want because they don’t know every step
they have to take to get there you just
have to know the first step to take and
when you take that step you’re going to
find that your conditions your
circumstance and environment will change
then you see how you have to make the
next step it’s a matter of adapting all
the time you only have to know two
things you have to know where you’re
going and you have to know that you’re
going to get there you’ve got to see it
in your mind this is what it’s all about
what’s the next step that’s all you
really have to know one step at a time
Henry Ford once said the biggest goal of
the world can be achieved if you just
break it down and do another small steps
some people ask the question how do you
eat an elephant and the answer of course
is one bite at a time but you’ve got to
divide it into bites if you’re bored
with life you don’t get up every morning
with a burning desire to do things you
if you have a goal but you really don’t
have a big reason underlying big reason
why you want to achieve it you simply
will not have the deeper motivational
Drive that your brain requires to keep
you motivated and help you overcome the
doubts or the fears or the anxieties the
ups and downs of challenges that are
the number one success trait of highly
successful people is not that they start
a lot of things it’s that they finish
by our very nature we are goal seeking
creatures your brain is always trying to
align your outer world with what you are
seeing and expecting in your inner world
what you instruct your brain to look for
things you want you will begin to see
them in fact the object of your desire
has probably always existed all around
you but your mind and your eyes weren’t
open to it you only really accede here
more experience those you focus your
mind on so when you define your goals
you give your brain something to focus
on and look for it you give your mind a
new set of eyes so all of a sudden see
all the people circumstances
conversations resources ideas creativity
and otherwise so it can go about
matching up on the outside with what you
want on the inside I believe in self
maximization I think you should do
everything that you can to be the best
person that you can during your limited
time on this earth
every day in every way and on every
plane you should give your very best you
should be the best that you can be you
should not have down days when you are
creator you will discover the thing that
you want wants you you would never have
a desire for something unless you
already had the capacity to make it
happen you see it’s very liberating when
you finally realize that you have the
power to make your life whatever you
want it to be it’s a wonderful feeling
knowing that your success does not
really depend on anyone else our
intention is everything nothing happens
on this planet without it not one single
thing has ever been accomplished without
intention one of the key and critical
elements of goal achievement is getting
your brain to figure out how you can
achieve something that you’ve never
achieved before and the bigger your
vision is the more you’re gonna get your
brain to work for you the more clear
your vision is the easier it’s gonna be
to block out all the things that you
don’t need and now create all the things
and find all the things that you do need
in order to achieve those goals so often
when you’re setting a goal
without realizing it unconsciously
you’re injecting the values and
sometimes the fantasies and the ideals
of other people and when you’re setting
a goal you’ll hear in the back of your
mind I should do this I ought to do this
I’m supposed to do this I need to do
this got to do this I have to do this
must do this and this is an inner
language called imperatives and these
imperatives let you know that the goals
are setting or the expectations you put
on yourself are not really from your own
heart not really from your own highest
values not really what’s most important
not supposed to put community it is so
important when you set a goal to know
what your highest values are know what’s
really most important most meaningful to
you and set of goals that are aligned in
congruent with that when you do and it’s
truly congruent you’ll have a different
feeling
you won’t hear those voices of
imperatives you’ll hear the indicative
you go I love it I’m inspired by the
feel that is destined you feel it’s
impossible to you not to fulfill it’s so
important not to minimize yourself to
other people or compare yourself to
other people and
oh I should be like that I ought to be
like that are you going to end up with
the imperative and anytime you set a
goal that’s not in line with your own
highest values you would tend to have a
negative feeling towards yourself
because you’re trying to be somebody or not