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How BAD Do You WANT IT? – #OneRule


what’s that believe nation its Evan my
one word is believe I believe in you and
I want to see that special thing you’ve
got inside you Unleashed
onto the world instead of help you on
your journey today we’re gonna learn how
bad do you want it and as always guys as
you’re watching if you hear something
that really resonates with you please
leave it down in the comments below put
quotes around it so others can be
inspired and when you write it down it’s
much more likely to stick for yourself
as well enjoy people ask what does it
take to succeed the one answer I give
them as longer Congress the greatest
asset that you’ll see everybody from
Richard Branson to Google or an Apple or
Facebook these queen of giant companies
you got to become a master of your
ability to turn on your determination or
your creativity or your hunger or your
passion or whatever it is it’s gonna
take for you to get from where you are
to where you really want to be
intelligence is so valuable but there’s
so many smart people I can’t fight the
land of a paper bag
hunger is that part of you that says I
will not stop I will not get up I will
not settle for less than I can be or do
or share or give you want you know
what’s so funny we want people to make
guarantees to us but we’re not willing
to make guarantees to ourselves now
promise say it again like you somebody
get you a guarantee $30 30-day guarantee
in 30 days and if you don’t make what
they told you it’s gonna make in 30 days
you got an attitude you want your money
back but you’ve never demanded your
money back from yourself you’ve never
looked at yourself in the mirror and
said you let you down until you get to
that point you let you down you’ve never
you’re not brave enough you want to put
it on somebody else the reason why I’m
not successful is because of my boss
have you ever looked at yourself in the
mirror and said I’m not getting up on
time I’m not going to work on time I’m
not putting in 120% when I’m at work I
let me down and when you get to the
point where you can say you let you know
I don’t can’t listen to me no disrespect
I don’t care about Glenn that’s not why
I do what I do and I love Glenn I don’t
come here and do what I do so Glenn can
affirm me so he can give me a pat on my
back I care more about me than I care
about what Glenn things about me I have
standards I have values I don’t care how
much you pay me if I speak at an
elementary school for $300 I chose to do
that for $300 if I chose to speak out of
prison for free I chose to do that and I
will not go in there give those
prisoners less than when somebody pays
me a hundred thousand why because I
value myself enough to give 120% or
don’t do it that’s the problem with some
of you you always want to blame other
people you always want on you want to
hold other people to the fire but you’re
not holding yourself to the fire you
just say are you giving 50 percent you
owe you an explanation you owe you an
explanation you need to look at yourself
in the mirror and say why are you only
giving 50 percent what’s wrong with you
you need to put yourself on punishment
you need to tell you no more TV no more
snacks no more desserts no more no we
working out now no no more alcohol not
right now not no I can’t hand do it
right now you need to tell you that you
owe you something
stop going back to you keep going to the
mall with the receipt this is what y’all
said it was Glenn you didn’t do what you
say he was gonna do what you were to do
what you were supposed to do so how am I
gonna do what I was willing to do for
you you walk out of this room you owe
yourself I didn’t get here making
excuses so what my father wasn’t in my
life the truth of the matter is he ain’t
never coming in my life so what I’m away
for the rest of my life for my man to
come he ain’t coming I live in America
I’m an african-american male they don’t
treat us the same and some call racism I
ain’t gonna cry about it it’s probably
gonna be racism to the day I die but I’m
not gonna cry about it I’m still gonna
be a millionaire
I’m still gonna be one of the top
motivational speakers in the world
no I didn’t grow up on that side of the
town no my mama don’t have no network no
I don’t know a whole lot of people no
I’m not at a country club no I don’t
play golf and I don’t plan on playing no
time soon but I’m still gonna be
successful I’m still gonna get to where
they are why cuz I owe it to myself and
Kay nobody stopped me put me you need to
get rid of them excuses you need to stop
pointing fingers at people and you start
pointing fingers at yourself what are
you not doing you know I didn’t have as
many personal relationships as I
probably would have liked you know I put
personal relationships aside you know I
had girlfriends where it was like me or
your business and I you know I was like
what was your name again you know
you think I’m kidding so it probably
took things to an extreme but yeah I
gave up on personal relationships in a
big respect because I really was on a
mission and once I once I realized I was
good so when I sold my first company I
bought a lifetime pass in American
Airlines and my goal was just a party
with like a rock star in as many
countries with as many people as I
possibly could then I went back and got
involved in the streaming business and I
remember sitting there and telling you
know we had probably 10 employees and
look the streaming thing I think is
gonna be really big and so we really
have to focus and there’s going to be
some sacrifices and if you’re willing to
make those sacrifices let’s go and if
you’re not I understand you know you
make your own decisions and I was
willing to make those sacrifices and you
know it all turned out great in the long
run but during that time wasn’t always
wasn’t always easy it wasn’t always yeah
it was tough sometimes I think what
people don’t realize is that when you
own a business the personal sacrifice
that you have to make you’re not home as
much I don’t have kids I’m not married
you just don’t have the time to do it
all and I know you can relate to it that
when you’re doing your craft oh I lost a
lot of my urges you lose marriages or
came first do you lose friends and I’ve
had people say to me I can’t be in a
relationship with you you don’t have
your priorities right and I said I do
have my priorities right you just don’t
agree with them when I used to do
seminars on how to become a champion I
would always ask people why do you want
to be a champion or what do you want to
accomplish why are you training and they
will if a guy will get up and you would
say well I want to train because I think
that if I get muscular and you know I
feel like I’m getting the kind of
definition then that maybe can enter a
bodybuilding competition there’s it sit
down because if you think this way
you’re gonna be a loser you’re never
gonna make it because there’s no maybe
you got to get up and say I want to be a
champion
and I do whatever it takes
amount of hours it takes the pose into
this the death the visualization looking
at training footage looking at
motivational books reading this tree
whatever it takes I would do that’s the
answer I want to hear from you you can
detect right away those that are going
to be shaky and that will fall behind
and they will not go all the way and
those that are very hungry and dead
hunger you have to develop because you
have to create a goal for yourself
whatever that may be a short-term goal
and the long-term goal and you got to go
after that if you do not see and if you
do not believe it
who else well I tried working for
somebody when it’s very young and they
fired me in ice cream right and it was a
very very profoundly affected me
profoundly and I just said I’m never
working for anybody again it doesn’t
mean your life is easier in fact you
give up you have to have a lot of
sacrifices in the on the road to success
and a lot of failures along the way I
just find it a more interesting way to
spend your time and I really believe in
this concept of money buys freedom and
so you know I think it’s a very noble
pursuit for some percentage of the
people out there but not for everybody
because you have to sacrifice a lot for
the period that you’re working on your
business and not everybody wants to do
that and I think you find that in your
own you start down that path and if it’s
too much of a sacrifice you revert back
to being an employee which is it’s very
noble to do that too but it’s not the
same thing it takes a long time to set
yourself free working for somebody else
good fighters not necessarily the
greatest part of lives what way you want
to go you know I mean a good fight just
to be diligent and committed and
discipline doing what you hate to do but
do it like you love it you know always
testing yourself forcing yourself to the
limits you know if you know you um like
if you love women to deny yourself that
you know I mean that’s what that’s what
I’m success in general it’s all about
sacrifice for my experience of anything
loose except I may have had this be
willing to sacrifice you know
unfortunately sometimes you can’t have
fun accomplishing their goals
and when sometimes people don’t have the
determination the will and the
steadfastness the tenacity they are they
giving them the slightest struggle are
you surprised how your life has changed
yeah cuz it’s you have changed pretty
fast
yeah has it two years ago I was in my
flat
kind of not knowing what was gonna
happen that’s extraordinary because you
feel do you feel like this was always
gonna happen hmm I didn’t know which is
kind of what gave me hope by knew that I
had to end up doing something like this
you see that’s what I think makes for me
that is what determines success I very
much feel like when you know inside you
you like I am born to do this thing this
is what I’m really good at I don’t know
what else I’m gonna do so I might as
well put everything I’ve got behind it
you have to and not be afraid have a
plan B you know you have you know you
have cushions given out you have
something to fall back on
I had no nothing you can’t fall back on
anything you know that’s what makes you
hungry it’s true it really does and it’s
made me starving and I kind of still am
I’m never gonna lose that hunger but I’m
just so grateful that you know I didn’t
give up so it has come to my attention
that a lot of people in the world want
to become something they want to achieve
something joy to reach some sort of goal
everyone whether it’s I want to be an
actor actress I want to open my own
business I want a six-pack I want a boob
guy everyone wants something anything
everything you for example just take a
second think about what you want in life
what do you want to become what do you
really really desire think about it you
got in your brain okay okay so you’re
thinking about it good good good now
keep in mind that there’s so many other
people in the world right now that claim
they want something really really bad
okay now the purpose of this video is
for me to stand here and call you out
and say you don’t want these things so
badly because if you wanted them so
badly you’d be getting them now before
you cross me off and close this video
let me break it down for you if you will
lie down at night and you are not
utterly exhausted then you my friend do
not want it bad enough because of you
or a goal and the concept of sleep is
not the important to you then you sleep
too much because when you’re trying to
reach a goal sleep should feel like a
guilty pleasure okay you should go to
sleep at night when your head hits that
pillow it’s a straight seven just
straight up praise the lord i’mma get
some Z’s and here’s the thing right I
hear people complaining all the time
about being broke not achieving their
goals nothing ever goes their way but
then those are the same people that go
to sleep cuz they’re too tired stop
working cuz they’re too lazy can’t drive
to a meeting cuz it’s too far
cat network with people because they
don’t like them who can’t finish a
project because the game is on who can’t
take on a challenge because it’s too
much work so – I say hi hello welcome to
the real world where as hard as you
think you’re working there’s many people
working ten times harder than you so let
me just ask you a question why do you
feel that you deserve success why do you
deserve to reach new heights and achieve
great things because this is the reality
of the situation you can be doing
anything say you’re a musician and you
wake up and you spend hours and hours
and hours practicing and working on
music and then inet1 your time you go to
sleep and you’re like you know what I’ve
worked really hard I can tell you that
somewhere out there there’s another
musician who’s choosing to stay up that
one extra hour and that’s putting in one
grind then you my friend aka what I’m
trying to tell you is all these people
love dreams and say they want to become
something and say the world is against
them sweetie the world isn’t against you
okay your excuses are against you so hi
hello my name is Lily I go by the name
of superwoman if you don’t know me now
you do and we’re friends what’s up
whoever you are whether you know me or
not watch my videos are not even
interesting you for the first time you
have a dream you want to achieve
something stop watching this video sign
ok watch the video ain’t no harm in
watching the video to watch the video
but after this video okay achieve
something the people who win work the
hardest because they love what they do
they put in the hours and the hours any
hours any hours for days and days and
days and weeks and weeks and weeks and
months and months and months years and
years and years because they love it
because it’s not work for them the only
way you’re going to be willing to put in
the work that is necessary to win to be
the best in your industry the only way
you’re gonna put in that amount of work
is because
you love what you’re doing and if you
don’t you’re gonna you’re gonna lose cuz
there’s gonna be somebody who will love
it
who loves it more than you and will
crush you and you’ll be not even a
number two you’ll be mediocre
cuz there’s lots of people who love what
they do and there’s lots people grinding
it and working hard if you are looking
at your calendar like open up your can
look what you’re gonna do today or look
what you’re doing tomorrow what’s on the
schedule if you’re looking at it and
you’re like oh I gotta do all these
things if that’s your reaction you might
be in the wrong business now if it’s a
one-off thing if there’s a one day you
know you got to deal with the government
or something fine
but if that’s daily if that’s consistent
if that’s always happening if you
continue to look at your calendar and
you’re you’re upset and depressed and
angry you’re in the wrong business the
work should feel like something exciting
to go and do where other people might
jump into your schedule and say that’s
crazy I could never do that
that’s great that’s why you’re not
crushing it like I am like go go crush
it in your field go do your thing as an
example here’s one change that I’ve made
to my youtube channel you may have
noticed this month the video series look
a little different I’m working with the
videographer Jason and the only way we
can make this thing work was if we did
it on one day so I used to film my
videos once a week on a Wednesday for
the week and Jason works by the day so
okay you know what I want to increase
the quality of the videos I wanted to
look more Hollywood do we look more
Hollywood this is looking nice you guys
like the quality give a thumbs up for
Jason down in the comments and the way
to make it work was to do it once a
month and so I’m sitting here filming my
videos for the month we’re doing like 70
videos in one day grinding them through
I’ve got two extra large coffees got one
sitting behind here and halfway through
that and here’s the thing to make this
work
it’s a lot of extra pressure on my team
to get a lot of things ready and sooner
and faster right so my teams are working
extra hard to get it ready for this one
time and if we continue it it’s their
usual job it’s not as stressful or hard
I’m thinking about them
I don’t want them to stress out too much
but really the person has the hardest is
me because for me it’s not just a
one-off thing this is now going to be
every month like do I have the ability
to stay on to have energy for an entire
day can I get through making 70 videos
in a single day
I don’t know but when Jason and I are on
email we’re trying to figure this out
and I look at how hard it was gonna be
for me to do to be on camera for that
long
like I got to do this this is awesome
I like crash and burn and like it
doesn’t work out and it totally fails
and I can’t handle the the the length
and the time but I want to try where so
many people have a hard time making 1 to
2 videos a month here we are making 70
in a day crushing it all down and I love
it it’s hardest on me versus anybody
else on my team but uneven think about
it because I love the challenge I love
the ability to work that hard and see if
I can do it and see if it makes sense
for what we’re trying to do what do you
guys think you like that you like these
videos like this you want more of it let
me know leave a comment and so in
thinking about that I don’t think that
I’m super special by the way I just
found the thing that I love doing I’m
willing to put in this kind of hustle
and work because I love making the
videos because I want to create more and
better content for you guys you could
put in that same amount of drive energy
hustle that I’m doing today in your
business but it’s not gonna happen if
you look at your schedule and like or
like this I was looking at my schedule
last night like I’m so excited about
tomorrow I’m so excited about tomorrow
so we like to see how it goes let’s try
to crush it right and again not every
day is gonna be super amazing but you
should love the work that you do net net
you should be excited about the data
there’s a head net net and not feeling
sad depressed angry frustrated about the
work that you have to do the people who
win work the hardest because they love
what they do
thank you guys so much for watching I
hope you enjoyed I’d love to know what
did you take from this video what was a
single most important message that you
are going to immediately apply somehow
to your life or tear
leave it down the comments below I look
forward to hearing what you have to say
I also want to give a quick check to
Tuan new Yin thank you so much for
picking up 10 copies of my book your one
word and giving them to your friends as
gifts I really appreciate the support
and I hope your friends enjoyed the
gifts from you thank you guys so much
for watching I believe in you I hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one word is much love I’ll
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