A successful life is the result of a series of right decisions, especially with regard to love
And work. However, we rarely give the decision-making process attention
Which it requires. When we face an important decision, we lack rituals and actions. We usually
We depend on the nearest person or rush to make a thoughtless solution.
Fortunately, decision-making is a skill, and like any other skill, it can be taught.
The main enemy of good decisions is the lack of sufficient views on the problem. Should
To systematically think of any problem from five distinct angles: from eyes
Our enemies, our inner feeling, death, caution and courage. As we think, we change
As we build these views, we will feel a greater sense of potential
And the emergence of an acceptable way forward that gradually emerges from the current confusion.
Our enemies have a deep knowledge of us: they know our weaknesses, they want the worst
And they bring desperate intelligence to our cause. Thinking
Their help to clarify our ideas beautifully. It can be hard to be true friends
To ourselves, in the way we should be; our minds become empty if we are asked to imagine
What a good person would advise us to do next. We are much better
To enter the minds of our most bitter enemies. They appreciate our weaknesses and temptations
To an unprecedented degree. We can finally take advantage of these characters: by doing the opposite
What we expect (perhaps correctly) to suggest and say. We will feel active
And the focus because of the embarrassing voices of those detractors and judges:
Those who refuse to believe in us.
In a sense, we already know the answer – or at least one copy of it. We call it
With an inner sense, and is present from the very first moment that presents a dilemma. The inner sensation is the result of accumulation
All decision-making lessons derived from our lives, exposed unconsciously
Quickly. Most of us became fairly good at not listening to his inner sense. Maybe it was because of us
In trouble several times, and perhaps drove us to crazy moments we paid dearly
We take pride in being people who think, take their time, gather evidence
They fully benefit from their higher mental abilities, as we should be. However, we are so
We lose an important source of insight. We should be courageous enough to call our inner sense of decision-making
It is not necessary to follow him, but to know what he wants, and then
We put his stubborn and impatient assertions into a gentle rational questioning.
The greatest certainty, however easy to forget, is that all our decisions are revealed on
Wallpaper of Giant Time Clock. We must listen to her beats and take
Seriously. Thinking about death usually highlights our responsibilities
To ourselves and underestimate our interest in living according to what is expected of us
By society. Death is a terrifying originality. May lend us something
Bad confidence to face challenges. By intimidating us from one tremendous thing,
May make us less afraid of the many small obstacles in our way. It will not be our life
What they can only be if we subject all the choices we face to judgment
Eternity and forgetfulness.
Somewhere, around every table
Resolution, the sound of caution must be present. Wearing bad clothes and talking softly. He
Certainly lacking in joy in the era of bragging and humming. It is easy to feel that it must
That always jump – because life must be about giving the new opportunity. But
May not be. Let’s remember, careful dismisses his ring to tell us that most new companies
Fail, most plans end in disaster, most relationships just rework for themes
Not satisfactory in the current relationship. In addition, there is a large amount at stake and there
Many people around us may be affected by our ambitions. The devil we know
May have preference over many demons that we do not know. Caution does not go up
On the idea of compromise, but believes that there are positions, where there are no options
Ideal for missing objects that we are ultimately. Caution has the courage to not always rebel
Against reality.
From an early age, we learned how to follow the rules,
Wait in line and do the due and expected things from us. We can be good boys and girls. This
What brought us to what we are today. There is no other way to learn how to spell,
Driving a car or taking a position in the world of work. But there can now be a hidden danger
From the opposite direction; from the risk of excessive faith for too long a tradition
Developed without taking our interests and our hopes into account. In these situations,
We strongly need to learn the art of courage again, to remember that the happiest life you certainly possess
Inflection points where people did something unexpected and strange, they risked
They won. Sometimes, the only caution is the weakness of the pleafen cheese in the mantle
Of self-deception. Courage and caution must fight on this point, without presupposing victory on either side.
Any difficult decision we make will always be an imperfect decision
But with this kind of thinking we have a slightly better chance than usual of choosing a good enough choice.
Our videos are just the beginning of our content.
We believe in making the world a more emotionally intelligent place
To this end, we have published some wonderful books,
As well as other goods that re-enforce some of the topics described in our videos.
Please click the link below to learn more.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
And work. However, we rarely give the decision-making process attention
Which it requires. When we face an important decision, we lack rituals and actions. We usually
We depend on the nearest person or rush to make a thoughtless solution.
Fortunately, decision-making is a skill, and like any other skill, it can be taught.
The main enemy of good decisions is the lack of sufficient views on the problem. Should
To systematically think of any problem from five distinct angles: from eyes
Our enemies, our inner feeling, death, caution and courage. As we think, we change
As we build these views, we will feel a greater sense of potential
And the emergence of an acceptable way forward that gradually emerges from the current confusion.
Our enemies have a deep knowledge of us: they know our weaknesses, they want the worst
And they bring desperate intelligence to our cause. Thinking
Their help to clarify our ideas beautifully. It can be hard to be true friends
To ourselves, in the way we should be; our minds become empty if we are asked to imagine
What a good person would advise us to do next. We are much better
To enter the minds of our most bitter enemies. They appreciate our weaknesses and temptations
To an unprecedented degree. We can finally take advantage of these characters: by doing the opposite
What we expect (perhaps correctly) to suggest and say. We will feel active
And the focus because of the embarrassing voices of those detractors and judges:
Those who refuse to believe in us.
In a sense, we already know the answer – or at least one copy of it. We call it
With an inner sense, and is present from the very first moment that presents a dilemma. The inner sensation is the result of accumulation
All decision-making lessons derived from our lives, exposed unconsciously
Quickly. Most of us became fairly good at not listening to his inner sense. Maybe it was because of us
In trouble several times, and perhaps drove us to crazy moments we paid dearly
We take pride in being people who think, take their time, gather evidence
They fully benefit from their higher mental abilities, as we should be. However, we are so
We lose an important source of insight. We should be courageous enough to call our inner sense of decision-making
It is not necessary to follow him, but to know what he wants, and then
We put his stubborn and impatient assertions into a gentle rational questioning.
The greatest certainty, however easy to forget, is that all our decisions are revealed on
Wallpaper of Giant Time Clock. We must listen to her beats and take
Seriously. Thinking about death usually highlights our responsibilities
To ourselves and underestimate our interest in living according to what is expected of us
By society. Death is a terrifying originality. May lend us something
Bad confidence to face challenges. By intimidating us from one tremendous thing,
May make us less afraid of the many small obstacles in our way. It will not be our life
What they can only be if we subject all the choices we face to judgment
Eternity and forgetfulness.
Somewhere, around every table
Resolution, the sound of caution must be present. Wearing bad clothes and talking softly. He
Certainly lacking in joy in the era of bragging and humming. It is easy to feel that it must
That always jump – because life must be about giving the new opportunity. But
May not be. Let’s remember, careful dismisses his ring to tell us that most new companies
Fail, most plans end in disaster, most relationships just rework for themes
Not satisfactory in the current relationship. In addition, there is a large amount at stake and there
Many people around us may be affected by our ambitions. The devil we know
May have preference over many demons that we do not know. Caution does not go up
On the idea of compromise, but believes that there are positions, where there are no options
Ideal for missing objects that we are ultimately. Caution has the courage to not always rebel
Against reality.
From an early age, we learned how to follow the rules,
Wait in line and do the due and expected things from us. We can be good boys and girls. This
What brought us to what we are today. There is no other way to learn how to spell,
Driving a car or taking a position in the world of work. But there can now be a hidden danger
From the opposite direction; from the risk of excessive faith for too long a tradition
Developed without taking our interests and our hopes into account. In these situations,
We strongly need to learn the art of courage again, to remember that the happiest life you certainly possess
Inflection points where people did something unexpected and strange, they risked
They won. Sometimes, the only caution is the weakness of the pleafen cheese in the mantle
Of self-deception. Courage and caution must fight on this point, without presupposing victory on either side.
Any difficult decision we make will always be an imperfect decision
But with this kind of thinking we have a slightly better chance than usual of choosing a good enough choice.
Our videos are just the beginning of our content.
We believe in making the world a more emotionally intelligent place
To this end, we have published some wonderful books,
As well as other goods that re-enforce some of the topics described in our videos.
Please click the link below to learn more.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
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