how to deal with the doubters and the
haters so I got a great comment that
came in front of my newsletter readers
love you guys I DT who wrote in the say
how do you deal with the doubters and
haters how do you keep yourself esteem
high despite all the criticism this is a
great question too DT and I call these
people the little man you know the
people who don’t believe when your idea
who just tell you all the reasons why
something’s not gonna work and try to
tear you down the fact is everybody has
the little man in their life everybody
has and when you’re trying to chase your
dream when you’re trying to do something
big you’re trying to do something
important you’re trying to do something
that maybe nobody and your family has
ever done before it’s outside the norm
then at the start you’re not gonna have
all the answers right it’s a dream
you’re trying to figure it out you’re
making corrections as you go but it’s
not gonna be perfect you’re gonna make
mistakes
there’s gonna be holes in your plan and
the little man is a person who sees all
those holes all those things that you
don’t have the knowledge of yet and
tells you well here’s all the reasons
why it’s not gonna work out where your
real friends are the people who will see
those holes and give you support either
in a form of a solution here’s what you
can do here’s the problem you’re gonna
face and here’s how you can handle it or
just boosting your confidence saying I
believe in you it’s gonna work out you
can do this they don’t have to agree
with you okay they don’t have to
necessarily think that even what you’re
doing is right but if it’s your dream
and you want to see this thing through
then your real friends would be the
people who support you no matter what
now it can be hard to eliminate the
people in your life who don’t support
you because sometimes are really close
but strategy number one is say goodbye
to the little man now if it’s somebody
who’s not that close to you it’s easy
right to stop talking to somebody who’s
an acquaintance is easy what do you do
when it’s somebody closer to you so I
want to share two examples from my my my
story the first is there’s a company I
work with it’s run by two people
business partners and
one guy is the little man and this is
how I came up with the name little man
and I showed him some of my stuff and
he’s hating on it and he’s hurling
insults at me and not telling me how to
make it better and it got to the point
where like this guy that the the emails
going back and and this guy’s just a
drain
he’s a drain on my life force and I
can’t be around him anymore now his
business partner I love he does great by
me he’s an awesome individual if he was
stuck in a problem and he said Evan I
really need your help
I would hop on a plane and fly to him to
help him out but I have no time for his
business partner and I’ve eliminated him
from my life and I’m much happier and
able to do much greater things without
him being a part of what I do another
example is even more personal there’s
somebody in my extended family who who
is a little man everything she’s
complaining about is negative is is
another drain on you and doesn’t support
anything that you do and became dishes
and personal and degrading and doing
things that I would you know never
imagine people doing other people
especially in your family and so I
decided to eliminate her from my day to
day life and and I haven’t seen her in
years and again I’ve been able to you
know I have much higher self-confidence
and self-esteem because I’m not around
negative people and that may be hard for
you you know especially if they’re close
family you know if it’s your parents how
do you tell your parents I’m not talking
to you because you don’t support my
dream and I think it’s important to try
to explain how important this is for you
that this is your life that you’re
trying to do something to change the
world to make it better this is really
important to you and you really want
their support because you can’t do great
things if the people around you’re just
trying to tear you down so if you can’t
eliminate somebody from your life which
is the ideal scenario then at least
limit your exposure on top of that you
want to create an environment that
supports you that’s number two create an
environment that supports you you want
to create a routine you want to be
surrounded by people who
you up you want to consume stories and
media and and information that builds
you up they give you ideas that give you
energy it’s hard enough to follow your
dreams when you have great people around
you forget about when you have people
trying to tear you down around you but
you want to still have an environment as
much as possible that builds you up so
think about who your friends are think
about the people who you hang out with
do they help build you up think about
the books that you read the TV shows
that you watch the videos that you
consume the newspapers or websites or
whatever it is that you read are you
surrounded by things that build you up
to give you energy they give you
creativity if not then change your
surroundings this is entirely in your
control
you can create whatever world you want
your daily routine what’s the first
thing that you do when you wake up every
day how do you spend that first hour of
your day is it doing something that
supports you that builds you up that
gives you momentum that gives you energy
or is it something that just is just
average because again if you’re just
being average you’re not gonna be able
to do something great so create that
environment think about who your friends
are think about the music to listen to
the books you read the shows you watch
stop voice and time on Facebook and
stupid YouTube videos and start
consuming stuff that builds you up that
makes you a better entrepreneur that
gives you the confidence to say I can do
this one of the things that helped me
the most was reading stories of famous
entrepreneurs famous successful
entrepreneurs you look at how they got
started and it was with nothing most of
them with nothing they didn’t have
family background they didn’t have a
angel investor a venture capitalist
dumping millions into them they started
with nothing they’re often who were
broken and ran out of money but they
believed in themselves they had people
around them who tried to tear them down
and tell them why it’s not gonna work
out but they believed in themselves and
reading those stories makes me feel like
I could do the same thing right Walt
Disney had to go through all of that
crap in his life to become successful I
could do the same thing you could be the
next Walt Disney but you have to create
that routine in that environment that
builds you up and ignore the little man
believed for those of you watching like
the video support me by clicking on the
link in the description leave a comment
let me know what you think and click on
my face subscribe to the channel thank
you so much I’ll see you soon
haters so I got a great comment that
came in front of my newsletter readers
love you guys I DT who wrote in the say
how do you deal with the doubters and
haters how do you keep yourself esteem
high despite all the criticism this is a
great question too DT and I call these
people the little man you know the
people who don’t believe when your idea
who just tell you all the reasons why
something’s not gonna work and try to
tear you down the fact is everybody has
the little man in their life everybody
has and when you’re trying to chase your
dream when you’re trying to do something
big you’re trying to do something
important you’re trying to do something
that maybe nobody and your family has
ever done before it’s outside the norm
then at the start you’re not gonna have
all the answers right it’s a dream
you’re trying to figure it out you’re
making corrections as you go but it’s
not gonna be perfect you’re gonna make
mistakes
there’s gonna be holes in your plan and
the little man is a person who sees all
those holes all those things that you
don’t have the knowledge of yet and
tells you well here’s all the reasons
why it’s not gonna work out where your
real friends are the people who will see
those holes and give you support either
in a form of a solution here’s what you
can do here’s the problem you’re gonna
face and here’s how you can handle it or
just boosting your confidence saying I
believe in you it’s gonna work out you
can do this they don’t have to agree
with you okay they don’t have to
necessarily think that even what you’re
doing is right but if it’s your dream
and you want to see this thing through
then your real friends would be the
people who support you no matter what
now it can be hard to eliminate the
people in your life who don’t support
you because sometimes are really close
but strategy number one is say goodbye
to the little man now if it’s somebody
who’s not that close to you it’s easy
right to stop talking to somebody who’s
an acquaintance is easy what do you do
when it’s somebody closer to you so I
want to share two examples from my my my
story the first is there’s a company I
work with it’s run by two people
business partners and
one guy is the little man and this is
how I came up with the name little man
and I showed him some of my stuff and
he’s hating on it and he’s hurling
insults at me and not telling me how to
make it better and it got to the point
where like this guy that the the emails
going back and and this guy’s just a
drain
he’s a drain on my life force and I
can’t be around him anymore now his
business partner I love he does great by
me he’s an awesome individual if he was
stuck in a problem and he said Evan I
really need your help
I would hop on a plane and fly to him to
help him out but I have no time for his
business partner and I’ve eliminated him
from my life and I’m much happier and
able to do much greater things without
him being a part of what I do another
example is even more personal there’s
somebody in my extended family who who
is a little man everything she’s
complaining about is negative is is
another drain on you and doesn’t support
anything that you do and became dishes
and personal and degrading and doing
things that I would you know never
imagine people doing other people
especially in your family and so I
decided to eliminate her from my day to
day life and and I haven’t seen her in
years and again I’ve been able to you
know I have much higher self-confidence
and self-esteem because I’m not around
negative people and that may be hard for
you you know especially if they’re close
family you know if it’s your parents how
do you tell your parents I’m not talking
to you because you don’t support my
dream and I think it’s important to try
to explain how important this is for you
that this is your life that you’re
trying to do something to change the
world to make it better this is really
important to you and you really want
their support because you can’t do great
things if the people around you’re just
trying to tear you down so if you can’t
eliminate somebody from your life which
is the ideal scenario then at least
limit your exposure on top of that you
want to create an environment that
supports you that’s number two create an
environment that supports you you want
to create a routine you want to be
surrounded by people who
you up you want to consume stories and
media and and information that builds
you up they give you ideas that give you
energy it’s hard enough to follow your
dreams when you have great people around
you forget about when you have people
trying to tear you down around you but
you want to still have an environment as
much as possible that builds you up so
think about who your friends are think
about the people who you hang out with
do they help build you up think about
the books that you read the TV shows
that you watch the videos that you
consume the newspapers or websites or
whatever it is that you read are you
surrounded by things that build you up
to give you energy they give you
creativity if not then change your
surroundings this is entirely in your
control
you can create whatever world you want
your daily routine what’s the first
thing that you do when you wake up every
day how do you spend that first hour of
your day is it doing something that
supports you that builds you up that
gives you momentum that gives you energy
or is it something that just is just
average because again if you’re just
being average you’re not gonna be able
to do something great so create that
environment think about who your friends
are think about the music to listen to
the books you read the shows you watch
stop voice and time on Facebook and
stupid YouTube videos and start
consuming stuff that builds you up that
makes you a better entrepreneur that
gives you the confidence to say I can do
this one of the things that helped me
the most was reading stories of famous
entrepreneurs famous successful
entrepreneurs you look at how they got
started and it was with nothing most of
them with nothing they didn’t have
family background they didn’t have a
angel investor a venture capitalist
dumping millions into them they started
with nothing they’re often who were
broken and ran out of money but they
believed in themselves they had people
around them who tried to tear them down
and tell them why it’s not gonna work
out but they believed in themselves and
reading those stories makes me feel like
I could do the same thing right Walt
Disney had to go through all of that
crap in his life to become successful I
could do the same thing you could be the
next Walt Disney but you have to create
that routine in that environment that
builds you up and ignore the little man
believed for those of you watching like
the video support me by clicking on the
link in the description leave a comment
let me know what you think and click on
my face subscribe to the channel thank
you so much I’ll see you soon
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