good morning believe nation today’s
message is follow your own dreams over
to you PewDiePie follow your own goddamn
dreams not what your mom wants you to do
what your dad wants you to do not what
you think you should be doing but doing
what you want to do more than anything
it’s I it’s been said so many times
before but really if you don’t make your
own decisions in life someone else is
going to make them for you and it by the
end of it you won’t be happy you might
as well do what it is you want to do so
I think somewhere along the line in
everyone’s life you have to make the
decision at some point whether you are
living your version of your life or
someone else’s version of your life
because along the way people are always
going to have opinions on what you
should and shouldn’t do they’re going to
have opinions and what careers you take
have opinions on what school you should
go to have opinions on what does it
start that business or not to move to
that country or not have opinions on
what color socks you’re going to wear
today people will have opinions on
everything and if all you do is live
your life according to other people’s
opinions and expectations you are never
going to get to the point where one
you’re happy and two you’re actually
doing the thing that you can be great at
not going to happen now in the early
days of being a human being you listen
to your parents right you go to the
classes in schools that they send you to
when you listen to them and hopefully
you’re a little bit respectful as well
but as you get older at some point you
need to realize that you’re an adult
human being and you need to make
decisions and take accountability for
your life as well if you are not where
you want to be if you are in the wrong
major if you’re taking the wrong classes
if you’re in the wrong business or wrong
career it’s not your parents fault it’s
not your friends fault it’s not your
advisers false it’s your own fault you
that’s it it’s your fault you are where
you
are because of you period you can’t
blame other people for your decisions
for the rest of your life so if you want
to break free you have to take that
responsibility and start doing something
about it I find you’re going to have two
kinds of people who will be the haters
in your life the people who will give
you the bad advice the wrong advice the
unsupportive advice the first group is
going to be the people who are jealous
of you the people are just nasty people
haters is a little man and they tell you
all the reasons why you can’t do the
same that you want to do you want to go
and start that business and they tell
you how you don’t have the education the
connections and the money and the
resources and you’ve never done this
before who are you to think you can go
and do that and nobody from this town is
ever going on done something that big
all of those people and often if you
look at their life it’s really just
based out of fear insecurity and
jealousy maybe at one point they took a
big shot they tried to follow their
dream they tried to do something
important and it didn’t work out and
because they didn’t have success now
nobody around them cannot success now
every idea everybody tries to do
something on their own that’s a bad idea
and they need to be the anchor for
everybody around them right you’re
trying to rise up and they want to pull
you back down they’re going to be that
anchor around you and those are the
easier people actually to ignore their
words may sting they may be more
visceral and more angry with you but
recognizing that they haven’t done the
thing that you want to do makes it
easier it’s now the second group who are
the people who are doing it out of love
they’re not doing it out of fear and
jealousy they’re doing it out of love
you know your parents may tell you not
to go and start that business not to go
and chase that dream of yours your
closest friends may tell you that’s
really risky don’t go and do that and
they’re doing it out of love because
they care about you it’s not that
they’re jealous or they hate you they
love you the challenge is they see
success success through their eyes
through their narrow limited view right
and success maybe go and get a safe
secure a job go out and be a doctor
being accounting or your lawyer go out
and do the safe thing or
do what I did right I went and I did
this and I had success so you should
follow in my footsteps because that’s
what success looks like and the way to
break through is understanding that your
version of success does not look like
there and what really helps to think
about these people that are giving me
advice I parents of people around me the
haters these people were throwing
opinions on me we’re telling me all
these things that I should be doing that
I’m not have they done what you want to
do have they gone where you want to go
and if the answer is no then who are
they to give you advice how can they
tell you what to do if they’ve never
done what you want to do if anything you
want to take the opposite of their
advice I don’t want your life and so I’m
going to go this way and do the opposite
of what you’re telling me now you don’t
have to be mean and rude and in their
face about it especially what’s coming
from a place of love from them but in
your head that’s what you’re thinking
these people have not done what I’m
trying to do you don’t know how to give
me the advice to help me get there I
need to find different mentors different
guides a different path that is
different from what they’re telling me
and if you shrink down and you don’t
accept that and you say you know what
you guys are right because you’re afraid
to send up to them then you’re never
ever ever ever going to reach your
potential never you’re never going to be
fully happy you’re always going to
wonder what if you’re always going to
think that you could be doing more and
the longer you stay on that path the
more boxed in and boxed in and boxing
you’re going to get and you’ve built a
life for yourself where it’s okay to
shrink down where it’s okay to play the
smaller game and just live inside this
box where every time you get challenged
by anybody you’ve conditioned yourself
to shrink down and just accept that
that’s the way life is and you’re now
going to teach this to others you’re
going to teach this to your friend
you’re going to teach it to your kids
you’re going to teach playing small and
limited thinking on to the next
generation to your kids and I want that
cycle of media
created to stop with you I want you to
practice being bold I want you to
practice listening to yourself
understanding what you’re all about what
your dreams are when you have an idea
you start you go for it you push it
forward I want you to be a source of
inspiration for the people around you
well you don’t need to yell at them and
show them off and tell them how they’re
wrong you’re just going to go and do
your thing and you may fail in nearly
days but if you stick out a new for
severe you’re going to have success and
that will be an inspiration to the
people around his head look what he’s
doing look what she’s doing huh I can do
something too that’s what I want for you
and I hope you want it for yourself to
believe so the question of a today is
I’m curious what was the hardest part
about living your own dreams what was
the hardest part leave in the comments
below I’m going to join in the
discussion I also want to give a quick
shout out to Ronaldo Espinoza from
self-built Empire com thank you so much
for picking up a copy of my book your
one word really really really means a
lot to me so thank you guys again for
watching I believe in you I hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one where it is much love
and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning
for another shot events presto hey
believe nation we’re also looking at
doing a top ten on cutie pie and here is
a sneak peek at some of the clips that
we’re thinking about using I hope you
enjoy the bonus see how many spoons you
can balance on your face what’s the time
of this my job is so easy I can really
do what I feel like and kind of amazing
just the fact that I can play video
games for a living that when I realized
that for the first time like I was
almost getting Carrie I like it was my
dream has come true all the time a
defining myself I know
be happy not to be number one I would
like what i’m just a nerd to play
through the games i don’t i didn’t seek
the spotlight your parents will tell you
you can be whatever you want to be in
life which is true but what a lot of
times they don’t tell you is that you
have to work really hard to get there
and another thing maybe more importantly
is that you have to take risk you have
to win venture into the unknown and you
might not know what’s going to happen
and that’s scary but i think it’s always
better to try the not trying no matter
what except men not not even one
message is follow your own dreams over
to you PewDiePie follow your own goddamn
dreams not what your mom wants you to do
what your dad wants you to do not what
you think you should be doing but doing
what you want to do more than anything
it’s I it’s been said so many times
before but really if you don’t make your
own decisions in life someone else is
going to make them for you and it by the
end of it you won’t be happy you might
as well do what it is you want to do so
I think somewhere along the line in
everyone’s life you have to make the
decision at some point whether you are
living your version of your life or
someone else’s version of your life
because along the way people are always
going to have opinions on what you
should and shouldn’t do they’re going to
have opinions and what careers you take
have opinions on what school you should
go to have opinions on what does it
start that business or not to move to
that country or not have opinions on
what color socks you’re going to wear
today people will have opinions on
everything and if all you do is live
your life according to other people’s
opinions and expectations you are never
going to get to the point where one
you’re happy and two you’re actually
doing the thing that you can be great at
not going to happen now in the early
days of being a human being you listen
to your parents right you go to the
classes in schools that they send you to
when you listen to them and hopefully
you’re a little bit respectful as well
but as you get older at some point you
need to realize that you’re an adult
human being and you need to make
decisions and take accountability for
your life as well if you are not where
you want to be if you are in the wrong
major if you’re taking the wrong classes
if you’re in the wrong business or wrong
career it’s not your parents fault it’s
not your friends fault it’s not your
advisers false it’s your own fault you
that’s it it’s your fault you are where
you
are because of you period you can’t
blame other people for your decisions
for the rest of your life so if you want
to break free you have to take that
responsibility and start doing something
about it I find you’re going to have two
kinds of people who will be the haters
in your life the people who will give
you the bad advice the wrong advice the
unsupportive advice the first group is
going to be the people who are jealous
of you the people are just nasty people
haters is a little man and they tell you
all the reasons why you can’t do the
same that you want to do you want to go
and start that business and they tell
you how you don’t have the education the
connections and the money and the
resources and you’ve never done this
before who are you to think you can go
and do that and nobody from this town is
ever going on done something that big
all of those people and often if you
look at their life it’s really just
based out of fear insecurity and
jealousy maybe at one point they took a
big shot they tried to follow their
dream they tried to do something
important and it didn’t work out and
because they didn’t have success now
nobody around them cannot success now
every idea everybody tries to do
something on their own that’s a bad idea
and they need to be the anchor for
everybody around them right you’re
trying to rise up and they want to pull
you back down they’re going to be that
anchor around you and those are the
easier people actually to ignore their
words may sting they may be more
visceral and more angry with you but
recognizing that they haven’t done the
thing that you want to do makes it
easier it’s now the second group who are
the people who are doing it out of love
they’re not doing it out of fear and
jealousy they’re doing it out of love
you know your parents may tell you not
to go and start that business not to go
and chase that dream of yours your
closest friends may tell you that’s
really risky don’t go and do that and
they’re doing it out of love because
they care about you it’s not that
they’re jealous or they hate you they
love you the challenge is they see
success success through their eyes
through their narrow limited view right
and success maybe go and get a safe
secure a job go out and be a doctor
being accounting or your lawyer go out
and do the safe thing or
do what I did right I went and I did
this and I had success so you should
follow in my footsteps because that’s
what success looks like and the way to
break through is understanding that your
version of success does not look like
there and what really helps to think
about these people that are giving me
advice I parents of people around me the
haters these people were throwing
opinions on me we’re telling me all
these things that I should be doing that
I’m not have they done what you want to
do have they gone where you want to go
and if the answer is no then who are
they to give you advice how can they
tell you what to do if they’ve never
done what you want to do if anything you
want to take the opposite of their
advice I don’t want your life and so I’m
going to go this way and do the opposite
of what you’re telling me now you don’t
have to be mean and rude and in their
face about it especially what’s coming
from a place of love from them but in
your head that’s what you’re thinking
these people have not done what I’m
trying to do you don’t know how to give
me the advice to help me get there I
need to find different mentors different
guides a different path that is
different from what they’re telling me
and if you shrink down and you don’t
accept that and you say you know what
you guys are right because you’re afraid
to send up to them then you’re never
ever ever ever going to reach your
potential never you’re never going to be
fully happy you’re always going to
wonder what if you’re always going to
think that you could be doing more and
the longer you stay on that path the
more boxed in and boxed in and boxing
you’re going to get and you’ve built a
life for yourself where it’s okay to
shrink down where it’s okay to play the
smaller game and just live inside this
box where every time you get challenged
by anybody you’ve conditioned yourself
to shrink down and just accept that
that’s the way life is and you’re now
going to teach this to others you’re
going to teach this to your friend
you’re going to teach it to your kids
you’re going to teach playing small and
limited thinking on to the next
generation to your kids and I want that
cycle of media
created to stop with you I want you to
practice being bold I want you to
practice listening to yourself
understanding what you’re all about what
your dreams are when you have an idea
you start you go for it you push it
forward I want you to be a source of
inspiration for the people around you
well you don’t need to yell at them and
show them off and tell them how they’re
wrong you’re just going to go and do
your thing and you may fail in nearly
days but if you stick out a new for
severe you’re going to have success and
that will be an inspiration to the
people around his head look what he’s
doing look what she’s doing huh I can do
something too that’s what I want for you
and I hope you want it for yourself to
believe so the question of a today is
I’m curious what was the hardest part
about living your own dreams what was
the hardest part leave in the comments
below I’m going to join in the
discussion I also want to give a quick
shout out to Ronaldo Espinoza from
self-built Empire com thank you so much
for picking up a copy of my book your
one word really really really means a
lot to me so thank you guys again for
watching I believe in you I hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one where it is much love
and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning
for another shot events presto hey
believe nation we’re also looking at
doing a top ten on cutie pie and here is
a sneak peek at some of the clips that
we’re thinking about using I hope you
enjoy the bonus see how many spoons you
can balance on your face what’s the time
of this my job is so easy I can really
do what I feel like and kind of amazing
just the fact that I can play video
games for a living that when I realized
that for the first time like I was
almost getting Carrie I like it was my
dream has come true all the time a
defining myself I know
be happy not to be number one I would
like what i’m just a nerd to play
through the games i don’t i didn’t seek
the spotlight your parents will tell you
you can be whatever you want to be in
life which is true but what a lot of
times they don’t tell you is that you
have to work really hard to get there
and another thing maybe more importantly
is that you have to take risk you have
to win venture into the unknown and you
might not know what’s going to happen
and that’s scary but i think it’s always
better to try the not trying no matter
what except men not not even one
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