how to get more confidence the best way
that I know how to get more confidence
is to start small usually if you are
unconfident in something it’s because
it’s as big scary thing that you’ve
never done before I’ve never had any
success with before and because it’s so
big and scary you doubt yourself and
you’re not confident in your ability to
do it and it can be paralyzing and it
shuts you down the best way that i found
that helps me to be able to go out and
be confident in the things that I’m
doing is I start small I take that big
project and I take it into small little
pieces and try to figure out okay that’s
my long-term vision that’s it I love for
that to happen but what’s like the next
little step that I can take because that
little step is not as scary and if I can
do that Dino I could do that step over
and over and over again and then I’m
willing to go to the next step and the
next step and the next step some people
some people don’t have this problem some
people are just overly confident all the
time and they just jump into new things
That’s not me and that’s not a lot of
people so if you’re like that you could
turn off the video because it’s not for
you but if you are that kind of person
and you don’t always have tons of
confidence going to every single
situation you can build up your muscle
by taking it into small steps because
the first time you do anything can be
scary and when it’s scary you’re unsure
the outcome your insurer of your
abilities you don’t have the confidence
but once you do it then you could do it
again and again and again you could go
one step up further I got a great
question from one of my youtube viewers
Mike who wrote in with a huge long
message thank you Mike we got a we got
to work on cutting down our messages but
but it was a great email basically wrote
in the say he’s part of this life
insurance company okay he’s got a
brokerage him and his father-in-law had
this brokerage together he’s got the 30
350 people under him and his father in
law wants him to eventually take over
the business and mike is afraid that
I he doesn’t have what it takes to make
big decisions he’s 26 years old I think
and he’s afraid of taking over this
business and he’s afraid to go talk to
his father in law to say hey like I
don’t know if I can handle this Mike
it’s great that you’re actually scared
here because it shows that you care it
shows that you really care about the 350
people who are under you and their
livelihood right you’d want to make the
wrong decision that could impact all of
their lives right put them out of
business and make them go look for new
jobs so it’s great and that that caring
and compassion is a great place to start
with for you to get more confidence
start making little decisions now take
over little chunks instead of making
these big wide ranging decisions and
having everything fall on your plate
have a transition period where you start
making more and more decisions and you
have your father-in-law as guidance
along the way in any major corporation
the person who become CEO doesn’t just
become CEO overnight there’s a grooming
process they’re trained they work with
the CEO their mentored and they start
taking on responsibilities bit by bit by
bit so when they have the role they’re
confident in it so it encourage you to
do the same thing and you could tell
your father in law and I wouldn’t be too
afraid to bring it up let them know that
you you are interested in this but
you’re worried and you want his help to
train you to be better and start taking
on smaller projects that work up to
become bigger projects so the next time
that comes up you’re able to handle it
you have the confidence to know that you
can do it okay it’s believing in
yourself and that comes from getting
some experience I remember when I first
started doing videos I was scared I was
nervous that the first videos were not
great I wanted to get into videos it was
it was a good reason I love watching
videos I learn visually so I wanted to
create videos to help entrepreneurs it
was something I was passionate about I
just didn’t have the confidence and I
wasn’t really good at it and if you look
at my first videos they were they
weren’t great
they’re still up on YouTube you can go
back and watch him they weren’t
fantastic and the first videos i made i
had to summon a lot of courage to do it
because standing in front of a camera
and knowing that what you record is
going to go out to millions of people
and being like public domain that was
scary and so i had to have things go a
certain way i had to be alone nobody
could be around me i had to have my
drink i had to have prepared and i did
so many takes it took me the whole day
to do one video but i did it you know it
wasn’t great but I did it and I knew
that I could do that again and so I did
it again and again and I got better and
better and better each time up the game
a little bit so now it doesn’t matter if
there’s people in the room it doesn’t
matter if my days gone a certain way it
doesn’t take me all afternoon to make
one video but I couldn’t have gone from
where I was to REM now without going
through all those steps and each step
gave me confidence to take the next step
and the next step I know it can be scary
I know for any of you who are watching
you have you have a goal that you want
to reach but it requires you jumping
through a lot of scary hoops and doing
things that are way outside your comfort
zone don’t let that hold you back don’t
let that hold you back from being a
great entrepreneur and helping a lot of
people you can overcome those fears and
the best way again I know how to do it
is step-by-step so just break that down
into the smallest possible step and
start building momentum and start
getting better and better and as you
look back you’ll say wow what what kind
of progress i just made on that you’ll
shock yourself and you make it a lot
less scary it gives you the confidence
and motivation to keep going believe
those you’re watching you like the video
thumbs up below it i love seeing to come
in and i won here you have to think do
you have confidence you have issues with
your confidence can I answer a question
for you please leave it below in the
comments section it’s the best part of
my day seeing those comments come in so
thank you so much guys and I’ll see you
soon
you
that I know how to get more confidence
is to start small usually if you are
unconfident in something it’s because
it’s as big scary thing that you’ve
never done before I’ve never had any
success with before and because it’s so
big and scary you doubt yourself and
you’re not confident in your ability to
do it and it can be paralyzing and it
shuts you down the best way that i found
that helps me to be able to go out and
be confident in the things that I’m
doing is I start small I take that big
project and I take it into small little
pieces and try to figure out okay that’s
my long-term vision that’s it I love for
that to happen but what’s like the next
little step that I can take because that
little step is not as scary and if I can
do that Dino I could do that step over
and over and over again and then I’m
willing to go to the next step and the
next step and the next step some people
some people don’t have this problem some
people are just overly confident all the
time and they just jump into new things
That’s not me and that’s not a lot of
people so if you’re like that you could
turn off the video because it’s not for
you but if you are that kind of person
and you don’t always have tons of
confidence going to every single
situation you can build up your muscle
by taking it into small steps because
the first time you do anything can be
scary and when it’s scary you’re unsure
the outcome your insurer of your
abilities you don’t have the confidence
but once you do it then you could do it
again and again and again you could go
one step up further I got a great
question from one of my youtube viewers
Mike who wrote in with a huge long
message thank you Mike we got a we got
to work on cutting down our messages but
but it was a great email basically wrote
in the say he’s part of this life
insurance company okay he’s got a
brokerage him and his father-in-law had
this brokerage together he’s got the 30
350 people under him and his father in
law wants him to eventually take over
the business and mike is afraid that
I he doesn’t have what it takes to make
big decisions he’s 26 years old I think
and he’s afraid of taking over this
business and he’s afraid to go talk to
his father in law to say hey like I
don’t know if I can handle this Mike
it’s great that you’re actually scared
here because it shows that you care it
shows that you really care about the 350
people who are under you and their
livelihood right you’d want to make the
wrong decision that could impact all of
their lives right put them out of
business and make them go look for new
jobs so it’s great and that that caring
and compassion is a great place to start
with for you to get more confidence
start making little decisions now take
over little chunks instead of making
these big wide ranging decisions and
having everything fall on your plate
have a transition period where you start
making more and more decisions and you
have your father-in-law as guidance
along the way in any major corporation
the person who become CEO doesn’t just
become CEO overnight there’s a grooming
process they’re trained they work with
the CEO their mentored and they start
taking on responsibilities bit by bit by
bit so when they have the role they’re
confident in it so it encourage you to
do the same thing and you could tell
your father in law and I wouldn’t be too
afraid to bring it up let them know that
you you are interested in this but
you’re worried and you want his help to
train you to be better and start taking
on smaller projects that work up to
become bigger projects so the next time
that comes up you’re able to handle it
you have the confidence to know that you
can do it okay it’s believing in
yourself and that comes from getting
some experience I remember when I first
started doing videos I was scared I was
nervous that the first videos were not
great I wanted to get into videos it was
it was a good reason I love watching
videos I learn visually so I wanted to
create videos to help entrepreneurs it
was something I was passionate about I
just didn’t have the confidence and I
wasn’t really good at it and if you look
at my first videos they were they
weren’t great
they’re still up on YouTube you can go
back and watch him they weren’t
fantastic and the first videos i made i
had to summon a lot of courage to do it
because standing in front of a camera
and knowing that what you record is
going to go out to millions of people
and being like public domain that was
scary and so i had to have things go a
certain way i had to be alone nobody
could be around me i had to have my
drink i had to have prepared and i did
so many takes it took me the whole day
to do one video but i did it you know it
wasn’t great but I did it and I knew
that I could do that again and so I did
it again and again and I got better and
better and better each time up the game
a little bit so now it doesn’t matter if
there’s people in the room it doesn’t
matter if my days gone a certain way it
doesn’t take me all afternoon to make
one video but I couldn’t have gone from
where I was to REM now without going
through all those steps and each step
gave me confidence to take the next step
and the next step I know it can be scary
I know for any of you who are watching
you have you have a goal that you want
to reach but it requires you jumping
through a lot of scary hoops and doing
things that are way outside your comfort
zone don’t let that hold you back don’t
let that hold you back from being a
great entrepreneur and helping a lot of
people you can overcome those fears and
the best way again I know how to do it
is step-by-step so just break that down
into the smallest possible step and
start building momentum and start
getting better and better and as you
look back you’ll say wow what what kind
of progress i just made on that you’ll
shock yourself and you make it a lot
less scary it gives you the confidence
and motivation to keep going believe
those you’re watching you like the video
thumbs up below it i love seeing to come
in and i won here you have to think do
you have confidence you have issues with
your confidence can I answer a question
for you please leave it below in the
comments section it’s the best part of
my day seeing those comments come in so
thank you so much guys and I’ll see you
soon
you
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