my identity is made by what my parents think I should be getting to what you
think I should be getting to what you really want to do is impossible I
really want to do is impossible I believe that the best basketball player
believe that the best basketball player in the world is not Michael Jordan
in the world is not Michael Jordan I’d love to dream but I also love that I
I’d love to dream but I also love that I can you can always be a bit open to
can you can always be a bit open to maybe then there’s other things rise and
maybe then there’s other things rise and shine it’s an espresso time what’s up
shine it’s an espresso time what’s up believe nation it’s Evan my one word is
believe nation it’s Evan my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe
believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that
you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see exploded onto the world so
I want to see exploded onto the world so let’s start your day off right together
let’s start your day off right together grab your coffee and sip on today’s
grab your coffee and sip on today’s message be exposed to new experiences
over to you Jay Shetty at 18 I was really fortunate when I met a monk and
really fortunate when I met a monk and this monk was invited to speak and I
this monk was invited to speak and I kind of just went because when my
kind of just went because when my friends forced me to at that time I was
friends forced me to at that time I was listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and
listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and business people and marketers who who I
business people and marketers who who I thought that’s what I was aspiring to be
thought that’s what I was aspiring to be like and then I hear this monk and he
like and then I hear this monk and he captivated me like no one had ever
captivated me like no one had ever captivated me before it was like staring
captivated me before it was like staring at the most beautiful woman on the
at the most beautiful woman on the planet you know I was completely fixated
planet you know I was completely fixated on him and his message see we live in
on him and his message see we live in echo chambers we’re just surrounded by
echo chambers we’re just surrounded by the same thinking how often do you bump
the same thinking how often do you bump into a monk you know it just doesn’t
into a monk you know it just doesn’t happen you don’t have no one has a
happen you don’t have no one has a dinner party and goes oh yeah we listen
dinner party and goes oh yeah we listen by the monk you know from a town like
by the monk you know from a town like the local monk like no one ever does
the local monk like no one ever does that and so you meet people who are just
that and so you meet people who are just like us most of the time and we talk
like us most of the time and we talk about this in business all the time if
about this in business all the time if you want to be a billionaire spend time
you want to be a billionaire spend time with billionaires if you want to be a
with billionaires if you want to be a millionaire spend time and millionaires
millionaire spend time and millionaires if you want to be a tech startup spend
if you want to be a tech startup spend time you know that’s that’s the common
time you know that’s that’s the common rhetoric that we hear all the time but
rhetoric that we hear all the time but what if you want to find a purpose and
what if you want to find a purpose and master the mind there’s no one better
master the mind there’s no one better than a monk who’s mastered the mind so
than a monk who’s mastered the mind so so for me the first step is just opening
so for me the first step is just opening yourself up to new experiences and new
yourself up to new experiences and new role models because most of us can’t see
role models because most of us can’t see ourselves in people so then we try and
ourselves in people so then we try and fit ourselves into the box
fit ourselves into the box is that we do see and and I mean there’s
is that we do see and and I mean there’s this beautiful quote that I’ve been
this beautiful quote that I’ve been saying it everywhere and I wish I wrote
saying it everywhere and I wish I wrote it but I didn’t so it’s by a philosopher
it but I didn’t so it’s by a philosopher and writer named Cooley and he said that
and writer named Cooley and he said that today I’m not what I think I am I’m not
today I’m not what I think I am I’m not what you think I am I am what I think
what you think I am I am what I think you think I am I understand that blow
you think I am I understand that blow your mind for me it’s a it’s so powerful
your mind for me it’s a it’s so powerful I’m not what I think I am I’m not what
I’m not what I think I am I’m not what you think I am I am what I think you
you think I am I am what I think you think I am so we live in this perception
think I am so we live in this perception of a perception of ourselves
of a perception of ourselves hence my identity is made by what my
hence my identity is made by what my parents think I should be my identity is
parents think I should be my identity is made up by what my college or university
made up by what my college or university thinks I should achieve while you’re
thinks I should achieve while you’re living in that bubble and that echo
living in that bubble and that echo chamber getting to what you really want
chamber getting to what you really want to do is impossible because maybe that
to do is impossible because maybe that just doesn’t fit and I think so many
just doesn’t fit and I think so many people feel that way today that they
people feel that way today that they don’t fit into the current education
don’t fit into the current education system they don’t fit with the three or
system they don’t fit with the three or four or five careers that you’re taught
four or five careers that you’re taught exist so that process of self excavation
exist so that process of self excavation and actualization first requires being
and actualization first requires being exposed you can’t be what you can’t see
exposed you can’t be what you can’t see if I never saw a monk I would never have
if I never saw a monk I would never have wanted to be a monk if I never meet a
wanted to be a monk if I never meet a billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one
billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one because I wouldn’t know what that feels
because I wouldn’t know what that feels like I don’t know what it looks like I
like I don’t know what it looks like I don’t know what it takes and and I think
don’t know what it takes and and I think that’s the biggest challenge of our
that’s the biggest challenge of our society that we’re not exposed so that’s
society that we’re not exposed so that’s the first step being exposed to unique
the first step being exposed to unique experiences and role models second step
experiences and role models second step is finding that experience or role model
is finding that experience or role model that you’re passionate about and exactly
that you’re passionate about and exactly like you said taking it seriously
like you said taking it seriously shadow their network with them spend
shadow their network with them spend time with them observe them even from
time with them observe them even from afar it takes that observation being
afar it takes that observation being addicted to observing that person’s
addicted to observing that person’s lifestyle and then the third step is
lifestyle and then the third step is growing yes or no does that work for me
growing yes or no does that work for me not everyone who’s gonna go off from
not everyone who’s gonna go off from become a monk is gonna feel like the way
become a monk is gonna feel like the way I did and that’s cool but not everyone
I did and that’s cool but not everyone is gonna go and follow and shadow a
is gonna go and follow and shadow a billion anger that’s exactly the
billion anger that’s exactly the lifestyle I want they may want the
lifestyle I want they may want the result but do they want the hard work
result but do they want the hard work that goes with it and so for me that’s
that goes with it and so for me that’s the third step its observing focusing
the third step its observing focusing shadowing getting as close to the
shadowing getting as close to the process of that individual and they
process of that individual and they going yes or no do I want that process
going yes or no do I want that process not do I want the result everyone wants
not do I want the result everyone wants to be that monk who’s fully enlightened
to be that monk who’s fully enlightened you know can walk through as an
you know can walk through as an incredible or that people just gravitate
incredible or that people just gravitate towards but when you realize he has to
towards but when you realize he has to wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and
wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and stitch about four to six hours you’re
stitch about four to six hours you’re like ah you know I don’t want to do that
like ah you know I don’t want to do that that doesn’t sound like me you don’t
that doesn’t sound like me you don’t know what you don’t know when you can
know what you don’t know when you can really wrap your head around this when
really wrap your head around this when you realize that you think you know what
you realize that you think you know what
you realize that you think you know what you want you think you know the path
you want you think you know the path that you should be going down but you
that you should be going down but you actually don’t know until you go and
actually don’t know until you go and experience it and there’s an entire
experience it and there’s an entire world out there that you don’t have a
world out there that you don’t have a concept of until you start seeing yes
concept of until you start seeing yes and trying things until you embrace that
and trying things until you embrace that until you recognize that you don’t know
until you recognize that you don’t know what you don’t know you’re gonna be
what you don’t know you’re gonna be constantly living in this box of what is
constantly living in this box of what is known to you and that’s a very limited
known to you and that’s a very limited life I have a philosophy it’s really
life I have a philosophy it’s really served me well which is I like to say
served me well which is I like to say yes to everything at least once I’ll say
yes to everything at least once I’ll say yes to it once and just see how I feel
yes to it once and just see how I feel about it try not to judge it and just
about it try not to judge it and just say yes experience it and see if it’s
say yes experience it and see if it’s for me and if I want to go back and do
for me and if I want to go back and do it again so three quick examples of
it again so three quick examples of things I’ve said yes – I tried rock
things I’ve said yes – I tried rock climbing
climbing I tried snowboarding and I tried salsa
I tried snowboarding and I tried salsa dancing I tried rock climbing even
dancing I tried rock climbing even though I’m afraid of heights I don’t
though I’m afraid of heights I don’t like Heights they don’t suit me well but
like Heights they don’t suit me well but like okay you know what I’ll go once
like okay you know what I’ll go once we’ll see what it’s like I got in the
we’ll see what it’s like I got in the harness I wasn’t a huge fan of it I was
harness I wasn’t a huge fan of it I was afraid of the heights the harness was in
afraid of the heights the harness was in my crotch it felt tight I didn’t enjoy
my crotch it felt tight I didn’t enjoy reaching for the next thing it just
reaching for the next thing it just wasn’t a fantastic experience for me and
wasn’t a fantastic experience for me and I know I don’t want to hate on rock
I know I don’t want to hate on rock climbing I know a bunch you guys
climbing I know a bunch you guys probably loved it amazing awesome do it
probably loved it amazing awesome do it you’re the best rock climber in the
you’re the best rock climber in the world it’s not for me and I tried it I
world it’s not for me and I tried it I tried snowboarding I became obsessed
tried snowboarding I became obsessed with snowboarding I went every single
with snowboarding I went every single day one winter snowboard I got my board
day one winter snowboard I got my board I went every day I pushed off meetings I
I went every day I pushed off meetings I was answering emails on the on the ski
was answering emails on the on the ski lift up and I got decently good I was
lift up and I got decently good I was carving I was doing some jumps I was
carving I was doing some jumps I was obsessed with it for a little while and
obsessed with it for a little while and then it fell off I went every day in one
then it fell off I went every day in one winter then the next winter I went maybe
winter then the next winter I went maybe
winter then the next winter I went maybe four or five times with Nina and then
four or five times with Nina and then the next winter I stopped and I didn’t
the next winter I stopped and I didn’t go back this winter either and it’s gone
go back this winter either and it’s gone I haven’t gone snowboarding we’re
I haven’t gone snowboarding we’re probably gonna sell of snowboards but I
probably gonna sell of snowboards but I tried it I know what it’s like mad
tried it I know what it’s like mad respect everybody who loves snowboarding
respect everybody who loves snowboarding it’s a great rush I’m just not
it’s a great rush I’m just not interesting anymore
interesting anymore I tried salsa dancing on paper salsa
I tried salsa dancing on paper salsa dancing would not be great for me I
dancing would not be great for me I don’t speak Spanish I’m tall I don’t
don’t speak Spanish I’m tall I don’t know the steps I didn’t learn any
know the steps I didn’t learn any dancing growing up I take giant steps
dancing growing up I take giant steps you know learning as an adult is
you know learning as an adult is difficult I don’t understand the beat
difficult I don’t understand the beat and the rhythm of the music lots of
and the rhythm of the music lots of
and the rhythm of the music lots of stuff kind of working against me
stuff kind of working against me compared to people who have done salsa
compared to people who have done salsa their entire life and it’s part of their
their entire life and it’s part of their culture but all right I’ll try it why
culture but all right I’ll try it why not no judgment let’s go in and just see
not no judgment let’s go in and just see how it works and you know what I kind of
how it works and you know what I kind of liked it so I went back and I did it
liked it so I went back and I did it again
again and I did it again and the obsession
and I did it again and the obsession level wasn’t even that of snowboarding
level wasn’t even that of snowboarding
level wasn’t even that of snowboarding so born in Italy I was hooked I need to
so born in Italy I was hooked I need to do it immediately salsa I slowly picked
do it immediately salsa I slowly picked up steam I got better and better better
up steam I got better and better better better better and Here I am now running
better better and Here I am now running owning investing in the largest salsa
owning investing in the largest salsa dance school in Canada for sure maybe
dance school in Canada for sure maybe North America and so you never know
North America and so you never know where things are gonna go if I only knew
where things are gonna go if I only knew what I knew right I started this message
what I knew right I started this message with you don’t know what you don’t know
with you don’t know what you don’t know I didn’t know that I would be great and
I didn’t know that I would be great and have tons of fun that salsa dancing I
have tons of fun that salsa dancing I didn’t know that I would want to invest
didn’t know that I would want to invest in a salsa dancing business I didn’t
in a salsa dancing business I didn’t know all that stuff I didn’t know until
know all that stuff I didn’t know until I tried it and even when I tried it for
I tried it and even when I tried it for the first time it wasn’t with the
the first time it wasn’t with the ambition that this has to be my next big
ambition that this has to be my next big business one thing led to another led to
business one thing led to another led to another led to another I followed what I
another led to another I followed what I was excited by follow what I enjoyed and
was excited by follow what I enjoyed and then led to this and so in general
then led to this and so in general taking the approach if you’re saying yes
taking the approach if you’re saying yes just stop judging things and say yeah
just stop judging things and say yeah somebody advise you to go do something
somebody advise you to go do something say yes somebody invites you to a new
say yes somebody invites you to a new restaurant say yes try this new food say
restaurant say yes try this new food say yes try this new dance say yes you limit
yes try this new dance say yes you limit yourself we limit ourselves by default
yourself we limit ourselves by default we just say no we’re built-in to say no
we just say no we’re built-in to say no because probably biologically somewhere
because probably biologically somewhere in our history we have this fear of new
in our history we have this fear of new things but you will never discover what
things but you will never discover what you have Michael Jordan level talent at
you have Michael Jordan level talent at what you could be the best in the world
what you could be the best in the world Pat if you’re not trying a whole bunch
Pat if you’re not trying a whole bunch of things I believe that the best
of things I believe that the best basketball player in the world is not
basketball player in the world is not Michael Jordan the best basketball
Michael Jordan the best basketball player in the world is an accountant
player in the world is an accountant right now because he never picked up a
right now because he never picked up a basketball because he never tried
basketball because he never tried everybody should try basketball
everybody should try basketball everybody should try Italian food
everybody should try Italian food everybody should try to be not from her
everybody should try to be not from her every way that you try to launch a
every way that you try to launch a YouTube channel everybody should try as
YouTube channel everybody should try as many things as possible especially
many things as possible especially early on in life don’t get locked into a
early on in life don’t get locked into a certain path only because this is what
certain path only because this is what your parents want you to do this is what
your parents want you to do this is what the family has always done try that path
the family has always done try that path it may be great for you but chances are
it may be great for you but chances are it’s not like most people don’t end up
it’s not like most people don’t end up wanting to be like their parents most
wanting to be like their parents most people end up being like their parents
people end up being like their parents but they don’t want that and you’re too
but they don’t want that and you’re too afraid to break free of the tradition
afraid to break free of the tradition you’re too afraid to go down this scary
you’re too afraid to go down this scary path but that’s that’s the path you can
path but that’s that’s the path you can be great at that’s the path that you
be great at that’s the path that you have Michael Jordan level abilities and
have Michael Jordan level abilities and talent and ingenuity act and you will
talent and ingenuity act and you will never know unless you try new things get
never know unless you try new things get exposed to new experiences and say yes
exposed to new experiences and say yes now I’ve been really special bonus
now I’ve been really special bonus clipped I think you’re going to enjoy
clipped I think you’re going to enjoy but before that I want to know what is
but before that I want to know what is one thing that you need to say yes to
one thing that you need to say yes to that you are dying to say yes to that
that you are dying to say yes to that today you’re gonna say yes to what is it
today you’re gonna say yes to what is it leaving the comments below and by
leaving the comments below and by writing it down you’re committing
writing it down you’re committing yourself to actually do it you’re
yourself to actually do it you’re getting results out of just watching
getting results out of just watching this video so you’re not only watching
this video so you’re not only watching content on YouTube you’re actually
content on YouTube you’re actually making a change in your life what is
making a change in your life what is that thing you’re going to release and
that thing you’re going to release and say yes to for the one person who’s
say yes to for the one person who’s listening to me is gonna actually do it
listening to me is gonna actually do it put it in the comments below thank you
put it in the comments below thank you guys so much for watching I believe in
guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is
yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you again tomorrow
much love I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of an espresso
morning for another shot of an espresso and enjoy the bonus clip
like I said I’d love to drink but I also love that I can you can always be a bit
love that I can you can always be a bit open to maybe that there’s other things
open to maybe that there’s other things you want to do too
you want to do too that’s also something being an actor
that’s also something being an actor that thing of I think it’s maybe a good
that thing of I think it’s maybe a good thing to be open to they could do other
thing to be open to they could do other things it’s a bit like when I decided
things it’s a bit like when I decided not maybe to act because I thought that
not maybe to act because I thought that my life was taking another turn and that
my life was taking another turn and that was suddenly the first I mean a door
was suddenly the first I mean a door actually opened for me to give them the
actually opened for me to give them the chance to act and I think to do other
chance to act and I think to do other things and to kind of step out to this
things and to kind of step out to this industry and and have other experiences
industry and and have other experiences will hopefully give you more tools to to
will hopefully give you more tools to to act so maybe maybe that could be was
act so maybe maybe that could be was something go away and do something
something go away and do something completely differently things get back
completely differently things get back to it I think it’s probably good to step
to it I think it’s probably good to step back from one’s work for a while and and
back from one’s work for a while and and try something totally new I think it
try something totally new I think it does revitalize your original enthusiasm
does revitalize your original enthusiasm and that’s what it has been like for me
and that’s what it has been like for me over the last few years and now that I
over the last few years and now that I have ventured back into something that’s
have ventured back into something that’s very personalized it does seem that
very personalized it does seem that there’s been a lot brewing and and it is
there’s been a lot brewing and and it is just thank god this is visual if you had
just thank god this is visual if you had to think of one word that’s most
to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple
important to you or that sums you Apple so it would be collect a little beacon
so it would be collect a little beacon pay believe nation if you want to know
pay believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for
what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah
Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I
Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special secret video for you
have a very special secret video for you check the description for details
think I should be getting to what you really want to do is impossible I
really want to do is impossible I believe that the best basketball player
believe that the best basketball player in the world is not Michael Jordan
in the world is not Michael Jordan I’d love to dream but I also love that I
I’d love to dream but I also love that I can you can always be a bit open to
can you can always be a bit open to maybe then there’s other things rise and
maybe then there’s other things rise and shine it’s an espresso time what’s up
shine it’s an espresso time what’s up believe nation it’s Evan my one word is
believe nation it’s Evan my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe
believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that
you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see exploded onto the world so
I want to see exploded onto the world so let’s start your day off right together
let’s start your day off right together grab your coffee and sip on today’s
grab your coffee and sip on today’s message be exposed to new experiences
over to you Jay Shetty at 18 I was really fortunate when I met a monk and
really fortunate when I met a monk and this monk was invited to speak and I
this monk was invited to speak and I kind of just went because when my
kind of just went because when my friends forced me to at that time I was
friends forced me to at that time I was listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and
listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and business people and marketers who who I
business people and marketers who who I thought that’s what I was aspiring to be
thought that’s what I was aspiring to be like and then I hear this monk and he
like and then I hear this monk and he captivated me like no one had ever
captivated me like no one had ever captivated me before it was like staring
captivated me before it was like staring at the most beautiful woman on the
at the most beautiful woman on the planet you know I was completely fixated
planet you know I was completely fixated on him and his message see we live in
on him and his message see we live in echo chambers we’re just surrounded by
echo chambers we’re just surrounded by the same thinking how often do you bump
the same thinking how often do you bump into a monk you know it just doesn’t
into a monk you know it just doesn’t happen you don’t have no one has a
happen you don’t have no one has a dinner party and goes oh yeah we listen
dinner party and goes oh yeah we listen by the monk you know from a town like
by the monk you know from a town like the local monk like no one ever does
the local monk like no one ever does that and so you meet people who are just
that and so you meet people who are just like us most of the time and we talk
like us most of the time and we talk about this in business all the time if
about this in business all the time if you want to be a billionaire spend time
you want to be a billionaire spend time with billionaires if you want to be a
with billionaires if you want to be a millionaire spend time and millionaires
millionaire spend time and millionaires if you want to be a tech startup spend
if you want to be a tech startup spend time you know that’s that’s the common
time you know that’s that’s the common rhetoric that we hear all the time but
rhetoric that we hear all the time but what if you want to find a purpose and
what if you want to find a purpose and master the mind there’s no one better
master the mind there’s no one better than a monk who’s mastered the mind so
than a monk who’s mastered the mind so so for me the first step is just opening
so for me the first step is just opening yourself up to new experiences and new
yourself up to new experiences and new role models because most of us can’t see
role models because most of us can’t see ourselves in people so then we try and
ourselves in people so then we try and fit ourselves into the box
fit ourselves into the box is that we do see and and I mean there’s
is that we do see and and I mean there’s this beautiful quote that I’ve been
this beautiful quote that I’ve been saying it everywhere and I wish I wrote
saying it everywhere and I wish I wrote it but I didn’t so it’s by a philosopher
it but I didn’t so it’s by a philosopher and writer named Cooley and he said that
and writer named Cooley and he said that today I’m not what I think I am I’m not
today I’m not what I think I am I’m not what you think I am I am what I think
what you think I am I am what I think you think I am I understand that blow
you think I am I understand that blow your mind for me it’s a it’s so powerful
your mind for me it’s a it’s so powerful I’m not what I think I am I’m not what
I’m not what I think I am I’m not what you think I am I am what I think you
you think I am I am what I think you think I am so we live in this perception
think I am so we live in this perception of a perception of ourselves
of a perception of ourselves hence my identity is made by what my
hence my identity is made by what my parents think I should be my identity is
parents think I should be my identity is made up by what my college or university
made up by what my college or university thinks I should achieve while you’re
thinks I should achieve while you’re living in that bubble and that echo
living in that bubble and that echo chamber getting to what you really want
chamber getting to what you really want to do is impossible because maybe that
to do is impossible because maybe that just doesn’t fit and I think so many
just doesn’t fit and I think so many people feel that way today that they
people feel that way today that they don’t fit into the current education
don’t fit into the current education system they don’t fit with the three or
system they don’t fit with the three or four or five careers that you’re taught
four or five careers that you’re taught exist so that process of self excavation
exist so that process of self excavation and actualization first requires being
and actualization first requires being exposed you can’t be what you can’t see
exposed you can’t be what you can’t see if I never saw a monk I would never have
if I never saw a monk I would never have wanted to be a monk if I never meet a
wanted to be a monk if I never meet a billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one
billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one because I wouldn’t know what that feels
because I wouldn’t know what that feels like I don’t know what it looks like I
like I don’t know what it looks like I don’t know what it takes and and I think
don’t know what it takes and and I think that’s the biggest challenge of our
that’s the biggest challenge of our society that we’re not exposed so that’s
society that we’re not exposed so that’s the first step being exposed to unique
the first step being exposed to unique experiences and role models second step
experiences and role models second step is finding that experience or role model
is finding that experience or role model that you’re passionate about and exactly
that you’re passionate about and exactly like you said taking it seriously
like you said taking it seriously shadow their network with them spend
shadow their network with them spend time with them observe them even from
time with them observe them even from afar it takes that observation being
afar it takes that observation being addicted to observing that person’s
addicted to observing that person’s lifestyle and then the third step is
lifestyle and then the third step is growing yes or no does that work for me
growing yes or no does that work for me not everyone who’s gonna go off from
not everyone who’s gonna go off from become a monk is gonna feel like the way
become a monk is gonna feel like the way I did and that’s cool but not everyone
I did and that’s cool but not everyone is gonna go and follow and shadow a
is gonna go and follow and shadow a billion anger that’s exactly the
billion anger that’s exactly the lifestyle I want they may want the
lifestyle I want they may want the result but do they want the hard work
result but do they want the hard work that goes with it and so for me that’s
that goes with it and so for me that’s the third step its observing focusing
the third step its observing focusing shadowing getting as close to the
shadowing getting as close to the process of that individual and they
process of that individual and they going yes or no do I want that process
going yes or no do I want that process not do I want the result everyone wants
not do I want the result everyone wants to be that monk who’s fully enlightened
to be that monk who’s fully enlightened you know can walk through as an
you know can walk through as an incredible or that people just gravitate
incredible or that people just gravitate towards but when you realize he has to
towards but when you realize he has to wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and
wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and stitch about four to six hours you’re
stitch about four to six hours you’re like ah you know I don’t want to do that
like ah you know I don’t want to do that that doesn’t sound like me you don’t
that doesn’t sound like me you don’t know what you don’t know when you can
know what you don’t know when you can really wrap your head around this when
really wrap your head around this when you realize that you think you know what
you realize that you think you know what
you realize that you think you know what you want you think you know the path
you want you think you know the path that you should be going down but you
that you should be going down but you actually don’t know until you go and
actually don’t know until you go and experience it and there’s an entire
experience it and there’s an entire world out there that you don’t have a
world out there that you don’t have a concept of until you start seeing yes
concept of until you start seeing yes and trying things until you embrace that
and trying things until you embrace that until you recognize that you don’t know
until you recognize that you don’t know what you don’t know you’re gonna be
what you don’t know you’re gonna be constantly living in this box of what is
constantly living in this box of what is known to you and that’s a very limited
known to you and that’s a very limited life I have a philosophy it’s really
life I have a philosophy it’s really served me well which is I like to say
served me well which is I like to say yes to everything at least once I’ll say
yes to everything at least once I’ll say yes to it once and just see how I feel
yes to it once and just see how I feel about it try not to judge it and just
about it try not to judge it and just say yes experience it and see if it’s
say yes experience it and see if it’s for me and if I want to go back and do
for me and if I want to go back and do it again so three quick examples of
it again so three quick examples of things I’ve said yes – I tried rock
things I’ve said yes – I tried rock climbing
climbing I tried snowboarding and I tried salsa
I tried snowboarding and I tried salsa dancing I tried rock climbing even
dancing I tried rock climbing even though I’m afraid of heights I don’t
though I’m afraid of heights I don’t like Heights they don’t suit me well but
like Heights they don’t suit me well but like okay you know what I’ll go once
like okay you know what I’ll go once we’ll see what it’s like I got in the
we’ll see what it’s like I got in the harness I wasn’t a huge fan of it I was
harness I wasn’t a huge fan of it I was afraid of the heights the harness was in
afraid of the heights the harness was in my crotch it felt tight I didn’t enjoy
my crotch it felt tight I didn’t enjoy reaching for the next thing it just
reaching for the next thing it just wasn’t a fantastic experience for me and
wasn’t a fantastic experience for me and I know I don’t want to hate on rock
I know I don’t want to hate on rock climbing I know a bunch you guys
climbing I know a bunch you guys probably loved it amazing awesome do it
probably loved it amazing awesome do it you’re the best rock climber in the
you’re the best rock climber in the world it’s not for me and I tried it I
world it’s not for me and I tried it I tried snowboarding I became obsessed
tried snowboarding I became obsessed with snowboarding I went every single
with snowboarding I went every single day one winter snowboard I got my board
day one winter snowboard I got my board I went every day I pushed off meetings I
I went every day I pushed off meetings I was answering emails on the on the ski
was answering emails on the on the ski lift up and I got decently good I was
lift up and I got decently good I was carving I was doing some jumps I was
carving I was doing some jumps I was obsessed with it for a little while and
obsessed with it for a little while and then it fell off I went every day in one
then it fell off I went every day in one winter then the next winter I went maybe
winter then the next winter I went maybe
winter then the next winter I went maybe four or five times with Nina and then
four or five times with Nina and then the next winter I stopped and I didn’t
the next winter I stopped and I didn’t go back this winter either and it’s gone
go back this winter either and it’s gone I haven’t gone snowboarding we’re
I haven’t gone snowboarding we’re probably gonna sell of snowboards but I
probably gonna sell of snowboards but I tried it I know what it’s like mad
tried it I know what it’s like mad respect everybody who loves snowboarding
respect everybody who loves snowboarding it’s a great rush I’m just not
it’s a great rush I’m just not interesting anymore
interesting anymore I tried salsa dancing on paper salsa
I tried salsa dancing on paper salsa dancing would not be great for me I
dancing would not be great for me I don’t speak Spanish I’m tall I don’t
don’t speak Spanish I’m tall I don’t know the steps I didn’t learn any
know the steps I didn’t learn any dancing growing up I take giant steps
dancing growing up I take giant steps you know learning as an adult is
you know learning as an adult is difficult I don’t understand the beat
difficult I don’t understand the beat and the rhythm of the music lots of
and the rhythm of the music lots of
and the rhythm of the music lots of stuff kind of working against me
stuff kind of working against me compared to people who have done salsa
compared to people who have done salsa their entire life and it’s part of their
their entire life and it’s part of their culture but all right I’ll try it why
culture but all right I’ll try it why not no judgment let’s go in and just see
not no judgment let’s go in and just see how it works and you know what I kind of
how it works and you know what I kind of liked it so I went back and I did it
liked it so I went back and I did it again
again and I did it again and the obsession
and I did it again and the obsession level wasn’t even that of snowboarding
level wasn’t even that of snowboarding
level wasn’t even that of snowboarding so born in Italy I was hooked I need to
so born in Italy I was hooked I need to do it immediately salsa I slowly picked
do it immediately salsa I slowly picked up steam I got better and better better
up steam I got better and better better better better and Here I am now running
better better and Here I am now running owning investing in the largest salsa
owning investing in the largest salsa dance school in Canada for sure maybe
dance school in Canada for sure maybe North America and so you never know
North America and so you never know where things are gonna go if I only knew
where things are gonna go if I only knew what I knew right I started this message
what I knew right I started this message with you don’t know what you don’t know
with you don’t know what you don’t know I didn’t know that I would be great and
I didn’t know that I would be great and have tons of fun that salsa dancing I
have tons of fun that salsa dancing I didn’t know that I would want to invest
didn’t know that I would want to invest in a salsa dancing business I didn’t
in a salsa dancing business I didn’t know all that stuff I didn’t know until
know all that stuff I didn’t know until I tried it and even when I tried it for
I tried it and even when I tried it for the first time it wasn’t with the
the first time it wasn’t with the ambition that this has to be my next big
ambition that this has to be my next big business one thing led to another led to
business one thing led to another led to another led to another I followed what I
another led to another I followed what I was excited by follow what I enjoyed and
was excited by follow what I enjoyed and then led to this and so in general
then led to this and so in general taking the approach if you’re saying yes
taking the approach if you’re saying yes just stop judging things and say yeah
just stop judging things and say yeah somebody advise you to go do something
somebody advise you to go do something say yes somebody invites you to a new
say yes somebody invites you to a new restaurant say yes try this new food say
restaurant say yes try this new food say yes try this new dance say yes you limit
yes try this new dance say yes you limit yourself we limit ourselves by default
yourself we limit ourselves by default we just say no we’re built-in to say no
we just say no we’re built-in to say no because probably biologically somewhere
because probably biologically somewhere in our history we have this fear of new
in our history we have this fear of new things but you will never discover what
things but you will never discover what you have Michael Jordan level talent at
you have Michael Jordan level talent at what you could be the best in the world
what you could be the best in the world Pat if you’re not trying a whole bunch
Pat if you’re not trying a whole bunch of things I believe that the best
of things I believe that the best basketball player in the world is not
basketball player in the world is not Michael Jordan the best basketball
Michael Jordan the best basketball player in the world is an accountant
player in the world is an accountant right now because he never picked up a
right now because he never picked up a basketball because he never tried
basketball because he never tried everybody should try basketball
everybody should try basketball everybody should try Italian food
everybody should try Italian food everybody should try to be not from her
everybody should try to be not from her every way that you try to launch a
every way that you try to launch a YouTube channel everybody should try as
YouTube channel everybody should try as many things as possible especially
many things as possible especially early on in life don’t get locked into a
early on in life don’t get locked into a certain path only because this is what
certain path only because this is what your parents want you to do this is what
your parents want you to do this is what the family has always done try that path
the family has always done try that path it may be great for you but chances are
it may be great for you but chances are it’s not like most people don’t end up
it’s not like most people don’t end up wanting to be like their parents most
wanting to be like their parents most people end up being like their parents
people end up being like their parents but they don’t want that and you’re too
but they don’t want that and you’re too afraid to break free of the tradition
afraid to break free of the tradition you’re too afraid to go down this scary
you’re too afraid to go down this scary path but that’s that’s the path you can
path but that’s that’s the path you can be great at that’s the path that you
be great at that’s the path that you have Michael Jordan level abilities and
have Michael Jordan level abilities and talent and ingenuity act and you will
talent and ingenuity act and you will never know unless you try new things get
never know unless you try new things get exposed to new experiences and say yes
exposed to new experiences and say yes now I’ve been really special bonus
now I’ve been really special bonus clipped I think you’re going to enjoy
clipped I think you’re going to enjoy but before that I want to know what is
but before that I want to know what is one thing that you need to say yes to
one thing that you need to say yes to that you are dying to say yes to that
that you are dying to say yes to that today you’re gonna say yes to what is it
today you’re gonna say yes to what is it leaving the comments below and by
leaving the comments below and by writing it down you’re committing
writing it down you’re committing yourself to actually do it you’re
yourself to actually do it you’re getting results out of just watching
getting results out of just watching this video so you’re not only watching
this video so you’re not only watching content on YouTube you’re actually
content on YouTube you’re actually making a change in your life what is
making a change in your life what is that thing you’re going to release and
that thing you’re going to release and say yes to for the one person who’s
say yes to for the one person who’s listening to me is gonna actually do it
listening to me is gonna actually do it put it in the comments below thank you
put it in the comments below thank you guys so much for watching I believe in
guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is
yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you again tomorrow
much love I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of an espresso
morning for another shot of an espresso and enjoy the bonus clip
like I said I’d love to drink but I also love that I can you can always be a bit
love that I can you can always be a bit open to maybe that there’s other things
open to maybe that there’s other things you want to do too
you want to do too that’s also something being an actor
that’s also something being an actor that thing of I think it’s maybe a good
that thing of I think it’s maybe a good thing to be open to they could do other
thing to be open to they could do other things it’s a bit like when I decided
things it’s a bit like when I decided not maybe to act because I thought that
not maybe to act because I thought that my life was taking another turn and that
my life was taking another turn and that was suddenly the first I mean a door
was suddenly the first I mean a door actually opened for me to give them the
actually opened for me to give them the chance to act and I think to do other
chance to act and I think to do other things and to kind of step out to this
things and to kind of step out to this industry and and have other experiences
industry and and have other experiences will hopefully give you more tools to to
will hopefully give you more tools to to act so maybe maybe that could be was
act so maybe maybe that could be was something go away and do something
something go away and do something completely differently things get back
completely differently things get back to it I think it’s probably good to step
to it I think it’s probably good to step back from one’s work for a while and and
back from one’s work for a while and and try something totally new I think it
try something totally new I think it does revitalize your original enthusiasm
does revitalize your original enthusiasm and that’s what it has been like for me
and that’s what it has been like for me over the last few years and now that I
over the last few years and now that I have ventured back into something that’s
have ventured back into something that’s very personalized it does seem that
very personalized it does seem that there’s been a lot brewing and and it is
there’s been a lot brewing and and it is just thank god this is visual if you had
just thank god this is visual if you had to think of one word that’s most
to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple
important to you or that sums you Apple so it would be collect a little beacon
so it would be collect a little beacon pay believe nation if you want to know
pay believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for
what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah
Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I
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