The grumbling is annoying, repugnant and useless
But its owner is excused
It stems from the goal of Sam and Noble
The desire to change others.
There is much that we might want to change in some people
We are not all ideal
We therefore want others to be more aware, accurate and generous
Accountability, flexibility, honesty and depth.
At home, we ask them to put their focus on the laundry basin, children and garbage cans
Money and leave the phone aside and attention.
And at the general level
We want them to think about the suffering of the animals
And the destruction of the environment
And the ugliness of capitalism.
Most of us are far from idealism,
At the level of the human race, we are approaching an evolutionary error.
The desire to change others is not a satisfactory condition
But a clear recognition that evil is inherent in humans
In essence, grumbling is trying to get an idea for the purpose of developing from one mind to another,
But at the same time, a desperate way of education,
Turning into an attempt to use urgency instead of encouraging, forcing rather than attracting.
Like a teacher who thinks that a student who is unable to learn can spoil his life
Rather than seeing it from a student’s point of view.
It is the misery that dominates one’s creative potential,
And therefore always enters into the subject directly
And get rid of the words of praise and praise
He speaks in a dry, frank manner
Clear the trash cans immediately. Come and join the table now.
You are a selfish, useless person. There is not even here.
This kind of person does nothing wrong, but is absolutely right
But he is also tired and depressed and feels sad in the depths.
Unfortunately, this method not only fails, but even more
Once the teacher begins to insult the student, the lesson ends.
A bad twinge is born, which is evasion.
The other grudges him to pretend to read the newspaper
Or go ignoring the upper stage with his full belief that he is right in what he does
The sharpness in the grumbling teacher’s tone gives the student the reason to trust that he has no benefit.
Someone can not change others unless he stops using the urgent tone,
And when he is able to bear with the person as he is
We do not get better when they annoy us or make us feel guilty
But when we feel that others love us and understand the difficulty that change represents for us.
Of course we know that we must empty garbage cans
And that we immortality to sleep early, and realize that we have failed our partner
But we also can not bear to hear all that preaching in a careless way
As elusive children, we want to be treated as a reflection of our reluctance to become better people.
It is also repeated in the same manner that is useless at the political level as well,
We know that we can not abuse the environment or violate laws
Or lack of sympathy for the poor
But we will not do any good if someone from Gulf warns us and gives firm lectures.
We want to be attracted to doing good things rather than forcing them.
The problem of complaining is that the reasons that lead us to it are often sublime
But does not achieve what we want.
We grumble because we believe that our knowledge of the truth means that we should not deliver it in a nice way, which is a mistake.
Resolving the discontent is not to stop trying to coax others into doing what we want them to do
But knowing that persuasion in a way that suits those who are in dire need of change is the solution.
Translation: Team translated @ Autrjim
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But its owner is excused
It stems from the goal of Sam and Noble
The desire to change others.
There is much that we might want to change in some people
We are not all ideal
We therefore want others to be more aware, accurate and generous
Accountability, flexibility, honesty and depth.
At home, we ask them to put their focus on the laundry basin, children and garbage cans
Money and leave the phone aside and attention.
And at the general level
We want them to think about the suffering of the animals
And the destruction of the environment
And the ugliness of capitalism.
Most of us are far from idealism,
At the level of the human race, we are approaching an evolutionary error.
The desire to change others is not a satisfactory condition
But a clear recognition that evil is inherent in humans
In essence, grumbling is trying to get an idea for the purpose of developing from one mind to another,
But at the same time, a desperate way of education,
Turning into an attempt to use urgency instead of encouraging, forcing rather than attracting.
Like a teacher who thinks that a student who is unable to learn can spoil his life
Rather than seeing it from a student’s point of view.
It is the misery that dominates one’s creative potential,
And therefore always enters into the subject directly
And get rid of the words of praise and praise
He speaks in a dry, frank manner
Clear the trash cans immediately. Come and join the table now.
You are a selfish, useless person. There is not even here.
This kind of person does nothing wrong, but is absolutely right
But he is also tired and depressed and feels sad in the depths.
Unfortunately, this method not only fails, but even more
Once the teacher begins to insult the student, the lesson ends.
A bad twinge is born, which is evasion.
The other grudges him to pretend to read the newspaper
Or go ignoring the upper stage with his full belief that he is right in what he does
The sharpness in the grumbling teacher’s tone gives the student the reason to trust that he has no benefit.
Someone can not change others unless he stops using the urgent tone,
And when he is able to bear with the person as he is
We do not get better when they annoy us or make us feel guilty
But when we feel that others love us and understand the difficulty that change represents for us.
Of course we know that we must empty garbage cans
And that we immortality to sleep early, and realize that we have failed our partner
But we also can not bear to hear all that preaching in a careless way
As elusive children, we want to be treated as a reflection of our reluctance to become better people.
It is also repeated in the same manner that is useless at the political level as well,
We know that we can not abuse the environment or violate laws
Or lack of sympathy for the poor
But we will not do any good if someone from Gulf warns us and gives firm lectures.
We want to be attracted to doing good things rather than forcing them.
The problem of complaining is that the reasons that lead us to it are often sublime
But does not achieve what we want.
We grumble because we believe that our knowledge of the truth means that we should not deliver it in a nice way, which is a mistake.
Resolving the discontent is not to stop trying to coax others into doing what we want them to do
But knowing that persuasion in a way that suits those who are in dire need of change is the solution.
Translation: Team translated @ Autrjim
We publish motivational films every week, so be sure to subscribe to our channel
Take a look at what we’re offering through the link at the bottom of the screen now.
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