issues
Envy appears as hatred
The anger at our partner’s lack of focus appears as a note that the partner seems “more fatigued than this moment”
Although this pain of course embodies over time aggression
Any chance of mutual satisfaction is completely over
Those feelings that we have not dealt with have been devastated
And caused the situation to deteriorate
Malicious signals and facial rashes begin
Sexual impotence and inability to act
Alcoholism and compulsive drive to watch pornographic content
The so-called “addiction” is mostly a symptom
For difficult and urgent feelings we did not find a better way to express them
So how can we skillfully develop ourselves?
As for our feelings?
Reading can be a very important factor
The excellent writer is an exemplary man who is unusually patient
On curiosity and less discussion and deal with what appears to be apparent
The strangest thing that hovers in the human mind
The second step is to make sure we have allocated
Enough time to observe oneself
It may seem closer to being a self-contained angst to ask for a few hours each evening
There is nothing to do but sit and stare out the window
Or stare around the room with a notebook and pen on your knees
The so-called “moments of inertia” which can finally be seen by the self-observation
Feelings that may have been too shameful or shameful or disturbing
And allow it to appear in the rest of the day
These feelings are similar to Church bells that we can only see in the evening
When traffic in the city subsided
Failure to do so can be caused by all things
Disrupting our opportunity to sleep
Arrogance is the feeling of self-revenge
These are all ideas that are not likely to be recorded throughout the day
The understanding of the imminent danger
Of the widening gap between “what we feel” and “what we really understand”
Also causes significant benefits:
Let us assume that this problem also applies to others without any justification
Where they will usually say things that do not apply with what they really feel
Painful things when they feel weak and targeted
Or arrogant and arrogant things when they feel ill
We will know that it is our mission because they will not always appreciate it
To be reliable correspondents for their inner lives
It is not evil or bad to always think of others as such
It’s a nice step that gives us the energy to have another look
More sympathetic to the behavior may have seemed first
A terrible exile
Feelings are usually far from being wonderful
We are not usually supposed to follow them
But we have to accept the idea that we were ignored
Or denied or disregarded our inner feelings
The price will always be high, the worst
These sentiments would have a strong and malicious effect
On all walks of our lives
One of the ways I usually ignore them is the art of my life
It is learning to dedicate ourselves to the classification and to our feelings
And the feelings of others orphaned to their proper position
Translation: team translate autrjim @
Especially in work and in relationships
Resulting from a strange phenomenon in our minds:
Possibility – as we call it – to be
“Far from our feelings”
When we feel this idea for the first time
Looks strange and even a bit humiliating
How can we “be” unable to know our “feeling”?
Of course, we seem to be uniform beings
We hold one name, and we stay within a certain range, ie, a physical container is the body
And no vast distance between our different parts
How can we be so numerous that we have secrets to hide?
But in fact there are two different parts of our mental life “
Our self that we feel and others we observe
Sometimes these are perfectly compatible
One of them asks us what we want to eat and the communication between the two selves is clear and direct
We do not notice any gap or delay between them
We simply answer: “Salmon and avocado”
But the situation is sometimes blurred:
We sit on the sofa at home after a long working day
It gives us the impression that we are completely calm
Suddenly we are irritated by what seems to be a simple comment or comment from our partners
Suddenly we rise up and begin shouting about the injustice caused by several things that did not concern us
To this moment and even feel so strongly unaware of the truth of the matter
And soon there is a crisis between our hands
Did not the observation itself accurately reflect our feelings?
First: because we are influenced by many ideas from our backgrounds about the fact that some feelings are unacceptable.
During our childhood thoughts were planted in our interior so deeply and deeply that we did not notice it
Strong and strong ideas about what is permissible to feel and live and what is not permissible
Perhaps this has been the practice of preventing children from recognizing their need to cry
Or prevent girls from possessing certain types of ambition and adoption because of fear of “not being a girl”
We may not be so clear to these naive taboos these days
But the strongest of them took his place around us
We may have picked up hidden but powerful indicators where no one is supposed to be respected
His parents will at least like to be enthusiastic about collecting work or merging into work
Because he lured into a relationship or was still desperate because of his separation three years ago
Moreover, in spite of the liberal spirit of gender that is evident in our time
But the lion’s share of our gender motivation remains to be recognized.
There is still a great deal of emotion that we are not allowed to feel in order to be suitable for the required ratings in most:
“Good boy” or “good girl”
When the hard havoc threatens to appear in public
The watchful self shakes and shakes away
Rather than showing the true amount of emotion and feeling
This self-indulgence is trying to create a more acceptable situation than the real ones
“I feel very tired” instead of saying, “I feel you’ve let me down”
“I’m depressed” instead of “I’m angry”
“This is really disgusting!” Instead of “I am strangely aroused”
Our problems are caused by the way they can appear
We are overwhelmed by despair, hatred and anger
As acts that appear to be very trivial and illogical in the outside world.
For example: we may have thrown into a world of hatred when we have no space to recognize it
When a friend mentions that one of our common acquaintances may live up to his work
Or that our partner barked for about three and a half seconds before we began to explain
How difficult the meeting was
We feel resentful and proud as wounds because we have not received the full attention of our loved ones
But we never say anything
Because that means acknowledging many desperate emotions, including acknowledgment
Frigging humiliation of fragility.
However, our failure to speak out and recognize it has not and will not end
Where this feeling is rooted and spread its energy randomly to reach other neighboring issues
Envy appears as hatred
The anger at our partner’s lack of focus appears as a note that the partner seems “more fatigued than this moment”
Although this pain of course embodies over time aggression
Any chance of mutual satisfaction is completely over
Those feelings that we have not dealt with have been devastated
And caused the situation to deteriorate
Malicious signals and facial rashes begin
Sexual impotence and inability to act
Alcoholism and compulsive drive to watch pornographic content
The so-called “addiction” is mostly a symptom
For difficult and urgent feelings we did not find a better way to express them
So how can we skillfully develop ourselves?
As for our feelings?
Reading can be a very important factor
The excellent writer is an exemplary man who is unusually patient
On curiosity and less discussion and deal with what appears to be apparent
The strangest thing that hovers in the human mind
The second step is to make sure we have allocated
Enough time to observe oneself
It may seem closer to being a self-contained angst to ask for a few hours each evening
There is nothing to do but sit and stare out the window
Or stare around the room with a notebook and pen on your knees
The so-called “moments of inertia” which can finally be seen by the self-observation
Feelings that may have been too shameful or shameful or disturbing
And allow it to appear in the rest of the day
These feelings are similar to Church bells that we can only see in the evening
When traffic in the city subsided
Failure to do so can be caused by all things
Disrupting our opportunity to sleep
Arrogance is the feeling of self-revenge
These are all ideas that are not likely to be recorded throughout the day
The understanding of the imminent danger
Of the widening gap between “what we feel” and “what we really understand”
Also causes significant benefits:
Let us assume that this problem also applies to others without any justification
Where they will usually say things that do not apply with what they really feel
Painful things when they feel weak and targeted
Or arrogant and arrogant things when they feel ill
We will know that it is our mission because they will not always appreciate it
To be reliable correspondents for their inner lives
It is not evil or bad to always think of others as such
It’s a nice step that gives us the energy to have another look
More sympathetic to the behavior may have seemed first
A terrible exile
Feelings are usually far from being wonderful
We are not usually supposed to follow them
But we have to accept the idea that we were ignored
Or denied or disregarded our inner feelings
The price will always be high, the worst
These sentiments would have a strong and malicious effect
On all walks of our lives
One of the ways I usually ignore them is the art of my life
It is learning to dedicate ourselves to the classification and to our feelings
And the feelings of others orphaned to their proper position
Translation: team translate autrjim @
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