The way we got married for centuries has hardly changed.
But our expectation of marriage
But it has changed dramatically
We have a lot of knowledge about why some marriages have problems.
But rarely such knowledge is covered in the wedding itself.
So we decided to redesign the wedding
Create a modern ritual that is more realistic and more in line with psychology
In order to better help newly married partners
Sharing the ups and downs of life
People still want a sense of ritual and form
Wedding is still an important event
In order to reflect the importance of decent clothing and formal venues is a suitable choice
Let’s take a look at what the wedding we designed is.
Today we are gathered together for serious things.
It’s promising and extremely difficult
We are here to congratulate Emily and Simon on the knot.
Good marriage is not without problems
In a good marriage, people will have an insight into the problem and solve them broadly and generously.
There will be a series of ritual processes at the wedding.
The whole process begins with a “humble ceremony”
Humility is critical to good relationships
Humility begins with a sufficiently accurate and sorrowful perception of all of its deficiencies
Modesty is full of apologies and humility
Humility makes the defect no longer smeared as a charming quirk or an eccentricity to be forgiven
Humility contains our public recognition of the desire for a different, better self.
Simon
Do you admit that you are still failing and not perfect?
Do you admit that although you are not in all aspects, you will still become a heavy burden for Emily in some respects from time to time.
Yes
I admit that I am still failing and not perfect.
You have been thoughtful before coming here.
Independently and publicly list your perceptions of self-deficiencies
You recorded them on this book.
This is your defect record
Please read some of the content written by me in front of me and the guests.
I admit that I am not good at telling you how to feel mature.
I don’t know what makes me upset.
But to sulking
I hope you can read my heart.
If you can’t read me, you will lose your temper.
I will always be self-centered
I think that your anxiety is caused by me.
I am always happy because of trivial matters.
Become narrow-minded and angry
Not expressing with you that I am afraid of losing you
Both sides acknowledge their multiple defects
Self-righteous is the enemy of love after all.
We are not completely geographically intelligent or healthy
We promise to treat each other not to be perfect
We will treat each other with infinite goodwill and the desire to be physically present.
We will do our best
This is no stranger to the ordinary newcomer and different.
They just declare that everyone has shortcomings and weaknesses
We are not perfect
We have all done stupid things
I will still inevitably do it later.
We all agree
We all anger others
Blame others for their mistakes
We all have strange obsessions
Never succeeded in reconciliation
We are here to comfort you, everyone is not perfect.
We don’t know everything
But we understand you
Here is the “Compassionate Ceremony”
Compassion is the core of love
Compassion means finding the least worrying panic motivation from each other’s behavior
Compassion can understand the fear behind the attack
Compassion can understand the loneliness of anger
Compassion will understand how shame is so devastating
Compassion will understand how hidden worries are so mean
Please exchange the gift of compassion
Two newcomers are exchanging childhood photos
It is difficult for us to treat adults with the natural love of their children.
Interchange of childhood images
This represents a promise
Commitment to treat each other without hesitation
Although we treat adults, we often refuse to do so.
I will take your child’s side as the core of my love.
I will try to treat your defects as a problem in your past.
I will take care of the sad and desperate child in your heart.
Your lover used to be a child
In one aspect, it is still the child.
Never changed
When you yell
You are yelling at the child.
When you betray
You betrayed the child.
When you blame
You blame the child.
This photo reminds you of patience
Tolerance and benevolence
The next step is to exchange wedding rings and vows.
Feeling understanding, restlessness, full of hope
Are you willing to swear in front of everyone?
You are willing to share the hardships and sadness in life.
and also
Joy, kindness and friendship?
We are willing
I am now announcing that you are married.
[Cheer applause]
Our marriage, past and present
Not perfect
But we can keep learning
Learn from the lessons and make progress
I wish you growth wisdom
I wish you a happy marriage.
We sincerely offer
Best wishes to you
【applaud】
Marriage has never been difficult
But we can hold a wedding that recognizes these difficulties to open a marriage.
And get some suggestions that can be used to circumvent them
This will give marriage a good starting point.
【music】
If you want to buy a book How to Get Married
There is a comprehensive introduction to the wedding ceremony.
And any suggestions for preparing and managing marriages
Please click on the on-screen link
If you want us to help you hold a wedding
Please follow the contact information in the instructions to contact us.
But our expectation of marriage
But it has changed dramatically
We have a lot of knowledge about why some marriages have problems.
But rarely such knowledge is covered in the wedding itself.
So we decided to redesign the wedding
Create a modern ritual that is more realistic and more in line with psychology
In order to better help newly married partners
Sharing the ups and downs of life
People still want a sense of ritual and form
Wedding is still an important event
In order to reflect the importance of decent clothing and formal venues is a suitable choice
Let’s take a look at what the wedding we designed is.
Today we are gathered together for serious things.
It’s promising and extremely difficult
We are here to congratulate Emily and Simon on the knot.
Good marriage is not without problems
In a good marriage, people will have an insight into the problem and solve them broadly and generously.
There will be a series of ritual processes at the wedding.
The whole process begins with a “humble ceremony”
Humility is critical to good relationships
Humility begins with a sufficiently accurate and sorrowful perception of all of its deficiencies
Modesty is full of apologies and humility
Humility makes the defect no longer smeared as a charming quirk or an eccentricity to be forgiven
Humility contains our public recognition of the desire for a different, better self.
Simon
Do you admit that you are still failing and not perfect?
Do you admit that although you are not in all aspects, you will still become a heavy burden for Emily in some respects from time to time.
Yes
I admit that I am still failing and not perfect.
You have been thoughtful before coming here.
Independently and publicly list your perceptions of self-deficiencies
You recorded them on this book.
This is your defect record
Please read some of the content written by me in front of me and the guests.
I admit that I am not good at telling you how to feel mature.
I don’t know what makes me upset.
But to sulking
I hope you can read my heart.
If you can’t read me, you will lose your temper.
I will always be self-centered
I think that your anxiety is caused by me.
I am always happy because of trivial matters.
Become narrow-minded and angry
Not expressing with you that I am afraid of losing you
Both sides acknowledge their multiple defects
Self-righteous is the enemy of love after all.
We are not completely geographically intelligent or healthy
We promise to treat each other not to be perfect
We will treat each other with infinite goodwill and the desire to be physically present.
We will do our best
This is no stranger to the ordinary newcomer and different.
They just declare that everyone has shortcomings and weaknesses
We are not perfect
We have all done stupid things
I will still inevitably do it later.
We all agree
We all anger others
Blame others for their mistakes
We all have strange obsessions
Never succeeded in reconciliation
We are here to comfort you, everyone is not perfect.
We don’t know everything
But we understand you
Here is the “Compassionate Ceremony”
Compassion is the core of love
Compassion means finding the least worrying panic motivation from each other’s behavior
Compassion can understand the fear behind the attack
Compassion can understand the loneliness of anger
Compassion will understand how shame is so devastating
Compassion will understand how hidden worries are so mean
Please exchange the gift of compassion
Two newcomers are exchanging childhood photos
It is difficult for us to treat adults with the natural love of their children.
Interchange of childhood images
This represents a promise
Commitment to treat each other without hesitation
Although we treat adults, we often refuse to do so.
I will take your child’s side as the core of my love.
I will try to treat your defects as a problem in your past.
I will take care of the sad and desperate child in your heart.
Your lover used to be a child
In one aspect, it is still the child.
Never changed
When you yell
You are yelling at the child.
When you betray
You betrayed the child.
When you blame
You blame the child.
This photo reminds you of patience
Tolerance and benevolence
The next step is to exchange wedding rings and vows.
Feeling understanding, restlessness, full of hope
Are you willing to swear in front of everyone?
You are willing to share the hardships and sadness in life.
and also
Joy, kindness and friendship?
We are willing
I am now announcing that you are married.
[Cheer applause]
Our marriage, past and present
Not perfect
But we can keep learning
Learn from the lessons and make progress
I wish you growth wisdom
I wish you a happy marriage.
We sincerely offer
Best wishes to you
【applaud】
Marriage has never been difficult
But we can hold a wedding that recognizes these difficulties to open a marriage.
And get some suggestions that can be used to circumvent them
This will give marriage a good starting point.
【music】
If you want to buy a book How to Get Married
There is a comprehensive introduction to the wedding ceremony.
And any suggestions for preparing and managing marriages
Please click on the on-screen link
If you want us to help you hold a wedding
Please follow the contact information in the instructions to contact us.
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