This is Why You’re Not SUCCESSFUL [2019 motivational speech]

I rather be that that tells you the
truth instead of the mother always lies
to you if you have no pressure
you have no stress in your life you
don’t have a life that’s what fuels you
that’s what keeps you going when nothing
else will you know everybody’s always
looking for external motivation and so
forth if you have your own added
pressure and you have your own stress
that you deal with that nobody else is
putting on you that you put on yourself
it’s what lights your own fire it’s what
keeps you going the greatest things some
of the most beautiful things in life
that we buy that people love to have are
made through pressure you know diamonds
are made through pressure we all have
the ability to change that story but
what are you willing to put on the line
and it has to be something that’s
substantial to you being different is
what separates you from everybody else
you know everyone loves to tell these
stories about how their childhood wasn’t
fulfilling and you know their parents I
had great parents I had absolutely
wonderful parents
I saw them work grind every single day
it’s very rare that parents from India
go against their parents wishes
my dad told his mom that I’m not staying
here I’m not gonna be in the family
business I want a better life for myself
for my wife for our boys she packed up
then we came over here and remember
no matter how many times I tell the
story it gets to me my dad telling the
cab driver stop stop right stop like
this as far as I can go so he’s just
tell me he goes listen guys we’re in a
new country I want you guys to see the
sights see the tour see everything
that’s going on so my dad’s picking up
these two suitcases with with his two
boys walk a little bit suitcases get
heavy poured on oh look at this building
look at that uh he made a game out of it
he made a game out of it we got to the
destination my mom didn’t even know we
were coming
you have vivid memories of certain
things no matter how old you are how
young you are that sticks with you so
you can see what they did and how hard
they work to get listen we didn’t have
everything we wanted but we had
everything we needed and see them build
from nothing I mean I thought my nothing
nothing if they could do that
why can’t anybody else it’s about coming
to somewhere different and proving
yourself different doesn’t mean less
than it doesn’t mean less than but you
know what different does different
scares people it scares not only other
individuals around you for a lot of
times it scares yourself you put
yourself in an inferior place when it’s
actually that different mindset being
different is what separates you from
everybody else we spend our whole lives
trying to fit into a certain group make
sure we have the right kind of friends
make sure we go to the right school
you’re in the right for turning right
sorority and who the individuals we
admire the most the ones that stand out
for all the people that are watching
this and I hope there’s millions of you
we all have the ability to change that
story but what are you willing to put on the life