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How to Keep Having Sex


Everyone knows that at the beginning of it all the time …
… And then relationships get longer, no.
Say it because we are too busy, or tired – or not just in the mood
But why this “mood” important disappear?
To understand the excitement, we have to return in the early days, when we deeply
In the mood pretty much every hour.
What was exciting was our ability to touch, hold and stroke
In short, owning a person was not entirely within our grasp:
Someone was independent and free to walk away from us – and was miraculously chosen
Do not do this.
He also expressed the equation: sex = possession + freedom
The exciting desire to be within and within the body of another person stems from an actor,
The mesmerizing wonder that they have allowed us to be very close and, somewhere in the semi-conscious
Blocker, feeling anxious because they may not do it forever.
Unfortunately, someone likes to mean that we almost always want to limit their ability to survive
Without us: in the nicest way, we relentlessly try to undermine the freedom of the person who
Love. Thus gradually, we kill spirit
Independence that supported our desire from abroad.
There is something else that wears away in sex drive: fear. Strangely though it may seem,
Asking someone to have sex with us generally has the element of risk associated with it.
The other person may say no or even, at the limit:
Sex is demand.
In order to make an application, we have to feel reasonably safe about the rejection.
At first, we do not feel that safety for – although we do not know our lovers even
Also – we are independent: we have our own routines, options and autonomy …
If it does not work out, we can walk away.
From love, we throw our support to an independent life.
We knit ourselves together. We no longer have much we can directly call any of our
more than. We also have to make requests for them all the time: we want her to buy a sofa
We love, do not want to go too
Parents for Christmas … We depend on income while we go back and
Study for a new qualification … In these circumstances, after another request
It seems that it may really be one too many. So we do not bring up that what we want
To do with the mask. Or with high thigh boots
We no longer have the will to lose face in the face of day-to-day negotiations
partner. It may be easier just to leave things alone
Strangely, there is one thing that’s almost guaranteed to revive sex: a huge argument
With the possibility of a real detachable main bust-ups they usually have a strange ending
Even in the bedroom they return to two light things
Which clearly absence seriously undermines sex.
First: in the sense that you can theoretically go away
Second, the sense that you can, although it will not necessarily be easy, survive
Independent you can, if you really want, build
You own the castle again, restore your destiny, and greet God
As an independent spirit. Good sex needs all this. It was built from
Feeling of freedom and self-confidence – the very things that can become so strange
Rare over time. To return to the first days,
We need to know deeper and better lessons than to break, ideally without having to
You go through a very sad and painful process of actually doing it.
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