How to be a Friend to Yourself

Try to be a better friend to yourself
Looks like a strange idea
at beginning.
Because of course we envision a friend
As someone else,
Not as part of our minds.
But there is value to this concept;
Because of how well we know how
Treatment of our friends,
With kindness and imagination
We rarely apply them
To ourselves.
If a friend of ours fell into trouble,
Our first instinct is rarely to tell
That it is from the ground
Fool and Fool.
If a friend complained that his partner does not
Enjoy it,
We do not tell him that he gets what he deserves,
But we reassure him that he is loved from the ground,
And that it is worth searching
About what can be done.
In friendship
We know instinctively
How to spread strategies of wisdom and compassion
Which we stubbornly reject
To ourselves.
There are some major behaviors
Which is usually done by a good friend,
Which can provide a model
For what we prefer to do
For ourselves, and for our minds.
First: a good friend loves you just as you are,
Any proposal submitted,
Or ambition carries him wish to change,
It is built on the basis of acceptance.
When you are suggested to try a different path,
It is not intended to warn or threaten,
It does not mean that you have to change or abandon you!
The friend insists on
We were originally good enough,
But he wants to unite forces,
To solve the challenge we feel
We will benefit well from overcoming it.
Without being complacent,
Good friends always take into account
Certain things, and we agreed.
They do not see any problem * Cheers in the background *
In giving us an individual compliment * Cheers in the background *
Focus on our strengths. * Cheers in the background *
It’s totally annoying
We could and easily overlook
All our positive aspects
When trouble strikes us.
A friend does not fall into this trap,
It can recognize difficulties,
While remaining adhering to the memory
Our virtues.
Good friend is kind,
When we fail, we will
He is understanding
And generous about our fortunes.
Our foolishness does not detract from the circle of their love for us.
A good friend definitely tells us that
The error, failure and failure is
Only we are committed as human beings.
We are all born since our childhood
With different biases in our personalities,
Which has been developed to help us deal with
Our parents are inevitably ideal!
These mental habits are acquired
Will surely make us in our lives as adults,
But we should not be blamed, we
We did not deliberately plan to be so.
In fact we did not have many better choices
We were demanding
To make great decisions
Before we really understand about it,
Or where our choices will lead.
We walk blind, making great decisions about love
And work.
We choose to move to a different city
Without knowing if we would flourish there.
We must choose a career path in our youth,
Without knowing what our long-term needs are.
In long-term relationships:
We have to relate to someone else
Before we understand what it will be like
If we are deeply linked to it.
Good friend knows
That the failure in fact is not rare,
He gives us room at first
To see his experiences and experiences of humanity clearly in the failure,
As key reference points.
He tells us constantly
That our own case may be unique
However, the overall structure is common.
People do not fail “sometimes”
But everyone fails,
But we just do not know about them.
It is ironic that brings hope
We most likely know
How to be better friends
For strangers
But not for ourselves!
The hope lies in the fact that we are
Actually we have
Skills required for friendship,
But we just did not direct it
For the person who is likely
Needs more,
and he
Definitely
ourselves. Translation team translated @Autrjim