Listening to a lover is a vital skill in relationships
But there is another skill associated with it and may not receive the same attention
Which we also need to learn and acquire at times
We must not listen to what the beloved says so as not to imagine that deadly imagination about what he really means by his words
Which may mean something different if we all bring it together.
Although talking to others about apparent value is a sign of respect
But may be in love more accurate and more compassionate and gentle sometimes
That plunge into the depths of the true meaning of the words in search of the true hidden partner’s intention that may
Be more shy and complex or perhaps reluctant to mention.
We must develop for the better in our translation of our feelings
And to bridge the gap between what others are saying and what they really mean.
Here are some typical examples of this difference
It is very humiliating to admit to someone else that he has the power over
Stimulation, injury and destruction.
To start loving somebody is something that increases your strength in basic situations
But it also weakens you and puts you at mercy – if love becomes true –
You will depend on his good behavior, his grace, his will and confidence.
When this is not the beginning of the relationship, perhaps we chose not to reveal our weakness for this lover who exploited it.
Our objection that we are “okay” is just an attempt – not as persuasive as it is influential –
To instill a claim of steadfastness and immunity enjoyed by our loved ones that we really know.
It is certainly not so easy or tough.
At first we do not say much about these feelings to people who are not sure of their love
We need to feel safe and comfortable in each other’s presence
Before we dare to tell him that we wish his death.
This kind of anger is not a sign of simple contempt, but of great security.
We do not talk to our colleagues or friends, not because we are polite
But because we do not care enough about them
We did not dare to expect many of them
So do not get angry when they let us down.
When our expectations ceiling is frighteningly high
We allow ourselves to unleash this infinite anger.
This kind of growing talk is a gift of love.
Our power over our loved ones is usually fragile.
There are many, many things we want from them, but unfortunately we can not direct them to them as if they were dolls in our hands
Usually the only way is that we need without asking
And to be aware of what we want without revealing it
We are only shy
We face the limits that restrict our actions.
What happens to tyrannical desires is negative hostility
While constraining the reality of equality of relations.
Where it is difficult for the receiving party to usually understand what is happening.
He feels controlled, burdened and guilty and may feel guilty.
A partner with negative hostility is clever enough to leave no trace of manipulation.
It seems as if the partner has some options in place, but in reality the relationship
Proof that it simply has to do unless ordered directly.
It looks like governance and management.
Maybe it was up to a request like throwing garbage or counting the remaining milk bottles
Or no delay in attendance after 7 pm.
His actions are thus controlled as if he were a manager and what love has faded away
But the desire to control is usually a symptom of fear of losing a partner subconsciously.
Someone has to feel a bit out of control to become dominant.
Rigidity is actually an allegation of misunderstanding.
The real message has nothing to do with the table
What it really means is that the feeling of lack of sincerity and trust in the partner
And to exercise practical control over his life
To achieve some of the control of what one really wants to tighten his hands on him: feelings.
A person will stop these behaviors if he feels more secure.
Controlled behavior is an invitation to the emotion expressed by the control of the screaming by order.
What people often mean in love is the desire to be more affectionate, compassionate and more affected
Which they were able to utter.
But there are some cases where it looks nice but its reality is more painful.
As Marcel Proust said: “Usually those who love less are those who speak more with nice talk.”
Perhaps the partner and deceived us by emotional orders
Exaggerated by its purity, purity and simplicity.
When we translate his words we have to increase our doubts about a fruitful increase.
We may have raised the roof very honestly
Or created a situation in which we refuse to accept difficult news
Or his hesitant and complex feelings.
Maybe we need a more open mind?
We will be able to deal adequately with the most mundane parts of our partners.
But now we are in serious complicity to keep our fears away
In this way we allow it a greater chance of becoming real.
In the ideal future we will have small tools in our ears that will translate the words of our loved ones into their real meaning,
We will hear a warning device, light and steel.
It is not just what they say publicly, but even what they try to communicate with.
And with more idealism they will also wear such a device.
Translation difficulties and challenges are, of course, common.
Until then, we must always make an effort to interpret and dismantle the message we receive
Accepting it as a logical part of the effort in love:
To interpret and understand the words of the other not only to hear them.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
But there is another skill associated with it and may not receive the same attention
Which we also need to learn and acquire at times
We must not listen to what the beloved says so as not to imagine that deadly imagination about what he really means by his words
Which may mean something different if we all bring it together.
Although talking to others about apparent value is a sign of respect
But may be in love more accurate and more compassionate and gentle sometimes
That plunge into the depths of the true meaning of the words in search of the true hidden partner’s intention that may
Be more shy and complex or perhaps reluctant to mention.
We must develop for the better in our translation of our feelings
And to bridge the gap between what others are saying and what they really mean.
Here are some typical examples of this difference
It is very humiliating to admit to someone else that he has the power over
Stimulation, injury and destruction.
To start loving somebody is something that increases your strength in basic situations
But it also weakens you and puts you at mercy – if love becomes true –
You will depend on his good behavior, his grace, his will and confidence.
When this is not the beginning of the relationship, perhaps we chose not to reveal our weakness for this lover who exploited it.
Our objection that we are “okay” is just an attempt – not as persuasive as it is influential –
To instill a claim of steadfastness and immunity enjoyed by our loved ones that we really know.
It is certainly not so easy or tough.
At first we do not say much about these feelings to people who are not sure of their love
We need to feel safe and comfortable in each other’s presence
Before we dare to tell him that we wish his death.
This kind of anger is not a sign of simple contempt, but of great security.
We do not talk to our colleagues or friends, not because we are polite
But because we do not care enough about them
We did not dare to expect many of them
So do not get angry when they let us down.
When our expectations ceiling is frighteningly high
We allow ourselves to unleash this infinite anger.
This kind of growing talk is a gift of love.
Our power over our loved ones is usually fragile.
There are many, many things we want from them, but unfortunately we can not direct them to them as if they were dolls in our hands
Usually the only way is that we need without asking
And to be aware of what we want without revealing it
We are only shy
We face the limits that restrict our actions.
What happens to tyrannical desires is negative hostility
While constraining the reality of equality of relations.
Where it is difficult for the receiving party to usually understand what is happening.
He feels controlled, burdened and guilty and may feel guilty.
A partner with negative hostility is clever enough to leave no trace of manipulation.
It seems as if the partner has some options in place, but in reality the relationship
Proof that it simply has to do unless ordered directly.
It looks like governance and management.
Maybe it was up to a request like throwing garbage or counting the remaining milk bottles
Or no delay in attendance after 7 pm.
His actions are thus controlled as if he were a manager and what love has faded away
But the desire to control is usually a symptom of fear of losing a partner subconsciously.
Someone has to feel a bit out of control to become dominant.
Rigidity is actually an allegation of misunderstanding.
The real message has nothing to do with the table
What it really means is that the feeling of lack of sincerity and trust in the partner
And to exercise practical control over his life
To achieve some of the control of what one really wants to tighten his hands on him: feelings.
A person will stop these behaviors if he feels more secure.
Controlled behavior is an invitation to the emotion expressed by the control of the screaming by order.
What people often mean in love is the desire to be more affectionate, compassionate and more affected
Which they were able to utter.
But there are some cases where it looks nice but its reality is more painful.
As Marcel Proust said: “Usually those who love less are those who speak more with nice talk.”
Perhaps the partner and deceived us by emotional orders
Exaggerated by its purity, purity and simplicity.
When we translate his words we have to increase our doubts about a fruitful increase.
We may have raised the roof very honestly
Or created a situation in which we refuse to accept difficult news
Or his hesitant and complex feelings.
Maybe we need a more open mind?
We will be able to deal adequately with the most mundane parts of our partners.
But now we are in serious complicity to keep our fears away
In this way we allow it a greater chance of becoming real.
In the ideal future we will have small tools in our ears that will translate the words of our loved ones into their real meaning,
We will hear a warning device, light and steel.
It is not just what they say publicly, but even what they try to communicate with.
And with more idealism they will also wear such a device.
Translation difficulties and challenges are, of course, common.
Until then, we must always make an effort to interpret and dismantle the message we receive
Accepting it as a logical part of the effort in love:
To interpret and understand the words of the other not only to hear them.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
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