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you’re actually tougher than you think
you’re actually tougher than you think you never knew that and maybe you didn’t
you never knew that and maybe you didn’t
you never knew that and maybe you didn’t want to take on the responsibility
want to take on the responsibility
want to take on the responsibility because you know people play a role in
because you know people play a role in
because you know people play a role in their own demise so to speak when you
their own demise so to speak when you
their own demise so to speak when you had opportunity to go out and explore or
had opportunity to go out and explore or
had opportunity to go out and explore or withdraw because you were afraid you
withdraw because you were afraid you
withdraw because you were afraid you chose to withdraw because you were
chose to withdraw because you were
chose to withdraw because you were afraid so it’s not only that you were
afraid so it’s not only that you were
afraid so it’s not only that you were over protected often it’s that you were
over protected often it’s that you were
over protected often it’s that you were willing to take advantage of the fact
willing to take advantage of the fact
willing to take advantage of the fact that you were over protected and run
that you were over protected and run
that you were over protected and run back there whenever you had the
back there whenever you had the
back there whenever you had the opportunity you know so maybe you’re a
opportunity you know so maybe you’re a
opportunity you know so maybe you’re a kid in the playground right and you’re
kid in the playground right and you’re
kid in the playground right and you’re having some trouble with other kids and
having some trouble with other kids and
having some trouble with other kids and you know in the back of your mind
you know in the back of your mind
you know in the back of your mind I should deal this with deal with this
I should deal this with deal with this
I should deal this with deal with this myself but you go and tell your mom and
myself but you go and tell your mom and
myself but you go and tell your mom and get her to intervene and you know that
get her to intervene and you know that
get her to intervene and you know that that’s not right you know that you’re
that’s not right you know that you’re
that’s not right you know that you’re breaking the social contract but it’s
breaking the social contract but it’s
breaking the social contract but it’s easier and so that’s what you do you run
easier and so that’s what you do you run
easier and so that’s what you do you run off to an authority figure and hide
off to an authority figure and hide
off to an authority figure and hide behind the Great Father right roughly
behind the Great Father right roughly
behind the Great Father right roughly speaking well the problem with that is
speaking well the problem with that is
speaking well the problem with that is you don’t learn how to do it yourself so
you don’t learn how to do it yourself so
you don’t learn how to do it yourself so then you have to relearn it painfully
then you have to relearn it painfully
then you have to relearn it painfully when you’re 40 so then you take people
when you’re 40 so then you take people
when you’re 40 so then you take people out you say well what are you afraid of
out you say well what are you afraid of
out you say well what are you afraid of rank it from 1 to 10 so 10 is what make
rank it from 1 to 10 so 10 is what make
rank it from 1 to 10 so 10 is what make a list of 10 things you’re afraid of the
a list of 10 things you’re afraid of the
a list of 10 things you’re afraid of the least the thing you’re least afraid of
least the thing you’re least afraid of
least the thing you’re least afraid of will call number 10 so we’ll start with
will call number 10 so we’ll start with
will call number 10 so we’ll start with that
that
that okay well I’m afraid of elevators ok
okay well I’m afraid of elevators ok
okay well I’m afraid of elevators ok well let’s let’s look at a picture of an
well let’s let’s look at a picture of an
well let’s let’s look at a picture of an elevator let’s have you imagine being in
elevator let’s have you imagine being in
elevator let’s have you imagine being in an elevator let’s go out to an elevator
an elevator let’s go out to an elevator
an elevator let’s go out to an elevator and let you watch the terrible jaws of
and let you watch the terrible jaws of
and let you watch the terrible jaws of death open because that’s how you’re
death open because that’s how you’re
death open because that’s how you’re responding to it symbolically right and
responding to it symbolically right and
responding to it symbolically right and you’re gonna do that at it at the the
you’re gonna do that at it at the the
you’re gonna do that at it at the the closest proximity you can manage you
closest proximity you can manage you
closest proximity you can manage you find out you go do that
find out you go do that
find out you go do that it works you’re nervous as hell
it works you’re nervous as hell
it works you’re nervous as hell especially an from an anticipatory
especially an from an anticipatory
especially an from an anticipatory perspective shaking you go out you stop
perspective shaking you go out you stop
perspective shaking you go out you stop you watch it happen and you actually
you watch it happen and you actually
you watch it happen and you actually calm down you do that 10 times it no
calm down you do that 10 times it no
calm down you do that 10 times it no longer bothers you well what you’ve
longer bothers you well what you’ve
longer bothers you well what you’ve learned that you didn’t die but more
learned that you didn’t die but more
learned that you didn’t die but more importantly than that you’ve learned
importantly than that you’ve learned
importantly than that you’ve learned that you could withstand the threat of
that you could withstand the threat of
that you could withstand the threat of death that’s what you’ve learned and
death that’s what you’ve learned and
death that’s what you’ve learned and then you move a little closer and then
then you move a little closer and then
then you move a little closer and then you move a little closer and then you
you move a little closer and then you
you move a little closer and then you move a little closer and finally you’re
move a little closer and finally you’re
move a little closer and finally you’re back in what’s no longer the elevator
back in what’s no longer the elevator
back in what’s no longer the elevator from a symbolic perspective it’s a tomb
from a symbolic perspective it’s a tomb
from a symbolic perspective it’s a tomb right it’s it’s it’s a place of
right it’s it’s it’s a place of
right it’s it’s it’s a place of enclosure and isolation and you learn
enclosure and isolation and you learn
enclosure and isolation and you learn hmm
hmm
hmm turns out I can withstand that
turns out I can withstand that
turns out I can withstand that and then you’re met much more together
and then you’re met much more together
and then you’re met much more together much more confident and that’s often one
much more confident and that’s often one
much more confident and that’s often one of the things that often happens in
of the things that often happens in
of the things that often happens in situations like that I’ve seen this
situations like that I’ve seen this
situations like that I’ve seen this multiple times is that if you run
multiple times is that if you run
multiple times is that if you run someone through an exposure training
someone through an exposure training
someone through an exposure training process like that and toughen them up
process like that and toughen them up
process like that and toughen them up they’ll often start standing up to
they’ll often start standing up to
they’ll often start standing up to people around them in a way they never
people around them in a way they never
people around them in a way they never did before mr. Carnegie was a hard
did before mr. Carnegie was a hard
did before mr. Carnegie was a hard bastard Vanderbilt was a hard bastard
bastard Vanderbilt was a hard bastard
bastard Vanderbilt was a hard bastard Henry Ford the first was a hard bastard
Henry Ford the first was a hard bastard
Henry Ford the first was a hard bastard Rockefeller was a hard bastard Steve
Rockefeller was a hard bastard Steve
Rockefeller was a hard bastard Steve Jobs was a ruthless hard bastard
Jobs was a ruthless hard bastard
Jobs was a ruthless hard bastard as Apple’s CEO Cooke regularly begins
as Apple’s CEO Cooke regularly begins
as Apple’s CEO Cooke regularly begins sending emails at 4:30 in the morning on
sending emails at 4:30 in the morning on
sending emails at 4:30 in the morning on Sunday he’s a hard bastard why are all
Sunday he’s a hard bastard why are all
Sunday he’s a hard bastard why are all these guys they changed the world got
these guys they changed the world got
these guys they changed the world got one thing in common take the prisoners
one thing in common take the prisoners
one thing in common take the prisoners and then we got you a stiff drink and a
and then we got you a stiff drink and a
and then we got you a stiff drink and a good kill most people in this room I’m
good kill most people in this room I’m
good kill most people in this room I’m ashamed to say and forgive the stiff
ashamed to say and forgive the stiff
ashamed to say and forgive the stiff drink just a good my proceeds from
drink just a good my proceeds from
drink just a good my proceeds from PayPal acquisition were 80 180 million
PayPal acquisition were 80 180 million
PayPal acquisition were 80 180 million ba-ba-ba-ba then I had a borrow money
ba-ba-ba-ba then I had a borrow money
ba-ba-ba-ba then I had a borrow money for rent these guys myself included are
for rent these guys myself included are
for rent these guys myself included are all in if they believe in what they’re
all in if they believe in what they’re
all in if they believe in what they’re doing they put all their money at risk
doing they put all their money at risk
doing they put all their money at risk on which I have several times not in
on which I have several times not in
on which I have several times not in recent years SpaceX worker reveals a
recent years SpaceX worker reveals a
recent years SpaceX worker reveals a brutal company motto motto helped him
brutal company motto motto helped him
brutal company motto motto helped him survive all nighters working for Elon
survive all nighters working for Elon
survive all nighters working for Elon Musk notorious workaholic Elon Musk is
Musk notorious workaholic Elon Musk is
Musk notorious workaholic Elon Musk is so tied to his office that he’s been
so tied to his office that he’s been
so tied to his office that he’s been known to sleep on the floor I slept on
known to sleep on the floor I slept on
known to sleep on the floor I slept on the floor
the floor
the floor Ford slept on the poor job slept on the
Ford slept on the poor job slept on the
Ford slept on the poor job slept on the floor day slept on the floor success
floor day slept on the floor success
floor day slept on the floor success leaves Clues you weenies
I still work 50 60 hours a week and I
I still work 50 60 hours a week and I haven’t had it work in 35 years I think
haven’t had it work in 35 years I think
haven’t had it work in 35 years I think that there’s a shortage of real men on
that there’s a shortage of real men on
that there’s a shortage of real men on this planet I think most men are I mean
this planet I think most men are I mean
this planet I think most men are I mean frankly just pussies you know I don’t
frankly just pussies you know I don’t
frankly just pussies you know I don’t know if your audience can handle that
know if your audience can handle that
know if your audience can handle that word but I could look man if you can’t
word but I could look man if you can’t
word but I could look man if you can’t get your money right something’s wrong
get your money right something’s wrong
get your money right something’s wrong if you can’t take care of your family
if you can’t take care of your family
if you can’t take care of your family you got to ask yourself how much of a
you got to ask yourself how much of a
you got to ask yourself how much of a man are you like for me that identifies
man are you like for me that identifies
man are you like for me that identifies me as a man my ability to take care of
me as a man my ability to take care of
me as a man my ability to take care of my family I don’t just mean financially
my family I don’t just mean financially
my family I don’t just mean financially but I do mean financially right my job
but I do mean financially right my job
but I do mean financially right my job as a as a head of household is to take
as a as a head of household is to take
as a as a head of household is to take care of the economics of the household
care of the economics of the household
care of the economics of the household you know the word economy if you look it
you know the word economy if you look it
you know the word economy if you look it up in the dictionary it comes from
up in the dictionary it comes from
up in the dictionary it comes from managing the household it had nothing to
managing the household it had nothing to
managing the household it had nothing to do with the business it was about
do with the business it was about
do with the business it was about managing the household so if you go back
managing the household so if you go back
managing the household so if you go back a thousand years we’ve been managing
a thousand years we’ve been managing
a thousand years we’ve been managing households my job as a man is to provide
households my job as a man is to provide
households my job as a man is to provide a place where it’s warm place where we
a place where it’s warm place where we
a place where it’s warm place where we can sleep a place where we’re protected
can sleep a place where we’re protected
can sleep a place where we’re protected place where there’s food right not money
place where there’s food right not money
place where there’s food right not money right I need to be able to take care of
right I need to be able to take care of
right I need to be able to take care of the family shelter food clothing and I
the family shelter food clothing and I
the family shelter food clothing and I need to have some fun my family wants to
need to have some fun my family wants to
need to have some fun my family wants to have fun we want to have experiences so
have fun we want to have experiences so
have fun we want to have experiences so I need to provide a secure environment
I need to provide a secure environment
I need to provide a secure environment for them so they’re not think bad things
for them so they’re not think bad things
for them so they’re not think bad things aren’t just happening and so so men need
aren’t just happening and so so men need
aren’t just happening and so so men need to like bone up man
to like bone up man
to like bone up man like the government can’t take care of
like the government can’t take care of
like the government can’t take care of you bone up you know this yeah bone up
you bone up you know this yeah bone up
you bone up you know this yeah bone up get strong right strong case so get a
get strong right strong case so get a
get strong right strong case so get a get a backbone and take care of your
get a backbone and take care of your
get a backbone and take care of your family and quit blaming the government
family and quit blaming the government
family and quit blaming the government or making excuses that your neighbor or
or making excuses that your neighbor or
or making excuses that your neighbor or the economy or what whatever conditions
the economy or what whatever conditions
the economy or what whatever conditions the guy I’ve had some terrible
the guy I’ve had some terrible
the guy I’ve had some terrible conditions in my life from the age of 15
conditions in my life from the age of 15
conditions in my life from the age of 15 till 25 it was awful for me ten years
till 25 it was awful for me ten years
till 25 it was awful for me ten years nobody would want to go through the ten
nobody would want to go through the ten
nobody would want to go through the ten years that I went through did do some
years that I went through did do some
years that I went through did do some people have it worse than I did probably
people have it worse than I did probably
people have it worse than I did probably but I don’t want to do those ten those
but I don’t want to do those ten those
but I don’t want to do those ten those ten years were terrible for me is
ten years were terrible for me is
ten years were terrible for me is degrading as a human being can
degrading as a human being can
degrading as a human being can experience drugs yeah drugs but mostly
experience drugs yeah drugs but mostly
experience drugs yeah drugs but mostly just so many bad choices so many bad
just so many bad choices so many bad
just so many bad choices so many bad people you know so so much it’s self
people you know so so much it’s self
people you know so so much it’s self self deprivation and
self deprivation and
self deprivation and and just a lack of self esteem and self
and just a lack of self esteem and self
and just a lack of self esteem and self love for myself because of a lot of bad
love for myself because of a lot of bad
love for myself because of a lot of bad choices so I understand what goes on
choices so I understand what goes on
choices so I understand what goes on through for a person when they’re making
through for a person when they’re making
through for a person when they’re making bad choices and and and people just need
bad choices and and and people just need
bad choices and and and people just need to man up
to man up
to man up you know bone up the women need to do
you know bone up the women need to do
you know bone up the women need to do the same thing by the way yeah women
the same thing by the way yeah women
the same thing by the way yeah women they’re stronger than men look I hate
they’re stronger than men look I hate
they’re stronger than men look I hate pain any kind of pain women can handle
pain any kind of pain women can handle
pain any kind of pain women can handle ten times the pain I can handle and I
ten times the pain I can handle and I
ten times the pain I can handle and I know I’ve said before that knowledge is
know I’ve said before that knowledge is
know I’ve said before that knowledge is the most important thing but the reality
the most important thing but the reality
the most important thing but the reality is if you don’t have the strength or
is if you don’t have the strength or
is if you don’t have the strength or actually the health to back that up or
actually the health to back that up or
actually the health to back that up or even to function as a human being
even to function as a human being
even to function as a human being physically then your knowledge and your
physically then your knowledge and your
physically then your knowledge and your mental strength doesn’t really even
mental strength doesn’t really even
mental strength doesn’t really even matter so that comes into play and being
matter so that comes into play and being
matter so that comes into play and being big and strong is also totally useless
big and strong is also totally useless
big and strong is also totally useless if you’re mentally weak and you quit now
if you’re mentally weak and you quit now
if you’re mentally weak and you quit now being mentally strong should actually
being mentally strong should actually
being mentally strong should actually lead you to being physically strong
lead you to being physically strong
lead you to being physically strong because if you are mentally strong then
because if you are mentally strong then
because if you are mentally strong then you can work and train to become
you can work and train to become
you can work and train to become physically strong but if you’re mentally
physically strong but if you’re mentally
physically strong but if you’re mentally weak then you will not hold the line on
weak then you will not hold the line on
weak then you will not hold the line on the good food and the good workouts and
the good food and the good workouts and
the good food and the good workouts and you won’t get physically strong or
you won’t get physically strong or
you won’t get physically strong or healthy so
healthy so
healthy so can you be weak and strong at the same
can you be weak and strong at the same
can you be weak and strong at the same time yes but I say be strong train your
time yes but I say be strong train your
time yes but I say be strong train your physical strength and exercise your
physical strength and exercise your
physical strength and exercise your mental strength by doing the right
mental strength by doing the right
mental strength by doing the right things the hard things the things you
things the hard things the things you
things the hard things the things you know you’re supposed to do do them and
know you’re supposed to do do them and
know you’re supposed to do do them and be as strong as you can mentally
be as strong as you can mentally
be as strong as you can mentally physically and emotionally for yourself
physically and emotionally for yourself
physically and emotionally for yourself for your team for your family hold the
for your team for your family hold the
for your team for your family hold the line and be strong this is great line
line and be strong this is great line
line and be strong this is great line that Will Smith said when somebody asked
that Will Smith said when somebody asked
that Will Smith said when somebody asked what he’s afraid of
what he’s afraid of
what he’s afraid of and he said fear he’s afraid of fear the
and he said fear he’s afraid of fear the
and he said fear he’s afraid of fear the fear of here he doesn’t like fear
fear of here he doesn’t like fear
fear of here he doesn’t like fear whenever he recognizes that he’s afraid
whenever he recognizes that he’s afraid
whenever he recognizes that he’s afraid of something he wants to attack it to
of something he wants to attack it to
of something he wants to attack it to get rid of it to combat it to always be
get rid of it to combat it to always be
get rid of it to combat it to always be pushing through whatever his fears are
pushing through whatever his fears are
pushing through whatever his fears are because his fear is prevented from doing
because his fear is prevented from doing
because his fear is prevented from doing great things we wants to just run
great things we wants to just run
great things we wants to just run straight into fear which is such an
straight into fear which is such an
straight into fear which is such an interesting approach I don’t think many
interesting approach I don’t think many
interesting approach I don’t think many people have that mindset and just the
people have that mindset and just the
people have that mindset and just the act of crushing of fear or combating the
act of crushing of fear or combating the
act of crushing of fear or combating the fear makes you stronger makes you grow
fear makes you stronger makes you grow
fear makes you stronger makes you grow makes you more comfortable and doing
makes you more comfortable and doing
makes you more comfortable and doing other crazy things it expands your
other crazy things it expands your
other crazy things it expands your circle of confidence and competence
circle of confidence and competence
circle of confidence and competence the tricky part though is to catch
the tricky part though is to catch
the tricky part though is to catch yourself the tricky part is to actually
yourself the tricky part is to actually
yourself the tricky part is to actually acknowledge to yourself that you are
acknowledge to yourself that you are
acknowledge to yourself that you are afraid of something because what we’ll
afraid of something because what we’ll
afraid of something because what we’ll often do is just come up with a rational
often do is just come up with a rational
often do is just come up with a rational reason why we should do it instead of
reason why we should do it instead of
reason why we should do it instead of admitting to ourselves that we’re afraid
admitting to ourselves that we’re afraid
admitting to ourselves that we’re afraid we’ll come up with a justification I’m
we’ll come up with a justification I’m
we’ll come up with a justification I’m not gonna start my business because you
not gonna start my business because you
not gonna start my business because you know now it’s not the right time because
know now it’s not the right time because
know now it’s not the right time because you know this president’s office because
you know this president’s office because
you know this president’s office because whatever you come up with a bunch of
whatever you come up with a bunch of
whatever you come up with a bunch of reasons and listen those reasons may be
reasons and listen those reasons may be
reasons and listen those reasons may be true right a lot of those reasons have
true right a lot of those reasons have
true right a lot of those reasons have some kind of practical value that’s why
some kind of practical value that’s why
some kind of practical value that’s why you pick them right you’re not gonna
you pick them right you’re not gonna
you pick them right you’re not gonna pick something totally crazy it’s not
pick something totally crazy it’s not
pick something totally crazy it’s not gonna be you know Martians might invade
gonna be you know Martians might invade
gonna be you know Martians might invade planet Earth so I’m not gonna start my
planet Earth so I’m not gonna start my
planet Earth so I’m not gonna start my business somebody told you that if you
business somebody told you that if you
business somebody told you that if you told yourself that you wouldn’t believe
told yourself that you wouldn’t believe
told yourself that you wouldn’t believe it you came to live with it so all these
it you came to live with it so all these
it you came to live with it so all these practical reasons that you come up with
practical reasons that you come up with
practical reasons that you come up with they hold a shred of proof and so that’s
they hold a shred of proof and so that’s
they hold a shred of proof and so that’s what makes it feel like that’s the real
what makes it feel like that’s the real
what makes it feel like that’s the real and but really just afraid you’re just
and but really just afraid you’re just
and but really just afraid you’re just afraid to do something those aren’t the
afraid to do something those aren’t the
afraid to do something those aren’t the reasons they’re there but they’re not
reasons they’re there but they’re not
reasons they’re there but they’re not the real reasons you’re just afraid and
the real reasons you’re just afraid and
the real reasons you’re just afraid and so catching yourself to understand that
so catching yourself to understand that
so catching yourself to understand that this is the reason why I’m not doing
this is the reason why I’m not doing
this is the reason why I’m not doing something important it’s super critical
something important it’s super critical
something important it’s super critical I think I said when you do catch
I think I said when you do catch
I think I said when you do catch yourself then what do you do then you
yourself then what do you do then you
yourself then what do you do then you start to try to take some kind of action
start to try to take some kind of action
start to try to take some kind of action for so the example that I told before I
for so the example that I told before I
for so the example that I told before I like to tell is when I was walking in
like to tell is when I was walking in
like to tell is when I was walking in the street and I had my headphones on
the street and I had my headphones on
the street and I had my headphones on and some quiet Street and I’m I’m
and some quiet Street and I’m I’m
and some quiet Street and I’m I’m grooving and I’m shaking them dancing
grooving and I’m shaking them dancing
grooving and I’m shaking them dancing now I’m doing a whole bunch of stuff and
now I’m doing a whole bunch of stuff and
now I’m doing a whole bunch of stuff and then I get close to a busy intersection
then I get close to a busy intersection
then I get close to a busy intersection and as soon as I see people around me i
and as soon as I see people around me i
and as soon as I see people around me i tone down I start playing small start
tone down I start playing small start
tone down I start playing small start playing it say
playing it say
playing it say worried about their judge without me
worried about their judge without me
worried about their judge without me worried about how they might be thinking
worried about how they might be thinking
worried about how they might be thinking about me subconscious like I didn’t even
about me subconscious like I didn’t even
about me subconscious like I didn’t even didn’t even tick didn’t even register
didn’t even tick didn’t even register
didn’t even tick didn’t even register that I was playing small right and this
that I was playing small right and this
that I was playing small right and this is what we do normally right like
is what we do normally right like
is what we do normally right like because we’re afraid of failing the fear
because we’re afraid of failing the fear
because we’re afraid of failing the fear of judgment we just play small by
of judgment we just play small by
of judgment we just play small by default we just resort them back to it
default we just resort them back to it
default we just resort them back to it and then I caught it I caught it they
and then I caught it I caught it they
and then I caught it I caught it they realized what just happened
realized what just happened
realized what just happened I was grooving and now I stopped because
I was grooving and now I stopped because
I was grooving and now I stopped because there’s a bunch of people on the street
there’s a bunch of people on the street
there’s a bunch of people on the street that’s not acceptable and then I made a
that’s not acceptable and then I made a
that’s not acceptable and then I made a conscious effort to dance even bigger on
conscious effort to dance even bigger on
conscious effort to dance even bigger on a busy street corner I’m I’m shaking it
a busy street corner I’m I’m shaking it
a busy street corner I’m I’m shaking it up now I’m not going in somebody’s face
up now I’m not going in somebody’s face
up now I’m not going in somebody’s face and trying to prove a point I’m not
and trying to prove a point I’m not
and trying to prove a point I’m not trying to get in somebody’s space and
trying to get in somebody’s space and
trying to get in somebody’s space and offend them but maybe what I’m doing
offend them but maybe what I’m doing
offend them but maybe what I’m doing inspires them maybe what I’m doing gives
inspires them maybe what I’m doing gives
inspires them maybe what I’m doing gives them a little bit of a smile yeah maybe
them a little bit of a smile yeah maybe
them a little bit of a smile yeah maybe they think I’m crazy that’s okay I don’t
they think I’m crazy that’s okay I don’t
they think I’m crazy that’s okay I don’t want to be afraid of that and so
want to be afraid of that and so
want to be afraid of that and so whenever I can catch myself playing
whenever I can catch myself playing
whenever I can catch myself playing small because of a fear then I try to
small because of a fear then I try to
small because of a fear then I try to attack it the most difficult part is
attack it the most difficult part is
attack it the most difficult part is still catching it and you may catch one
still catching it and you may catch one
still catching it and you may catch one in a hundred I bet you I’ve already
in a hundred I bet you I’ve already
in a hundred I bet you I’ve already played small a hundred times today they
played small a hundred times today they
played small a hundred times today they didn’t catch any just subconsciously
didn’t catch any just subconsciously
didn’t catch any just subconsciously it’s that’s how we’re wired you play
it’s that’s how we’re wired you play
it’s that’s how we’re wired you play small daily hundreds of times you don’t
small daily hundreds of times you don’t
small daily hundreds of times you don’t even notice it when you do notice it
even notice it when you do notice it
even notice it when you do notice it though when you do catch it you catch
though when you do catch it you catch
though when you do catch it you catch your fear
your fear
your fear get into the habit of pushing through it
get into the habit of pushing through it
get into the habit of pushing through it get into the habit of running towards it
get into the habit of running towards it
get into the habit of running towards it because the more you do that the more
because the more you do that the more
because the more you do that the more you’ll catch the next one
you’ll catch the next one
you’ll catch the next one and you’ll catch the next one and you
and you’ll catch the next one and you
and you’ll catch the next one and you catch the next one and you’ve trained
catch the next one and you’ve trained
catch the next one and you’ve trained yourself that when you’re afraid of
yourself that when you’re afraid of
yourself that when you’re afraid of something you’re gonna attack it what is
something you’re gonna attack it what is
something you’re gonna attack it what is a crazy audition that you had early on
a crazy audition that you had early on
a crazy audition that you had early on you know we are here at the Screen
you know we are here at the Screen
you know we are here at the Screen Actors Guild Awards getting that sag
Actors Guild Awards getting that sag
Actors Guild Awards getting that sag card is a really big deal in the
card is a really big deal in the
card is a really big deal in the beginning do you remember kind of a an
beginning do you remember kind of a an
beginning do you remember kind of a an audition that made you freak out a
audition that made you freak out a
audition that made you freak out a little bit I think I mean I relate to
little bit I think I mean I relate to
little bit I think I mean I relate to pretty much every audition in the movie
pretty much every audition in the movie
pretty much every audition in the movie I’ve had a version of those many many
I’ve had a version of those many many
I’ve had a version of those many many times I think the hardest part was for
times I think the hardest part was for
times I think the hardest part was for awhile I auditioned for a lot of things
awhile I auditioned for a lot of things
awhile I auditioned for a lot of things which is great when you’re an actor and
which is great when you’re an actor and
which is great when you’re an actor and you’re getting a lot of auditions and I
you’re getting a lot of auditions and I
you’re getting a lot of auditions and I wasn’t getting called back for anything
wasn’t getting called back for anything
wasn’t getting called back for anything when I first moved to LA and and so they
when I first moved to LA and and so they
when I first moved to LA and and so they just stopped sending me out so there was
just stopped sending me out so there was
just stopped sending me out so there was a large swath of time where nobody
a large swath of time where nobody
a large swath of time where nobody wanted me to even come in and I think
wanted me to even come in and I think
wanted me to even come in and I think that feeling was actually worse than any
that feeling was actually worse than any
that feeling was actually worse than any of the you know the initial auditions
of the you know the initial auditions
of the you know the initial auditions and being kind of rejected I think
and being kind of rejected I think
and being kind of rejected I think sometimes we want an easy life so I
sometimes we want an easy life so I
sometimes we want an easy life so I think sometimes we want everybody to
think sometimes we want everybody to
think sometimes we want everybody to love us and buy from us and so easy it’s
love us and buy from us and so easy it’s
love us and buy from us and so easy it’s so great it’s all the sudden and with
so great it’s all the sudden and with
so great it’s all the sudden and with all of my monitoring treatment she
all of my monitoring treatment she
all of my monitoring treatment she didn’t tell me I was special my dad
didn’t tell me I was special my dad
didn’t tell me I was special my dad didn’t do this to me my ex cheated on me
didn’t do this to me my ex cheated on me
didn’t do this to me my ex cheated on me my ex did this and this person did this
my ex did this and this person did this
my ex did this and this person did this and my friend did this on my boss oh my
and my friend did this on my boss oh my
and my friend did this on my boss oh my gosh this is why I’m losing
gosh this is why I’m losing
gosh this is why I’m losing those are all the reasons why you have a
those are all the reasons why you have a
those are all the reasons why you have a shot at doing something big with your
shot at doing something big with your
shot at doing something big with your life those are all the reasons those are
life those are all the reasons those are
life those are all the reasons those are all the reasons why you can use as an
all the reasons why you can use as an
all the reasons why you can use as an ammunition to say boom world I’m coming
ammunition to say boom world I’m coming
ammunition to say boom world I’m coming I’m gonna do something big with my life
I’m gonna do something big with my life
I’m gonna do something big with my life and no one expects it so rather than
and no one expects it so rather than
and no one expects it so rather than looking at some of these tough times
looking at some of these tough times
looking at some of these tough times that you may be going through today and
that you may be going through today and
that you may be going through today and there you will be going through in the
there you will be going through in the
there you will be going through in the future because depending on whatever age
future because depending on whatever age
future because depending on whatever age you are you go from going to birthdays
you are you go from going to birthdays
you are you go from going to birthdays to going to weddings to go on a birthday
to going to weddings to go on a birthday
to going to weddings to go on a birthday kids being born to go into kids birthday
kids being born to go into kids birthday
kids being born to go into kids birthday parties then you go to funerals no
parties then you go to funerals no
parties then you go to funerals no matter what we’re all going to funerals
matter what we’re all going to funerals
matter what we’re all going to funerals eventually if you haven’t already
eventually if you haven’t already
eventually if you haven’t already started going to funerals that’s called
started going to funerals that’s called
started going to funerals that’s called life and the sooner you anticipate tough
life and the sooner you anticipate tough
life and the sooner you anticipate tough times and the sooner you overcome every
times and the sooner you overcome every
times and the sooner you overcome every single one of these tough times that you
single one of these tough times that you
single one of these tough times that you think you’re the only one that’s going
think you’re the only one that’s going
think you’re the only one that’s going through it when are you gonna look up
through it when are you gonna look up
through it when are you gonna look up and people gonna look at you as an
and people gonna look at you as an
and people gonna look at you as an example of somebody who is tough enough
example of somebody who is tough enough
example of somebody who is tough enough to go through the difficult times and
to go through the difficult times and
to go through the difficult times and now
now
now a leader winning big and they one day
a leader winning big and they one day
a leader winning big and they one day want to be just like you in 2010 you
want to be just like you in 2010 you
want to be just like you in 2010 you know I kind of called myself I’m a
know I kind of called myself I’m a
know I kind of called myself I’m a meathead I just lift weights and put him
meathead I just lift weights and put him
meathead I just lift weights and put him down right I had kind of painted myself
down right I had kind of painted myself
down right I had kind of painted myself into that corner why not go run a
into that corner why not go run a
into that corner why not go run a marathon so I trained for six weeks and
marathon so I trained for six weeks and
marathon so I trained for six weeks and went and ran a marathon it was the most
went and ran a marathon it was the most
went and ran a marathon it was the most painful thing I ever did but I realized
painful thing I ever did but I realized
painful thing I ever did but I realized that was more the suffering and the pain
that was more the suffering and the pain
that was more the suffering and the pain and the more pain I had the more put me
and the more pain I had the more put me
and the more pain I had the more put me into the zone of wanting to dominate so
into the zone of wanting to dominate so
into the zone of wanting to dominate so it is a superpower
it is a superpower
it is a superpower so I almost now go back and put myself
so I almost now go back and put myself
so I almost now go back and put myself into these challenges Rob claiming I was
into these challenges Rob claiming I was
into these challenges Rob claiming I was afraid of heights took on a six-week
afraid of heights took on a six-week
afraid of heights took on a six-week challenge started climbing Ross wanted
challenge started climbing Ross wanted
challenge started climbing Ross wanted to fight a professional MMA fighter so I
to fight a professional MMA fighter so I
to fight a professional MMA fighter so I hired him trained for six weeks one of
hired him trained for six weeks one of
hired him trained for six weeks one of the ring I got my ass kicked and choked
the ring I got my ass kicked and choked
the ring I got my ass kicked and choked out but each time I did that it gave me
out but each time I did that it gave me
out but each time I did that it gave me the sense of I can get over any obstacle
the sense of I can get over any obstacle
the sense of I can get over any obstacle and if I can get over getting choked out
and if I can get over getting choked out
and if I can get over getting choked out and punched and the pain of 26.2 miles
and punched and the pain of 26.2 miles
and punched and the pain of 26.2 miles and a marathon or overcoming my fear of
and a marathon or overcoming my fear of
and a marathon or overcoming my fear of heights surely I can build a business
heights surely I can build a business
heights surely I can build a business surely I can take some criticism online
surely I can take some criticism online
surely I can take some criticism online right but not enough people are willing
right but not enough people are willing
right but not enough people are willing to build that mental emotional toughness
to build that mental emotional toughness
to build that mental emotional toughness and the moment they do though persevere
and the moment they do though persevere
and the moment they do though persevere Bistro
Bistro
Bistro and very courageous be strong and very
and very courageous be strong and very
and very courageous be strong and very courageous be strong and be of good
courageous be strong and be of good
courageous be strong and be of good courage be strong and pull Sicily
courage be strong and pull Sicily
courage be strong and pull Sicily because God knows that for what you’re
because God knows that for what you’re
because God knows that for what you’re going to do it is not by outer strength
going to do it is not by outer strength
going to do it is not by outer strength [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] you understand you understand see
you understand you understand see
you understand you understand see company preach the straightness more –
company preach the straightness more –
company preach the straightness more – girl its inner strength so my fourth one
girl its inner strength so my fourth one
girl its inner strength so my fourth one is you got to have inner strength for
is you got to have inner strength for
is you got to have inner strength for this fight it’s not your outer strength
this fight it’s not your outer strength
this fight it’s not your outer strength it’s not by might nor by power but by my
it’s not by might nor by power but by my
it’s not by might nor by power but by my spirit saith the Lord
spirit saith the Lord
spirit saith the Lord so you gotta have that inner that inner
so you gotta have that inner that inner
so you gotta have that inner that inner that inner that cut strips and delis
that inner that cut strips and delis
that inner that cut strips and delis strength then temple define come hell a
strength then temple define come hell a
strength then temple define come hell a Hal Wallis trip that rolled me out in
Hal Wallis trip that rolled me out in
Hal Wallis trip that rolled me out in front of them an hour preach from a
front of them an hour preach from a
front of them an hour preach from a chair strip that’s an asset II to take a
chair strip that’s an asset II to take a
chair strip that’s an asset II to take a lickin and keep on tickin that inner
lickin and keep on tickin that inner
lickin and keep on tickin that inner strength that well I can’t do as I would
strength that well I can’t do as I would
strength that well I can’t do as I would I’m gonna do as I can
I’m gonna do as I can
I’m gonna do as I can but I’m not will stop going to the best
but I’m not will stop going to the best
but I’m not will stop going to the best ability
strong strong 30 years how has the crowd
strong strong 30 years how has the crowd changed like now it seems like
changed like now it seems like
changed like now it seems like everyone’s offended by every
everyone’s offended by every
everyone’s offended by every it’s like how does a very good point
it’s like how does a very good point
it’s like how does a very good point people are sensitive now all the sudden
people are sensitive now all the sudden
people are sensitive now all the sudden or oversensitive maybe there’s a mag
or oversensitive maybe there’s a mag
or oversensitive maybe there’s a mag graining quote migrating that created
graining quote migrating that created
graining quote migrating that created the Simpsons there’s this famous quote
the Simpsons there’s this famous quote
the Simpsons there’s this famous quote where he says the world is filled with
where he says the world is filled with
where he says the world is filled with people who are dying to be offended by
people who are dying to be offended by
people who are dying to be offended by something what the world has now is an
something what the world has now is an
something what the world has now is an Internet for those people to voice their
Internet for those people to voice their
Internet for those people to voice their offense so they can make something out
offense so they can make something out
offense so they can make something out of nothing they can spend your work and
of nothing they can spend your work and
of nothing they can spend your work and make something that’s beautiful look
make something that’s beautiful look
make something that’s beautiful look like it’s ugly advice verses like I say
like it’s ugly advice verses like I say
like it’s ugly advice verses like I say my specialist is the age of spin so so
my specialist is the age of spin so so
my specialist is the age of spin so so everyone is becoming a spin doctor so
everyone is becoming a spin doctor so
everyone is becoming a spin doctor so it’s now granted comedians make mistakes
it’s now granted comedians make mistakes
it’s now granted comedians make mistakes it’s part of the job you know and some
it’s part of the job you know and some
it’s part of the job you know and some mistakes are easily forgivable some are
mistakes are easily forgivable some are
mistakes are easily forgivable some are wildly more extreme but I did is that we
wildly more extreme but I did is that we
wildly more extreme but I did is that we want a society where we are late allowed
want a society where we are late allowed
want a society where we are late allowed to make mistakes were able to voice our
to make mistakes were able to voice our
to make mistakes were able to voice our opinions and change our things so I just
opinions and change our things so I just
opinions and change our things so I just I just let it rip I’m not afraid of the
I just let it rip I’m not afraid of the
I just let it rip I’m not afraid of the audience you know I think the vast
audience you know I think the vast
audience you know I think the vast majority of people that come out they
majority of people that come out they
majority of people that come out they get it they know what it is and there’s
get it they know what it is and there’s
get it they know what it is and there’s always some people with insidious intent
always some people with insidious intent
always some people with insidious intent they try to derail you
I would just spin the ball but it’s you
I would just spin the ball but it’s you know as you get as you go all the
know as you get as you go all the
know as you get as you go all the business you guys it’s toughen up and
business you guys it’s toughen up and
business you guys it’s toughen up and and just hope that your numbers don’t
and just hope that your numbers don’t
and just hope that your numbers don’t come up I’m sure my next special have
come up I’m sure my next special have
come up I’m sure my next special have somebody bad
now I’ve got a really special bonus clip
now I’ve got a really special bonus clip with Kevin Durant on how to be tough
with Kevin Durant on how to be tough
with Kevin Durant on how to be tough that I think you’re gonna really enjoy
that I think you’re gonna really enjoy
that I think you’re gonna really enjoy but before that it’s time for the
but before that it’s time for the
but before that it’s time for the three-point landing questions time to
three-point landing questions time to
three-point landing questions time to move from just watching another video to
move from just watching another video to
move from just watching another video to actually taking action in your life or
actually taking action in your life or
actually taking action in your life or your business and if you’re feeling bold
your business and if you’re feeling bold
your business and if you’re feeling bold leave your answers in the comments below
leave your answers in the comments below
leave your answers in the comments below here we go question number one where do
here we go question number one where do
here we go question number one where do you need to be tougher number two what
you need to be tougher number two what
you need to be tougher number two what immediate action can you take on it
immediate action can you take on it
immediate action can you take on it right now and number three how will you
right now and number three how will you
right now and number three how will you stay consistent on being tougher
so like I’ll be getting bullied over
so like I’ll be getting bullied over here I took the easy way out I don’t
here I took the easy way out I don’t
here I took the easy way out I don’t deserve any day that’s it too easy
deserve any day that’s it too easy
deserve any day that’s it too easy without easy this is no cuz it ain’t
without easy this is no cuz it ain’t
without easy this is no cuz it ain’t never had no easy
never had no easy
never had no easy [Music]
[Music]
[Music] there is no doubt in my mind it was a
there is no doubt in my mind it was a
there is no doubt in my mind it was a crushing day for him when he knew that
crushing day for him when he knew that
crushing day for him when he knew that the decision he had to make would be to
the decision he had to make would be to
the decision he had to make would be to go to Golden State because he would
go to Golden State because he would
go to Golden State because he would never want anybody there to think that
never want anybody there to think that
never want anybody there to think that he didn’t appreciate him that he didn’t
he didn’t appreciate him that he didn’t
he didn’t appreciate him that he didn’t mean every word he had ever spoken when
mean every word he had ever spoken when
mean every word he had ever spoken when he was there kevin gave nine years to
he was there kevin gave nine years to
he was there kevin gave nine years to OKC it’s a long time and he gave
OKC it’s a long time and he gave
OKC it’s a long time and he gave everything he had the tough decision was
everything he had the tough decision was
everything he had the tough decision was made and you grow from it you learn from
made and you grow from it you learn from
made and you grow from it you learn from it it’s how you handle it we had a lot
it it’s how you handle it we had a lot
it it’s how you handle it we had a lot of great moments together it’s hard to
of great moments together it’s hard to
of great moments together it’s hard to make you at the top of your profession
make you at the top of your profession
make you at the top of your profession no matter what it is but it’s easy for
no matter what it is but it’s easy for
no matter what it is but it’s easy for people to describe it
this like banging works whole life to
this like banging works whole life to get to this point and sometimes I don’t
get to this point and sometimes I don’t
get to this point and sometimes I don’t even enjoy it because you were the other
even enjoy it because you were the other
even enjoy it because you were the other people got to sit and that’s struggling
people got to sit and that’s struggling
people got to sit and that’s struggling some days especially when you play an
some days especially when you play an
some days especially when you play an NBA when all you hear is the noise it’s
NBA when all you hear is the noise it’s
NBA when all you hear is the noise it’s hard to tune it out as much as people
hard to tune it out as much as people
hard to tune it out as much as people want us to like be tough mine have thick
want us to like be tough mine have thick
want us to like be tough mine have thick skin sometimes it’s our tonight not take
skin sometimes it’s our tonight not take
skin sometimes it’s our tonight not take up for yourself and be like yo work hard
up for yourself and be like yo work hard
up for yourself and be like yo work hard as hell but you know we’re not in the
as hell but you know we’re not in the
as hell but you know we’re not in the gym after shooting around you have to
gym after shooting around you have to
gym after shooting around you have to practice it you know it’s going off to
practice it you know it’s going off to
practice it you know it’s going off to my head like day before game I don’t
my head like day before game I don’t
my head like day before game I don’t know it’s just a game that some people
know it’s just a game that some people
know it’s just a game that some people would be real life to this
would be real life to this
would be real life to this I think people get this idea that like
I think people get this idea that like
I think people get this idea that like he made his decision and then on July
he made his decision and then on July
he made his decision and then on July 4th he was like bring out the ace of
4th he was like bring out the ace of
4th he was like bring out the ace of spades let’s pop champagne I’m going to
spades let’s pop champagne I’m going to
spades let’s pop champagne I’m going to go on stay I mean it was the opposite
go on stay I mean it was the opposite
go on stay I mean it was the opposite like his July 4th barbecue didn’t exist
like his July 4th barbecue didn’t exist
like his July 4th barbecue didn’t exist like there was no celebration he was in
like there was no celebration he was in
like there was no celebration he was in more pain making that decision than
more pain making that decision than
more pain making that decision than anybody because that was the opposite of
anybody because that was the opposite of
anybody because that was the opposite of what he had done his whole life which
what he had done his whole life which
what he had done his whole life which was make sure that everybody was happy
was make sure that everybody was happy
was make sure that everybody was happy if you want to know how to deal with
if you want to know how to deal with
if you want to know how to deal with difficulties and problems in your life
difficulties and problems in your life
difficulties and problems in your life check out the video right next to me I
check out the video right next to me I
check out the video right next to me I think you’ll enjoy it continue to
think you’ll enjoy it continue to
think you’ll enjoy it continue to believe and I’ll see you there
believe and I’ll see you there
believe and I’ll see you there great people don’t go through they grow
great people don’t go through they grow
great people don’t go through they grow to the difficulties that come on their
to the difficulties that come on their
to the difficulties that come on their path problems will come
you’re actually tougher than you think build that mental emotional toughness
one success model the best
one success model the best what’s up belief nation it seven I
what’s up belief nation it seven I
what’s up belief nation it seven I believe in you and this channel is
believe in you and this channel is
believe in you and this channel is designed to be a part of your daily
designed to be a part of your daily
designed to be a part of your daily success routine so today let’s learn one
success routine so today let’s learn one
success routine so today let’s learn one of the most common rules that successful
of the most common rules that successful
of the most common rules that successful people follow be tough also if you want
people follow be tough also if you want
people follow be tough also if you want to know a Jordan Peterson grant cardone
to know a Jordan Peterson grant cardone
to know a Jordan Peterson grant cardone Jaco wellick and others have to say
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you’re gonna speak effectively you have
you’re gonna speak effectively you have to know way more than you’re talking
to know way more than you’re talking
to know way more than you’re talking about you have to go build
about you have to go build
about you have to go build self-confidence people want to know how
self-confidence people want to know how
self-confidence people want to know how to stop the laziness and they want to
to stop the laziness and they want to
to stop the laziness and they want to know how to stop the procrastination
know how to stop the procrastination
know how to stop the procrastination [Music]
you’re actually tougher than you think
you’re actually tougher than you think you never knew that and maybe you didn’t
you never knew that and maybe you didn’t
you never knew that and maybe you didn’t want to take on the responsibility
want to take on the responsibility
want to take on the responsibility because you know people play a role in
because you know people play a role in
because you know people play a role in their own demise so to speak when you
their own demise so to speak when you
their own demise so to speak when you had opportunity to go out and explore or
had opportunity to go out and explore or
had opportunity to go out and explore or withdraw because you were afraid you
withdraw because you were afraid you
withdraw because you were afraid you chose to withdraw because you were
chose to withdraw because you were
chose to withdraw because you were afraid so it’s not only that you were
afraid so it’s not only that you were
afraid so it’s not only that you were over protected often it’s that you were
over protected often it’s that you were
over protected often it’s that you were willing to take advantage of the fact
willing to take advantage of the fact
willing to take advantage of the fact that you were over protected and run
that you were over protected and run
that you were over protected and run back there whenever you had the
back there whenever you had the
back there whenever you had the opportunity you know so maybe you’re a
opportunity you know so maybe you’re a
opportunity you know so maybe you’re a kid in the playground right and you’re
kid in the playground right and you’re
kid in the playground right and you’re having some trouble with other kids and
having some trouble with other kids and
having some trouble with other kids and you know in the back of your mind
you know in the back of your mind
you know in the back of your mind I should deal this with deal with this
I should deal this with deal with this
I should deal this with deal with this myself but you go and tell your mom and
myself but you go and tell your mom and
myself but you go and tell your mom and get her to intervene and you know that
get her to intervene and you know that
get her to intervene and you know that that’s not right you know that you’re
that’s not right you know that you’re
that’s not right you know that you’re breaking the social contract but it’s
breaking the social contract but it’s
breaking the social contract but it’s easier and so that’s what you do you run
easier and so that’s what you do you run
easier and so that’s what you do you run off to an authority figure and hide
off to an authority figure and hide
off to an authority figure and hide behind the Great Father right roughly
behind the Great Father right roughly
behind the Great Father right roughly speaking well the problem with that is
speaking well the problem with that is
speaking well the problem with that is you don’t learn how to do it yourself so
you don’t learn how to do it yourself so
you don’t learn how to do it yourself so then you have to relearn it painfully
then you have to relearn it painfully
then you have to relearn it painfully when you’re 40 so then you take people
when you’re 40 so then you take people
when you’re 40 so then you take people out you say well what are you afraid of
out you say well what are you afraid of
out you say well what are you afraid of rank it from 1 to 10 so 10 is what make
rank it from 1 to 10 so 10 is what make
rank it from 1 to 10 so 10 is what make a list of 10 things you’re afraid of the
a list of 10 things you’re afraid of the
a list of 10 things you’re afraid of the least the thing you’re least afraid of
least the thing you’re least afraid of
least the thing you’re least afraid of will call number 10 so we’ll start with
will call number 10 so we’ll start with
will call number 10 so we’ll start with that
that
that okay well I’m afraid of elevators ok
okay well I’m afraid of elevators ok
okay well I’m afraid of elevators ok well let’s let’s look at a picture of an
well let’s let’s look at a picture of an
well let’s let’s look at a picture of an elevator let’s have you imagine being in
elevator let’s have you imagine being in
elevator let’s have you imagine being in an elevator let’s go out to an elevator
an elevator let’s go out to an elevator
an elevator let’s go out to an elevator and let you watch the terrible jaws of
and let you watch the terrible jaws of
and let you watch the terrible jaws of death open because that’s how you’re
death open because that’s how you’re
death open because that’s how you’re responding to it symbolically right and
responding to it symbolically right and
responding to it symbolically right and you’re gonna do that at it at the the
you’re gonna do that at it at the the
you’re gonna do that at it at the the closest proximity you can manage you
closest proximity you can manage you
closest proximity you can manage you find out you go do that
find out you go do that
find out you go do that it works you’re nervous as hell
it works you’re nervous as hell
it works you’re nervous as hell especially an from an anticipatory
especially an from an anticipatory
especially an from an anticipatory perspective shaking you go out you stop
perspective shaking you go out you stop
perspective shaking you go out you stop you watch it happen and you actually
you watch it happen and you actually
you watch it happen and you actually calm down you do that 10 times it no
calm down you do that 10 times it no
calm down you do that 10 times it no longer bothers you well what you’ve
longer bothers you well what you’ve
longer bothers you well what you’ve learned that you didn’t die but more
learned that you didn’t die but more
learned that you didn’t die but more importantly than that you’ve learned
importantly than that you’ve learned
importantly than that you’ve learned that you could withstand the threat of
that you could withstand the threat of
that you could withstand the threat of death that’s what you’ve learned and
death that’s what you’ve learned and
death that’s what you’ve learned and then you move a little closer and then
then you move a little closer and then
then you move a little closer and then you move a little closer and then you
you move a little closer and then you
you move a little closer and then you move a little closer and finally you’re
move a little closer and finally you’re
move a little closer and finally you’re back in what’s no longer the elevator
back in what’s no longer the elevator
back in what’s no longer the elevator from a symbolic perspective it’s a tomb
from a symbolic perspective it’s a tomb
from a symbolic perspective it’s a tomb right it’s it’s it’s a place of
right it’s it’s it’s a place of
right it’s it’s it’s a place of enclosure and isolation and you learn
enclosure and isolation and you learn
enclosure and isolation and you learn hmm
hmm
hmm turns out I can withstand that
turns out I can withstand that
turns out I can withstand that and then you’re met much more together
and then you’re met much more together
and then you’re met much more together much more confident and that’s often one
much more confident and that’s often one
much more confident and that’s often one of the things that often happens in
of the things that often happens in
of the things that often happens in situations like that I’ve seen this
situations like that I’ve seen this
situations like that I’ve seen this multiple times is that if you run
multiple times is that if you run
multiple times is that if you run someone through an exposure training
someone through an exposure training
someone through an exposure training process like that and toughen them up
process like that and toughen them up
process like that and toughen them up they’ll often start standing up to
they’ll often start standing up to
they’ll often start standing up to people around them in a way they never
people around them in a way they never
people around them in a way they never did before mr. Carnegie was a hard
did before mr. Carnegie was a hard
did before mr. Carnegie was a hard bastard Vanderbilt was a hard bastard
bastard Vanderbilt was a hard bastard
bastard Vanderbilt was a hard bastard Henry Ford the first was a hard bastard
Henry Ford the first was a hard bastard
Henry Ford the first was a hard bastard Rockefeller was a hard bastard Steve
Rockefeller was a hard bastard Steve
Rockefeller was a hard bastard Steve Jobs was a ruthless hard bastard
Jobs was a ruthless hard bastard
Jobs was a ruthless hard bastard as Apple’s CEO Cooke regularly begins
as Apple’s CEO Cooke regularly begins
as Apple’s CEO Cooke regularly begins sending emails at 4:30 in the morning on
sending emails at 4:30 in the morning on
sending emails at 4:30 in the morning on Sunday he’s a hard bastard why are all
Sunday he’s a hard bastard why are all
Sunday he’s a hard bastard why are all these guys they changed the world got
these guys they changed the world got
these guys they changed the world got one thing in common take the prisoners
one thing in common take the prisoners
one thing in common take the prisoners and then we got you a stiff drink and a
and then we got you a stiff drink and a
and then we got you a stiff drink and a good kill most people in this room I’m
good kill most people in this room I’m
good kill most people in this room I’m ashamed to say and forgive the stiff
ashamed to say and forgive the stiff
ashamed to say and forgive the stiff drink just a good my proceeds from
drink just a good my proceeds from
drink just a good my proceeds from PayPal acquisition were 80 180 million
PayPal acquisition were 80 180 million
PayPal acquisition were 80 180 million ba-ba-ba-ba then I had a borrow money
ba-ba-ba-ba then I had a borrow money
ba-ba-ba-ba then I had a borrow money for rent these guys myself included are
for rent these guys myself included are
for rent these guys myself included are all in if they believe in what they’re
all in if they believe in what they’re
all in if they believe in what they’re doing they put all their money at risk
doing they put all their money at risk
doing they put all their money at risk on which I have several times not in
on which I have several times not in
on which I have several times not in recent years SpaceX worker reveals a
recent years SpaceX worker reveals a
recent years SpaceX worker reveals a brutal company motto motto helped him
brutal company motto motto helped him
brutal company motto motto helped him survive all nighters working for Elon
survive all nighters working for Elon
survive all nighters working for Elon Musk notorious workaholic Elon Musk is
Musk notorious workaholic Elon Musk is
Musk notorious workaholic Elon Musk is so tied to his office that he’s been
so tied to his office that he’s been
so tied to his office that he’s been known to sleep on the floor I slept on
known to sleep on the floor I slept on
known to sleep on the floor I slept on the floor
the floor
the floor Ford slept on the poor job slept on the
Ford slept on the poor job slept on the
Ford slept on the poor job slept on the floor day slept on the floor success
floor day slept on the floor success
floor day slept on the floor success leaves Clues you weenies
I still work 50 60 hours a week and I
I still work 50 60 hours a week and I haven’t had it work in 35 years I think
haven’t had it work in 35 years I think
haven’t had it work in 35 years I think that there’s a shortage of real men on
that there’s a shortage of real men on
that there’s a shortage of real men on this planet I think most men are I mean
this planet I think most men are I mean
this planet I think most men are I mean frankly just pussies you know I don’t
frankly just pussies you know I don’t
frankly just pussies you know I don’t know if your audience can handle that
know if your audience can handle that
know if your audience can handle that word but I could look man if you can’t
word but I could look man if you can’t
word but I could look man if you can’t get your money right something’s wrong
get your money right something’s wrong
get your money right something’s wrong if you can’t take care of your family
if you can’t take care of your family
if you can’t take care of your family you got to ask yourself how much of a
you got to ask yourself how much of a
you got to ask yourself how much of a man are you like for me that identifies
man are you like for me that identifies
man are you like for me that identifies me as a man my ability to take care of
me as a man my ability to take care of
me as a man my ability to take care of my family I don’t just mean financially
my family I don’t just mean financially
my family I don’t just mean financially but I do mean financially right my job
but I do mean financially right my job
but I do mean financially right my job as a as a head of household is to take
as a as a head of household is to take
as a as a head of household is to take care of the economics of the household
care of the economics of the household
care of the economics of the household you know the word economy if you look it
you know the word economy if you look it
you know the word economy if you look it up in the dictionary it comes from
up in the dictionary it comes from
up in the dictionary it comes from managing the household it had nothing to
managing the household it had nothing to
managing the household it had nothing to do with the business it was about
do with the business it was about
do with the business it was about managing the household so if you go back
managing the household so if you go back
managing the household so if you go back a thousand years we’ve been managing
a thousand years we’ve been managing
a thousand years we’ve been managing households my job as a man is to provide
households my job as a man is to provide
households my job as a man is to provide a place where it’s warm place where we
a place where it’s warm place where we
a place where it’s warm place where we can sleep a place where we’re protected
can sleep a place where we’re protected
can sleep a place where we’re protected place where there’s food right not money
place where there’s food right not money
place where there’s food right not money right I need to be able to take care of
right I need to be able to take care of
right I need to be able to take care of the family shelter food clothing and I
the family shelter food clothing and I
the family shelter food clothing and I need to have some fun my family wants to
need to have some fun my family wants to
need to have some fun my family wants to have fun we want to have experiences so
have fun we want to have experiences so
have fun we want to have experiences so I need to provide a secure environment
I need to provide a secure environment
I need to provide a secure environment for them so they’re not think bad things
for them so they’re not think bad things
for them so they’re not think bad things aren’t just happening and so so men need
aren’t just happening and so so men need
aren’t just happening and so so men need to like bone up man
to like bone up man
to like bone up man like the government can’t take care of
like the government can’t take care of
like the government can’t take care of you bone up you know this yeah bone up
you bone up you know this yeah bone up
you bone up you know this yeah bone up get strong right strong case so get a
get strong right strong case so get a
get strong right strong case so get a get a backbone and take care of your
get a backbone and take care of your
get a backbone and take care of your family and quit blaming the government
family and quit blaming the government
family and quit blaming the government or making excuses that your neighbor or
or making excuses that your neighbor or
or making excuses that your neighbor or the economy or what whatever conditions
the economy or what whatever conditions
the economy or what whatever conditions the guy I’ve had some terrible
the guy I’ve had some terrible
the guy I’ve had some terrible conditions in my life from the age of 15
conditions in my life from the age of 15
conditions in my life from the age of 15 till 25 it was awful for me ten years
till 25 it was awful for me ten years
till 25 it was awful for me ten years nobody would want to go through the ten
nobody would want to go through the ten
nobody would want to go through the ten years that I went through did do some
years that I went through did do some
years that I went through did do some people have it worse than I did probably
people have it worse than I did probably
people have it worse than I did probably but I don’t want to do those ten those
but I don’t want to do those ten those
but I don’t want to do those ten those ten years were terrible for me is
ten years were terrible for me is
ten years were terrible for me is degrading as a human being can
degrading as a human being can
degrading as a human being can experience drugs yeah drugs but mostly
experience drugs yeah drugs but mostly
experience drugs yeah drugs but mostly just so many bad choices so many bad
just so many bad choices so many bad
just so many bad choices so many bad people you know so so much it’s self
people you know so so much it’s self
people you know so so much it’s self self deprivation and
self deprivation and
self deprivation and and just a lack of self esteem and self
and just a lack of self esteem and self
and just a lack of self esteem and self love for myself because of a lot of bad
love for myself because of a lot of bad
love for myself because of a lot of bad choices so I understand what goes on
choices so I understand what goes on
choices so I understand what goes on through for a person when they’re making
through for a person when they’re making
through for a person when they’re making bad choices and and and people just need
bad choices and and and people just need
bad choices and and and people just need to man up
to man up
to man up you know bone up the women need to do
you know bone up the women need to do
you know bone up the women need to do the same thing by the way yeah women
the same thing by the way yeah women
the same thing by the way yeah women they’re stronger than men look I hate
they’re stronger than men look I hate
they’re stronger than men look I hate pain any kind of pain women can handle
pain any kind of pain women can handle
pain any kind of pain women can handle ten times the pain I can handle and I
ten times the pain I can handle and I
ten times the pain I can handle and I know I’ve said before that knowledge is
know I’ve said before that knowledge is
know I’ve said before that knowledge is the most important thing but the reality
the most important thing but the reality
the most important thing but the reality is if you don’t have the strength or
is if you don’t have the strength or
is if you don’t have the strength or actually the health to back that up or
actually the health to back that up or
actually the health to back that up or even to function as a human being
even to function as a human being
even to function as a human being physically then your knowledge and your
physically then your knowledge and your
physically then your knowledge and your mental strength doesn’t really even
mental strength doesn’t really even
mental strength doesn’t really even matter so that comes into play and being
matter so that comes into play and being
matter so that comes into play and being big and strong is also totally useless
big and strong is also totally useless
big and strong is also totally useless if you’re mentally weak and you quit now
if you’re mentally weak and you quit now
if you’re mentally weak and you quit now being mentally strong should actually
being mentally strong should actually
being mentally strong should actually lead you to being physically strong
lead you to being physically strong
lead you to being physically strong because if you are mentally strong then
because if you are mentally strong then
because if you are mentally strong then you can work and train to become
you can work and train to become
you can work and train to become physically strong but if you’re mentally
physically strong but if you’re mentally
physically strong but if you’re mentally weak then you will not hold the line on
weak then you will not hold the line on
weak then you will not hold the line on the good food and the good workouts and
the good food and the good workouts and
the good food and the good workouts and you won’t get physically strong or
you won’t get physically strong or
you won’t get physically strong or healthy so
healthy so
healthy so can you be weak and strong at the same
can you be weak and strong at the same
can you be weak and strong at the same time yes but I say be strong train your
time yes but I say be strong train your
time yes but I say be strong train your physical strength and exercise your
physical strength and exercise your
physical strength and exercise your mental strength by doing the right
mental strength by doing the right
mental strength by doing the right things the hard things the things you
things the hard things the things you
things the hard things the things you know you’re supposed to do do them and
know you’re supposed to do do them and
know you’re supposed to do do them and be as strong as you can mentally
be as strong as you can mentally
be as strong as you can mentally physically and emotionally for yourself
physically and emotionally for yourself
physically and emotionally for yourself for your team for your family hold the
for your team for your family hold the
for your team for your family hold the line and be strong this is great line
line and be strong this is great line
line and be strong this is great line that Will Smith said when somebody asked
that Will Smith said when somebody asked
that Will Smith said when somebody asked what he’s afraid of
what he’s afraid of
what he’s afraid of and he said fear he’s afraid of fear the
and he said fear he’s afraid of fear the
and he said fear he’s afraid of fear the fear of here he doesn’t like fear
fear of here he doesn’t like fear
fear of here he doesn’t like fear whenever he recognizes that he’s afraid
whenever he recognizes that he’s afraid
whenever he recognizes that he’s afraid of something he wants to attack it to
of something he wants to attack it to
of something he wants to attack it to get rid of it to combat it to always be
get rid of it to combat it to always be
get rid of it to combat it to always be pushing through whatever his fears are
pushing through whatever his fears are
pushing through whatever his fears are because his fear is prevented from doing
because his fear is prevented from doing
because his fear is prevented from doing great things we wants to just run
great things we wants to just run
great things we wants to just run straight into fear which is such an
straight into fear which is such an
straight into fear which is such an interesting approach I don’t think many
interesting approach I don’t think many
interesting approach I don’t think many people have that mindset and just the
people have that mindset and just the
people have that mindset and just the act of crushing of fear or combating the
act of crushing of fear or combating the
act of crushing of fear or combating the fear makes you stronger makes you grow
fear makes you stronger makes you grow
fear makes you stronger makes you grow makes you more comfortable and doing
makes you more comfortable and doing
makes you more comfortable and doing other crazy things it expands your
other crazy things it expands your
other crazy things it expands your circle of confidence and competence
circle of confidence and competence
circle of confidence and competence the tricky part though is to catch
the tricky part though is to catch
the tricky part though is to catch yourself the tricky part is to actually
yourself the tricky part is to actually
yourself the tricky part is to actually acknowledge to yourself that you are
acknowledge to yourself that you are
acknowledge to yourself that you are afraid of something because what we’ll
afraid of something because what we’ll
afraid of something because what we’ll often do is just come up with a rational
often do is just come up with a rational
often do is just come up with a rational reason why we should do it instead of
reason why we should do it instead of
reason why we should do it instead of admitting to ourselves that we’re afraid
admitting to ourselves that we’re afraid
admitting to ourselves that we’re afraid we’ll come up with a justification I’m
we’ll come up with a justification I’m
we’ll come up with a justification I’m not gonna start my business because you
not gonna start my business because you
not gonna start my business because you know now it’s not the right time because
know now it’s not the right time because
know now it’s not the right time because you know this president’s office because
you know this president’s office because
you know this president’s office because whatever you come up with a bunch of
whatever you come up with a bunch of
whatever you come up with a bunch of reasons and listen those reasons may be
reasons and listen those reasons may be
reasons and listen those reasons may be true right a lot of those reasons have
true right a lot of those reasons have
true right a lot of those reasons have some kind of practical value that’s why
some kind of practical value that’s why
some kind of practical value that’s why you pick them right you’re not gonna
you pick them right you’re not gonna
you pick them right you’re not gonna pick something totally crazy it’s not
pick something totally crazy it’s not
pick something totally crazy it’s not gonna be you know Martians might invade
gonna be you know Martians might invade
gonna be you know Martians might invade planet Earth so I’m not gonna start my
planet Earth so I’m not gonna start my
planet Earth so I’m not gonna start my business somebody told you that if you
business somebody told you that if you
business somebody told you that if you told yourself that you wouldn’t believe
told yourself that you wouldn’t believe
told yourself that you wouldn’t believe it you came to live with it so all these
it you came to live with it so all these
it you came to live with it so all these practical reasons that you come up with
practical reasons that you come up with
practical reasons that you come up with they hold a shred of proof and so that’s
they hold a shred of proof and so that’s
they hold a shred of proof and so that’s what makes it feel like that’s the real
what makes it feel like that’s the real
what makes it feel like that’s the real and but really just afraid you’re just
and but really just afraid you’re just
and but really just afraid you’re just afraid to do something those aren’t the
afraid to do something those aren’t the
afraid to do something those aren’t the reasons they’re there but they’re not
reasons they’re there but they’re not
reasons they’re there but they’re not the real reasons you’re just afraid and
the real reasons you’re just afraid and
the real reasons you’re just afraid and so catching yourself to understand that
so catching yourself to understand that
so catching yourself to understand that this is the reason why I’m not doing
this is the reason why I’m not doing
this is the reason why I’m not doing something important it’s super critical
something important it’s super critical
something important it’s super critical I think I said when you do catch
I think I said when you do catch
I think I said when you do catch yourself then what do you do then you
yourself then what do you do then you
yourself then what do you do then you start to try to take some kind of action
start to try to take some kind of action
start to try to take some kind of action for so the example that I told before I
for so the example that I told before I
for so the example that I told before I like to tell is when I was walking in
like to tell is when I was walking in
like to tell is when I was walking in the street and I had my headphones on
the street and I had my headphones on
the street and I had my headphones on and some quiet Street and I’m I’m
and some quiet Street and I’m I’m
and some quiet Street and I’m I’m grooving and I’m shaking them dancing
grooving and I’m shaking them dancing
grooving and I’m shaking them dancing now I’m doing a whole bunch of stuff and
now I’m doing a whole bunch of stuff and
now I’m doing a whole bunch of stuff and then I get close to a busy intersection
then I get close to a busy intersection
then I get close to a busy intersection and as soon as I see people around me i
and as soon as I see people around me i
and as soon as I see people around me i tone down I start playing small start
tone down I start playing small start
tone down I start playing small start playing it say
playing it say
playing it say worried about their judge without me
worried about their judge without me
worried about their judge without me worried about how they might be thinking
worried about how they might be thinking
worried about how they might be thinking about me subconscious like I didn’t even
about me subconscious like I didn’t even
about me subconscious like I didn’t even didn’t even tick didn’t even register
didn’t even tick didn’t even register
didn’t even tick didn’t even register that I was playing small right and this
that I was playing small right and this
that I was playing small right and this is what we do normally right like
is what we do normally right like
is what we do normally right like because we’re afraid of failing the fear
because we’re afraid of failing the fear
because we’re afraid of failing the fear of judgment we just play small by
of judgment we just play small by
of judgment we just play small by default we just resort them back to it
default we just resort them back to it
default we just resort them back to it and then I caught it I caught it they
and then I caught it I caught it they
and then I caught it I caught it they realized what just happened
realized what just happened
realized what just happened I was grooving and now I stopped because
I was grooving and now I stopped because
I was grooving and now I stopped because there’s a bunch of people on the street
there’s a bunch of people on the street
there’s a bunch of people on the street that’s not acceptable and then I made a
that’s not acceptable and then I made a
that’s not acceptable and then I made a conscious effort to dance even bigger on
conscious effort to dance even bigger on
conscious effort to dance even bigger on a busy street corner I’m I’m shaking it
a busy street corner I’m I’m shaking it
a busy street corner I’m I’m shaking it up now I’m not going in somebody’s face
up now I’m not going in somebody’s face
up now I’m not going in somebody’s face and trying to prove a point I’m not
and trying to prove a point I’m not
and trying to prove a point I’m not trying to get in somebody’s space and
trying to get in somebody’s space and
trying to get in somebody’s space and offend them but maybe what I’m doing
offend them but maybe what I’m doing
offend them but maybe what I’m doing inspires them maybe what I’m doing gives
inspires them maybe what I’m doing gives
inspires them maybe what I’m doing gives them a little bit of a smile yeah maybe
them a little bit of a smile yeah maybe
them a little bit of a smile yeah maybe they think I’m crazy that’s okay I don’t
they think I’m crazy that’s okay I don’t
they think I’m crazy that’s okay I don’t want to be afraid of that and so
want to be afraid of that and so
want to be afraid of that and so whenever I can catch myself playing
whenever I can catch myself playing
whenever I can catch myself playing small because of a fear then I try to
small because of a fear then I try to
small because of a fear then I try to attack it the most difficult part is
attack it the most difficult part is
attack it the most difficult part is still catching it and you may catch one
still catching it and you may catch one
still catching it and you may catch one in a hundred I bet you I’ve already
in a hundred I bet you I’ve already
in a hundred I bet you I’ve already played small a hundred times today they
played small a hundred times today they
played small a hundred times today they didn’t catch any just subconsciously
didn’t catch any just subconsciously
didn’t catch any just subconsciously it’s that’s how we’re wired you play
it’s that’s how we’re wired you play
it’s that’s how we’re wired you play small daily hundreds of times you don’t
small daily hundreds of times you don’t
small daily hundreds of times you don’t even notice it when you do notice it
even notice it when you do notice it
even notice it when you do notice it though when you do catch it you catch
though when you do catch it you catch
though when you do catch it you catch your fear
your fear
your fear get into the habit of pushing through it
get into the habit of pushing through it
get into the habit of pushing through it get into the habit of running towards it
get into the habit of running towards it
get into the habit of running towards it because the more you do that the more
because the more you do that the more
because the more you do that the more you’ll catch the next one
you’ll catch the next one
you’ll catch the next one and you’ll catch the next one and you
and you’ll catch the next one and you
and you’ll catch the next one and you catch the next one and you’ve trained
catch the next one and you’ve trained
catch the next one and you’ve trained yourself that when you’re afraid of
yourself that when you’re afraid of
yourself that when you’re afraid of something you’re gonna attack it what is
something you’re gonna attack it what is
something you’re gonna attack it what is a crazy audition that you had early on
a crazy audition that you had early on
a crazy audition that you had early on you know we are here at the Screen
you know we are here at the Screen
you know we are here at the Screen Actors Guild Awards getting that sag
Actors Guild Awards getting that sag
Actors Guild Awards getting that sag card is a really big deal in the
card is a really big deal in the
card is a really big deal in the beginning do you remember kind of a an
beginning do you remember kind of a an
beginning do you remember kind of a an audition that made you freak out a
audition that made you freak out a
audition that made you freak out a little bit I think I mean I relate to
little bit I think I mean I relate to
little bit I think I mean I relate to pretty much every audition in the movie
pretty much every audition in the movie
pretty much every audition in the movie I’ve had a version of those many many
I’ve had a version of those many many
I’ve had a version of those many many times I think the hardest part was for
times I think the hardest part was for
times I think the hardest part was for awhile I auditioned for a lot of things
awhile I auditioned for a lot of things
awhile I auditioned for a lot of things which is great when you’re an actor and
which is great when you’re an actor and
which is great when you’re an actor and you’re getting a lot of auditions and I
you’re getting a lot of auditions and I
you’re getting a lot of auditions and I wasn’t getting called back for anything
wasn’t getting called back for anything
wasn’t getting called back for anything when I first moved to LA and and so they
when I first moved to LA and and so they
when I first moved to LA and and so they just stopped sending me out so there was
just stopped sending me out so there was
just stopped sending me out so there was a large swath of time where nobody
a large swath of time where nobody
a large swath of time where nobody wanted me to even come in and I think
wanted me to even come in and I think
wanted me to even come in and I think that feeling was actually worse than any
that feeling was actually worse than any
that feeling was actually worse than any of the you know the initial auditions
of the you know the initial auditions
of the you know the initial auditions and being kind of rejected I think
and being kind of rejected I think
and being kind of rejected I think sometimes we want an easy life so I
sometimes we want an easy life so I
sometimes we want an easy life so I think sometimes we want everybody to
think sometimes we want everybody to
think sometimes we want everybody to love us and buy from us and so easy it’s
love us and buy from us and so easy it’s
love us and buy from us and so easy it’s so great it’s all the sudden and with
so great it’s all the sudden and with
so great it’s all the sudden and with all of my monitoring treatment she
all of my monitoring treatment she
all of my monitoring treatment she didn’t tell me I was special my dad
didn’t tell me I was special my dad
didn’t tell me I was special my dad didn’t do this to me my ex cheated on me
didn’t do this to me my ex cheated on me
didn’t do this to me my ex cheated on me my ex did this and this person did this
my ex did this and this person did this
my ex did this and this person did this and my friend did this on my boss oh my
and my friend did this on my boss oh my
and my friend did this on my boss oh my gosh this is why I’m losing
gosh this is why I’m losing
gosh this is why I’m losing those are all the reasons why you have a
those are all the reasons why you have a
those are all the reasons why you have a shot at doing something big with your
shot at doing something big with your
shot at doing something big with your life those are all the reasons those are
life those are all the reasons those are
life those are all the reasons those are all the reasons why you can use as an
all the reasons why you can use as an
all the reasons why you can use as an ammunition to say boom world I’m coming
ammunition to say boom world I’m coming
ammunition to say boom world I’m coming I’m gonna do something big with my life
I’m gonna do something big with my life
I’m gonna do something big with my life and no one expects it so rather than
and no one expects it so rather than
and no one expects it so rather than looking at some of these tough times
looking at some of these tough times
looking at some of these tough times that you may be going through today and
that you may be going through today and
that you may be going through today and there you will be going through in the
there you will be going through in the
there you will be going through in the future because depending on whatever age
future because depending on whatever age
future because depending on whatever age you are you go from going to birthdays
you are you go from going to birthdays
you are you go from going to birthdays to going to weddings to go on a birthday
to going to weddings to go on a birthday
to going to weddings to go on a birthday kids being born to go into kids birthday
kids being born to go into kids birthday
kids being born to go into kids birthday parties then you go to funerals no
parties then you go to funerals no
parties then you go to funerals no matter what we’re all going to funerals
matter what we’re all going to funerals
matter what we’re all going to funerals eventually if you haven’t already
eventually if you haven’t already
eventually if you haven’t already started going to funerals that’s called
started going to funerals that’s called
started going to funerals that’s called life and the sooner you anticipate tough
life and the sooner you anticipate tough
life and the sooner you anticipate tough times and the sooner you overcome every
times and the sooner you overcome every
times and the sooner you overcome every single one of these tough times that you
single one of these tough times that you
single one of these tough times that you think you’re the only one that’s going
think you’re the only one that’s going
think you’re the only one that’s going through it when are you gonna look up
through it when are you gonna look up
through it when are you gonna look up and people gonna look at you as an
and people gonna look at you as an
and people gonna look at you as an example of somebody who is tough enough
example of somebody who is tough enough
example of somebody who is tough enough to go through the difficult times and
to go through the difficult times and
to go through the difficult times and now
now
now a leader winning big and they one day
a leader winning big and they one day
a leader winning big and they one day want to be just like you in 2010 you
want to be just like you in 2010 you
want to be just like you in 2010 you know I kind of called myself I’m a
know I kind of called myself I’m a
know I kind of called myself I’m a meathead I just lift weights and put him
meathead I just lift weights and put him
meathead I just lift weights and put him down right I had kind of painted myself
down right I had kind of painted myself
down right I had kind of painted myself into that corner why not go run a
into that corner why not go run a
into that corner why not go run a marathon so I trained for six weeks and
marathon so I trained for six weeks and
marathon so I trained for six weeks and went and ran a marathon it was the most
went and ran a marathon it was the most
went and ran a marathon it was the most painful thing I ever did but I realized
painful thing I ever did but I realized
painful thing I ever did but I realized that was more the suffering and the pain
that was more the suffering and the pain
that was more the suffering and the pain and the more pain I had the more put me
and the more pain I had the more put me
and the more pain I had the more put me into the zone of wanting to dominate so
into the zone of wanting to dominate so
into the zone of wanting to dominate so it is a superpower
it is a superpower
it is a superpower so I almost now go back and put myself
so I almost now go back and put myself
so I almost now go back and put myself into these challenges Rob claiming I was
into these challenges Rob claiming I was
into these challenges Rob claiming I was afraid of heights took on a six-week
afraid of heights took on a six-week
afraid of heights took on a six-week challenge started climbing Ross wanted
challenge started climbing Ross wanted
challenge started climbing Ross wanted to fight a professional MMA fighter so I
to fight a professional MMA fighter so I
to fight a professional MMA fighter so I hired him trained for six weeks one of
hired him trained for six weeks one of
hired him trained for six weeks one of the ring I got my ass kicked and choked
the ring I got my ass kicked and choked
the ring I got my ass kicked and choked out but each time I did that it gave me
out but each time I did that it gave me
out but each time I did that it gave me the sense of I can get over any obstacle
the sense of I can get over any obstacle
the sense of I can get over any obstacle and if I can get over getting choked out
and if I can get over getting choked out
and if I can get over getting choked out and punched and the pain of 26.2 miles
and punched and the pain of 26.2 miles
and punched and the pain of 26.2 miles and a marathon or overcoming my fear of
and a marathon or overcoming my fear of
and a marathon or overcoming my fear of heights surely I can build a business
heights surely I can build a business
heights surely I can build a business surely I can take some criticism online
surely I can take some criticism online
surely I can take some criticism online right but not enough people are willing
right but not enough people are willing
right but not enough people are willing to build that mental emotional toughness
to build that mental emotional toughness
to build that mental emotional toughness and the moment they do though persevere
and the moment they do though persevere
and the moment they do though persevere Bistro
Bistro
Bistro and very courageous be strong and very
and very courageous be strong and very
and very courageous be strong and very courageous be strong and be of good
courageous be strong and be of good
courageous be strong and be of good courage be strong and pull Sicily
courage be strong and pull Sicily
courage be strong and pull Sicily because God knows that for what you’re
because God knows that for what you’re
because God knows that for what you’re going to do it is not by outer strength
going to do it is not by outer strength
going to do it is not by outer strength [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] you understand you understand see
you understand you understand see
you understand you understand see company preach the straightness more –
company preach the straightness more –
company preach the straightness more – girl its inner strength so my fourth one
girl its inner strength so my fourth one
girl its inner strength so my fourth one is you got to have inner strength for
is you got to have inner strength for
is you got to have inner strength for this fight it’s not your outer strength
this fight it’s not your outer strength
this fight it’s not your outer strength it’s not by might nor by power but by my
it’s not by might nor by power but by my
it’s not by might nor by power but by my spirit saith the Lord
spirit saith the Lord
spirit saith the Lord so you gotta have that inner that inner
so you gotta have that inner that inner
so you gotta have that inner that inner that inner that cut strips and delis
that inner that cut strips and delis
that inner that cut strips and delis strength then temple define come hell a
strength then temple define come hell a
strength then temple define come hell a Hal Wallis trip that rolled me out in
Hal Wallis trip that rolled me out in
Hal Wallis trip that rolled me out in front of them an hour preach from a
front of them an hour preach from a
front of them an hour preach from a chair strip that’s an asset II to take a
chair strip that’s an asset II to take a
chair strip that’s an asset II to take a lickin and keep on tickin that inner
lickin and keep on tickin that inner
lickin and keep on tickin that inner strength that well I can’t do as I would
strength that well I can’t do as I would
strength that well I can’t do as I would I’m gonna do as I can
I’m gonna do as I can
I’m gonna do as I can but I’m not will stop going to the best
but I’m not will stop going to the best
but I’m not will stop going to the best ability
strong strong 30 years how has the crowd
strong strong 30 years how has the crowd changed like now it seems like
changed like now it seems like
changed like now it seems like everyone’s offended by every
everyone’s offended by every
everyone’s offended by every it’s like how does a very good point
it’s like how does a very good point
it’s like how does a very good point people are sensitive now all the sudden
people are sensitive now all the sudden
people are sensitive now all the sudden or oversensitive maybe there’s a mag
or oversensitive maybe there’s a mag
or oversensitive maybe there’s a mag graining quote migrating that created
graining quote migrating that created
graining quote migrating that created the Simpsons there’s this famous quote
the Simpsons there’s this famous quote
the Simpsons there’s this famous quote where he says the world is filled with
where he says the world is filled with
where he says the world is filled with people who are dying to be offended by
people who are dying to be offended by
people who are dying to be offended by something what the world has now is an
something what the world has now is an
something what the world has now is an Internet for those people to voice their
Internet for those people to voice their
Internet for those people to voice their offense so they can make something out
offense so they can make something out
offense so they can make something out of nothing they can spend your work and
of nothing they can spend your work and
of nothing they can spend your work and make something that’s beautiful look
make something that’s beautiful look
make something that’s beautiful look like it’s ugly advice verses like I say
like it’s ugly advice verses like I say
like it’s ugly advice verses like I say my specialist is the age of spin so so
my specialist is the age of spin so so
my specialist is the age of spin so so everyone is becoming a spin doctor so
everyone is becoming a spin doctor so
everyone is becoming a spin doctor so it’s now granted comedians make mistakes
it’s now granted comedians make mistakes
it’s now granted comedians make mistakes it’s part of the job you know and some
it’s part of the job you know and some
it’s part of the job you know and some mistakes are easily forgivable some are
mistakes are easily forgivable some are
mistakes are easily forgivable some are wildly more extreme but I did is that we
wildly more extreme but I did is that we
wildly more extreme but I did is that we want a society where we are late allowed
want a society where we are late allowed
want a society where we are late allowed to make mistakes were able to voice our
to make mistakes were able to voice our
to make mistakes were able to voice our opinions and change our things so I just
opinions and change our things so I just
opinions and change our things so I just I just let it rip I’m not afraid of the
I just let it rip I’m not afraid of the
I just let it rip I’m not afraid of the audience you know I think the vast
audience you know I think the vast
audience you know I think the vast majority of people that come out they
majority of people that come out they
majority of people that come out they get it they know what it is and there’s
get it they know what it is and there’s
get it they know what it is and there’s always some people with insidious intent
always some people with insidious intent
always some people with insidious intent they try to derail you
I would just spin the ball but it’s you
I would just spin the ball but it’s you know as you get as you go all the
know as you get as you go all the
know as you get as you go all the business you guys it’s toughen up and
business you guys it’s toughen up and
business you guys it’s toughen up and and just hope that your numbers don’t
and just hope that your numbers don’t
and just hope that your numbers don’t come up I’m sure my next special have
come up I’m sure my next special have
come up I’m sure my next special have somebody bad
now I’ve got a really special bonus clip
now I’ve got a really special bonus clip with Kevin Durant on how to be tough
with Kevin Durant on how to be tough
with Kevin Durant on how to be tough that I think you’re gonna really enjoy
that I think you’re gonna really enjoy
that I think you’re gonna really enjoy but before that it’s time for the
but before that it’s time for the
but before that it’s time for the three-point landing questions time to
three-point landing questions time to
three-point landing questions time to move from just watching another video to
move from just watching another video to
move from just watching another video to actually taking action in your life or
actually taking action in your life or
actually taking action in your life or your business and if you’re feeling bold
your business and if you’re feeling bold
your business and if you’re feeling bold leave your answers in the comments below
leave your answers in the comments below
leave your answers in the comments below here we go question number one where do
here we go question number one where do
here we go question number one where do you need to be tougher number two what
you need to be tougher number two what
you need to be tougher number two what immediate action can you take on it
immediate action can you take on it
immediate action can you take on it right now and number three how will you
right now and number three how will you
right now and number three how will you stay consistent on being tougher
so like I’ll be getting bullied over
so like I’ll be getting bullied over here I took the easy way out I don’t
here I took the easy way out I don’t
here I took the easy way out I don’t deserve any day that’s it too easy
deserve any day that’s it too easy
deserve any day that’s it too easy without easy this is no cuz it ain’t
without easy this is no cuz it ain’t
without easy this is no cuz it ain’t never had no easy
never had no easy
never had no easy [Music]
[Music]
[Music] there is no doubt in my mind it was a
there is no doubt in my mind it was a
there is no doubt in my mind it was a crushing day for him when he knew that
crushing day for him when he knew that
crushing day for him when he knew that the decision he had to make would be to
the decision he had to make would be to
the decision he had to make would be to go to Golden State because he would
go to Golden State because he would
go to Golden State because he would never want anybody there to think that
never want anybody there to think that
never want anybody there to think that he didn’t appreciate him that he didn’t
he didn’t appreciate him that he didn’t
he didn’t appreciate him that he didn’t mean every word he had ever spoken when
mean every word he had ever spoken when
mean every word he had ever spoken when he was there kevin gave nine years to
he was there kevin gave nine years to
he was there kevin gave nine years to OKC it’s a long time and he gave
OKC it’s a long time and he gave
OKC it’s a long time and he gave everything he had the tough decision was
everything he had the tough decision was
everything he had the tough decision was made and you grow from it you learn from
made and you grow from it you learn from
made and you grow from it you learn from it it’s how you handle it we had a lot
it it’s how you handle it we had a lot
it it’s how you handle it we had a lot of great moments together it’s hard to
of great moments together it’s hard to
of great moments together it’s hard to make you at the top of your profession
make you at the top of your profession
make you at the top of your profession no matter what it is but it’s easy for
no matter what it is but it’s easy for
no matter what it is but it’s easy for people to describe it
this like banging works whole life to
this like banging works whole life to get to this point and sometimes I don’t
get to this point and sometimes I don’t
get to this point and sometimes I don’t even enjoy it because you were the other
even enjoy it because you were the other
even enjoy it because you were the other people got to sit and that’s struggling
people got to sit and that’s struggling
people got to sit and that’s struggling some days especially when you play an
some days especially when you play an
some days especially when you play an NBA when all you hear is the noise it’s
NBA when all you hear is the noise it’s
NBA when all you hear is the noise it’s hard to tune it out as much as people
hard to tune it out as much as people
hard to tune it out as much as people want us to like be tough mine have thick
want us to like be tough mine have thick
want us to like be tough mine have thick skin sometimes it’s our tonight not take
skin sometimes it’s our tonight not take
skin sometimes it’s our tonight not take up for yourself and be like yo work hard
up for yourself and be like yo work hard
up for yourself and be like yo work hard as hell but you know we’re not in the
as hell but you know we’re not in the
as hell but you know we’re not in the gym after shooting around you have to
gym after shooting around you have to
gym after shooting around you have to practice it you know it’s going off to
practice it you know it’s going off to
practice it you know it’s going off to my head like day before game I don’t
my head like day before game I don’t
my head like day before game I don’t know it’s just a game that some people
know it’s just a game that some people
know it’s just a game that some people would be real life to this
would be real life to this
would be real life to this I think people get this idea that like
I think people get this idea that like
I think people get this idea that like he made his decision and then on July
he made his decision and then on July
he made his decision and then on July 4th he was like bring out the ace of
4th he was like bring out the ace of
4th he was like bring out the ace of spades let’s pop champagne I’m going to
spades let’s pop champagne I’m going to
spades let’s pop champagne I’m going to go on stay I mean it was the opposite
go on stay I mean it was the opposite
go on stay I mean it was the opposite like his July 4th barbecue didn’t exist
like his July 4th barbecue didn’t exist
like his July 4th barbecue didn’t exist like there was no celebration he was in
like there was no celebration he was in
like there was no celebration he was in more pain making that decision than
more pain making that decision than
more pain making that decision than anybody because that was the opposite of
anybody because that was the opposite of
anybody because that was the opposite of what he had done his whole life which
what he had done his whole life which
what he had done his whole life which was make sure that everybody was happy
was make sure that everybody was happy
was make sure that everybody was happy if you want to know how to deal with
if you want to know how to deal with
if you want to know how to deal with difficulties and problems in your life
difficulties and problems in your life
difficulties and problems in your life check out the video right next to me I
check out the video right next to me I
check out the video right next to me I think you’ll enjoy it continue to
think you’ll enjoy it continue to
think you’ll enjoy it continue to believe and I’ll see you there
believe and I’ll see you there
believe and I’ll see you there great people don’t go through they grow
great people don’t go through they grow
great people don’t go through they grow to the difficulties that come on their
to the difficulties that come on their
to the difficulties that come on their path problems will come
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