Because of the great shame in our lives,
We tend to think of it as a constant, unchangeable part of our emotional makeup.
With deep roots in each other’s personality and even our biological makeup.
Which makes us think we can not get rid of it.
But in fact the shame we feel stems from our understanding of the world and our thoughts about it
This vision is completely changeable
Through rational and logical perception and thinking
Because these ideas are basically based on some erroneous misconceptions
Shame is rooted in the translation of outsiders in a specific way
A shy person does not act strangely around everyone
He is silent only with those who seem so different from him
Based on a set of surface observations
Age, social status, tastes, customs, beliefs, backgrounds or religions
And without any ill-intention or rudeness
Shame can be known as a form of “conservative conservative”
Excessive attachment to a person’s life situations and experiences
Which makes others
They seem like frightening, ill-informed, and totally unknown strangers
When dealing with someone from a different environment
The shy tend to focus on areas of difference between them and others
They are likely to say to themselves (strangely internal)
“There are no common themes to talk about; this other person is famous,
While I am from an unknown public place
Or because the other person is elderly,
While I am in my 20s.
Or that this person is very intelligent
While the timid is not smart enough
Or that the other person from the state of all the girls is well
While shy from a place where young people appear to have a moderate degree of integrity. “
It is therefore believed that there are no common themes between them
For a short conversation or a nice joke.
The shy person does not intentionally be unpleasant or unkind
It simply translates the difference into a barrier and a large barrier that can not be bypassed
So as to show his goodwill and personality.
We can imagine it in the history of mankind
Shame was always the first reaction
People living on the hill would start to feel ashamed
Because they were peasants while you were fishermen
Or they used to pronounce vowels differently, while you pronounce them in a monotonous and ordinary way.
However, gradually emerged a global way
Less conservative in dealing with others:
Which is what we can call the “cosmic” psychological (universal is the ideology to which all human races belong on the basis of common creation)
In ancient civilizations, Greek civilization and Roman civilization
She urged increased acquaintance between people
Who lived very different lives and are unfamiliar to each other
Thanks to the development of trade and navigation
The evolution of an alternative solution to shame.
Greek travelers who worship gods are like humans
They learned that Egyptians revered cats and some birds,
The Romans, who used to shave their tails, met the barbarians who used to call the beards,
Senators who lived in column houses with an underground heating system
They encountered tribal leaders who lived in wooden huts interspersed with air currents.
Some thinkers have adopted it
A developer approach suggested that all these humans
Regardless of their body shapes and colors have shared a common origin,
This is what drove the adult mind to become
Open in dealing with others.
And because of this “cosmic” mentality
The playwright and poet Terence said clearly when he said:
“I am a human being, so every human being is no stranger to me”
A principle supported by Christianity
By making it universal harmony is the cornerstone of her view of existence.
When a person becomes cosmic and culturally open
Not because it is fun or that its nature is social
But because he knows the basic truth about humanity,
It is that regardless of appearance
We belong to the same human race and share the same inner qualities
It is a fact both guest is silent at the concert,
Or a strange GAO in the restaurant are guilty of refusing it altogether
It is true that since time immemorial the most important source of shyness has been attributed to our rank or social status:
That the servant felt unable to approach the king,
The girl working in Aleppo was stuttering when he visited the noble son of Nabil
Today, like the same discouraging acts,
The plain-looking young man feels that he can never spend time with the beautiful girl
Or middle-class people who are afraid to talk to the rich.
The same thinking that makes man falls into a spiral of ideas such as:
It seems as if a child has formed a plasticine,
Your nose seems to have been sculpted by Michelangelo;
I am afraid to lose my job
While you are afraid to expand your business in Mexico
Will not be as profitable as planned.
An open person is well aware of these differences.
He simply resists being intimidated or controlled by these fears.
He looks beyond them to understand more,
Or in a simple practical sense to realize the common unit of gender.
Shame has deep dimensions
It is consciously planted in us
We could disturb someone as soon as we were there
It is built on our sense of the other
You may be unhappy or confused about our existence.
A shy person lives in a constant worry of being a nuisance to someone.
But in most cases
Do not be annoying to anyone but we think we risk losing someone
He could have opened his heart to us
Only if we learn how to show the most beautiful in us.
We cling carefully to our own region.
The young boy does not realize that he and the beautiful girl share high school
The same sense of humor and the same tense relationship with their parents.
And that the difference of our races and our ages may bring us together does not differentiate us.
Shyness is a sensitive feeling, but in the end
Feeling excessively limiting and unjustified way to feel distinct.
Translation: team translate @autrjim
We tend to think of it as a constant, unchangeable part of our emotional makeup.
With deep roots in each other’s personality and even our biological makeup.
Which makes us think we can not get rid of it.
But in fact the shame we feel stems from our understanding of the world and our thoughts about it
This vision is completely changeable
Through rational and logical perception and thinking
Because these ideas are basically based on some erroneous misconceptions
Shame is rooted in the translation of outsiders in a specific way
A shy person does not act strangely around everyone
He is silent only with those who seem so different from him
Based on a set of surface observations
Age, social status, tastes, customs, beliefs, backgrounds or religions
And without any ill-intention or rudeness
Shame can be known as a form of “conservative conservative”
Excessive attachment to a person’s life situations and experiences
Which makes others
They seem like frightening, ill-informed, and totally unknown strangers
When dealing with someone from a different environment
The shy tend to focus on areas of difference between them and others
They are likely to say to themselves (strangely internal)
“There are no common themes to talk about; this other person is famous,
While I am from an unknown public place
Or because the other person is elderly,
While I am in my 20s.
Or that this person is very intelligent
While the timid is not smart enough
Or that the other person from the state of all the girls is well
While shy from a place where young people appear to have a moderate degree of integrity. “
It is therefore believed that there are no common themes between them
For a short conversation or a nice joke.
The shy person does not intentionally be unpleasant or unkind
It simply translates the difference into a barrier and a large barrier that can not be bypassed
So as to show his goodwill and personality.
We can imagine it in the history of mankind
Shame was always the first reaction
People living on the hill would start to feel ashamed
Because they were peasants while you were fishermen
Or they used to pronounce vowels differently, while you pronounce them in a monotonous and ordinary way.
However, gradually emerged a global way
Less conservative in dealing with others:
Which is what we can call the “cosmic” psychological (universal is the ideology to which all human races belong on the basis of common creation)
In ancient civilizations, Greek civilization and Roman civilization
She urged increased acquaintance between people
Who lived very different lives and are unfamiliar to each other
Thanks to the development of trade and navigation
The evolution of an alternative solution to shame.
Greek travelers who worship gods are like humans
They learned that Egyptians revered cats and some birds,
The Romans, who used to shave their tails, met the barbarians who used to call the beards,
Senators who lived in column houses with an underground heating system
They encountered tribal leaders who lived in wooden huts interspersed with air currents.
Some thinkers have adopted it
A developer approach suggested that all these humans
Regardless of their body shapes and colors have shared a common origin,
This is what drove the adult mind to become
Open in dealing with others.
And because of this “cosmic” mentality
The playwright and poet Terence said clearly when he said:
“I am a human being, so every human being is no stranger to me”
A principle supported by Christianity
By making it universal harmony is the cornerstone of her view of existence.
When a person becomes cosmic and culturally open
Not because it is fun or that its nature is social
But because he knows the basic truth about humanity,
It is that regardless of appearance
We belong to the same human race and share the same inner qualities
It is a fact both guest is silent at the concert,
Or a strange GAO in the restaurant are guilty of refusing it altogether
It is true that since time immemorial the most important source of shyness has been attributed to our rank or social status:
That the servant felt unable to approach the king,
The girl working in Aleppo was stuttering when he visited the noble son of Nabil
Today, like the same discouraging acts,
The plain-looking young man feels that he can never spend time with the beautiful girl
Or middle-class people who are afraid to talk to the rich.
The same thinking that makes man falls into a spiral of ideas such as:
It seems as if a child has formed a plasticine,
Your nose seems to have been sculpted by Michelangelo;
I am afraid to lose my job
While you are afraid to expand your business in Mexico
Will not be as profitable as planned.
An open person is well aware of these differences.
He simply resists being intimidated or controlled by these fears.
He looks beyond them to understand more,
Or in a simple practical sense to realize the common unit of gender.
Shame has deep dimensions
It is consciously planted in us
We could disturb someone as soon as we were there
It is built on our sense of the other
You may be unhappy or confused about our existence.
A shy person lives in a constant worry of being a nuisance to someone.
But in most cases
Do not be annoying to anyone but we think we risk losing someone
He could have opened his heart to us
Only if we learn how to show the most beautiful in us.
We cling carefully to our own region.
The young boy does not realize that he and the beautiful girl share high school
The same sense of humor and the same tense relationship with their parents.
And that the difference of our races and our ages may bring us together does not differentiate us.
Shyness is a sensitive feeling, but in the end
Feeling excessively limiting and unjustified way to feel distinct.
Translation: team translate @autrjim
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