good morning believe nation today’s
message is be perceptive over to you
Mindy Kaling it is very important to be
expressive and so much that no one
should ever be stopping you from saying
what you need to say or you should never
have that fear however i think is a
young person it’s equally important if
not more important to be perceptive and
to be sensitive and i feel like we don’t
talk about that a lot because we feel
like the only way to show that we’re
empowered is by speaking in and i think
that you know when I was growing up I
really thought that what my parents
taught me it was like I large I didn’t
talk until I was like 15 years old I was
pretty much silent which no one believes
and it’s because I just was like
listening and paying attention to what
everyone was saying and you know trying
to have a good social IQ which I think
helped me become a really would help me
later to become a writer and I think
that that is the the one with this thing
is to really you know to listen to
others more than necessarily putting
such a premium on being able to say how
what you feel so what do you think first
I love mindy I love her story I love
where she comes from I know people
who’ve read her books and we always talk
about how what a smart person she is and
I think she’s a fantastic young female
role model so so what I’m going to say
comes from all of that stuff but I think
I think her point is is so valid today
because when I think about my kids I
have four kids ranging from like nine
down when I think of them being a
teenager and I think of them in their
20s and all of the social pressures I
think we just spend so much time feeling
like we need to prove ourselves to
others like like if we do certain things
if we live a certain lifestyle if we
live the lifestyle that we think that we
need to live for facebook that that will
be happy and what I took away from it is
just give yourself permission to watch
others to listen to others to spend time
take take the time to just watch what’s
going on in the
old around you and learning from others
before you hit the ground running trying
to show everyone what you can do that
may not have been her message but that’s
what I took away from it I’m a little
conflicted I mean I think obviously the
message of be perceptive is something
that can help you as an entrepreneur if
you understand yourself to know your
strengths and weaknesses and create a
business around that if you understand
your customers and what they’re looking
to do why they’re buying your product
what they care about listening to then
create great products you know great
salespeople are the best listeners to
understand your staff and build a
culture that they want to be a part of
and understand what their needs are I
think all of that helps tie in here’s
the conflict i have is if you’re not
perceptive then what do you do is it
that I want to try to get more
perceptive because my instinct tells me
you know what don’t worry about it go
all in on what you’re good at you know
like if I am if my passion is you know
for cars and I’m a great race car driver
and that’s what I want to be at and I
can just be the best race car driver
ever and I’m not great at dealing with
people and I’m not great at you know
maybe building a team do I want to work
on those things I do want to work on
just like being the best race car driver
ever writers my thing right so like I
feel it helps it can help you as an
entrepreneur as a person but if I’m not
that do I want to work on that to be
better at it or just going on my
strength so my dear Hall advice would be
going on what you’re really good at I
forget about the point is to take the
time and give yourself permission and
take the months or years to watch others
and learn from others not worry about
sitting down taking notes quick download
everything and then I’m going to go run
off on tactical things I’m going to go
run off on action i’m going to go run
off and start putting things into place
and so so if you want to be the best
race car driver the best thing to do is
to watch you know model the Masters
watch how the best race car drivers live
how they eat what their fitness is you
know and learn all of those things and
involve yourself into that world if
that’s what you want and when i think
back in term in terms of my my personal
background you know my grandfather who’s
in his late 80s now started a business
with four partners in
eighteen fifty and watching him live his
life going on walks hearing stories all
of those things shaped the very values
that that I bring to my business I have
these flashes in my mind where I’m like
ah that’s where I learned this from this
person this is where I learned this from
from my mother or so on and and i think
you know being aware of those moments as
they’re happening and holding on to them
and giving yourself permission to not
just take it run with it and go off and
start doing tactical things is is the
lesson and and I think that it’s not
obvious I think a lot of people are
worried about getting going I mean I
love the message I try to apply to my
life I see it totally in terms of
building a team in projects and
customers and media and suppliers it
fits well with who I am I’m just
thinking the people who aren’t is it
worth going all in on trying to prove
yourself on that versus doing what
you’re good at focusing on that even
though you may be totally clueless to
how the rest of the world works and you
don’t pay attention to your team or the
you know maybe you don’t have a team or
you know I don’t know I just it’s okay
I’m conflicted I conflicted it’s not
extraordinary as what he say yeah I’m
conflicted on this point and that’s it
so the question of the day today is what
do you think Evan was kind of like it’s
okay i was like and i love this clip do
you agree with him do you agree with me
to have your own thoughts let us know in
the comments below cool i’m really
excited to see what you guys right so
that’s it thank you guys so much for
watching have an amazing day continue to
believe and i’ll see you again tomorrow
morning for another shot of espresso
nespresso give me go
message is be perceptive over to you
Mindy Kaling it is very important to be
expressive and so much that no one
should ever be stopping you from saying
what you need to say or you should never
have that fear however i think is a
young person it’s equally important if
not more important to be perceptive and
to be sensitive and i feel like we don’t
talk about that a lot because we feel
like the only way to show that we’re
empowered is by speaking in and i think
that you know when I was growing up I
really thought that what my parents
taught me it was like I large I didn’t
talk until I was like 15 years old I was
pretty much silent which no one believes
and it’s because I just was like
listening and paying attention to what
everyone was saying and you know trying
to have a good social IQ which I think
helped me become a really would help me
later to become a writer and I think
that that is the the one with this thing
is to really you know to listen to
others more than necessarily putting
such a premium on being able to say how
what you feel so what do you think first
I love mindy I love her story I love
where she comes from I know people
who’ve read her books and we always talk
about how what a smart person she is and
I think she’s a fantastic young female
role model so so what I’m going to say
comes from all of that stuff but I think
I think her point is is so valid today
because when I think about my kids I
have four kids ranging from like nine
down when I think of them being a
teenager and I think of them in their
20s and all of the social pressures I
think we just spend so much time feeling
like we need to prove ourselves to
others like like if we do certain things
if we live a certain lifestyle if we
live the lifestyle that we think that we
need to live for facebook that that will
be happy and what I took away from it is
just give yourself permission to watch
others to listen to others to spend time
take take the time to just watch what’s
going on in the
old around you and learning from others
before you hit the ground running trying
to show everyone what you can do that
may not have been her message but that’s
what I took away from it I’m a little
conflicted I mean I think obviously the
message of be perceptive is something
that can help you as an entrepreneur if
you understand yourself to know your
strengths and weaknesses and create a
business around that if you understand
your customers and what they’re looking
to do why they’re buying your product
what they care about listening to then
create great products you know great
salespeople are the best listeners to
understand your staff and build a
culture that they want to be a part of
and understand what their needs are I
think all of that helps tie in here’s
the conflict i have is if you’re not
perceptive then what do you do is it
that I want to try to get more
perceptive because my instinct tells me
you know what don’t worry about it go
all in on what you’re good at you know
like if I am if my passion is you know
for cars and I’m a great race car driver
and that’s what I want to be at and I
can just be the best race car driver
ever and I’m not great at dealing with
people and I’m not great at you know
maybe building a team do I want to work
on those things I do want to work on
just like being the best race car driver
ever writers my thing right so like I
feel it helps it can help you as an
entrepreneur as a person but if I’m not
that do I want to work on that to be
better at it or just going on my
strength so my dear Hall advice would be
going on what you’re really good at I
forget about the point is to take the
time and give yourself permission and
take the months or years to watch others
and learn from others not worry about
sitting down taking notes quick download
everything and then I’m going to go run
off on tactical things I’m going to go
run off on action i’m going to go run
off and start putting things into place
and so so if you want to be the best
race car driver the best thing to do is
to watch you know model the Masters
watch how the best race car drivers live
how they eat what their fitness is you
know and learn all of those things and
involve yourself into that world if
that’s what you want and when i think
back in term in terms of my my personal
background you know my grandfather who’s
in his late 80s now started a business
with four partners in
eighteen fifty and watching him live his
life going on walks hearing stories all
of those things shaped the very values
that that I bring to my business I have
these flashes in my mind where I’m like
ah that’s where I learned this from this
person this is where I learned this from
from my mother or so on and and i think
you know being aware of those moments as
they’re happening and holding on to them
and giving yourself permission to not
just take it run with it and go off and
start doing tactical things is is the
lesson and and I think that it’s not
obvious I think a lot of people are
worried about getting going I mean I
love the message I try to apply to my
life I see it totally in terms of
building a team in projects and
customers and media and suppliers it
fits well with who I am I’m just
thinking the people who aren’t is it
worth going all in on trying to prove
yourself on that versus doing what
you’re good at focusing on that even
though you may be totally clueless to
how the rest of the world works and you
don’t pay attention to your team or the
you know maybe you don’t have a team or
you know I don’t know I just it’s okay
I’m conflicted I conflicted it’s not
extraordinary as what he say yeah I’m
conflicted on this point and that’s it
so the question of the day today is what
do you think Evan was kind of like it’s
okay i was like and i love this clip do
you agree with him do you agree with me
to have your own thoughts let us know in
the comments below cool i’m really
excited to see what you guys right so
that’s it thank you guys so much for
watching have an amazing day continue to
believe and i’ll see you again tomorrow
morning for another shot of espresso
nespresso give me go
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