[Music]
your goal your outcomes in life are
nothing but compounded habits there’s a
bunch of things you perfectly know well
that you could stop doing that would
improve your life sometimes we need that
you know we need me to say it or not
maybe a new before you even started this
video but there were some things you
need to cut from life maybe some things
overall break habits that are not
helping you become a stronger version of
yourself you should you see them you
know they’re there be honest about it if
it’s if it’s if it’s taking you off
track
just get rid of it if you want to have
more you have to become more so for
things to change you’ve got to change
for things that get better you’ve got to
get better and when you improve
everything and all your results improve
around you
if you want to change the world start
off by making your bed but you make your
bed every morning you will have
accomplished the first task of the day
it will give you a small sense of pride
and it will encourage you to do another
task and another and another the little
things in life matter if you can’t do
the little things right you’ll never be
able to do the big things right
[Music]
and if you want to sort out the world
and what you do is you sort yourself out
it’s a serious business right they say
it’s more difficult to rule yourself
than to rule the city you can change the
behavior that you want to and with that
you can change your life changing
behavior is a skill and it’s something
that you can learn to do you can get
better at creating new habits
you have to be willing to start and for
people that procrastinate starting is
the hardest part for pain
people that think too big starting is
the hardest part if for 10 years if you
didn’t avoid doing what you knew you
needed to do by your own definitions
right within the value structure that
you’ve created to the degree that you’ve
done that what would you be like you are
responsible for your life and if you’re
sitting around waiting on somebody to
save you to fix you to even help you you
are wasting your time because only you
have the power to take responsibility to
move your life forward you can create
yourself in fact no one else is going to
create you
everybody has to start somewhere starts
with you taking responsibility for you
and saying hey I got to go out and get
one little skill at a time the kids to
slowly grow your mini habits into full
habits make up your mind you’re gonna do
it every day every day every day until
you don’t have to think about it and
then you’ll automatically do it you can
achieve great things by procrastinating
more and more the only the way to get
what you really want to like is to stop
procrastinating and start taking action
you can change that you can change
anything you want start each day with a
task completed find someone to help you
through life we respect everyone know
the life is not fair and that you will
fail often but if you take some risks
step up on the time through the toughest
face down the bullies lift up the
downtrodden and never ever give up
it’s the repeated pushing yourself a
little bit harder like taking a little
bit more risk that’s how big things
happen it’s a thousand small steps and
if you are watching television all the
time and you’re playing video games and
you’re stuck at home and you’re not
really living in a rich and full life
that’s also not anything to do with the
media or society or the fact that you’re
tired after work no that’s that’s you
you’re responsible for that so take full
responsibility so if you don’t like what
you’re experiencing and what you’re
producing as results in your life you
have to change your mental your visual
and your behavioral responses to the
events that occur in your life remember
this nothing will change for the better
until you do
there is time you got time we don’t
think that we have time because we’re
impatient in our world today you got
time if you’re in the wrong thing get
out of the wrong thing cuz you got time
to find things quit the wrong thing now
you know what it’s not right it’s just
hard to admit it sometimes it’s true
make a decision decide clearly that you
are going to begin acting in a specific
way 100% of the time whenever that
behavior is required I’m about to change
your life because this piece of research
changed my
procrastination has nothing to do with
work
[Music]
procrastination is a form of stress
relief
[Music]
what are you stressed about
the research on procrastination is
undeniable it’s black and white number
one all of you that procrastinate
procrastination is not the issue with
stress you’re procrastinating to give
yourself a little break at work it’s
sort of like taking a smoking break
almost you know you’re just taking a
break so number one because you’re all
stressed out and procrastinators are
very hard on yourselves this is gonna
sound super stupid but you gotta forgive
yourself you have got to actually have a
talk with yourself where were you
feeling yourself starting procrastinate
you go look you know I really screwed up
I know I’m in a mess financially I
forgive myself I’m just gonna do the
best that I can
so that self-awareness of knowing oh my
god here’s that stress again about
finances screwing me over and preventing
me from doing the small things that will
actually fix my finances second thing
that you’re gonna do procrastination to
have it right you get triggered by
stress the habit is to progression so
when you get triggered by stress your
new habit is oh there’s my stress again
I’m gonna actually tell myself okay
you’ve done the best you can it’s okay
we’re gonna do a little bit today you’re
gonna create what we call starting
ritual starting ritual is something that
pushes you to start the best one on the
planet at five seconds so you’ve said
okay there’s my stress again I forget
myself now we’re gonna five four three
two one
I want you to only work for five minutes
that’s it five minutes make phone calls
for five minutes here’s what we know
based on the research eighty percent of
you will keep going the trick is
starting you see I want to break the
connection between the trigger which is
stress and the response which is
procrastination and whenever you feel
stressed which is normal you have a
choice here’s that gap in five seconds
flat the habit of procrastinating and
beating yourself up the table
or you can close the gap five four three
two one and you can make a different
choice
just let me start I’m just gonna be okay
with where I’m at and I’m just gonna get
started got it
get started getting started is
absolutely the key to life all in you
have to be all in him is the hardest
thing to do because if it fails then you
can feel like a failure do the things
that will help you to someday be the
person that you want to become the
little things in life matter if you
can’t do the little things right you’ll
never be able to do the big things right
remember no matter what it is you’re
doing in life no matter what it is
you’re working towards that you are
choosing to do that who you are right
now today is not who you have to be
tomorrow
you can literally change your life in
under one second success is a result of
small seemingly insignificant moments
the moment choices people that are
knowledgeable about habits
say that it takes 30 days for a habit to
become a happy now habits can be good
and habits can be bad and so over a
period of time you need to be developing
habits they’re going to help you can be
developing habits that are going to hurt
you people that grow develop habits that
help them habits are the expressions of
who we are and how we live and they
determine all your results so this is
ultimately what we want to change is
changing your habits
you don’t stop or not start because of
what you don’t have you don’t start
because you don’t realize yet that the
fruit of everything good in life begins
with the challenge success is earned one
day at a time every day you lift your
head up off the pillow you’re gonna
decide whether that day you are a
success or whether you are a failure
what you want to be tomorrow you’ve got
to do today it’s not how much you have
it’s what you do
with what you have
[Music]
pod work works working really hard is
what successful people do your habits
determine what direction you go your
success in life your results in life are
in direct proportion to your habits not
what you say you’re gonna do but what
are you gonna do you’ve got to develop
successful habits and I believe that
starts with being a daily goal setter
and a daily goal pillar
what you want to be tomorrow you’ve
gotta do to them
you’ve gotta choose to be effective know
what your priorities are know what your
must dues are don’t let your phone
don’t let your you know your tablet
don’t let the TV don’t let your friends
knock you off what are the most
important things to get done today
you’re not stuck you’re not a victim you
were sitting there and complaining that
you’re not winning or life is unfair or
the man is holding you down but if you
complain well then you need to look at
what you’re spending your time on
because if you complain
you’re not gonna completely await a more
talent but if you complain and you watch
us and an unearth something maybe you
will play six hours less a week of video
games the one thing you can control I
feel is time get up today and get it
done finish the day the day and go
change your life you can read books find
someone to mentor and disciple you you
can set some goals take the incremental
steps to get there and in 10 years
double triple or quadruple your income
and do it in a field that you love
that you are not stuck and don’t you let
liberals tell you you’re stuck the one
thing a light that you can control is
your effort and if you’re willing to put
in an effort to start the business and
you’re willing to deal with the
challenges and the fact that you might
start you might have to live like a
student you might have to go to a lot of
downtime but if you’re willing to fight
through those via your effort and
putting in you know using your brain
power than anything is possible and
there’s no reason to campaign you never
noticed how hard it is to just get
started
how hard it is to get to the gym how
hard it is to get out of bed how hard it
is to put down the bottle when you go to
for a second drink and you learn the
shouldn’t that feeling how hard it is to
get started you need activation energy
to start the chain to start to sit down
to start to get out of bed to start to
walk out the door that’s the key to
creating any kind of change this
activation energy inside of you that
causes the initial boom and then what
are we hear over time once you start
there’s a chain reaction and that allows
you to keep going getting uncomfortable
the super power number one because the
minute you actually start any journey
you’re putting yourself in an
uncomfortable situation because you want
to achieve something that you
and the only way to achieve something
that you don’t have is to get
uncomfortable
the biggest reason that people don’t
grow and they don’t self actualize is
simply that they don’t train it’s that
simple
training is required for success in any
area of life it doesn’t matter what the
area is as long as they’re making
progress or not perfect
nobody is nobody is a hundred percent of
anything but as long as you’re making
progress that’s the most important thing
finish what you started do well with it
next time when you try to do the same
thing it’ll be easier and every day that
you do a normal work day will also be
easier because you’ve got one more
successful day on their day people spend
two hours a day on Facebook then you
talk about a colossal freakin waste of
time
if you just stayed off social media
completely or virtually the ball most
completely and you turned off your
television you can make a pretty good
living with that time people ask me how
I read so many books a year I’d still
watch a lot of TV anymore
and I’m not mad about television I don’t
think the Devils in there although we
probably is having a pretty good time
there but it’s not like it’s something
like that’s not like a spiritual thing
it’s just a matter of what do I want to
spend my time on that gives me my best
life you set goals to grow you set goals
to reach inside stretch and go where
you’ve never been you set goals to take
it to a place you’ve never gone before
and you grow as a human being and you
know something you never go back
you know life is a rollercoaster ride
for everybody it has its ups and it’s
downs but if everything goes well you’ll
have more ups and downs and you’ll
remember the ups more than you remember
the downs but it’s the fact of the
matter that everybody no matter if
you’re a big artist successful artist or
a successful businessman everybody works
hard to get somewhere get up every day
and say today I will be in the right
place I will talk to the right people I
will make the right thing happen in my
life I’m here to tell you if you’re big
enough for your dreams your dreams
aren’t big enough for you you should see
great things happening sometimes things
don’t work out that is a fact of life
but I can guarantee you one thing if all
you do is go through life expecting the
worst usually that’s what’s going to
happen have anticipation be excited and
get up every day and think big thoughts
dream big dreams and have an amazing
life
[Music]
everyone needs to know that that you got
it you got to read to get better you got
you gotta set a goal into the distance
and break the goal down into manageable
parts that you take and step through as
you climb the ladder to get to the top
of the house is one step at a time you
don’t get to skip a step and you walk
through steps to get to where you’re
going if you want to lose weight if you
want a great marriage there are elements
to that and you need to define that what
it looks like very very clearly and then
and then read about and study people and
find other people who are doing better
than you at whatever it is you want to
do when you wake up tomorrow the canvas
of your life is blank you can paint a
completely different picture tomorrow
than you ever painted before your past
does not equal your future you can hit
the reset button to your life at any
time I want to suggest that you hit it
today the secret of success is
determined by your daily agenda what you
want to be tomorrow you’ve got to do
today life goals yearly goals monthly
goals daily goals and understand
that to achieve these goals you must
apply discipline and consistency in
order to achieve your goals you must
apply discipline which you were already
done and consistency every day now I
just want to lose day and this a few
days you have to work at it every day
you have to plan working really hard is
what successful people do your
footprints to success are really
footprints of success because every step
that is made and taken based upon the
goals that you have for your life every
step is the progressive realization of
success in your life good habits are
hard to form and easy to live with
bad habits are easy to form but hard to
live with so the rule is form good
habits and make them your masters habits
come down to one golden rule and that’s
this you can never change the things
that trigger you you can’t control your
urges or how you might feel but you can
always choose how you behave if you want
to break a habit once you have a habit
it’s always going to be encoded in your
brain the only way that you can break it
is to replace it with new behavior this
means when you go to sleep at night
think about your goals for the coming
day make a list for each day of all the
goals the little goals you’re going to
accomplish
that day keep a journal and write down
your goals on a regular basis you see
you do become what you think about most
of the time you do achieve what you
think about most of the time so all
successful people and all wealthy people
think about their goals most of the time
the things that get scheduled are the
things that get done and vague goals
lead to beg results never notice how
hard it is to just get started how hard
it is to get to the gym how hard it is
to get out of bed you need activation
energy to start the chain to start to
sit down to start to get out of bed to
start to walk out the door that’s the
key to creating any kind of change this
activation energy inside of you that
causes the initial goal and then what do
we hear over time once you start there’s
a chain reaction and that allows you to
keep going Chuck this ism is the ability
to make yourself do what you should do
when you should do it whether you feel
like it or not you see anybody can do it
if they feel like it it’s when you don’t
feel like it and you do it anyway that
you eventually develop the
self-discipline that makes everything
else possible
discipline is not punishment it’s not
discipline is training if you change
your mind your mindset and really focus
it on what discipline really is you
start to welcome discipline you welcome
self discipline into your life you’re
not only gonna blow up the system in
your head and the tricks that your brain
uses to stop you right now you’re going
to shake up your entire life discipline
is your best friend it will take care of
you like nothing else can remember just
because you’re doing a lot more doesn’t
mean you’re getting a lot more done
don’t confuse movement with progress
when you do live in a world where there
is such a fascination with entertainment
you know and everyone loves pretty
pictures and it’s really easy to spend
the bestower of your best days looking
at what your friends are feeding and I’m
suggesting to you you think like a
student because you’re watching this
mastery session because something deep
within you wants you to be the master of
your game and here’s the thing about
every master
every master thinks like a beginner
they’re always learning anything you
want good you can have
so claim it work hard to get it
don’t just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference make today
count if you want to have more you have
to become more success is something you
attract by the person you’ve become so
for things to change you’ve got to
change but these to get better you’ve
got to get better and when you improve
everything and all your results improve
around you
we overestimate what we can do in a day
and we underestimate what we could do in
several things doing a little bit every
day is a lot more important than doing a
lot some day
[Music]
get started
Diddy’s started is absolutely the key to
life
it takes courage to be successful it is
far easier not to be successful misery
will always have company success breeds
contempt if you don’t want to make waves
be mediocre be normal and fit in it
takes courage to be different it takes
courage to go where you’ve never gone
before
it takes courage to get you out it takes
courage to be successful it takes
courage to win 30 40 50 60 70 there’s
something Baldessari that’s still
kicking
that was time
there’s something in you that needs to
be fed that needs to be started that
needs to be electrified
[Applause]
life has a way of pushing our dreams
down they can become buried under
discouragement buried under past
mistakes there are dreams buried under
divorce buried under low self-esteem
it’s easy to settle for mediocrity even
though we have all this potential buried
on the inside the good news is it’s
still alive it’s not too late to see it
come to pass the key to reaching your
destiny is you have to remember your
dream sometimes people will try to put
us in a box tell us things like you
can’t start that business you don’t have
the resources you’ll never afford a nice
place to live never get well never meet
the right person because their thinking
is limited they’ll try to put their
limitations on you you have to put your
foot down and say I refuse to be
mediocre because people around me are
mediocre
it starts in our thinking nothing will
change until you make up your mind you
are not going to accept mediocrity learn
to say Q to the world every once in a
while you have every right to Jesus
thinking whirring looking over your
shoulder wondering doubting fear is
hurting hoping for some easy way out to
try the most outrageous things you can
shock yourself you have at your power
the ability to do anything
[Music]
I’d rather try and sale did not
[Applause]
water happened had I done more
right
[Applause]
my
stop looking for the quick fix for
success happiness and wealth there’s no
shortcut
there’s no cliff notes there’s no quick
fix success is a result of small
seemingly insignificant moment to moment
choices
[Music]
don’t take today wait
don’t give in to the immediate
gratification that is here
shut that do not listen to that little
use instead go through the motions lift
the weights sprint the hill work on the
project get out of bed do you have the
courage tonight outwardly on what you
see in wordly
or will you God reamer will you bow on
the verge and on the edge and in the
land of cut up water and sugar
completely more didn’t think anymore
don’t plan anymore don’t contemplate
anymore don’t make any more excuses or
justifications don’t rationalize
anything else no no and no hard work
works working really hard is what
successful people do anyone taking
initiative will always get criticized
for moving too fast because there’s
always someone who wants to slow you
down
don’t just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference
[Music]
your goal your outcomes in life are
nothing but compounded habits there’s a
bunch of things you perfectly know well
that you could stop doing that would
improve your life sometimes we need that
you know we need me to say it or not
maybe a new before you even started this
video but there were some things you
need to cut from life maybe some things
overall break habits that are not
helping you become a stronger version of
yourself you should you see them you
know they’re there be honest about it if
it’s if it’s if it’s taking you off
track
just get rid of it if you want to have
more you have to become more so for
things to change you’ve got to change
for things that get better you’ve got to
get better and when you improve
everything and all your results improve
around you
if you want to change the world start
off by making your bed but you make your
bed every morning you will have
accomplished the first task of the day
it will give you a small sense of pride
and it will encourage you to do another
task and another and another the little
things in life matter if you can’t do
the little things right you’ll never be
able to do the big things right
[Music]
and if you want to sort out the world
and what you do is you sort yourself out
it’s a serious business right they say
it’s more difficult to rule yourself
than to rule the city you can change the
behavior that you want to and with that
you can change your life changing
behavior is a skill and it’s something
that you can learn to do you can get
better at creating new habits
you have to be willing to start and for
people that procrastinate starting is
the hardest part for pain
people that think too big starting is
the hardest part if for 10 years if you
didn’t avoid doing what you knew you
needed to do by your own definitions
right within the value structure that
you’ve created to the degree that you’ve
done that what would you be like you are
responsible for your life and if you’re
sitting around waiting on somebody to
save you to fix you to even help you you
are wasting your time because only you
have the power to take responsibility to
move your life forward you can create
yourself in fact no one else is going to
create you
everybody has to start somewhere starts
with you taking responsibility for you
and saying hey I got to go out and get
one little skill at a time the kids to
slowly grow your mini habits into full
habits make up your mind you’re gonna do
it every day every day every day until
you don’t have to think about it and
then you’ll automatically do it you can
achieve great things by procrastinating
more and more the only the way to get
what you really want to like is to stop
procrastinating and start taking action
you can change that you can change
anything you want start each day with a
task completed find someone to help you
through life we respect everyone know
the life is not fair and that you will
fail often but if you take some risks
step up on the time through the toughest
face down the bullies lift up the
downtrodden and never ever give up
it’s the repeated pushing yourself a
little bit harder like taking a little
bit more risk that’s how big things
happen it’s a thousand small steps and
if you are watching television all the
time and you’re playing video games and
you’re stuck at home and you’re not
really living in a rich and full life
that’s also not anything to do with the
media or society or the fact that you’re
tired after work no that’s that’s you
you’re responsible for that so take full
responsibility so if you don’t like what
you’re experiencing and what you’re
producing as results in your life you
have to change your mental your visual
and your behavioral responses to the
events that occur in your life remember
this nothing will change for the better
until you do
there is time you got time we don’t
think that we have time because we’re
impatient in our world today you got
time if you’re in the wrong thing get
out of the wrong thing cuz you got time
to find things quit the wrong thing now
you know what it’s not right it’s just
hard to admit it sometimes it’s true
make a decision decide clearly that you
are going to begin acting in a specific
way 100% of the time whenever that
behavior is required I’m about to change
your life because this piece of research
changed my
procrastination has nothing to do with
work
[Music]
procrastination is a form of stress
relief
[Music]
what are you stressed about
the research on procrastination is
undeniable it’s black and white number
one all of you that procrastinate
procrastination is not the issue with
stress you’re procrastinating to give
yourself a little break at work it’s
sort of like taking a smoking break
almost you know you’re just taking a
break so number one because you’re all
stressed out and procrastinators are
very hard on yourselves this is gonna
sound super stupid but you gotta forgive
yourself you have got to actually have a
talk with yourself where were you
feeling yourself starting procrastinate
you go look you know I really screwed up
I know I’m in a mess financially I
forgive myself I’m just gonna do the
best that I can
so that self-awareness of knowing oh my
god here’s that stress again about
finances screwing me over and preventing
me from doing the small things that will
actually fix my finances second thing
that you’re gonna do procrastination to
have it right you get triggered by
stress the habit is to progression so
when you get triggered by stress your
new habit is oh there’s my stress again
I’m gonna actually tell myself okay
you’ve done the best you can it’s okay
we’re gonna do a little bit today you’re
gonna create what we call starting
ritual starting ritual is something that
pushes you to start the best one on the
planet at five seconds so you’ve said
okay there’s my stress again I forget
myself now we’re gonna five four three
two one
I want you to only work for five minutes
that’s it five minutes make phone calls
for five minutes here’s what we know
based on the research eighty percent of
you will keep going the trick is
starting you see I want to break the
connection between the trigger which is
stress and the response which is
procrastination and whenever you feel
stressed which is normal you have a
choice here’s that gap in five seconds
flat the habit of procrastinating and
beating yourself up the table
or you can close the gap five four three
two one and you can make a different
choice
just let me start I’m just gonna be okay
with where I’m at and I’m just gonna get
started got it
get started getting started is
absolutely the key to life all in you
have to be all in him is the hardest
thing to do because if it fails then you
can feel like a failure do the things
that will help you to someday be the
person that you want to become the
little things in life matter if you
can’t do the little things right you’ll
never be able to do the big things right
remember no matter what it is you’re
doing in life no matter what it is
you’re working towards that you are
choosing to do that who you are right
now today is not who you have to be
tomorrow
you can literally change your life in
under one second success is a result of
small seemingly insignificant moments
the moment choices people that are
knowledgeable about habits
say that it takes 30 days for a habit to
become a happy now habits can be good
and habits can be bad and so over a
period of time you need to be developing
habits they’re going to help you can be
developing habits that are going to hurt
you people that grow develop habits that
help them habits are the expressions of
who we are and how we live and they
determine all your results so this is
ultimately what we want to change is
changing your habits
you don’t stop or not start because of
what you don’t have you don’t start
because you don’t realize yet that the
fruit of everything good in life begins
with the challenge success is earned one
day at a time every day you lift your
head up off the pillow you’re gonna
decide whether that day you are a
success or whether you are a failure
what you want to be tomorrow you’ve got
to do today it’s not how much you have
it’s what you do
with what you have
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pod work works working really hard is
what successful people do your habits
determine what direction you go your
success in life your results in life are
in direct proportion to your habits not
what you say you’re gonna do but what
are you gonna do you’ve got to develop
successful habits and I believe that
starts with being a daily goal setter
and a daily goal pillar
what you want to be tomorrow you’ve
gotta do to them
you’ve gotta choose to be effective know
what your priorities are know what your
must dues are don’t let your phone
don’t let your you know your tablet
don’t let the TV don’t let your friends
knock you off what are the most
important things to get done today
you’re not stuck you’re not a victim you
were sitting there and complaining that
you’re not winning or life is unfair or
the man is holding you down but if you
complain well then you need to look at
what you’re spending your time on
because if you complain
you’re not gonna completely await a more
talent but if you complain and you watch
us and an unearth something maybe you
will play six hours less a week of video
games the one thing you can control I
feel is time get up today and get it
done finish the day the day and go
change your life you can read books find
someone to mentor and disciple you you
can set some goals take the incremental
steps to get there and in 10 years
double triple or quadruple your income
and do it in a field that you love
that you are not stuck and don’t you let
liberals tell you you’re stuck the one
thing a light that you can control is
your effort and if you’re willing to put
in an effort to start the business and
you’re willing to deal with the
challenges and the fact that you might
start you might have to live like a
student you might have to go to a lot of
downtime but if you’re willing to fight
through those via your effort and
putting in you know using your brain
power than anything is possible and
there’s no reason to campaign you never
noticed how hard it is to just get
started
how hard it is to get to the gym how
hard it is to get out of bed how hard it
is to put down the bottle when you go to
for a second drink and you learn the
shouldn’t that feeling how hard it is to
get started you need activation energy
to start the chain to start to sit down
to start to get out of bed to start to
walk out the door that’s the key to
creating any kind of change this
activation energy inside of you that
causes the initial boom and then what
are we hear over time once you start
there’s a chain reaction and that allows
you to keep going getting uncomfortable
the super power number one because the
minute you actually start any journey
you’re putting yourself in an
uncomfortable situation because you want
to achieve something that you
and the only way to achieve something
that you don’t have is to get
uncomfortable
the biggest reason that people don’t
grow and they don’t self actualize is
simply that they don’t train it’s that
simple
training is required for success in any
area of life it doesn’t matter what the
area is as long as they’re making
progress or not perfect
nobody is nobody is a hundred percent of
anything but as long as you’re making
progress that’s the most important thing
finish what you started do well with it
next time when you try to do the same
thing it’ll be easier and every day that
you do a normal work day will also be
easier because you’ve got one more
successful day on their day people spend
two hours a day on Facebook then you
talk about a colossal freakin waste of
time
if you just stayed off social media
completely or virtually the ball most
completely and you turned off your
television you can make a pretty good
living with that time people ask me how
I read so many books a year I’d still
watch a lot of TV anymore
and I’m not mad about television I don’t
think the Devils in there although we
probably is having a pretty good time
there but it’s not like it’s something
like that’s not like a spiritual thing
it’s just a matter of what do I want to
spend my time on that gives me my best
life you set goals to grow you set goals
to reach inside stretch and go where
you’ve never been you set goals to take
it to a place you’ve never gone before
and you grow as a human being and you
know something you never go back
you know life is a rollercoaster ride
for everybody it has its ups and it’s
downs but if everything goes well you’ll
have more ups and downs and you’ll
remember the ups more than you remember
the downs but it’s the fact of the
matter that everybody no matter if
you’re a big artist successful artist or
a successful businessman everybody works
hard to get somewhere get up every day
and say today I will be in the right
place I will talk to the right people I
will make the right thing happen in my
life I’m here to tell you if you’re big
enough for your dreams your dreams
aren’t big enough for you you should see
great things happening sometimes things
don’t work out that is a fact of life
but I can guarantee you one thing if all
you do is go through life expecting the
worst usually that’s what’s going to
happen have anticipation be excited and
get up every day and think big thoughts
dream big dreams and have an amazing
life
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everyone needs to know that that you got
it you got to read to get better you got
you gotta set a goal into the distance
and break the goal down into manageable
parts that you take and step through as
you climb the ladder to get to the top
of the house is one step at a time you
don’t get to skip a step and you walk
through steps to get to where you’re
going if you want to lose weight if you
want a great marriage there are elements
to that and you need to define that what
it looks like very very clearly and then
and then read about and study people and
find other people who are doing better
than you at whatever it is you want to
do when you wake up tomorrow the canvas
of your life is blank you can paint a
completely different picture tomorrow
than you ever painted before your past
does not equal your future you can hit
the reset button to your life at any
time I want to suggest that you hit it
today the secret of success is
determined by your daily agenda what you
want to be tomorrow you’ve got to do
today life goals yearly goals monthly
goals daily goals and understand
that to achieve these goals you must
apply discipline and consistency in
order to achieve your goals you must
apply discipline which you were already
done and consistency every day now I
just want to lose day and this a few
days you have to work at it every day
you have to plan working really hard is
what successful people do your
footprints to success are really
footprints of success because every step
that is made and taken based upon the
goals that you have for your life every
step is the progressive realization of
success in your life good habits are
hard to form and easy to live with
bad habits are easy to form but hard to
live with so the rule is form good
habits and make them your masters habits
come down to one golden rule and that’s
this you can never change the things
that trigger you you can’t control your
urges or how you might feel but you can
always choose how you behave if you want
to break a habit once you have a habit
it’s always going to be encoded in your
brain the only way that you can break it
is to replace it with new behavior this
means when you go to sleep at night
think about your goals for the coming
day make a list for each day of all the
goals the little goals you’re going to
accomplish
that day keep a journal and write down
your goals on a regular basis you see
you do become what you think about most
of the time you do achieve what you
think about most of the time so all
successful people and all wealthy people
think about their goals most of the time
the things that get scheduled are the
things that get done and vague goals
lead to beg results never notice how
hard it is to just get started how hard
it is to get to the gym how hard it is
to get out of bed you need activation
energy to start the chain to start to
sit down to start to get out of bed to
start to walk out the door that’s the
key to creating any kind of change this
activation energy inside of you that
causes the initial goal and then what do
we hear over time once you start there’s
a chain reaction and that allows you to
keep going Chuck this ism is the ability
to make yourself do what you should do
when you should do it whether you feel
like it or not you see anybody can do it
if they feel like it it’s when you don’t
feel like it and you do it anyway that
you eventually develop the
self-discipline that makes everything
else possible
discipline is not punishment it’s not
discipline is training if you change
your mind your mindset and really focus
it on what discipline really is you
start to welcome discipline you welcome
self discipline into your life you’re
not only gonna blow up the system in
your head and the tricks that your brain
uses to stop you right now you’re going
to shake up your entire life discipline
is your best friend it will take care of
you like nothing else can remember just
because you’re doing a lot more doesn’t
mean you’re getting a lot more done
don’t confuse movement with progress
when you do live in a world where there
is such a fascination with entertainment
you know and everyone loves pretty
pictures and it’s really easy to spend
the bestower of your best days looking
at what your friends are feeding and I’m
suggesting to you you think like a
student because you’re watching this
mastery session because something deep
within you wants you to be the master of
your game and here’s the thing about
every master
every master thinks like a beginner
they’re always learning anything you
want good you can have
so claim it work hard to get it
don’t just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference make today
count if you want to have more you have
to become more success is something you
attract by the person you’ve become so
for things to change you’ve got to
change but these to get better you’ve
got to get better and when you improve
everything and all your results improve
around you
we overestimate what we can do in a day
and we underestimate what we could do in
several things doing a little bit every
day is a lot more important than doing a
lot some day
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get started
Diddy’s started is absolutely the key to
life
it takes courage to be successful it is
far easier not to be successful misery
will always have company success breeds
contempt if you don’t want to make waves
be mediocre be normal and fit in it
takes courage to be different it takes
courage to go where you’ve never gone
before
it takes courage to get you out it takes
courage to be successful it takes
courage to win 30 40 50 60 70 there’s
something Baldessari that’s still
kicking
that was time
there’s something in you that needs to
be fed that needs to be started that
needs to be electrified
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life has a way of pushing our dreams
down they can become buried under
discouragement buried under past
mistakes there are dreams buried under
divorce buried under low self-esteem
it’s easy to settle for mediocrity even
though we have all this potential buried
on the inside the good news is it’s
still alive it’s not too late to see it
come to pass the key to reaching your
destiny is you have to remember your
dream sometimes people will try to put
us in a box tell us things like you
can’t start that business you don’t have
the resources you’ll never afford a nice
place to live never get well never meet
the right person because their thinking
is limited they’ll try to put their
limitations on you you have to put your
foot down and say I refuse to be
mediocre because people around me are
mediocre
it starts in our thinking nothing will
change until you make up your mind you
are not going to accept mediocrity learn
to say Q to the world every once in a
while you have every right to Jesus
thinking whirring looking over your
shoulder wondering doubting fear is
hurting hoping for some easy way out to
try the most outrageous things you can
shock yourself you have at your power
the ability to do anything
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I’d rather try and sale did not
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water happened had I done more
right
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my
stop looking for the quick fix for
success happiness and wealth there’s no
shortcut
there’s no cliff notes there’s no quick
fix success is a result of small
seemingly insignificant moment to moment
choices
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don’t take today wait
don’t give in to the immediate
gratification that is here
shut that do not listen to that little
use instead go through the motions lift
the weights sprint the hill work on the
project get out of bed do you have the
courage tonight outwardly on what you
see in wordly
or will you God reamer will you bow on
the verge and on the edge and in the
land of cut up water and sugar
completely more didn’t think anymore
don’t plan anymore don’t contemplate
anymore don’t make any more excuses or
justifications don’t rationalize
anything else no no and no hard work
works working really hard is what
successful people do anyone taking
initiative will always get criticized
for moving too fast because there’s
always someone who wants to slow you
down
don’t just aspire to make a living
aspire to make a difference
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