Criticism is uncomfortable. One of the most challenging aspects of life is
Others rate us as stupid, conservative, ugly or disgusting. However, the influence of criticism varies.
What is your childhood like? This is what we never thought of,
But it greatly affects the role of criticism in us. If you want to know the criticism of others, it only causes emotional discomfort.
Still devastating damage, it needs to be traced back to decades ago.
Find out how the people who took care of us first treated us. “Tragic childhood” is
A childhood without love. When a baby is born, his ability is very limited and it is difficult to continue his life.
The tolerance, enthusiasm and tolerance of others ultimately make us adapt to the living environment.
The way others look at us becomes
We look at our way. Through the love of others,
We learned how to care for others in a difficult situation. Forgive and care for others,
Not born, but we are the day after tomorrow
From the middle of others’ love and protection for us.
Those people protect us from the negative consequences of the world. Don’t need a lot of people to love us,
One person is enough. Our time of caring may only take 12 years, or 16 years of ideal status. but,
If there is no caring love in childhood, we will not be confident even if we are praised by thousands of people in adulthood.
With love, even if thousands of people laugh at it, they laugh at it.
The unfortunate childhood will drive us to look for affirmation from the outside world.
This also means that when we look for positive reviews from the outside world, we will also encounter negative evaluations.
Seeking affirmative practices from the outside world ultimately led to an unresolved emotional cycle:
Am I really worth living in this world? In order to prove the value of your life,
These people usually work very hard and try to become famous or successful.
But the world never gives these emotionally poor people a certain amount of recognition with expectations.
Opposition and criticism have always filled their lives. Due to the unhappy happy life of the past,
They can’t be kind to others, people who are not happy in childhood are used to it.
Bad criticism, but others have become more critical. we discover,
The main sign of a good parent is that the child he educates
Don’t care if others like themselves. When others are criticized by others,
What we have heard is very different. Lucky people just keep hearing some superficial information:
Our work is not satisfactory, we must work hard on our homework,
Our books, movies or songs have shortcomings. This type of evaluation is still within the scope of acceptance.
But those who are unhappy in childhood will interpret these criticisms in depth. Critics once again uncover the damage of childhood.
The current pain is intertwined with the previous injuries, causing huge
An intractable problem. Leaders or unfriendly colleagues have become parents who have frustrated us at an early age.
There is a crisis everywhere. Not working well,
We have become poor people and are not worth living in this world. We are the one who is the worst in the world.
Because of these feelings, we have returned to the fragile, unresisting babyhood.
Our childhood has largely influenced whether we can resist the negative effects of criticism from others.
This also means that when we are attacked, we can protect ourselves from unnecessary harm.
We need to learn to distinguish the evaluations we are suffering today.
And we have been emotionally criticized since we were young. Always talk about things,
Don’t repeat the old things. We should understand that no matter how cruel the attack is,
These attacks are far better than the real tragedy, not the main source of our suffering, the pain comes from us
Unhappy childhood. We can put our focus on the real source – the care of parents in the past,
Not the criticism of others today. We should forgive
It’s not our fault that we are sensitive. This sensitivity is mainly derived from
Emotional trauma. We can’t stop attacks from others, but we can pass
Tracing our past and changing their impact on us. Very important, we can also
Get a second chance – return to your childhood memories and correct the initial mistakes.
We can take measures to communicate with friends. More ideally, find a capable
A physiotherapist, he can take care of us like a child’s parents and teach us that we were in early childhood
Skills that should be learned. Everyone, no matter what is wrong, is still worth living in this world.
At At The School of Life, we firmly believe that confidence is a habitable skill.
We designed a confidence boost card to help us master this magical art. Click to find out more.
Others rate us as stupid, conservative, ugly or disgusting. However, the influence of criticism varies.
What is your childhood like? This is what we never thought of,
But it greatly affects the role of criticism in us. If you want to know the criticism of others, it only causes emotional discomfort.
Still devastating damage, it needs to be traced back to decades ago.
Find out how the people who took care of us first treated us. “Tragic childhood” is
A childhood without love. When a baby is born, his ability is very limited and it is difficult to continue his life.
The tolerance, enthusiasm and tolerance of others ultimately make us adapt to the living environment.
The way others look at us becomes
We look at our way. Through the love of others,
We learned how to care for others in a difficult situation. Forgive and care for others,
Not born, but we are the day after tomorrow
From the middle of others’ love and protection for us.
Those people protect us from the negative consequences of the world. Don’t need a lot of people to love us,
One person is enough. Our time of caring may only take 12 years, or 16 years of ideal status. but,
If there is no caring love in childhood, we will not be confident even if we are praised by thousands of people in adulthood.
With love, even if thousands of people laugh at it, they laugh at it.
The unfortunate childhood will drive us to look for affirmation from the outside world.
This also means that when we look for positive reviews from the outside world, we will also encounter negative evaluations.
Seeking affirmative practices from the outside world ultimately led to an unresolved emotional cycle:
Am I really worth living in this world? In order to prove the value of your life,
These people usually work very hard and try to become famous or successful.
But the world never gives these emotionally poor people a certain amount of recognition with expectations.
Opposition and criticism have always filled their lives. Due to the unhappy happy life of the past,
They can’t be kind to others, people who are not happy in childhood are used to it.
Bad criticism, but others have become more critical. we discover,
The main sign of a good parent is that the child he educates
Don’t care if others like themselves. When others are criticized by others,
What we have heard is very different. Lucky people just keep hearing some superficial information:
Our work is not satisfactory, we must work hard on our homework,
Our books, movies or songs have shortcomings. This type of evaluation is still within the scope of acceptance.
But those who are unhappy in childhood will interpret these criticisms in depth. Critics once again uncover the damage of childhood.
The current pain is intertwined with the previous injuries, causing huge
An intractable problem. Leaders or unfriendly colleagues have become parents who have frustrated us at an early age.
There is a crisis everywhere. Not working well,
We have become poor people and are not worth living in this world. We are the one who is the worst in the world.
Because of these feelings, we have returned to the fragile, unresisting babyhood.
Our childhood has largely influenced whether we can resist the negative effects of criticism from others.
This also means that when we are attacked, we can protect ourselves from unnecessary harm.
We need to learn to distinguish the evaluations we are suffering today.
And we have been emotionally criticized since we were young. Always talk about things,
Don’t repeat the old things. We should understand that no matter how cruel the attack is,
These attacks are far better than the real tragedy, not the main source of our suffering, the pain comes from us
Unhappy childhood. We can put our focus on the real source – the care of parents in the past,
Not the criticism of others today. We should forgive
It’s not our fault that we are sensitive. This sensitivity is mainly derived from
Emotional trauma. We can’t stop attacks from others, but we can pass
Tracing our past and changing their impact on us. Very important, we can also
Get a second chance – return to your childhood memories and correct the initial mistakes.
We can take measures to communicate with friends. More ideally, find a capable
A physiotherapist, he can take care of us like a child’s parents and teach us that we were in early childhood
Skills that should be learned. Everyone, no matter what is wrong, is still worth living in this world.
At At The School of Life, we firmly believe that confidence is a habitable skill.
We designed a confidence boost card to help us master this magical art. Click to find out more.
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