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How to Own Your HAPPINESS – #OneRule


I would rather have a happier life
getting things not gonna make you happy
I’m happy simply because I have no
reason to be angry you have to own your
own happiness everybody was happy happy
if you want to be happy be happy fine
happiness the stuff actually good happy
from doing I learned that the things did
make me happy
hello believe nation today we’re going
to talk about how you can own your
happiness as you guys watch this video
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life about how much you’ve done with
technology how much you’ve achieved how
much money you made in your life or is
life about how many times you laugh to
compare to smile I would rather have a
happier life and sure if getting success
in business is what makes me happy
that’s fine but I really believe that
you know some kind of enjoyment aspect
should go through especially all
learning and all work now I was an
engineer the work is hard it’s intense
you work late hours at night sometimes
trying to solve a problem you know and
you just it’s so hard to get there and
you finally crack through and that sort
of a relief but you know what when
you’re working that hard all day long
you need those little jokes with your
friends you need the lunch time where
you sit down and chat is such a big part
of your life things getting things is
not going to make you happy that’s good
news in a tough economy it’s a good
reminder you know doesn’t matter what
you get doesn’t matter whether it be
money or opportunity all those things
might excite you for the moment you know
even a relationship as magnificent it
may be might be exciting for a while but
if you don’t keep growing that
relationship isn’t going to stay
exciting so the secret to real happiness
is progress progress equals happiness
and if we can make progress on a regular
basis we feel alive and that’s why at
the beginning of the year we get this
thing like okay I can have this fresh
start I could really do what my soul
desires I could expand I could grow I
can improve I could change or maybe
better than change I could progress see
think about that progress isn’t
aliveness to it doesn’t it you have to
work at changing people say all the time
that allow I’m working on changing don’t
worry about it
you have to work on changing changes
automatic
your body is going to change whether you
want it or not as the years go by no
matter how hard you work there’s going
to be some changes going on there the
economy is going to change no matter
what you want it to do the weather is
going to change relationships are going
to change everything in life is always
changing we’ll have to work on change
change is automatic but progress is not
so if you want to make real progress
then you really got to look at your life
in a different way you gotta say I gotta
take control of this process and not
just hope that’s going to work out like
people do who make a resolution
well the comedian’s garden stage and
they’re hiding who they are you know
there’s a lot of comedians come from a
dark place do you let it all out I come
from a heavy place even though my place
was dark I’m happy yeah I’m happy simply
because I have no reason to be angry
life is too short to be angry so the
things that I do feel a certain type of
way about it that I may get upset about
I let it out I get out on stage and I
allow other people to judge it and laugh
at it and the reason why you’re laughing
is because I’m being honest and I think
when people can relate to that honesty
the truth is always a fun yet it is the
funniest I don’t care what happens to
you there is a positive and a negative
in anything that happens to you and you
think about it after you’re done being
negative I guarantee your life and I
guarantee I don’t care how bad how
severe it is after it’s happened when
you really break down what happened to
human condition oh my goodness
time zone time well hours Wow
you have to own your own happiness take
it away from other people demanding that
they make you happy your kids are not
going to make you happy your spouse’s
not going to make you happy a big house
is not going to make you happy own your
own happiness and be responsible for
doing those things to bring joy into
your own heart independently of life and
people and money and all of that stuff
it doesn’t necessarily give you a
happiness you have to take
responsibility of that peace and that
joy that lives inside of your heart and
not inside of your stuff I had a dream
to come to Barcelona but afterwards I’m
thinking maybe you should keep your
dream instead of making it come true
because that dream could almost not
almost could have not destroy me but
make it difficult for me and first six
months fantastic at a fantastic time at
a very good
should with Guardiola I wanted to learn
the Barcelona the way of playing it when
good for six months after that something
happened that I still don’t have answers
for which which maybe I will never know
I mean if somebody has a problem with me
should come to me we resolve it whatever
the problem is like a man because was it
was ridiculous you don’t talk to the
player the player is looking for answers
at that moment I was not happy and I
said I have to choose either I stay win
everything but I will not be happy or I
go to somewhere else and that is what
that I went to milind my joy kept back
for playing football did a good job
I wonder the Scudetto immediately among
the supercoppa everybody was happy and
they were like appreciating me for
playing there she’s worried about the
rent okay
she’s a single mother sure better care
to read you know and then you could do
about the rent worrying about it I think
I’ll get you know rent presents and
Happiness gets you rent money can’t make
you happy but happy can make you money
so be happy go out in the world with
your story the guy in the shanty house
he rolls over the morning meditates goes
out in the world it’s like damn I’m
going to have to get some bread and
water before the holes go down if I get
back in that bed but the meantime be
nice to all my neighbors in the shanty
village everybody is suffering in what
everyone else calls extreme poverty but
he’s happy didn’t have a poverty mindset
noise he worried about that bread and
water they don’t give me some bread I
don’t worry about that because I’m that
dude he walks out smiling confident
comfortable he gets what he needs he
says the Yogananda would say God will
provide but really your God just working
to get and it will shows up he gets his
bread and water he makes everybody happy
everybody makes him happy lays the bed
next nigga he wakes up he’s got a you
know you know thirty six billion dollars
in the bank he gets up the stock market
goes up he’s an old get some coke get
some alcohol gets happy so excited I’m
exploding and making more money more
money morning oh she crashed
oh she’s more cocaine more alcohol up up
up under his hot gold up and down
and he dies at 40 the shanty house guy
lives at Hunt lived to 100 if he had
other guys diet not the diet el the guy
took but the other guy’s opportunity for
have a greater diet the guy in the
shanty anthem it were made and 20 but
you know made 100 this guy died at 40
that’s the reality of all you know our
happiness is up to us you know our
relationship with the world is up to us
our anxiety is controlled or given to us
by us sometimes you have to just say
like why would you want to make the
situation miserable uh-huh I go to photo
shoots and I actually working with
Pantene they were so sweet and I just
like you’re so nice and and they they
said that to me as if that was shocking
and I looked at them I’m like why would
I want to make this miserable for you
and me like we’re taking pretty pictures
I’m flinging my hair around like it’s
you have a choice yeah it’s like if you
want to be happy be happy and it’s so
hard to do sometimes but it’s something
that I just have come to terms with more
than ever lately in my life and I think
people just see that I got called you a
Harvard and Yale to go speak um and I
said I wouldn’t do it after my album
come out Wow what are you going to say
to them at Harvard and Yale I’m telling
my story I’m a given mock-mock-mock-mock
my story of my life um and you know I’m
sure I’m sure connects in some way with
their life you’re saying like Indian
different aspects I’m saying I feel like
we all have a connection with all of our
stories we’ve all been through trials
and tribulations and we all been through
great things I’m saying it’s just about
I think my message now is for everybody
to find happiness and joy I’ve told you
this um years ago on the show that I’ve
been searching for happiness and joy
even though I’m super blessing we got
life I said a feeling I was searching
for and I’m finding that now I’m happy
yet now I am Wow and when I say that
because I’m about to have a son you’re
saying and all the blessings that’s
coming in me more blessings because we
bless out the gate cuz we got light but
you know what I mean like more blessings
and you know like fan love I go outside
right now
they show me love man like they show me
so much love
I like ah how could I be mad if right ya
know you’re gonna say like and that’s
what I mean about keep positive energy
around you and that’s how you’re gonna
be happy you’re saying and I noticed in
my life when you keep certain negative
energy around you don’t want it around
you but sometime this is there and you
have to be a man or a woman and say you
know what let me take the trash out
where you know say one day you got to
wake up and say that and it’s the
hardest thing in the world because you
know you don’t just do that you know I’m
saying you sometimes have to walk away
from situations you sold your company
recently to Microsoft but you haven’t
really been talking about it so what
happened there I wasn’t working on
minecraft anymore they had him for a
long time but I still was kind of
responsible for its as I made it the
most the main shareholder of mojang and
on this big thing happen with the Ulay
incident with people fought over changed
the rules and like did we any relicense
agree yeah which had always been in
place but what actually happened was
that some people brought it up like so
we’re not allowed to do this and that
oh is that no so he looked it over and
actually made the rules more lenient but
people still get very upset with like me
personally even though I wasn’t even
working with anymore just take it like I
don’t know if I want to put up with this
anymore and then I saw that this is phil
fish video this is a do two documentary
about a guy called phil fish only talks
about them unlike internet personalities
and like famous people people aren’t
really they’re not talking to that
actual person when the talkative person
before talking about the ID of that
person how this disconnect when you
respond personally to stuff that’s not
really intended to be personal and i
can’t just figure like i’d probably
maybe I don’t have to put up with this
so just when that happening that
everyone’s giving me something like crap
online this what no this is not worse
than work so I just waited kind of
jokingly like you who wants to buy the
company right
when a couple of days later called a CEO
came by that we got a bunch of offers
like were you serious yeah
and I fought about it for a while and
said yeah maybe it’s time how do you run
your minecraft company have you sold out
to the evil corporations yet no not yet
we hope not to but how long do you think
be able to do that before you kind of
get absorbed by the Borg I think that
depends on how long we can I keep the
fun mood going that we have it’s very
stressful didn’t really got to me I
didn’t want to work on the project
anymore as I wanted to just write
prototypes or new games and stuff that
this the stuff I actually get happy from
doing and I felt like stealing I needed
to be responsible for it because I was
still like the main owner of the company
and there was me or developed a game and
people were like looking up to me and
for me was very important to make sure
that I was like a clean break like it
wasn’t like trying to like get some
investor and try to grow the company
like a big exit it’s more about killing
it quick and easy and just get a thumb
read you want the flashy things until
you know you grow older you know it’s an
adult and you’d be able to understand
yourself a little bit more
I learned that them things they make me
happy you know I learned that you know
that really money really don’t make me
I’m learning that now you know that’s
not really my arm my peace of mind
having money you know that summer I
learned this year years before that I
learned that you know jewelry and all
that stuff for me make that me and um
when you learn that you’ll be able to
grow grow more as a person you know what
makes me happy is really challenging
myself and knowing that I defeated my
let’s go you know and took myself to the
next level as a better person thank you
guys so much for watching I’d love to
know what you thought of this video how
did it move you or inspire you or what
lesson did you learn from it leave it in
the comments below and I’m going to join
in the discussion also I want to give a
quick shout out to Ricardo Martins
Ricardo thank you so much for buying a
copy of my book it really means a lot to
me those you’re watching if you want to
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continue to believe or whatever your one
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