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How We Lie to Ourselves


Our tendency to lie to ourselves is an essential obstacle to self-knowledge, which in turn leads to a thriving life
We lie for a very understandable reason is that we want to avoid pain
There are four things we often like to lie to ourselves about:
Things we need to change in our lives
Things that we may conceive of our self-perception about ourselves
Things we desperately want and can not get
The things that anger us in others and do not dare talk about them
These are some common ways of deceiving ourselves
1. Addiction
(Pornographic sounds)
We define something that has a strong ability to keep our ideas away from worrying internal confrontations
(Pornographic sounds)
Often for his own self-sufficiency but for his ability to keep us away from our fears
2. Fun Mania
I just want to drink the toast of friendship and the wonderful time we spend together
I am very pleased to come, and I hope you have a good time
The sadness we could not recognize, often replaced by overdose of celebration
– Are you enjoying yourself?
-Yes Yes
– I am very happy, I am pleased to see you
– I also see your vision
-This is very beautiful
– It’s really a fun time, you look beautiful
We are not happy enough to allow ourselves to feel the least sadness in the case of the tyranny of our disturbing feelings
3. Snuggling
I’m glad I did not go to university.
I know you met a lot of people
And that these are old friends, but I do not think to pay 9000 a year to win friends
It is really the best way to exploit my money especially if you will have to owe it
We simply tell ourselves that we do not care about anything – not because it’s true, but because we can not get it
I have a friend who trains in contemporary art
I learned to walk when I was young I do not need to … I have taught myself to regain strength after falling
I do not need a teacher to tell me, you know, that’s how art looks in the 20th century
Just enough to sit in a bus stop
4. Denial
He was a member of the village council, they were all in bed eating breakfast from Hanaa Basha everything was kind of an orgy
I think first and foremost that it is abuse of power, but why do people need to have sex?
His grandmother is very strange
We often criticize and disparage some people and behaviors to prevent the idea that some of us actually prefer this repugnant element
It was horrible and disgusting, I just can not imagine myself doing it
Kind of stuff, because I do not care only
When our feelings become difficult we attack someone else
I think it’s disgusting I do not understand why anyone needs multiple partners
5. Defense
Because you are very strong, very good and talented
And unique of your kind too, I actually think you know what can happen if you just stripped everything back
If you remove all the bells, whistles and effects, just keep your voice with the sound of the guitar
Awesome. This rude, to sit there and arrogantly to tell me
What do you know about music?
Do you know anything about it!
You just click the buttons and stuff, Ellis as well? You press the Play and Pause button
In fact you do not create any music and tell you what to do really complicated, this shows your groove
The feeling of humiliation takes all our attention that it causes confusion
When we are in a state of defense we will not give the information any attention that may be in essence – correct but challenging
You do not know what you’re talking about
I know what I’m doing with my music, although I do not like you I’m sorry but maybe
I do not know what kind of style I’m looking for or feel I may not want to limit my music to a specific style
Did you know the style I followed when I heard my music? You do not know because you do not know anything about music
The problem is lying to ourselves that by doing so we miss important opportunities to advance
Do not tell me how I do my business in front of my friends I know what I’m doing
I understood that I understood that I certainly understood not, he did not understand
The things we deny are painful but usually also include things important to our progress
I’m happier being single, so watching movies on your own is fun I did not know
I thought it was a special thing for the couple but even that was good now, I got more room in the apartment
If we can meet the strangest thoughts, needs and desires
We will learn to move freely in our minds, and our sincerity will give us creativity
And more fun and fun
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Translation: Team translated @Autrjim
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