good morning believe nation today’s
message is stop complaining over you
Joyce Maher and I remember God telling
me in the very very beginning of our
ministry if you can not complain about
where you go to do meetings the day will
come when you’ll be able to go anywhere
you want to and hold a meeting well
that’s pretty much true today but I had
to go through a lot of rough places and
difficult places and I think a lot of
people when you listen to me a lot of
people never get to where they want to
be because they’ll never stop
complaining about where they’re at
I might say it again a lot of people
will never get to where they want to be
because they will never stop complaining
about where they’re at the word complain
means to remain or to stay overnight so
if you want to say right where you’re at
just keep complaining about it and I can
pretty much guarantee you that you’ll
still be there this time next year
successful people don’t complain they
don’t they don’t complain and we we have
featured maybe the most successful
people of anybody on YouTube maybe on
the internet on this channel and one of
the consistent messages I can speak to
you with authority here successful
people don’t complain whether you’re
looking at entrepreneurs inventors
actors athletes musicians if you reach
the top it’s not because you’re
complaining because you’re doing
something about it
here’s what happens when you can play
who are you complaining about you
complain it about your family your
friends the government blah blah blah
right what happened is your abdicating
responsibility when you’re complaining
about someone or something else you’re
putting the blame over there
right it’s not on you it’s not your
fault that you’re in this situation but
your father this thing happened to you
is somebody else’s fault and as long as
it’s somebody else’s fault it’s them
that needs to change and as long as it’s
them that needs to change and not you
the nothing’s going to happen
you’re going to stay the same way that
you are you’re going to stay in the same
position you are going to stay in the
same financial situation at you’re at
you’re just going to stay the same
we’re successful people they see a
challenge and they see an opportunity
instead of seeing that challenge and
complaining about it they do something
about it they take responsibility for
the situation they’re in and say if I’m
going to break free of this I’m gonna
have to do something about it I’m going
to have to change it’s not my parents
fault or anybody else it’s me
if I want this situation to get better I
need to get better your business is
where it’s at whether you start it or
not your business is where it’s at
because of you only because of you and
you can say yes Evan but you know my
situation I have a job and I have a
mortgage and I have a family and you
know great so what’s going to change
you’re going to wait for your boss to
give you a raise you’re going to wait
for your you know your spouse to make
more money you’re going to wait for the
real estate market to get better what
are you what are you waiting for do
outside influences make a difference
absolutely but successful people don’t
rely on those things I’m not waiting for
the next election for me to hit it big
on my thing even if you can only control
a certain percentage of what happened
that’s where you should focus because
that’s when you can control and stop
wasting energy on other people and
complaining and negativity successful
people take responsibility for where
they’re at and they make a plan to start
making changes if you do not improve
yourself your skills your ability your
knowledge your mindset your environment
if you don’t make those changes to
improve yourself you’re going to be
exactly where you are today
one year from now five years from now
ten years from now if you adopt a
complaining mindset your situation is
never going to change and it’s always
going to be somebody else’s fault so the
next time you catch yourself complaining
or you tell your friends or your spouse
your family listen you hear me
complaining I want you to call me out on
it
eat that learn from it get better look
for the opportunity to improve yourself
take responsibility stop complaining so
the question is eight today is I’m
curious believe nation I’m curious what
did you use to complain about that you
don’t anymore that you took some
responsibility and accountability for
I’m curious I want to hear your story I
think you can inspire it as well
leave it down in the comments below I
just want to give a quick shout out to
James P Bailey the fourth thank you so
much for picking up a copy of my book
your one word really means a lot to man
I appreciate the support I hope you
enjoying the read thank you guys again
for watching I believe in you hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one word is and I’ll see
you again tomorrow morning for another
shot of instability nation if you want
some more inspiration to stop
complaining I think you’re going to
enjoy these bonus clips how many of you
have ever complained in your life yeah
you know here’s what I’ve learned about
complaining in order to complain I have
to have a reference point of something
better that I want that I’m not willing
to risk creating now let me explain that
again I have to have a reference point
in my mind of something I want it’s
better than what I have that I’m not
willing to risk creating so what I do is
complain about it instead see if I was
complaining about my wife it would mean
that I would have to believe that
somewhere out there in the world is a
better woman than my wife see if every
woman on the planet died except my wife
do you think I go to work the next day
and complain about it
no she’s the only one and I’d be going
hey and I got her this is really cool
right do you ever hear anyone complain
about gravity very rarely you know
gravity makes us all bend over do you
ever see an old person walking down a
street go on gravity they have a little
Walker
I hate gravity I want for gravity I
wouldn’t be able bend over like this
that buddy sucks now have you ever heard
an older person doing it no the reason
they don’t complain about gravity is
because there’s no alternative to it you
know gravity just is so if someone’s
complaining about something it means
they know there’s something they can do
about it because we don’t complain about
the things we can’t change so as soon as
you hear yourself complaining I want you
to stop and say okay what would I rather
have remember Law of Attraction always
just focus on what you want not what you
don’t want because we’re talking about
what you don’t want when you’re
complaining and blaming you’re focusing
on that what you don’t want and you’re
accelerating its expression out into the
universe with those negative feelings
and yet we’ll spend a majority of our
time complaining about so many things
and usually we complain about them to
people who can’t do anything about it
another thing that you can do is never
ever complain what I say people
complaining I’m just like what are you
what are you doing like your life is so
short are you really going to send your
complaining let me put this in
perspective okay I’m 34 okay I’m 34 now
now in my 20s I didn’t know that many
people to die okay as you start to hit
30 people start to die okay I had a
friend that died last week okay people
are just going to start dying okay I’ve
also almost died myself a couple of
times who here in this room has almost
died before put your hands up look at
that look at that crowd now if that many
people have almost died let me be a
little more betrayed out here how many
people here weren’t here to put their
hands up just probably like little ghost
people actually did die like right in
the crowd right now that is going to be
you okay you are going to be dead soon
enough so don’t waste your time
complaining okay
don’t waste your time complaining is it
terrible idea alright so basically what
you want to do is like never come never
be negative
never complain it breaks my heart my
friends like live for Friday night like
they know they get there we like Monday
mornings the worst it’s just a huge
percentage of one’s life I can’t wrap my
head around with the internet is not
your grandpappy’s life we have the
Internet you can make happen you can
build businesses or side hustles I just
don’t understand why people relegate
into losing mentality into thinking they
can’t you can’t because you want to be
on the bowling team or softball and play
video games that’s why you can’t there’s
plenty of time gets done the level of
complaining is unacceptable look what if
I told you this was the last Monday
morning of your life if I go do you die
this week would you complain about your
crap job or that test you don’t want to
take I doubt it you go much higher level
thinking well that’s really what it
takes it takes understanding that if you
not pump right now if you’re grunting
what you’re about to do it here if
you’re not looking forward please
recognize the world we’re living in
we’re living in a world where so much
more opportunity this internet thing
created way more opportunity for all of
us way more I mean knowing that even be
alive like your mom and dad could have
had sex like three minutes later and you
weren’t even exist and you’re
complaining you could have ended up
being a bust a streak I just don’t get
some mentality of being head down sad on
a Monday morning I’m going to make
Monday morning my bitch I’m going to be
Kings Saturday Monday morning that’s
what I want to do every morning and
that’s what I want from you please take
a step back and think about how awesome
it actually is and then recognize that
you can attack the world in a totally
different way you are lucky enough to be
born during this peer
message is stop complaining over you
Joyce Maher and I remember God telling
me in the very very beginning of our
ministry if you can not complain about
where you go to do meetings the day will
come when you’ll be able to go anywhere
you want to and hold a meeting well
that’s pretty much true today but I had
to go through a lot of rough places and
difficult places and I think a lot of
people when you listen to me a lot of
people never get to where they want to
be because they’ll never stop
complaining about where they’re at
I might say it again a lot of people
will never get to where they want to be
because they will never stop complaining
about where they’re at the word complain
means to remain or to stay overnight so
if you want to say right where you’re at
just keep complaining about it and I can
pretty much guarantee you that you’ll
still be there this time next year
successful people don’t complain they
don’t they don’t complain and we we have
featured maybe the most successful
people of anybody on YouTube maybe on
the internet on this channel and one of
the consistent messages I can speak to
you with authority here successful
people don’t complain whether you’re
looking at entrepreneurs inventors
actors athletes musicians if you reach
the top it’s not because you’re
complaining because you’re doing
something about it
here’s what happens when you can play
who are you complaining about you
complain it about your family your
friends the government blah blah blah
right what happened is your abdicating
responsibility when you’re complaining
about someone or something else you’re
putting the blame over there
right it’s not on you it’s not your
fault that you’re in this situation but
your father this thing happened to you
is somebody else’s fault and as long as
it’s somebody else’s fault it’s them
that needs to change and as long as it’s
them that needs to change and not you
the nothing’s going to happen
you’re going to stay the same way that
you are you’re going to stay in the same
position you are going to stay in the
same financial situation at you’re at
you’re just going to stay the same
we’re successful people they see a
challenge and they see an opportunity
instead of seeing that challenge and
complaining about it they do something
about it they take responsibility for
the situation they’re in and say if I’m
going to break free of this I’m gonna
have to do something about it I’m going
to have to change it’s not my parents
fault or anybody else it’s me
if I want this situation to get better I
need to get better your business is
where it’s at whether you start it or
not your business is where it’s at
because of you only because of you and
you can say yes Evan but you know my
situation I have a job and I have a
mortgage and I have a family and you
know great so what’s going to change
you’re going to wait for your boss to
give you a raise you’re going to wait
for your you know your spouse to make
more money you’re going to wait for the
real estate market to get better what
are you what are you waiting for do
outside influences make a difference
absolutely but successful people don’t
rely on those things I’m not waiting for
the next election for me to hit it big
on my thing even if you can only control
a certain percentage of what happened
that’s where you should focus because
that’s when you can control and stop
wasting energy on other people and
complaining and negativity successful
people take responsibility for where
they’re at and they make a plan to start
making changes if you do not improve
yourself your skills your ability your
knowledge your mindset your environment
if you don’t make those changes to
improve yourself you’re going to be
exactly where you are today
one year from now five years from now
ten years from now if you adopt a
complaining mindset your situation is
never going to change and it’s always
going to be somebody else’s fault so the
next time you catch yourself complaining
or you tell your friends or your spouse
your family listen you hear me
complaining I want you to call me out on
it
eat that learn from it get better look
for the opportunity to improve yourself
take responsibility stop complaining so
the question is eight today is I’m
curious believe nation I’m curious what
did you use to complain about that you
don’t anymore that you took some
responsibility and accountability for
I’m curious I want to hear your story I
think you can inspire it as well
leave it down in the comments below I
just want to give a quick shout out to
James P Bailey the fourth thank you so
much for picking up a copy of my book
your one word really means a lot to man
I appreciate the support I hope you
enjoying the read thank you guys again
for watching I believe in you hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one word is and I’ll see
you again tomorrow morning for another
shot of instability nation if you want
some more inspiration to stop
complaining I think you’re going to
enjoy these bonus clips how many of you
have ever complained in your life yeah
you know here’s what I’ve learned about
complaining in order to complain I have
to have a reference point of something
better that I want that I’m not willing
to risk creating now let me explain that
again I have to have a reference point
in my mind of something I want it’s
better than what I have that I’m not
willing to risk creating so what I do is
complain about it instead see if I was
complaining about my wife it would mean
that I would have to believe that
somewhere out there in the world is a
better woman than my wife see if every
woman on the planet died except my wife
do you think I go to work the next day
and complain about it
no she’s the only one and I’d be going
hey and I got her this is really cool
right do you ever hear anyone complain
about gravity very rarely you know
gravity makes us all bend over do you
ever see an old person walking down a
street go on gravity they have a little
Walker
I hate gravity I want for gravity I
wouldn’t be able bend over like this
that buddy sucks now have you ever heard
an older person doing it no the reason
they don’t complain about gravity is
because there’s no alternative to it you
know gravity just is so if someone’s
complaining about something it means
they know there’s something they can do
about it because we don’t complain about
the things we can’t change so as soon as
you hear yourself complaining I want you
to stop and say okay what would I rather
have remember Law of Attraction always
just focus on what you want not what you
don’t want because we’re talking about
what you don’t want when you’re
complaining and blaming you’re focusing
on that what you don’t want and you’re
accelerating its expression out into the
universe with those negative feelings
and yet we’ll spend a majority of our
time complaining about so many things
and usually we complain about them to
people who can’t do anything about it
another thing that you can do is never
ever complain what I say people
complaining I’m just like what are you
what are you doing like your life is so
short are you really going to send your
complaining let me put this in
perspective okay I’m 34 okay I’m 34 now
now in my 20s I didn’t know that many
people to die okay as you start to hit
30 people start to die okay I had a
friend that died last week okay people
are just going to start dying okay I’ve
also almost died myself a couple of
times who here in this room has almost
died before put your hands up look at
that look at that crowd now if that many
people have almost died let me be a
little more betrayed out here how many
people here weren’t here to put their
hands up just probably like little ghost
people actually did die like right in
the crowd right now that is going to be
you okay you are going to be dead soon
enough so don’t waste your time
complaining okay
don’t waste your time complaining is it
terrible idea alright so basically what
you want to do is like never come never
be negative
never complain it breaks my heart my
friends like live for Friday night like
they know they get there we like Monday
mornings the worst it’s just a huge
percentage of one’s life I can’t wrap my
head around with the internet is not
your grandpappy’s life we have the
Internet you can make happen you can
build businesses or side hustles I just
don’t understand why people relegate
into losing mentality into thinking they
can’t you can’t because you want to be
on the bowling team or softball and play
video games that’s why you can’t there’s
plenty of time gets done the level of
complaining is unacceptable look what if
I told you this was the last Monday
morning of your life if I go do you die
this week would you complain about your
crap job or that test you don’t want to
take I doubt it you go much higher level
thinking well that’s really what it
takes it takes understanding that if you
not pump right now if you’re grunting
what you’re about to do it here if
you’re not looking forward please
recognize the world we’re living in
we’re living in a world where so much
more opportunity this internet thing
created way more opportunity for all of
us way more I mean knowing that even be
alive like your mom and dad could have
had sex like three minutes later and you
weren’t even exist and you’re
complaining you could have ended up
being a bust a streak I just don’t get
some mentality of being head down sad on
a Monday morning I’m going to make
Monday morning my bitch I’m going to be
Kings Saturday Monday morning that’s
what I want to do every morning and
that’s what I want from you please take
a step back and think about how awesome
it actually is and then recognize that
you can attack the world in a totally
different way you are lucky enough to be
born during this peer
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