what I am about to tell you can help you
transform your mind can help you
transform your life I have a question
for you who are you who are you
you’ve got a name a family a place
country you belong to you’ve got certain
features and characteristics that people
whom you are close to can associate you
with you’ve got experiences memories
perhaps dreams people can often forget
their dreams people can sometimes forget
their memories
we all get older and a few of us forgets
everything where they come from who
their family are and what their name is
you can have a car crash wake up in the
hospital in the middle of the night in
the middle of nowhere with no memory
what so ever who you are and where you
are
sometimes through accidents or diseases
certain neurons in the brain stop firing
and we just forget just like that we can
forget where we are what we are or who
we are but we never forget that we are
whatever it is that we may be you are
you always are there is always something
inside of you that acknowledges that it
exists even without a name or a memory
that sense that you exist even without
knowing how or where or why so what is
that you yourself that knows that it is
alive
it is that certain gift that we are all
given from the moment we are born until
the day we die so if you know that’s you
are then you can be anything you want to
be not what you are told that you are
because you can forget that can’t you
you can always decide who you are you
have the birth given right to choose who
you want to be a Divine Right which
nothing or no one can take away from you
I just want to say to everybody that if
you want to be a success but if you want
to be that person that you truly want to
be then just decide from this moment on
that you are
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you decide now that you are whatever or
whoever you want to be
say to yourself I am a success I am
healthy I am good I am strong I am happy
I am wealthy your inner I am is at your
free disposal hang on every word after
it you want come on try it say it out
loud or say it in your mind as much as
you want remind yourself of what your I
am is only you have the rights to give
it a name that I am is your child give
it any name you want I am rich I am
amazing I am loving I am brave I am a
champion
it is your I am the I am doesn’t care
who you are
doesn’t care whether you are old or
young rich or poor a man or a woman big
or small weak or strong the I am equally
doesn’t care what you call it you can
say I am an idiot I am sick I am poor I
bet a lot of you say that to yourselves
on a day-to-day basis without even
knowing that you are giving your I am a
name a story which you don’t want for
yourself that you are clothing your
inner spirit in a garment that you don’t
like and why would you do that
don’t waste your time and your I am on
self-pity on negativity on fear paint
anger
you were given this gift and it is not
polite nor nice to throw a gift away
use your I am give it a name you have as
many items as you wish go ahead be brave
and choose for yourself that’s what you
want to be
do you want to be a slave to others a
slave to any idea which isn’t your own
which you cannot claim as being what you
want from yourself or do you want to be
successful and happy with your own idea
of how life should be of how your life
should be BV I am that you want your
life to be
80% of success of psychology 20% is
mechanical the problem is most people
live in their heads they have their
dream they have their goal they got
hyped up about it they get fearful about
it and they just don’t execute I like
something Les Brown said once he said
there are losers and there are people
who haven’t learned how to win my
question to you is this which one are
you are you a loser or are you still
learning how to win if you’re not a
loser it doesn’t mean that you’re less
than it could mean that you’ve gotten
really good at quitting it could mean
that you’ve gotten really comfortable
ending your race before the finish line
you have your reasons for not finishing
and I’ve had mine too but right here
right now the question is do you want to
win self-discipline
separates people from success and not
being successful
I’ve never met a person who was not
successful that didn’t have a great
amount of self-discipline within their
life self-discipline and being able to
perform and being able to keep your life
on schedule and being able to keep
commitments and promises and meet
deadlines is essential to success look
if you want to get rich you want to be
really successful when I say rich I’m
not talking about money I’m talking
about a rich life freedom time with
family choices get to do what you want
see this is what people did they set a
target remember when you were a kid and
you set targets or a big giant had
nothing to do with reason they were
giant right and then you had some
difficulty getting to it and somebody
said what did your goals are unrealistic
you need to drop your goals down and add
40 years and end up with nothing
certainly not congruent with your
potential none of us can afford to have
a life that is controlled by someone
else or a life that is basically
controlled by our emotions
I learned many years ago that there are
two kinds of people there’s the type
person who says I’m gonna wait till I
feel like it before I do it and then
there’s a person who says I’ve got to do
it so that I feel like it one will never
get anything done because they’re
sterile waiting to feel the moment to
move or the other person says no I need
to move and then I will begin to feel
the moment most people have strategies
available or they could get them or you
could create them but the problem is you
got a story and your story is why it
isn’t working and the story is I’ve
tried everything if you tried everything
you’d be fit you try everything you’d be
profitable there’s always a story and
what I tell people’s you know if you can
just divorce the story of your
limitation and marry the truth of your
unlimited capacity than the whole game
changes most of us in our life are
trying to make a 10% improvement and we
know this this is I’m trying to infuse
my revenues by 10% I’m trying to
increase my sales by 10% save 10% more
the lands out there whatever it truly is
we all have this sort of beaten into us
by life and by the rest the universe
that you can make these small
incremental improvements but the fact
the matter is that there are those in
the world that go ten times bigger and
you every one of us can be that I would
say to you that it’s your duty your
obligation and your responsibility to
fulfill your potential and that that’s
actually what success is success is not
money simplest thing is get crazily
hungry for something we all know and you
get so hungry so desirous your brain
starts coming up with answers and then
it’s massive action but effective
execution which is all modeling which is
assumed what this is about
find the best example
the time let someone else take 20 years
to figure it out you do it in two weeks
or two months even if you have no idea
how to solve it no idea how to get there
you’ll be amazed at what you come up
with and what’s interesting is our
legacy our past anchors us to where we
are today and you have to let go of that
you truly have to let go of all the
stuff in your past what you thought
you’ve done the infrastructure that
you’ve built to let yourself go we are
not our feelings we are not our patterns
those are things we might identify with
or not cut and so when I see a pattern
it doesn’t work I don’t think the
person’s broken I don’t think anybody’s
broken I’m not here to fix people but I
am here to break up the patterns that
don’t work I might be wrong in what I
say okay I might be wrong in the things
I do in my life and the business that I
started my families told me not to start
every business that I’ve been involved
in every one of them every one of them
was a risk everyone on my hand to take
take a chance I remember my mom used to
tell me I wouldn’t do that if I were you
I wouldn’t do that if I were you I
wouldn’t do that if I were you I’m like
mommy you wouldn’t do anything well you
wouldn’t do anything except be the
mother a great mother to five children
my mother was an entrepreneur she didn’t
have my dreams just because she’s my mom
doesn’t mean she dreams like me would
you agree okay
my mom was wrong about everything she
told me not today
love my mom to death okay unbelievable
friend of mine she was wrong I needed to
do those things okay Steve Jobs needed
to build this phone would you agree did
he help a lot of people did he make some
money while he was doing 119 billion
dollars in five years have the
conversation with the person that’s
holding you back the reason most people
who are listening right now we’re not
doing that thing is they’re worried
about the opinion of somebody usually
their mother usually their father and
the reality is is that your spouse may
be the person holding you back and you
have to have that conversation we have
to get to a place where you’re doing you
because the number one thing that scares
them out of me is regret and you’re
gonna sit there at 72 and you say I wish
I wish I wish it’s it’s it’s looking
yourself in the mirror and saying like
am I doing this right so to me there’s
so many people there talking about how
big of an entrepreneur they’re gonna be
and how much they’re gonna achieve and
they don’t work on weekends you know I
worked every Saturday of my twenties
like and I talked to 20 year old
entrepreneurs every single day lately
I’ve been saying to them this Saturday
you’re gonna have more time off than
I’ve had
tire twenties on a Saturday so like
before you tell me how you’re gonna be
bigger than me start thinking about what
you’re actually doing
ask yourself am i practicing
self-discipline in my life am i doing
the things that I should do because I
need to do them or am I kind of waiting
to feel the moment bake a damn schedule
and stick to it it’s not a bloody prison
that’s the first thing that people do
wrong is well I don’t like to have
follow the schedule it’s like well what
kind of schedule are you setting up well
I should I have to do this then I have
to do this then I have to do this you
know and then I just go play video games
because who wants to do all these things
that I have to do
it’s like wrong set the damn schedule up
so that you have the day you want you
are what you consistently do if you look
at your calendar you look if you’re
doing on a daily regular basis that is
what’s going to determine your future
path so if you eat one chocolate bar but
the rest of your day is pretty healthy
you’re gonna be a healthy person but if
you’re eating junk and more junk and
then peed something Burger King and more
burgers and more junk afterwards and
then you get one piece of broccoli
listen you’re gonna be healthy working
out once won’t make a big difference for
you working out three times a week or
working out everyday you’ll see changes
in your life you are what you
consistently do want to be in the game
read the average American reads one book
a year the top CEOs in America read five
books a month 60 plus books here but
immerse yourself with books audio video
daily okay you hit all three of those
well I’m reading something listening to
something and watching something these
are completely different ways to learn
find YouTube channels that are good for
you if you work your ass off
fully focused you’re trying to serve
some larger than yourself and you really
are executing what works you need a
little grace might want to call it luck
if you prefer God the universe but it’s
there and we can all achieve but I think
the more important skill if you ask me
is to have an extraordinary is the art
of fulfillment and it’s an art it’s not
a science because there’s a science to
making money I don’t care who you are if
you do certain things you’re gonna have
too much financial stress you do other
things you’re gonna have an abundance
there’s a science there’s a science to
your body everyone hears biochemically
different different genome but there’s
certain fundamental patterns and if you
and I follow them you’re gonna have tons
of energy gonna feel good if you break
them you’re gonna pay the price and have
low energy or disease but fulfillment is
an art what’s going to fulfill you is
different than a person actually you’re
not gonna learn that from anybody else
and you got to find it because success
without fulfillment is the ultimate
failure external world everything is is
you got to see it touch it as its
external if you can for the rest of your
life live inside of yourself I stopped
listening to people who are calling you
fat gay transsexual nigger everything
that is makes no sense all these
insecure people put their insecurities
on you you gotta flush it out you got to
just be whoever the hell God or whatever
the hell you believe in if you believe
in nothing but yourself I don’t care
what it is you gotta take everything and
throw it away you have to believe in one
thing and that is yourself
and and I’m not saying don’t believe in
God or what you believe in but right now
for you to find greatness in yourself
you’re not gonna find it by looking in a
book or if I even hearing me I may give
you the spark but you’ve got to go
inside yourself to find it and that
means you gotta be quiet shut the fuck
up go in a room
stop talking search your soul search
your mind search your abilities and
you’ll find it but if you’re not looking
for it you won’t find it so you got to
go start your journey and the journey
starts with you finding why the hell am
I here
I miss Planet Earth why am I here if you
don’t know that you will live the rest
your life searching always asking the
question why the only way you’re ever
going to get to the other side of this
journey is you have got to suffer to
grow to grow you must suffer and some
people will get it and something wrong
but they have to see what their journey
is to start their journey several people
live to be a hundred years old and they
have great lives and they have great
kids the kids go to college awesome
stuff but somewhere in their life there
was a point where they had the decision
to make they can go left or right on
this path left was the easy route right
was a hard route a lot of people take
the easy route and they had a good life
that way but the better life was going
to the right side and you may have
twenty years of pain and suffering to
get past it but a lot of us died never
truly starting our journey
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you will never learn from people if we
always tap-dance around the truth we tap
dance around the truth by finding the
right words I don’t hurt you because you
have thin skin no tighten up people it’s
okay
trust me it’s okay you might be called
nigger one day it’s okay
you might be called some Jewish word or
some faggot or gay word it’s okay let
them call you that what are you going to
do now they don’t own your life how are
you going to control that now how are
you gonna flip it upside down and say
Roger that now I’m going to harness this
shit and you’re read about me yours too
now wow that’s the question are you
gonna do that thicken your skin become
more of a human being don’t be afraid of
the reflection in the mirror because
that’s all you can be afraid of once you
overcome the reflection in the mirror
you’ve done it I think we’re all flawed
and that’s the beauty of who you are and
instead of trying to make yourself
perfect in every area it’s so much
easier when you accept the things that
you’re terrible or at or that are your
weaknesses or that are the things about
your wiring look if I were diabetic I
would take insulin I happen to be
somebody that’s wired for anxiety no big
deal so figure out how to instead of
fighting those things actually trick it
because the truth is that you’re never
gonna feel ready to make these changes
you’re never gonna feel like doing them
but you can always make a decision
that’s always in your control staying
with somebody that treats you like
garbage is a decision it is staying at a
job that you hate is a decision staying
in the body that you are not proud of is
a decision is it going to be
easy no it’s not gonna be easy to change
it’s simple to a Google search and then
use the five-second rule to force
yourself to do that stuff
change comes down to five second
decisions and this is why the five
second rule is it’s important for
everybody to know it’s your job to push
yourself and I don’t care if you’re dr.
Martin Luther King jr. or your
Michelangelo or your lin-manuel Miranda
who wrote Hamilton you will struggle
with self-doubt and everybody that you
admire everybody and the list is the
same for you Oprah Winfrey and I want to
be like you know Tom and I want to be
like you know Branson and I want to be
like jay-z and I want like everybody’s
listed as a Bill Gates and do you know
what those people do they do not have
the habit of hesitating they trust
themselves so I would say this is my
current POV because I think it’s
actually important that I have a
different answer for this at fifty and
sixty because you’re gonna adjust to the
reality I’ll give you a good example if
something terrible happens in my life
and it’s disease based or it’s because
some kid was texting while he was
driving and hit my dad those will become
things that I want to leave a legacy
about because that’s just how we act as
humans right they become your truths but
no question this will never go away
I
want to do the following I’m fascinated
by the same thing that attracts so many
millions of people to people that are
selling bullshit
those same people are attracted to me
and what I want to do is suffocate out
all those other people and become the
Alpha of that entire world of people
that are hoping and are desperate I
hated going to school so I guess what I
was dumb as shit that’s one plus one is
two but if you can get through to doing
things that you hate to do on the other
side is greatness
that’s what people are thinking bonny
Ronnie I’m callous in my mind I’m not
training for a race I’m training for
life I’m training my mind and my body my
spirit so it’s all one and if you’re not
physically immensely prepared for that
you’re just gonna crumble and you’re
good for nobody let’s imagine for a few
moments what our life would be like if
we could access let’s say 20% of our
brain’s capacity
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if you want to have something show up in
your life the kind of person you would
like to become manifest something new
into your life something powerful
whatever it might be you obviously must
first be able to imagine it your
imagination is able to do all that you
ask in proportion to the degree of your
attention so what kind of attention do
you place on your desires
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iein Stein’s most famous quote one of
his most famous observations he said
imagination is more important than
knowledge knowledge is limited
imagination and circles the world logic
will get you from A to B but imagination
will take you everywhere make your
future dream a present fact by assuming
the feeling of the wish fulfilled that
which you feel yourself to be you are
and you are given that which you are so
assume the feeling that would be yours
were you already in possession of your
wish and your wish must be realized so
live in the feeling of being the
want to be and that you shall be if this
assumption about what you would like to
become is persisted in until it becomes
your dominant feeling the attainment of
your ideal is absolutely inevitable you
must first assume the feeling of a wish
fulfilled in all aspects of your life
don’t allow anybody else’s opinions
don’t allow what it says on the internet
don’t allow the research don’t allow
what anybody out there tells you is
possible or not possible for you if you
advance confidently in the direction of
your own dreams and endeavor to live the
life which you have imagined you will
meet with a success unexpected in common
hours it will chase after you if you can
place into your imagination what it is
that you would like to attract and begin
to feel it start retraining your
subconscious mind and your subconscious
mind it responds to what it is that you
suggest to it your subconscious mind
moves your life 96 to 97 percent of
everything that you do is done as a
result of your subconscious run and when
your subconscious mind gets programmed
it goes ahead and respond to whatever it
is your conscious mind has placed into
it
you are the creator this is the mystery
this is the great secret known by the
seers and prophets and mystics
throughout the ages this is the truth
that you can never know intellectually
many of you as I have been as I am are
where you are in your life based upon
what you believe and it’s not just what
you think you believe on the surface
it’s also your shadow beliefs that are
holding you back from moving into the
life that you believe you deserve what I
know is if you’re not looking at the
shadows if you’re not looking at what is
subconsciously running through the tape
in your mind telling yourself you’re not
good enough you’re not worthy enough
you’re not smart enough you are not
enough which is a tape that’s playing
for a lot of people if you’re not
conscious of that then you end up acting
out of that belief system and not out of
what you know to be the truest or want
to be the truest or yourself
you are where you are today in part
because of what you’ve been saying about
yourself words are like seeds when you
speak something out you give life to
what you’re saying if you continue to
say it eventually that can become a
reality you are planting seeds when you
talk at some point you’re going to eat
that fruit my challenge is make sure
you’re planning the right kind of seeds
if you want apples you have to sow apple
seeds if you want oranges you can’t
plant cactus seeds poison ivy seeds
mushroom seeds you’re going to reap
fruit from the exact seeds that you’ve
been sowing in other words you can’t
talk negative and expect to live a
positive life
you can’t talk defeat and expect to have
victory
you can’t talk lack not enough can’t
afford it never get ahead and expect to
have abundance if you have a poor mouth
you’re going to have a poor life this is
great when we’re saying things like I’m
blessed I’m strong I will accomplish my
dreams I’m coming out of death that’s
not just being positive you are
prophesying victory prophesy and success
prophesy new levels and your life will
move in the direction of your words but
too many people go around prophesy on
just the opposite I never get any good
brights I’ll never get back in shape
business is slow I’ll probably get laid
off flu season is here I always get it
they don’t realize their prophesy and
defeat it’s just like they’re calling in
bad breaks mediocrity lack you don’t
become what you want because so much of
wanting is about living in the space of
what you don’t have
that’s why Jim Carrey’s story is so
powerful because he started to act as
though he already had it he would go up
to Mulholland Drive he would drive away
sing thinking I already have those
things I just haven’t access them as yet
I believe those things are going to come
to me and I’m going to act like they are
so I’m gonna move forward in my life in
order to draw that to myself in such a
way that my actions are in alignment
with what I say I believe so if you
start to think about that really
why are you where you are in your life
the choices that you have made have been
because of what you believe to be true
for yourself
the time is now the time is now to
express and for people to believe in
themselves the time is now for it to be
okay to be great people in this world
shun people for being great for being a
bright color for standing out but the
time is now to be okay to be the
greatest you you can talk yourself out
of your destiny negative words can keep
you from becoming who you were created
to be don’t fall into that trap quit
calling in the field quit talking about
how it’s not going to happen
you should write down your goals write
down what you want to see happen in life
any areas that you’re struggling in
where you need to improve write it down
like it’s already done
and then every day declared that decree
read over it a couple of times out loud
it’s not enough to just think it
something happens when we speak you have
to prophesy of your future those words
will get down on the inside of you
they’ll not only change your outlook but
they will change who you are your words
will become your reality
remember everybody wants the good life
but not everybody is willing to follow
these rules you must follow these rules
everybody wants the good life but not
everybody’s willing to read to get it
you must read more
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everybody wants the good life but not
everybody’s willing to persevere to get
it you must persevere
everybody wants the good life but not
everybody gets the good life
it’s supposed to be hard the hard is
what makes it great
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mentors your ability to copy is the
biggest predictor of the success that
you will have in life
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in our machine that you can control the
shape
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and people has to be
how do I get tougher
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they asked me how can I wake up earlier
in the morning the answers wake up
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how can I work out consistently every
single day work out consistently every
single day
the more emotional you make the
statement the more real it become
the more you live into it the more real
it becomes
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so make the decision make the commitment
he come with discipline
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wait till you see the next morning the
alarm goes off and my pretended NASA was
there I literally went 5 4 3 2 1 I
counted out loud and then I stood up and
for the first time in 3 months I had
beaten my habit of hitting the snooze
button
what is Tony Robbins Oprah Winfrey Lady
Gaga Bill Gates Steve Jobs Mark
Zuckerberg Barack Obama and I could go
on and on and on about the most
successful people in the world today and
throughout history what do all of them
have in common they all have an
empowering morning ritual
almost everything you do from the time
you get up in the morning is habit so
start to think about yourselves what
would be the best habits to have a
starting ritual is a repeated behavior
that you adopt in order to trigger a new
habit when you wake up in the morning
say thank you for grace
thank you for love thank you for
kindness thank you for prosperity say
thank you in advance for what’s already
yours the secret of success is
determined by your daily agenda what you
want to be tomorrow you’ve got to do
today goals
light goals yearly goals monthly goals
daily goals and understand
that to achieve these goals you must
apply discipline and consistency in
order to achieve your goals you must
apply discipline which you are already
done and consistency every day not just
one Tuesday and miss a few days you have
to work at it every day you have to plan
working really hard is what successful
people do your footprints to success are
really footprints of success because
every step that is made and taken
based upon the goals that you have for
your life every step is the progressive
realization of success in your life good
habits are hard to form and easy to live
with bad habits are easy to form but
hard to live with so the rule is form
good habits and make them your masters
habits come down to one golden rule and
that’s this you can never change the
things that trigger you you can’t
control your urges or how you might feel
but you can always choose how you behave
if you want to break a habit once you
have a habit it’s always going to be
encoded in your brain the only way that
you can break it is to replace it with
new behavior this means when you go to
sleep at night think about your goals
for the coming day make a list for each
day of all the goals the little goals
you’re going to accomplish that day keep
a journal and write down your goals on a
regular basis you see you do become what
you think about most of the time you do
achieve what you think about most of the
time so all successful people and all
wealthy people think about their goals
most of the time the things that get
scheduled are the things that get done
and vague goals lead to vague results
never notice how hard it is to just get
started how hard it is to get to the gym
how hard it is to get out of bed you
need activation energy to start the
chain to start to sit down to start to
get out of bed to start to walk out the
door that’s the key to creating any kind
of change this activation energy inside
of you that causes the initial goal and
then what do we hear over time once you
start there’s a chain reaction and that
allows you to keep going jump this is
them is the ability to make yourself do
what you should do when you should do it
whether you feel like it or not you see
anybody can do it if they feel like it’s
when you don’t feel like it and you do
it anyway that you eventually develop
the self-discipline that makes
everything else possible discipline is
not punishment it’s not discipline is
training if you change your mind your
mindset and really focus it on what
discipline really is you start to
welcome discipline you welcome
self-discipline into your life you’re
not only gonna blow up the system in
your head and the tricks that your brain
uses to stop you right now you’re going
to shake up your entire life discipline
is your best friend it will take care of
you like nothing else can
remember just because you’re doing a lot
more doesn’t mean you’re getting a lot
more done don’t confuse movement with
progress when we do live in a world
where there is such a fascination with
entertainment now when everyone loves
pretty pictures and it’s really easy to
spend the best hour of your best days
looking at what your friends are eating
and I’m suggesting to you you think like
a student because you’re watching this
mastery session because something deep
within you wants you to be the master of
your game and here’s the thing about
every master every master thinks like a
beginner they’re always learning
anything you want good you can have
so claim it work hard to get it
don’t just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference make today
counts
the most important thing in the world to
you is you it’s your life it’s your
dreams I want to talk to you today about
living the life you were put on this
earth to live see there’s only one you
in the history of humanity you need to
live a life of happiness and fulfillment
see I believe the greatest definition of
success is happiness it’s happiness it’s
not money money is great but it can’t
buy a happy soul we willingly subject
ourselves to meaningless routines we go
to our meaningless jobs so that we can
earn this meaningless money so that we
can spin it on meaningless things that
will mean even less once we’re gone all
the while the beauty of life is just
passing us by because we’re too busy
riding a school paper or were too busy
flipping burgers at a restaurant we’re
too busy sending off emails to a client
we’re essentially just too busy to live
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I’ve always said people are designed for
success but something called life comes
along and programs and conditions them
for failure you talk to a bunch of
five-year-olds and you say what do you
want to do with your life and they’ve
got big dreams they want to be a pilot
they want to be a doctor they want to be
a sports star they want to be an
astronaut they want to do something
great but then something happens they
grow up and then they go out in the real
world and they get something called a
boss or they get a job and they start
getting grinding down on them the world
starts wearing those dreams down and
they start just existed they give up on
their dreams and they start just
accepting it well that’s not the way
it’s supposed to be not for you not for
your life but you have to show up and
fight like crazy fight like a junkyard
dog for your dreams and for your life
you’ve got a demand success and
happiness for your family life will give
you what you accept you got to take
action now the great John Wooden always
said make today your masterpiece
there’s only one you and you’ve only got
one today you’re spending today I think
in a great location but there is only
one today one now tomorrow it’s gone
okay tomorrow it’s a different day
people spend their whole life planning
on living their dreams we see what you
got to take action
you got to attack the day you got to ask
yourself every day what are the major
tasks that I can do today to have a
better happier less stressful to borrow
and then you got to get serious about
getting it done
most people think happy and serious
don’t know together wrong you got to get
serious about getting happy you got to
develop a happiness that comes from the
heart not from your circumstances you
got to develop a happiness that just
Wells up inside of you every day in your
life you’ve got to weave the negative
and you’ve got to fertilize the positive
all that positive thinking and how you
think and once you determine your
destiny to me it works you must prepare
your mind to be happy
there have been times in my life when
I’ve been down I’ve been out I’ve been
afraid I’ve looked up at the road ahead
and have been completely unsure and I
can say first hand when you are going
through a situation like this that it
essentially consumes you right it’s all
you see it’s all you think about to the
point where the good stuff the
opportunity around you it becomes
transparent you see right
it’s the negative it’s the misfortune
for a period of time that becomes your
narrative becomes the story what if this
is forever what if I’m not as good as I
want to be or as they are what if things
don’t work out never mind the fact that
you’ve been here before and that you’ve
battled back never mind how far you’ve
come
no that takes a backseat to the
discomfort that we feel right now and
that’s the irrationality of the human
mind we forget we forget we forget that
the lows create the highs the temporary
isn’t forever that you can’t stand with
any type of Authority if you’ve never
before fallen accomplishing anything is
never just walking up and
goal it’s about getting back up over and
over again taking the bad breaks in
stride and seeing the losses for what
they are necessary what if I told you
that the difficult times weren’t just
manageable they were what you needed
those moments where you felt hopeless
we’re a bridge to something better
what if I told you that the difficult
times weren’t just manageable they were
what you needed those moments where you
felt hopeless were a bridge to something
better a demonstration of just how
capable you are and how strong you can
be feeling lost feeling defeated
sure is unsettling but it’s also a
reminder that you are exactly exactly
where you needs to be in one form or
another your struggle becomes your
answer life
life isn’t always come to cease sunny
skies but if you let it it will teach
you to weather any storm to come out on
top never lose sight of the opportunity
it’s there hiding behind the struggle
and worst in the ups and downs and when
you know that you will not let yourself
stay down that you’ll get up struggle
becomes a building block not a weight
around the ankles with each stumble you
become taller with each misstep you step
forward you know life is short
life is short
we’re not gonna get a do-over you know
life goes by so quick we need to create
in this world a community of positive
thinking the world today these people
that are focused on doing something
great more than ever
cuz there’s plenty of people tearing us
down and pulling us apart so hopefully
my life will stand the test of time and
whatever I build whatever I saw how I
treat people particularly those who
don’t look like me or come from where I
come from or think like me or have my
perspective if I can treat them with
honor and dignity and respect if I can
fight for their hopes their dreams and
their aspirations and I can lift
somebody else if I can push one person
into destiny then all the years of my
life will have been worth it and then I
can say with surety my life was a
success the point of life is to
cultivate long-lasting true meaningful
relationships with others if to be of
service to others I’m here to serve you
you should be here to serve me we should
be here to lift each other up because
although yes we acknowledge that we are
in this system what we all have at the
end of the day is each other and the
only thing that will mean anything on
our deathbeds is the relationships that
we’ve cultivated the people
whose hearts we touched that’s the only
thing that’s truly going to matter we
can spend all of our time our energy our
resources glorifying ourselves lifting
ourselves up but that’s empty there is
no substance in them all we have at the
end of the day is one another how much
money you have by the time you reach
your deathbed how many things you own by
the time you reach your deathbed they’re
not gonna mean anything they’re gonna
hold no significance the only thing
that’s going to mean anything at the end
of the day are the people whose hearts
you touched the friendships you
cultivated the love that you gave the
last that you had the cries that you
shared with other people essentially all
we got is each other
and that is the only thing that gives me
true fulfillment in peace on earth I
always say enjoy the good the bad and
the ugly enjoy when you feel sad or
defeated because it means that you are
alive it means that you are one step
ahead of most other people because you
actually have emotions because you cry
sometimes because you laugh sometimes
you live life and I applaud you for that
it means that you are brave it means
that you try it means that you care
about something and next time when you
feel sad or depressed just stop for a
minute as soon as you catch yourself
feeling that way
try to hold and catch that feeling
before it can spread even more and say
to yourself it is only a feeling it
doesn’t mean that it’s over now it
doesn’t mean that you have given up it
is normal to suffer blows in life and
maybe doubt yourself maybe you are about
to give up and you dig into that feeling
of helplessness don’t understand that
you just got the proof that you are
alive understand that it means that you
can be successful and happy because in
our universe everything has its opposite
so you feel sad as soon as you notice
that sadness or unhappiness embrace it
for only a moment and understand that it
is only a feeling it is all good and
that nothing can stop you and you are
the only one who defines when you give
up so live those emotions even the
sadness the unhappiness appreciate that
you have been blessed with being able to
feel and experience all this vastness
all this life
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see the world doesn’t owe you anything
the world doesn’t owe you a single thing
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if you want something you go out and get
it if you decide what it is in your life
you want if you decide that you want to
make something out of yourself then you
go out there and claim it the world
doesn’t care what you do if you win if
you lose or if you don’t even bother
trying and just do nothing in your life
but isn’t it a shame not to try isn’t it
better to try and fail and to be proud
of yourself but you never lose as long
as you try you always learn something
new as long as you try always strive
forward always be eager to experience
new things to experience this beautiful
life fall down get up fall down get up
fall down get up
we learned that as toddlers as small
children but why do we forget our whole
life will be that way no matter how old
you are no matter what you have achieved
or experienced every day you will fall
down so you learn to get up again and
believe me there are a lot of different
ways how you can fall in life never look
back in life the past is the past and
let the past rest but you are not the
past
you are the now and you are the future
my friend the world needs you
society needs you we all need you to
contribute to this magnificent life with
your ideas with your dreams and with
your experiences if you suddenly stop
all your dreams and aspirations you have
for yourself just because something
negative happens to you it is like the
analogy of the man who is walking down
the street and as it starts raining he
just stops in the middle of the street
because he’s so shocked by the rain he
didn’t see it coming it is normal to get
wet when it starts to rain keep on
walking and you will find shelter next
time you go out you’ll have your
umbrella with you so we can always learn
and we should always be grateful for the
lessons we receive in life life is a
journey it is a process of constant
learning constant emotions but also
always relentlessly moving forward that
is just the nature of the world the
nature of our life move forward every
day and never give up
motivate yourself every day to get up in
the morning to claim new dreams to
always enjoy life to live life watch a
motivational video or two in the morning
to get you going if you feel down
meditate exercise remember who you want
to be remember what white person hides
inside you do whatever works for you be
optimistic be hungry be joyful imagine
yourself as an 80 year old you as an 80
year old you who has realized all of his
dreams what will you tell yourself to
get up every time you fall down and to
never give up no matter what because you
made it this older you is the proof it
is only in your imagination of course
but if you can imagine it it must be out
there somewhere we all go through
seasons of struggle when it feels like
it’s uphill there’s pressure raising
children
maybe you’re believing for your health
to improve but it’s not getting better
too often we get discouraged and think
that’s just the way life is you may be
struggling now you feel pressured you
think that’s the way it’s always going
to be you’ll always struggle with your
help
struggle in a relationship struggle in
your finances know you’re going to come
in to an anointing of ease when you come
into this ease what once was a struggle
won’t be a struggle anymore you’re going
to have a supernatural grace a favor
that will lighten the load and take the
pressure off this is a new day ease is
coming
this is a new day
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you are going to have a strength that
you did not have before I know a
single-parent mother she was working
hard raising her children trying to make
ends meet every month she barely had
enough to pay her bills
she told how she dreamed of taking a
vacation but every time she saved up
extra funds something would break that
had to be repaired she was being her
best but couldn’t get ahead it seemed
like she would struggle her whole life
when you keep doing the right thing you
keep passing these tests you’re going to
come in to this anointing of ease one
day her supervisor unexpectedly took an
early retirement and she was given that
position with it came a significant
increase in salary she was very grateful
several years later her manager one of
the vice presidents of this large
company suddenly resigned and she was
given that position she said Joe I don’t
really know how this happened everything
just fell into place
and Here I am what she is really saying
was that was easy
you may be struggling in some areas
don’t get discouraged that is not
permanent ease is coming I talked to a
young man he was finishing up his
master’s he had one final exam left it
was the hardest class on his schedule he
is very stressed out concerned that he
wasn’t going to pass he came back last
week so excited he had passed the test
and I asked him how was it he said it’s
funny because all of my classmates
thought it was very difficult but to me
it was easier than I expected
sometimes we’re expecting to fail we’re
expecting to struggle we’re expecting it
to be difficult
turn it around you’re tried and it
didn’t work out
try again you’re in a new season
you’re going to overcome obstacles
easier than you think you’re gonna
accomplish dreams easier than you think
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maybe we have many lives maybe we get
reborn who knows but this life exactly
this life under these circumstances you
will only experience once so make the
best of it follow your passion follow
your dream follow your heart
thanks for watching
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you
you
transform your mind can help you
transform your life I have a question
for you who are you who are you
you’ve got a name a family a place
country you belong to you’ve got certain
features and characteristics that people
whom you are close to can associate you
with you’ve got experiences memories
perhaps dreams people can often forget
their dreams people can sometimes forget
their memories
we all get older and a few of us forgets
everything where they come from who
their family are and what their name is
you can have a car crash wake up in the
hospital in the middle of the night in
the middle of nowhere with no memory
what so ever who you are and where you
are
sometimes through accidents or diseases
certain neurons in the brain stop firing
and we just forget just like that we can
forget where we are what we are or who
we are but we never forget that we are
whatever it is that we may be you are
you always are there is always something
inside of you that acknowledges that it
exists even without a name or a memory
that sense that you exist even without
knowing how or where or why so what is
that you yourself that knows that it is
alive
it is that certain gift that we are all
given from the moment we are born until
the day we die so if you know that’s you
are then you can be anything you want to
be not what you are told that you are
because you can forget that can’t you
you can always decide who you are you
have the birth given right to choose who
you want to be a Divine Right which
nothing or no one can take away from you
I just want to say to everybody that if
you want to be a success but if you want
to be that person that you truly want to
be then just decide from this moment on
that you are
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you decide now that you are whatever or
whoever you want to be
say to yourself I am a success I am
healthy I am good I am strong I am happy
I am wealthy your inner I am is at your
free disposal hang on every word after
it you want come on try it say it out
loud or say it in your mind as much as
you want remind yourself of what your I
am is only you have the rights to give
it a name that I am is your child give
it any name you want I am rich I am
amazing I am loving I am brave I am a
champion
it is your I am the I am doesn’t care
who you are
doesn’t care whether you are old or
young rich or poor a man or a woman big
or small weak or strong the I am equally
doesn’t care what you call it you can
say I am an idiot I am sick I am poor I
bet a lot of you say that to yourselves
on a day-to-day basis without even
knowing that you are giving your I am a
name a story which you don’t want for
yourself that you are clothing your
inner spirit in a garment that you don’t
like and why would you do that
don’t waste your time and your I am on
self-pity on negativity on fear paint
anger
you were given this gift and it is not
polite nor nice to throw a gift away
use your I am give it a name you have as
many items as you wish go ahead be brave
and choose for yourself that’s what you
want to be
do you want to be a slave to others a
slave to any idea which isn’t your own
which you cannot claim as being what you
want from yourself or do you want to be
successful and happy with your own idea
of how life should be of how your life
should be BV I am that you want your
life to be
80% of success of psychology 20% is
mechanical the problem is most people
live in their heads they have their
dream they have their goal they got
hyped up about it they get fearful about
it and they just don’t execute I like
something Les Brown said once he said
there are losers and there are people
who haven’t learned how to win my
question to you is this which one are
you are you a loser or are you still
learning how to win if you’re not a
loser it doesn’t mean that you’re less
than it could mean that you’ve gotten
really good at quitting it could mean
that you’ve gotten really comfortable
ending your race before the finish line
you have your reasons for not finishing
and I’ve had mine too but right here
right now the question is do you want to
win self-discipline
separates people from success and not
being successful
I’ve never met a person who was not
successful that didn’t have a great
amount of self-discipline within their
life self-discipline and being able to
perform and being able to keep your life
on schedule and being able to keep
commitments and promises and meet
deadlines is essential to success look
if you want to get rich you want to be
really successful when I say rich I’m
not talking about money I’m talking
about a rich life freedom time with
family choices get to do what you want
see this is what people did they set a
target remember when you were a kid and
you set targets or a big giant had
nothing to do with reason they were
giant right and then you had some
difficulty getting to it and somebody
said what did your goals are unrealistic
you need to drop your goals down and add
40 years and end up with nothing
certainly not congruent with your
potential none of us can afford to have
a life that is controlled by someone
else or a life that is basically
controlled by our emotions
I learned many years ago that there are
two kinds of people there’s the type
person who says I’m gonna wait till I
feel like it before I do it and then
there’s a person who says I’ve got to do
it so that I feel like it one will never
get anything done because they’re
sterile waiting to feel the moment to
move or the other person says no I need
to move and then I will begin to feel
the moment most people have strategies
available or they could get them or you
could create them but the problem is you
got a story and your story is why it
isn’t working and the story is I’ve
tried everything if you tried everything
you’d be fit you try everything you’d be
profitable there’s always a story and
what I tell people’s you know if you can
just divorce the story of your
limitation and marry the truth of your
unlimited capacity than the whole game
changes most of us in our life are
trying to make a 10% improvement and we
know this this is I’m trying to infuse
my revenues by 10% I’m trying to
increase my sales by 10% save 10% more
the lands out there whatever it truly is
we all have this sort of beaten into us
by life and by the rest the universe
that you can make these small
incremental improvements but the fact
the matter is that there are those in
the world that go ten times bigger and
you every one of us can be that I would
say to you that it’s your duty your
obligation and your responsibility to
fulfill your potential and that that’s
actually what success is success is not
money simplest thing is get crazily
hungry for something we all know and you
get so hungry so desirous your brain
starts coming up with answers and then
it’s massive action but effective
execution which is all modeling which is
assumed what this is about
find the best example
the time let someone else take 20 years
to figure it out you do it in two weeks
or two months even if you have no idea
how to solve it no idea how to get there
you’ll be amazed at what you come up
with and what’s interesting is our
legacy our past anchors us to where we
are today and you have to let go of that
you truly have to let go of all the
stuff in your past what you thought
you’ve done the infrastructure that
you’ve built to let yourself go we are
not our feelings we are not our patterns
those are things we might identify with
or not cut and so when I see a pattern
it doesn’t work I don’t think the
person’s broken I don’t think anybody’s
broken I’m not here to fix people but I
am here to break up the patterns that
don’t work I might be wrong in what I
say okay I might be wrong in the things
I do in my life and the business that I
started my families told me not to start
every business that I’ve been involved
in every one of them every one of them
was a risk everyone on my hand to take
take a chance I remember my mom used to
tell me I wouldn’t do that if I were you
I wouldn’t do that if I were you I
wouldn’t do that if I were you I’m like
mommy you wouldn’t do anything well you
wouldn’t do anything except be the
mother a great mother to five children
my mother was an entrepreneur she didn’t
have my dreams just because she’s my mom
doesn’t mean she dreams like me would
you agree okay
my mom was wrong about everything she
told me not today
love my mom to death okay unbelievable
friend of mine she was wrong I needed to
do those things okay Steve Jobs needed
to build this phone would you agree did
he help a lot of people did he make some
money while he was doing 119 billion
dollars in five years have the
conversation with the person that’s
holding you back the reason most people
who are listening right now we’re not
doing that thing is they’re worried
about the opinion of somebody usually
their mother usually their father and
the reality is is that your spouse may
be the person holding you back and you
have to have that conversation we have
to get to a place where you’re doing you
because the number one thing that scares
them out of me is regret and you’re
gonna sit there at 72 and you say I wish
I wish I wish it’s it’s it’s looking
yourself in the mirror and saying like
am I doing this right so to me there’s
so many people there talking about how
big of an entrepreneur they’re gonna be
and how much they’re gonna achieve and
they don’t work on weekends you know I
worked every Saturday of my twenties
like and I talked to 20 year old
entrepreneurs every single day lately
I’ve been saying to them this Saturday
you’re gonna have more time off than
I’ve had
tire twenties on a Saturday so like
before you tell me how you’re gonna be
bigger than me start thinking about what
you’re actually doing
ask yourself am i practicing
self-discipline in my life am i doing
the things that I should do because I
need to do them or am I kind of waiting
to feel the moment bake a damn schedule
and stick to it it’s not a bloody prison
that’s the first thing that people do
wrong is well I don’t like to have
follow the schedule it’s like well what
kind of schedule are you setting up well
I should I have to do this then I have
to do this then I have to do this you
know and then I just go play video games
because who wants to do all these things
that I have to do
it’s like wrong set the damn schedule up
so that you have the day you want you
are what you consistently do if you look
at your calendar you look if you’re
doing on a daily regular basis that is
what’s going to determine your future
path so if you eat one chocolate bar but
the rest of your day is pretty healthy
you’re gonna be a healthy person but if
you’re eating junk and more junk and
then peed something Burger King and more
burgers and more junk afterwards and
then you get one piece of broccoli
listen you’re gonna be healthy working
out once won’t make a big difference for
you working out three times a week or
working out everyday you’ll see changes
in your life you are what you
consistently do want to be in the game
read the average American reads one book
a year the top CEOs in America read five
books a month 60 plus books here but
immerse yourself with books audio video
daily okay you hit all three of those
well I’m reading something listening to
something and watching something these
are completely different ways to learn
find YouTube channels that are good for
you if you work your ass off
fully focused you’re trying to serve
some larger than yourself and you really
are executing what works you need a
little grace might want to call it luck
if you prefer God the universe but it’s
there and we can all achieve but I think
the more important skill if you ask me
is to have an extraordinary is the art
of fulfillment and it’s an art it’s not
a science because there’s a science to
making money I don’t care who you are if
you do certain things you’re gonna have
too much financial stress you do other
things you’re gonna have an abundance
there’s a science there’s a science to
your body everyone hears biochemically
different different genome but there’s
certain fundamental patterns and if you
and I follow them you’re gonna have tons
of energy gonna feel good if you break
them you’re gonna pay the price and have
low energy or disease but fulfillment is
an art what’s going to fulfill you is
different than a person actually you’re
not gonna learn that from anybody else
and you got to find it because success
without fulfillment is the ultimate
failure external world everything is is
you got to see it touch it as its
external if you can for the rest of your
life live inside of yourself I stopped
listening to people who are calling you
fat gay transsexual nigger everything
that is makes no sense all these
insecure people put their insecurities
on you you gotta flush it out you got to
just be whoever the hell God or whatever
the hell you believe in if you believe
in nothing but yourself I don’t care
what it is you gotta take everything and
throw it away you have to believe in one
thing and that is yourself
and and I’m not saying don’t believe in
God or what you believe in but right now
for you to find greatness in yourself
you’re not gonna find it by looking in a
book or if I even hearing me I may give
you the spark but you’ve got to go
inside yourself to find it and that
means you gotta be quiet shut the fuck
up go in a room
stop talking search your soul search
your mind search your abilities and
you’ll find it but if you’re not looking
for it you won’t find it so you got to
go start your journey and the journey
starts with you finding why the hell am
I here
I miss Planet Earth why am I here if you
don’t know that you will live the rest
your life searching always asking the
question why the only way you’re ever
going to get to the other side of this
journey is you have got to suffer to
grow to grow you must suffer and some
people will get it and something wrong
but they have to see what their journey
is to start their journey several people
live to be a hundred years old and they
have great lives and they have great
kids the kids go to college awesome
stuff but somewhere in their life there
was a point where they had the decision
to make they can go left or right on
this path left was the easy route right
was a hard route a lot of people take
the easy route and they had a good life
that way but the better life was going
to the right side and you may have
twenty years of pain and suffering to
get past it but a lot of us died never
truly starting our journey
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you will never learn from people if we
always tap-dance around the truth we tap
dance around the truth by finding the
right words I don’t hurt you because you
have thin skin no tighten up people it’s
okay
trust me it’s okay you might be called
nigger one day it’s okay
you might be called some Jewish word or
some faggot or gay word it’s okay let
them call you that what are you going to
do now they don’t own your life how are
you going to control that now how are
you gonna flip it upside down and say
Roger that now I’m going to harness this
shit and you’re read about me yours too
now wow that’s the question are you
gonna do that thicken your skin become
more of a human being don’t be afraid of
the reflection in the mirror because
that’s all you can be afraid of once you
overcome the reflection in the mirror
you’ve done it I think we’re all flawed
and that’s the beauty of who you are and
instead of trying to make yourself
perfect in every area it’s so much
easier when you accept the things that
you’re terrible or at or that are your
weaknesses or that are the things about
your wiring look if I were diabetic I
would take insulin I happen to be
somebody that’s wired for anxiety no big
deal so figure out how to instead of
fighting those things actually trick it
because the truth is that you’re never
gonna feel ready to make these changes
you’re never gonna feel like doing them
but you can always make a decision
that’s always in your control staying
with somebody that treats you like
garbage is a decision it is staying at a
job that you hate is a decision staying
in the body that you are not proud of is
a decision is it going to be
easy no it’s not gonna be easy to change
it’s simple to a Google search and then
use the five-second rule to force
yourself to do that stuff
change comes down to five second
decisions and this is why the five
second rule is it’s important for
everybody to know it’s your job to push
yourself and I don’t care if you’re dr.
Martin Luther King jr. or your
Michelangelo or your lin-manuel Miranda
who wrote Hamilton you will struggle
with self-doubt and everybody that you
admire everybody and the list is the
same for you Oprah Winfrey and I want to
be like you know Tom and I want to be
like you know Branson and I want to be
like jay-z and I want like everybody’s
listed as a Bill Gates and do you know
what those people do they do not have
the habit of hesitating they trust
themselves so I would say this is my
current POV because I think it’s
actually important that I have a
different answer for this at fifty and
sixty because you’re gonna adjust to the
reality I’ll give you a good example if
something terrible happens in my life
and it’s disease based or it’s because
some kid was texting while he was
driving and hit my dad those will become
things that I want to leave a legacy
about because that’s just how we act as
humans right they become your truths but
no question this will never go away
I
want to do the following I’m fascinated
by the same thing that attracts so many
millions of people to people that are
selling bullshit
those same people are attracted to me
and what I want to do is suffocate out
all those other people and become the
Alpha of that entire world of people
that are hoping and are desperate I
hated going to school so I guess what I
was dumb as shit that’s one plus one is
two but if you can get through to doing
things that you hate to do on the other
side is greatness
that’s what people are thinking bonny
Ronnie I’m callous in my mind I’m not
training for a race I’m training for
life I’m training my mind and my body my
spirit so it’s all one and if you’re not
physically immensely prepared for that
you’re just gonna crumble and you’re
good for nobody let’s imagine for a few
moments what our life would be like if
we could access let’s say 20% of our
brain’s capacity
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if you want to have something show up in
your life the kind of person you would
like to become manifest something new
into your life something powerful
whatever it might be you obviously must
first be able to imagine it your
imagination is able to do all that you
ask in proportion to the degree of your
attention so what kind of attention do
you place on your desires
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iein Stein’s most famous quote one of
his most famous observations he said
imagination is more important than
knowledge knowledge is limited
imagination and circles the world logic
will get you from A to B but imagination
will take you everywhere make your
future dream a present fact by assuming
the feeling of the wish fulfilled that
which you feel yourself to be you are
and you are given that which you are so
assume the feeling that would be yours
were you already in possession of your
wish and your wish must be realized so
live in the feeling of being the
want to be and that you shall be if this
assumption about what you would like to
become is persisted in until it becomes
your dominant feeling the attainment of
your ideal is absolutely inevitable you
must first assume the feeling of a wish
fulfilled in all aspects of your life
don’t allow anybody else’s opinions
don’t allow what it says on the internet
don’t allow the research don’t allow
what anybody out there tells you is
possible or not possible for you if you
advance confidently in the direction of
your own dreams and endeavor to live the
life which you have imagined you will
meet with a success unexpected in common
hours it will chase after you if you can
place into your imagination what it is
that you would like to attract and begin
to feel it start retraining your
subconscious mind and your subconscious
mind it responds to what it is that you
suggest to it your subconscious mind
moves your life 96 to 97 percent of
everything that you do is done as a
result of your subconscious run and when
your subconscious mind gets programmed
it goes ahead and respond to whatever it
is your conscious mind has placed into
it
you are the creator this is the mystery
this is the great secret known by the
seers and prophets and mystics
throughout the ages this is the truth
that you can never know intellectually
many of you as I have been as I am are
where you are in your life based upon
what you believe and it’s not just what
you think you believe on the surface
it’s also your shadow beliefs that are
holding you back from moving into the
life that you believe you deserve what I
know is if you’re not looking at the
shadows if you’re not looking at what is
subconsciously running through the tape
in your mind telling yourself you’re not
good enough you’re not worthy enough
you’re not smart enough you are not
enough which is a tape that’s playing
for a lot of people if you’re not
conscious of that then you end up acting
out of that belief system and not out of
what you know to be the truest or want
to be the truest or yourself
you are where you are today in part
because of what you’ve been saying about
yourself words are like seeds when you
speak something out you give life to
what you’re saying if you continue to
say it eventually that can become a
reality you are planting seeds when you
talk at some point you’re going to eat
that fruit my challenge is make sure
you’re planning the right kind of seeds
if you want apples you have to sow apple
seeds if you want oranges you can’t
plant cactus seeds poison ivy seeds
mushroom seeds you’re going to reap
fruit from the exact seeds that you’ve
been sowing in other words you can’t
talk negative and expect to live a
positive life
you can’t talk defeat and expect to have
victory
you can’t talk lack not enough can’t
afford it never get ahead and expect to
have abundance if you have a poor mouth
you’re going to have a poor life this is
great when we’re saying things like I’m
blessed I’m strong I will accomplish my
dreams I’m coming out of death that’s
not just being positive you are
prophesying victory prophesy and success
prophesy new levels and your life will
move in the direction of your words but
too many people go around prophesy on
just the opposite I never get any good
brights I’ll never get back in shape
business is slow I’ll probably get laid
off flu season is here I always get it
they don’t realize their prophesy and
defeat it’s just like they’re calling in
bad breaks mediocrity lack you don’t
become what you want because so much of
wanting is about living in the space of
what you don’t have
that’s why Jim Carrey’s story is so
powerful because he started to act as
though he already had it he would go up
to Mulholland Drive he would drive away
sing thinking I already have those
things I just haven’t access them as yet
I believe those things are going to come
to me and I’m going to act like they are
so I’m gonna move forward in my life in
order to draw that to myself in such a
way that my actions are in alignment
with what I say I believe so if you
start to think about that really
why are you where you are in your life
the choices that you have made have been
because of what you believe to be true
for yourself
the time is now the time is now to
express and for people to believe in
themselves the time is now for it to be
okay to be great people in this world
shun people for being great for being a
bright color for standing out but the
time is now to be okay to be the
greatest you you can talk yourself out
of your destiny negative words can keep
you from becoming who you were created
to be don’t fall into that trap quit
calling in the field quit talking about
how it’s not going to happen
you should write down your goals write
down what you want to see happen in life
any areas that you’re struggling in
where you need to improve write it down
like it’s already done
and then every day declared that decree
read over it a couple of times out loud
it’s not enough to just think it
something happens when we speak you have
to prophesy of your future those words
will get down on the inside of you
they’ll not only change your outlook but
they will change who you are your words
will become your reality
remember everybody wants the good life
but not everybody is willing to follow
these rules you must follow these rules
everybody wants the good life but not
everybody’s willing to read to get it
you must read more
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everybody wants the good life but not
everybody’s willing to persevere to get
it you must persevere
everybody wants the good life but not
everybody gets the good life
it’s supposed to be hard the hard is
what makes it great
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mentors your ability to copy is the
biggest predictor of the success that
you will have in life
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in our machine that you can control the
shape
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and people has to be
how do I get tougher
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they asked me how can I wake up earlier
in the morning the answers wake up
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how can I work out consistently every
single day work out consistently every
single day
the more emotional you make the
statement the more real it become
the more you live into it the more real
it becomes
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so make the decision make the commitment
he come with discipline
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wait till you see the next morning the
alarm goes off and my pretended NASA was
there I literally went 5 4 3 2 1 I
counted out loud and then I stood up and
for the first time in 3 months I had
beaten my habit of hitting the snooze
button
what is Tony Robbins Oprah Winfrey Lady
Gaga Bill Gates Steve Jobs Mark
Zuckerberg Barack Obama and I could go
on and on and on about the most
successful people in the world today and
throughout history what do all of them
have in common they all have an
empowering morning ritual
almost everything you do from the time
you get up in the morning is habit so
start to think about yourselves what
would be the best habits to have a
starting ritual is a repeated behavior
that you adopt in order to trigger a new
habit when you wake up in the morning
say thank you for grace
thank you for love thank you for
kindness thank you for prosperity say
thank you in advance for what’s already
yours the secret of success is
determined by your daily agenda what you
want to be tomorrow you’ve got to do
today goals
light goals yearly goals monthly goals
daily goals and understand
that to achieve these goals you must
apply discipline and consistency in
order to achieve your goals you must
apply discipline which you are already
done and consistency every day not just
one Tuesday and miss a few days you have
to work at it every day you have to plan
working really hard is what successful
people do your footprints to success are
really footprints of success because
every step that is made and taken
based upon the goals that you have for
your life every step is the progressive
realization of success in your life good
habits are hard to form and easy to live
with bad habits are easy to form but
hard to live with so the rule is form
good habits and make them your masters
habits come down to one golden rule and
that’s this you can never change the
things that trigger you you can’t
control your urges or how you might feel
but you can always choose how you behave
if you want to break a habit once you
have a habit it’s always going to be
encoded in your brain the only way that
you can break it is to replace it with
new behavior this means when you go to
sleep at night think about your goals
for the coming day make a list for each
day of all the goals the little goals
you’re going to accomplish that day keep
a journal and write down your goals on a
regular basis you see you do become what
you think about most of the time you do
achieve what you think about most of the
time so all successful people and all
wealthy people think about their goals
most of the time the things that get
scheduled are the things that get done
and vague goals lead to vague results
never notice how hard it is to just get
started how hard it is to get to the gym
how hard it is to get out of bed you
need activation energy to start the
chain to start to sit down to start to
get out of bed to start to walk out the
door that’s the key to creating any kind
of change this activation energy inside
of you that causes the initial goal and
then what do we hear over time once you
start there’s a chain reaction and that
allows you to keep going jump this is
them is the ability to make yourself do
what you should do when you should do it
whether you feel like it or not you see
anybody can do it if they feel like it’s
when you don’t feel like it and you do
it anyway that you eventually develop
the self-discipline that makes
everything else possible discipline is
not punishment it’s not discipline is
training if you change your mind your
mindset and really focus it on what
discipline really is you start to
welcome discipline you welcome
self-discipline into your life you’re
not only gonna blow up the system in
your head and the tricks that your brain
uses to stop you right now you’re going
to shake up your entire life discipline
is your best friend it will take care of
you like nothing else can
remember just because you’re doing a lot
more doesn’t mean you’re getting a lot
more done don’t confuse movement with
progress when we do live in a world
where there is such a fascination with
entertainment now when everyone loves
pretty pictures and it’s really easy to
spend the best hour of your best days
looking at what your friends are eating
and I’m suggesting to you you think like
a student because you’re watching this
mastery session because something deep
within you wants you to be the master of
your game and here’s the thing about
every master every master thinks like a
beginner they’re always learning
anything you want good you can have
so claim it work hard to get it
don’t just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference make today
counts
the most important thing in the world to
you is you it’s your life it’s your
dreams I want to talk to you today about
living the life you were put on this
earth to live see there’s only one you
in the history of humanity you need to
live a life of happiness and fulfillment
see I believe the greatest definition of
success is happiness it’s happiness it’s
not money money is great but it can’t
buy a happy soul we willingly subject
ourselves to meaningless routines we go
to our meaningless jobs so that we can
earn this meaningless money so that we
can spin it on meaningless things that
will mean even less once we’re gone all
the while the beauty of life is just
passing us by because we’re too busy
riding a school paper or were too busy
flipping burgers at a restaurant we’re
too busy sending off emails to a client
we’re essentially just too busy to live
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I’ve always said people are designed for
success but something called life comes
along and programs and conditions them
for failure you talk to a bunch of
five-year-olds and you say what do you
want to do with your life and they’ve
got big dreams they want to be a pilot
they want to be a doctor they want to be
a sports star they want to be an
astronaut they want to do something
great but then something happens they
grow up and then they go out in the real
world and they get something called a
boss or they get a job and they start
getting grinding down on them the world
starts wearing those dreams down and
they start just existed they give up on
their dreams and they start just
accepting it well that’s not the way
it’s supposed to be not for you not for
your life but you have to show up and
fight like crazy fight like a junkyard
dog for your dreams and for your life
you’ve got a demand success and
happiness for your family life will give
you what you accept you got to take
action now the great John Wooden always
said make today your masterpiece
there’s only one you and you’ve only got
one today you’re spending today I think
in a great location but there is only
one today one now tomorrow it’s gone
okay tomorrow it’s a different day
people spend their whole life planning
on living their dreams we see what you
got to take action
you got to attack the day you got to ask
yourself every day what are the major
tasks that I can do today to have a
better happier less stressful to borrow
and then you got to get serious about
getting it done
most people think happy and serious
don’t know together wrong you got to get
serious about getting happy you got to
develop a happiness that comes from the
heart not from your circumstances you
got to develop a happiness that just
Wells up inside of you every day in your
life you’ve got to weave the negative
and you’ve got to fertilize the positive
all that positive thinking and how you
think and once you determine your
destiny to me it works you must prepare
your mind to be happy
there have been times in my life when
I’ve been down I’ve been out I’ve been
afraid I’ve looked up at the road ahead
and have been completely unsure and I
can say first hand when you are going
through a situation like this that it
essentially consumes you right it’s all
you see it’s all you think about to the
point where the good stuff the
opportunity around you it becomes
transparent you see right
it’s the negative it’s the misfortune
for a period of time that becomes your
narrative becomes the story what if this
is forever what if I’m not as good as I
want to be or as they are what if things
don’t work out never mind the fact that
you’ve been here before and that you’ve
battled back never mind how far you’ve
come
no that takes a backseat to the
discomfort that we feel right now and
that’s the irrationality of the human
mind we forget we forget we forget that
the lows create the highs the temporary
isn’t forever that you can’t stand with
any type of Authority if you’ve never
before fallen accomplishing anything is
never just walking up and
goal it’s about getting back up over and
over again taking the bad breaks in
stride and seeing the losses for what
they are necessary what if I told you
that the difficult times weren’t just
manageable they were what you needed
those moments where you felt hopeless
we’re a bridge to something better
what if I told you that the difficult
times weren’t just manageable they were
what you needed those moments where you
felt hopeless were a bridge to something
better a demonstration of just how
capable you are and how strong you can
be feeling lost feeling defeated
sure is unsettling but it’s also a
reminder that you are exactly exactly
where you needs to be in one form or
another your struggle becomes your
answer life
life isn’t always come to cease sunny
skies but if you let it it will teach
you to weather any storm to come out on
top never lose sight of the opportunity
it’s there hiding behind the struggle
and worst in the ups and downs and when
you know that you will not let yourself
stay down that you’ll get up struggle
becomes a building block not a weight
around the ankles with each stumble you
become taller with each misstep you step
forward you know life is short
life is short
we’re not gonna get a do-over you know
life goes by so quick we need to create
in this world a community of positive
thinking the world today these people
that are focused on doing something
great more than ever
cuz there’s plenty of people tearing us
down and pulling us apart so hopefully
my life will stand the test of time and
whatever I build whatever I saw how I
treat people particularly those who
don’t look like me or come from where I
come from or think like me or have my
perspective if I can treat them with
honor and dignity and respect if I can
fight for their hopes their dreams and
their aspirations and I can lift
somebody else if I can push one person
into destiny then all the years of my
life will have been worth it and then I
can say with surety my life was a
success the point of life is to
cultivate long-lasting true meaningful
relationships with others if to be of
service to others I’m here to serve you
you should be here to serve me we should
be here to lift each other up because
although yes we acknowledge that we are
in this system what we all have at the
end of the day is each other and the
only thing that will mean anything on
our deathbeds is the relationships that
we’ve cultivated the people
whose hearts we touched that’s the only
thing that’s truly going to matter we
can spend all of our time our energy our
resources glorifying ourselves lifting
ourselves up but that’s empty there is
no substance in them all we have at the
end of the day is one another how much
money you have by the time you reach
your deathbed how many things you own by
the time you reach your deathbed they’re
not gonna mean anything they’re gonna
hold no significance the only thing
that’s going to mean anything at the end
of the day are the people whose hearts
you touched the friendships you
cultivated the love that you gave the
last that you had the cries that you
shared with other people essentially all
we got is each other
and that is the only thing that gives me
true fulfillment in peace on earth I
always say enjoy the good the bad and
the ugly enjoy when you feel sad or
defeated because it means that you are
alive it means that you are one step
ahead of most other people because you
actually have emotions because you cry
sometimes because you laugh sometimes
you live life and I applaud you for that
it means that you are brave it means
that you try it means that you care
about something and next time when you
feel sad or depressed just stop for a
minute as soon as you catch yourself
feeling that way
try to hold and catch that feeling
before it can spread even more and say
to yourself it is only a feeling it
doesn’t mean that it’s over now it
doesn’t mean that you have given up it
is normal to suffer blows in life and
maybe doubt yourself maybe you are about
to give up and you dig into that feeling
of helplessness don’t understand that
you just got the proof that you are
alive understand that it means that you
can be successful and happy because in
our universe everything has its opposite
so you feel sad as soon as you notice
that sadness or unhappiness embrace it
for only a moment and understand that it
is only a feeling it is all good and
that nothing can stop you and you are
the only one who defines when you give
up so live those emotions even the
sadness the unhappiness appreciate that
you have been blessed with being able to
feel and experience all this vastness
all this life
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see the world doesn’t owe you anything
the world doesn’t owe you a single thing
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if you want something you go out and get
it if you decide what it is in your life
you want if you decide that you want to
make something out of yourself then you
go out there and claim it the world
doesn’t care what you do if you win if
you lose or if you don’t even bother
trying and just do nothing in your life
but isn’t it a shame not to try isn’t it
better to try and fail and to be proud
of yourself but you never lose as long
as you try you always learn something
new as long as you try always strive
forward always be eager to experience
new things to experience this beautiful
life fall down get up fall down get up
fall down get up
we learned that as toddlers as small
children but why do we forget our whole
life will be that way no matter how old
you are no matter what you have achieved
or experienced every day you will fall
down so you learn to get up again and
believe me there are a lot of different
ways how you can fall in life never look
back in life the past is the past and
let the past rest but you are not the
past
you are the now and you are the future
my friend the world needs you
society needs you we all need you to
contribute to this magnificent life with
your ideas with your dreams and with
your experiences if you suddenly stop
all your dreams and aspirations you have
for yourself just because something
negative happens to you it is like the
analogy of the man who is walking down
the street and as it starts raining he
just stops in the middle of the street
because he’s so shocked by the rain he
didn’t see it coming it is normal to get
wet when it starts to rain keep on
walking and you will find shelter next
time you go out you’ll have your
umbrella with you so we can always learn
and we should always be grateful for the
lessons we receive in life life is a
journey it is a process of constant
learning constant emotions but also
always relentlessly moving forward that
is just the nature of the world the
nature of our life move forward every
day and never give up
motivate yourself every day to get up in
the morning to claim new dreams to
always enjoy life to live life watch a
motivational video or two in the morning
to get you going if you feel down
meditate exercise remember who you want
to be remember what white person hides
inside you do whatever works for you be
optimistic be hungry be joyful imagine
yourself as an 80 year old you as an 80
year old you who has realized all of his
dreams what will you tell yourself to
get up every time you fall down and to
never give up no matter what because you
made it this older you is the proof it
is only in your imagination of course
but if you can imagine it it must be out
there somewhere we all go through
seasons of struggle when it feels like
it’s uphill there’s pressure raising
children
maybe you’re believing for your health
to improve but it’s not getting better
too often we get discouraged and think
that’s just the way life is you may be
struggling now you feel pressured you
think that’s the way it’s always going
to be you’ll always struggle with your
help
struggle in a relationship struggle in
your finances know you’re going to come
in to an anointing of ease when you come
into this ease what once was a struggle
won’t be a struggle anymore you’re going
to have a supernatural grace a favor
that will lighten the load and take the
pressure off this is a new day ease is
coming
this is a new day
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you are going to have a strength that
you did not have before I know a
single-parent mother she was working
hard raising her children trying to make
ends meet every month she barely had
enough to pay her bills
she told how she dreamed of taking a
vacation but every time she saved up
extra funds something would break that
had to be repaired she was being her
best but couldn’t get ahead it seemed
like she would struggle her whole life
when you keep doing the right thing you
keep passing these tests you’re going to
come in to this anointing of ease one
day her supervisor unexpectedly took an
early retirement and she was given that
position with it came a significant
increase in salary she was very grateful
several years later her manager one of
the vice presidents of this large
company suddenly resigned and she was
given that position she said Joe I don’t
really know how this happened everything
just fell into place
and Here I am what she is really saying
was that was easy
you may be struggling in some areas
don’t get discouraged that is not
permanent ease is coming I talked to a
young man he was finishing up his
master’s he had one final exam left it
was the hardest class on his schedule he
is very stressed out concerned that he
wasn’t going to pass he came back last
week so excited he had passed the test
and I asked him how was it he said it’s
funny because all of my classmates
thought it was very difficult but to me
it was easier than I expected
sometimes we’re expecting to fail we’re
expecting to struggle we’re expecting it
to be difficult
turn it around you’re tried and it
didn’t work out
try again you’re in a new season
you’re going to overcome obstacles
easier than you think you’re gonna
accomplish dreams easier than you think
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maybe we have many lives maybe we get
reborn who knows but this life exactly
this life under these circumstances you
will only experience once so make the
best of it follow your passion follow
your dream follow your heart
thanks for watching
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you
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