everybody’s gonna make some bad choices
and some of them could cost you
seemingly everything but it may be worth
it I believe that every relationship
every part of life every part of a human
being needs a compelling future but the
future is not more compelling than today
today could be tough but if the future
is compelling we can get them
[Music]
I’ve always wanted to know the answer to
a question then obsessed by the question
of what makes the difference in people’s
life I was not popular in school I loved
people so I was passionate about
figuring what’s the difference in people
why is it that some people are given
everything into the type they really do
have parents that love them that are
there for them they have tremendous
educational background they have all the
economic resources and they end up
spending life going in and out of rehab
you know they have all the resources and
then you need somebody who’s been you
know abused or no one’s been there for
them or they’ve been physically abused
or sexually abused or the worst things
you could possibly happen to a human
being and they turn out to be some of
the finest human beings you’d ever need
in your life we’re out there working to
help other people to make a difference
so we all want to believe that our lives
that turned out because of our biography
and the reality is we can all find
people with a horrible biographer you
have an extraordinary life and we have
people than extraordinary biography who
have a life that none of us for what a
trade book so what’s the real challenge
I believe that the challenge in
relationships that life every area is
emotional fitness
how did Bill Gates change his economic
world whose software designer that
didn’t say how to wave a better software
he asked and got everyone else fast how
do we become the intelligence that
controls all computers worldwide how do
we become the intelligence the controls
all computers worldwide what do you want
what’s your outcome what’s the result
you’re after that changes what you do
twice alone sit-ups it’s not Rocky
he said now we were so drunk we had
nothing no food or money because the one
thing I love most in the world with my
dog he said I love my dog cause he gave
me unconditional love unlike my wife and
he said so when Apple was thought we
were so broke just to survive I couldn’t
even feed my dog so I went to a liquor
store he was the lowest day of my life
I stood outside a liquor store trying to
sell my dog to strangers that try to
sell my dogs at 50 bucks can he sit upon
this one guy negotiated was they bought
my dog I mean my best friend or is the
$25 he said I walked away from there and
I cried it was the worst thing that ever
happened my life he’s a two weeks later
I’m watching a fight
this white guy that’s getting bludgeoned
but just keeps on coming and he said I
got an idea he said I soon as the fight
ends I started writing he said I wrote
for 20 straight hours I did not sleep I
wrote the entire movie in 20 hours
straight right then
saw the fight wrote the movie whole
thing done he said I was shaking at the
end I was so excited so I really knew
man I knew what I wanted I knew why I
wanted he to just like it he’s that
formula he said but I said man I took
the action now it’s time to deliver and
so he said I went out started trying
selling agents and they all would read
it they say you know this is predictable
this is stupid this is sappy he said I
wrote down all the things they said and
I read them the night of the Oscars when
we won and they only spent a million
dollars to make Rocky and it grows 200
million dollars
the most important thing of all what we
start out with why why is it a must for
you it doesn’t have to be here against
the wall but it has to be something
you’re hungry for because the only
difference in people is hungry if you’re
not hungry
get around people that are hungry and
something will hit you you watch a
conversation you get around people are
doing better and all of a sudden you
start going myself what do these people
need to get started why aren’t there
starting we all know the answers fair
but the difference with you guys or me
or anybody’s follow-through is more more
afraid up for what life would be like if
we don’t follow through then the person
is willing to settle for what they got
and kind of hope it’ll change and maybe
purchase something for the moment and
then not follow through with it it’s
almost like people overachievers have a
little more fear they’re a little more
afraid of missing out they’re afraid of
not being there or they got a strong
enough reason to follow through
but grace gets magnified the more you
appreciate it
the more you notice that you’re guided
or that things that happen for you don’t
even have a date with destiny you’ll
have a point belief that is life doesn’t
happen to you it happens for you
the church I have to figure out how it’s
happening for you if you don’t notice it
you won’t experience it
[Music]
you
so think about what’s the Holy Grail
between somebody taking action or not
it’s one word certainty
when somebody is absolutely certain date
you know the carbon boarded believed
right but you know you can believe in a
general level or you can believe a
certain when you’re absolutely certain
that if I do this it’s going to get that
result and that results going to change
my life you’ll do it when you think it
absolutely is not going to work you’re
never going to do it the middle no-man’s
land of maybe the work maybe it will
that’s the piece that kills people all
right so if it’s a must for you you got
to make it work
you want to have the emotion
psychological strength is that’s going
to carry you through when the mechanics
are boring or frustrating or when things
aren’t working out your emotion your
psychologies will carry you it’ll get
you to keep doing it everyone knows if
you’ve done any studies dr. Seligman
very famous for doing Studies on
optimism and in those studies you really
found out people that are pessimists are
much more realistic they’re much more
accurate if you give them a test and you
ask them to look at something and give
you a size measurement of it or to
evaluate their own success or failure at
a task and every study Seligman’s down
you to the University I think
Pennsylvania for member correctly
originally what he found was that
optimists always see themselves as doing
better than they really did they
basically be asked himself what happens
to pessimists there are 10 times more
accurate but here’s what he found out
what he found out is because the people
who are accurate never push themselves
because they know it’s never going to
work anyway whereas the optimist sees it
better than it is so they keep doing it
because they have the illusion they did
well we’ll all do even better next time
and because that optimism they did it
more often and so optimists succeed at a
four to five fold depending on the task
result ultimately beyond anything that a
pessimist will do and they’re not as
accurate
cultivate that sense of wealth that
sense of abundance in here the more you
can feel that sense of joy the more easy
it’s going to be for you to do
financially because you’re not going to
be in this scarce fearful mode now
that’s not enough by itself you have
this great sense of abundance and do the
wrong mechanics and be a disaster
wealth is a product of the mind again no
amount of money you ever achieve will
make you wealthy gratitude will and
living a life where you know you’re
contributing adding value will that’s
what’s going to make you feel wealthy
where you’re a giver not a taker
does mean you can’t receive but someone
is always looking at what am I getting
out of every single thing they do is
always poor
[Music]
but the basis of all that I do comes
down to knowing the difference in your
life your relationship your physical
life your emotional eyes any aspect of
your life comes down to this sense of
psychological strength and emotional
fitness what I mean by that is this
discipline never works long time never
what works is when you become addicted
to something positively new you trade
one addiction for another you shift from
having to doing something to wanting to
do something so our focus is how to make
that happen
everybody’s going to make some bad
choices and some of them could cost you
seemingly everything but it may be worth
it
[Music]
and some of them could cost you
seemingly everything but it may be worth
it I believe that every relationship
every part of life every part of a human
being needs a compelling future but the
future is not more compelling than today
today could be tough but if the future
is compelling we can get them
[Music]
I’ve always wanted to know the answer to
a question then obsessed by the question
of what makes the difference in people’s
life I was not popular in school I loved
people so I was passionate about
figuring what’s the difference in people
why is it that some people are given
everything into the type they really do
have parents that love them that are
there for them they have tremendous
educational background they have all the
economic resources and they end up
spending life going in and out of rehab
you know they have all the resources and
then you need somebody who’s been you
know abused or no one’s been there for
them or they’ve been physically abused
or sexually abused or the worst things
you could possibly happen to a human
being and they turn out to be some of
the finest human beings you’d ever need
in your life we’re out there working to
help other people to make a difference
so we all want to believe that our lives
that turned out because of our biography
and the reality is we can all find
people with a horrible biographer you
have an extraordinary life and we have
people than extraordinary biography who
have a life that none of us for what a
trade book so what’s the real challenge
I believe that the challenge in
relationships that life every area is
emotional fitness
how did Bill Gates change his economic
world whose software designer that
didn’t say how to wave a better software
he asked and got everyone else fast how
do we become the intelligence that
controls all computers worldwide how do
we become the intelligence the controls
all computers worldwide what do you want
what’s your outcome what’s the result
you’re after that changes what you do
twice alone sit-ups it’s not Rocky
he said now we were so drunk we had
nothing no food or money because the one
thing I love most in the world with my
dog he said I love my dog cause he gave
me unconditional love unlike my wife and
he said so when Apple was thought we
were so broke just to survive I couldn’t
even feed my dog so I went to a liquor
store he was the lowest day of my life
I stood outside a liquor store trying to
sell my dog to strangers that try to
sell my dogs at 50 bucks can he sit upon
this one guy negotiated was they bought
my dog I mean my best friend or is the
$25 he said I walked away from there and
I cried it was the worst thing that ever
happened my life he’s a two weeks later
I’m watching a fight
this white guy that’s getting bludgeoned
but just keeps on coming and he said I
got an idea he said I soon as the fight
ends I started writing he said I wrote
for 20 straight hours I did not sleep I
wrote the entire movie in 20 hours
straight right then
saw the fight wrote the movie whole
thing done he said I was shaking at the
end I was so excited so I really knew
man I knew what I wanted I knew why I
wanted he to just like it he’s that
formula he said but I said man I took
the action now it’s time to deliver and
so he said I went out started trying
selling agents and they all would read
it they say you know this is predictable
this is stupid this is sappy he said I
wrote down all the things they said and
I read them the night of the Oscars when
we won and they only spent a million
dollars to make Rocky and it grows 200
million dollars
the most important thing of all what we
start out with why why is it a must for
you it doesn’t have to be here against
the wall but it has to be something
you’re hungry for because the only
difference in people is hungry if you’re
not hungry
get around people that are hungry and
something will hit you you watch a
conversation you get around people are
doing better and all of a sudden you
start going myself what do these people
need to get started why aren’t there
starting we all know the answers fair
but the difference with you guys or me
or anybody’s follow-through is more more
afraid up for what life would be like if
we don’t follow through then the person
is willing to settle for what they got
and kind of hope it’ll change and maybe
purchase something for the moment and
then not follow through with it it’s
almost like people overachievers have a
little more fear they’re a little more
afraid of missing out they’re afraid of
not being there or they got a strong
enough reason to follow through
but grace gets magnified the more you
appreciate it
the more you notice that you’re guided
or that things that happen for you don’t
even have a date with destiny you’ll
have a point belief that is life doesn’t
happen to you it happens for you
the church I have to figure out how it’s
happening for you if you don’t notice it
you won’t experience it
[Music]
you
so think about what’s the Holy Grail
between somebody taking action or not
it’s one word certainty
when somebody is absolutely certain date
you know the carbon boarded believed
right but you know you can believe in a
general level or you can believe a
certain when you’re absolutely certain
that if I do this it’s going to get that
result and that results going to change
my life you’ll do it when you think it
absolutely is not going to work you’re
never going to do it the middle no-man’s
land of maybe the work maybe it will
that’s the piece that kills people all
right so if it’s a must for you you got
to make it work
you want to have the emotion
psychological strength is that’s going
to carry you through when the mechanics
are boring or frustrating or when things
aren’t working out your emotion your
psychologies will carry you it’ll get
you to keep doing it everyone knows if
you’ve done any studies dr. Seligman
very famous for doing Studies on
optimism and in those studies you really
found out people that are pessimists are
much more realistic they’re much more
accurate if you give them a test and you
ask them to look at something and give
you a size measurement of it or to
evaluate their own success or failure at
a task and every study Seligman’s down
you to the University I think
Pennsylvania for member correctly
originally what he found was that
optimists always see themselves as doing
better than they really did they
basically be asked himself what happens
to pessimists there are 10 times more
accurate but here’s what he found out
what he found out is because the people
who are accurate never push themselves
because they know it’s never going to
work anyway whereas the optimist sees it
better than it is so they keep doing it
because they have the illusion they did
well we’ll all do even better next time
and because that optimism they did it
more often and so optimists succeed at a
four to five fold depending on the task
result ultimately beyond anything that a
pessimist will do and they’re not as
accurate
cultivate that sense of wealth that
sense of abundance in here the more you
can feel that sense of joy the more easy
it’s going to be for you to do
financially because you’re not going to
be in this scarce fearful mode now
that’s not enough by itself you have
this great sense of abundance and do the
wrong mechanics and be a disaster
wealth is a product of the mind again no
amount of money you ever achieve will
make you wealthy gratitude will and
living a life where you know you’re
contributing adding value will that’s
what’s going to make you feel wealthy
where you’re a giver not a taker
does mean you can’t receive but someone
is always looking at what am I getting
out of every single thing they do is
always poor
[Music]
but the basis of all that I do comes
down to knowing the difference in your
life your relationship your physical
life your emotional eyes any aspect of
your life comes down to this sense of
psychological strength and emotional
fitness what I mean by that is this
discipline never works long time never
what works is when you become addicted
to something positively new you trade
one addiction for another you shift from
having to doing something to wanting to
do something so our focus is how to make
that happen
everybody’s going to make some bad
choices and some of them could cost you
seemingly everything but it may be worth
it
[Music]
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