To be rejected
It’s something that will happen to us all at some point
So dealing with this pain through logic is an art of life
Suggests a bunch of same tips
First: Do not try to underestimate what happened
No place for courage here
Give your sadness enough space, enough time, listen to the sad songs, take a warm bath and indulge in luxurious food
You will get bored in the end and come back to the appetite of life
Second, believe them and reject you
Do not imagine that their former goodness secretly suggests the possibility of a future relationship
Kill any remaining hope for yourself if they do not have the ability to do so
Do not imagine that one can love when ordering
Admirable is beyond our reach
It’s not about not trying enough
It does not link morality
They are not evil because they do not love you, nor are you good to love them
Both of you in his search for happiness have taken a different path
Our minds are like small boats sailing over the periphery of the subconscious mind
So do not make it a moral issue
They behaved strangely at separation
Not because they were evil or uncertain, but because they felt guilty
Because they are good
Which does not mean they want you
Many of us are forced to put those who do not want us in a special place
It fuels our hatred of ourselves
But this is not romantic
It is a disease
The real challenge is to stop hating those we really want,
And we stop admiring those who reject us
Think back to those times when one of them refused
You did not hate them or brag about them
The basic feeling I felt was embarrassment and pity
Do not associate rejection with everything you fear and hate in yourself
Do not blame those who reject you with cowardice
Do not overdo them
Do not emphasize their excellence
Do not give them sex in the hope that they will change their mind
Do not think that people can fall in love with another person out of pity or remorse
Do not think that their fear of relationships
Just try to have fun and enjoy times of transient sexual relations if that helps you
But above all, do not think of the end of this relationship as something tragic and painful
The only good and worthy relationship is mourning
Is the relationship in which both sides wanted to remain steadfast
But your relationship was not that kind of relationship
Despite all the promising signs
It’s something that will happen to us all at some point
So dealing with this pain through logic is an art of life
Suggests a bunch of same tips
First: Do not try to underestimate what happened
No place for courage here
Give your sadness enough space, enough time, listen to the sad songs, take a warm bath and indulge in luxurious food
You will get bored in the end and come back to the appetite of life
Second, believe them and reject you
Do not imagine that their former goodness secretly suggests the possibility of a future relationship
Kill any remaining hope for yourself if they do not have the ability to do so
Do not imagine that one can love when ordering
Admirable is beyond our reach
It’s not about not trying enough
It does not link morality
They are not evil because they do not love you, nor are you good to love them
Both of you in his search for happiness have taken a different path
Our minds are like small boats sailing over the periphery of the subconscious mind
So do not make it a moral issue
They behaved strangely at separation
Not because they were evil or uncertain, but because they felt guilty
Because they are good
Which does not mean they want you
Many of us are forced to put those who do not want us in a special place
It fuels our hatred of ourselves
But this is not romantic
It is a disease
The real challenge is to stop hating those we really want,
And we stop admiring those who reject us
Think back to those times when one of them refused
You did not hate them or brag about them
The basic feeling I felt was embarrassment and pity
Do not associate rejection with everything you fear and hate in yourself
Do not blame those who reject you with cowardice
Do not overdo them
Do not emphasize their excellence
Do not give them sex in the hope that they will change their mind
Do not think that people can fall in love with another person out of pity or remorse
Do not think that their fear of relationships
Just try to have fun and enjoy times of transient sexual relations if that helps you
But above all, do not think of the end of this relationship as something tragic and painful
The only good and worthy relationship is mourning
Is the relationship in which both sides wanted to remain steadfast
But your relationship was not that kind of relationship
Despite all the promising signs
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