setbacks at work that hurt me
financially which is stressed out my
family I’m late on some payments I’m
falling further behind at work I don’t
want to tap out but I just don’t know
if you’re not happy you’re not the only
one if your life is miserable you’re not
if your heart is broken you’re not the
only one if you’re struggling with money
if you want a better life you’re not the
only one no matter what you’re going
through right now you’re not the only
one you know what that’s that’s just
kind of the way that
life works when things go wrong they
always seem to happen at once and they
just compound on top of each other and
it’s it’s pretty easy sometimes to to
feel people when you’re faced with all
those issues and all those problems and
they all hit you at the same but let me
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in fact it means the opposite it means
it’s time for you to fight harder to dig
in means it’s time for you to go on the
warpath look at these people they’re
homeless people sick people
all kinds of disadvantaged people that
we see on the news and that we feel
sorry for look at how they appreciate
all the help they receive things that
perhaps are insignificant for you but
for them
a bit of food bottle of water and a roof
over their heads is all they’re asking
for and this isn’t because they don’t
have dreams or they don’t wish for a
beautiful house with a pool a Ferrari
and millions of dollars in their bank
accounts but because they appreciate
what they have and they understand that
things can be worse but I want you to
understand is that your life can always
be worse but it isn’t there will always
be people that are suffering more than
you there are tens of thousands of other
people who have the exact same problems
as you have
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as a matter of fact there are people who
are going through worse things than you
you’re not the only one if you want to
change something in your life stop
feeling sorry for yourself
stop focusing on what you don’t have
because it is causing you too much pain
too much negativity and you are
attracting more of what you’re going
through if you want to get out of the
hole you have to stop digging because
you’re only making it deeper instead
look for solutions by focusing on what
you have here and now
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that starts with one of the fundamental
laws of combat leadership prioritize and
what’s the biggest problem or what’s
causing the most stress family ok sit
them down explain where you are at be
blunts be upfront and then give them the
simple plan of how you’re going to get
things back on track
don’t sugarcoat it you give it to a
string you got some sub late payments
call those creditors up explain to them
what’s going on set up some kind of a
look of a minimum payment plan so you
can start making some progress and get
them off your back and then you’ve got
your job right you’re falling behind at
work you can talk to your boss
face it tell him that you’re gonna step
up your game tell him you’re gonna be at
work early you’re gonna be at work late
you’re gonna be at work during lunch
you’re gonna be wherever you need to be
whenever he needs you to be there tell
him you’re gonna get after it and tell
him that you’re a hundred percent
committed to supporting him and the
and then you get started and I’m gonna
tell you right now it won’t be easy it
will be hard because life is hard that’s
what life is and these challenges these
challenges that you face they’re gonna
line up those problems and confront them
face them fight them do not let them
bring you down in fact in fact let those
challenges raise you up
let them elevate you let their demands
that’s how you create your dream life
use what you have use your current
situation as motivation build a life of
your dreams simply because your most
burning desire is to stop living the
life you have now most of the world’s
billionaires are self-made because they
too have faced a lot of problems and
that was the reason that made them want
more from life but they didn’t stop
until they got where they wanted to they
focused on finding ways to get out of
the hole and they use that as motivation
do you think it wasn’t hard for them as
well
of course it was and they had to work
hard but they were in a miserable enough
situation that they had nothing to lose
the same applies to you what do you have
to lose if you pursue your dream if you
hope for more if you stop feeling sorry
for yourself get up and change your life
improve it turn it into a work of art or
do you have something better to do don’t
forget that you only have one life you
only have one chance to become who and
what you want to become use your
problems to motivate yourself ask
yourself do you want to stay where you
are right now for the rest of your life
or do you want to live the life of your
dreams to wake up every morning happy
and excited to travel to the most
beautiful places to have a beautiful
house an amazing family to be
appreciated by people around you and to
feel proud of yourself
you created your dream life starting
with nothing all of this is possible
this is how the bullied got stronger
than the bully the poor got rich the
rejected proved to everyone that they’re
capable and the person who watched
motivational videos decided to change
their life for the better and to not
allow anyone or anything to stop them
from creating the life of their dreams I
hope that person is you
I hope that when you finish watching
this video you understand that whatever
it is you’re going through right now can
be worse that there are people that have
far more problems than you do I hope
that you’ll be strong and we will use
your current situation as motivation
that you’ll never stop fighting instead
of focusing on problems focus on
solutions and you will find them it’s all up to you